I'm on winter break so it's been about twice a day. When school's on I usually masturbate, cum, and then go to sleep. I was definitely addicted to it in highschool, most weekend and summers I spent roughly 30% of my time jacking off- I would continue despite bruising and even bleeding.
But I have a mental disorder of some sort and should be considered atypical.
>>25620352 >I masturbate all the time but I only orgasmed once. how does that work? every guy who masturbates cums in the end. what the hell is wrong with girls if they don't achieve orgasm in the end.
It's sporadic for me. Sometimes I'll do it almost every day for a week, and sometimes I'll go a few weeks without orgasming. A lot of the time, it just depends on where my menstrual cycle is at. I get really horny a few days before my period, so I'm always touching myself at around that time.
They're not supposed to just stop, but girls who don't under their bodies get tired and just give up after a while if nothing happens. Also idk of you know but the vagina kind of goes numb if you stimulate it for too long. This is why the notion of sex sessions that go on for hours is a meme. Anything past 20, sometimes even 10 minutes is way too long for me.
Because we shield our children from any semblance of sexual education in the West for fear of "corrupting" them and all mainstream porn almost exclusively focuses on male pleasure and doesn't actually teach women anything about how our bodies work.
Bet you didn't know that the overwhelming majority of women hate anal sex right? But porn teaches you that we all crave and desire it. Truth is it's very painful and uncomfortable.
>>25620779 >Anything past 20, sometimes even 10 minutes is way too long for me. can't girls get addicted to orgasms? the actual orgasm is the reason why an enormous quantity of guys masturbate every day, for the actual cumming, for that sense of relief and ennui. It wouldn't be the same without it. It just seems absurd a plurality of females masturbate but never cum because they get tired in ten minutes.
Honestly I do that like 3-4 times a week. its pretty much every other day. it used to be everyday til I was about 20. Why the hell else would i masturbate if not to cum? cumming feels great. Nothing like waking up on a saturday morning and fingering myself til I'm drooling and out of breath.
>>25620874 while the porn industry is male centric, there are more than enough videos and companies that cater quite conspicuously towards the female demographic, that revolves around tenderness and is rooted in reality. the X-Art videos come to mind.
besides, a lot of guys masturbate from hearsay amongst friends, it's really quite intuitive, since you're just stimulating sexual intercourse with your hand until you cum. Don't know why it's so hard for girls to understand their own body.
>>25620887 I've been addicted to it before. I would think about pleasuring myself seriously every single time I was alone and would masturbate at least twice a day. Probably doesn't sound like a lot, but it was a lot for me.
Because the penis is wildly different to the vagina in terms of its anatomical setup. The penis is effectively a giant nerve sausage that you can rub to increasing pleasure. The vagina is more like a Rubix Cube of nerves that you have to stimulate in a delicate and precise order in order to unlock orgasm.
See this diagram of a vagina? Each one of those folds and ridges contains billions more nerves than the penis and it's extremely sensitive. When I masturbate, I can't just go HAM and start rubbing the whole thing, it's not like that, you have to start off on a precise spot and work your way from there.
Can't count the amount of times I've been on the precipice of orgasm only to shift to the wrong spot, get overstimulated, lose the build up and have to start all over again.
Do you actually believe that the vagina is a carbon copy of the penis in terms of sensation and how it handle it?
This is how porn has ruined you my friends. The problem is that you guys SHOULD know this. Every sexually active woman I know is pretty much an expert on the penis, but the reverse rarely holds true for men. Why is that?
>>25621170 >Every sexually active woman I know is pretty much an expert on the penis, but the reverse rarely holds true for men. Why is that? a lot men actually want their partner from cunnilingus, but get turned off how hard it is for their partner to orgasm. Just like you said: >The vagina is more like a Rubix Cube of nerves that you have to stimulate in a delicate and precise order in order to unlock orgasm. >Can't count the amount of times I've been on the precipice of orgasm only to shift to the wrong spot, get overstimulated, lose the build up and have to start all over again.
Unless you lead us on and tell us what to do, we can get quite intimidated. It's much for easier for a girl to get a guy to cum from a blowojob.
>>25621170 >Every sexually active woman I know is pretty much an expert on the penis, Oh wow. But they aren't. Most are terrible at blowjobs but think every guy likes what they do, instantly. Very few girls can give handjobs. And, again, not many can ride well enough to get a guy off by themselves.
>>25621170 >Every sexually active woman I know is pretty much an expert on the penis, but the reverse rarely holds true for men. not if they're first timers and haven't watched a good deal of porn. they're almost invariably way too slow.
>>25621408 >That's why with my fiance I never request oral because I understand how stressful and disssappointing it is when he can't get me to orgasm. exactly. unless the girl is catatonic, it's much easier for a guy to cum from oral. very little can go wrong.
>>25621294 It's indeed frustrating. I like going down on my gf, and she will writhe and shake uncontrollably. However, she did tell me that of all the times I've done it to her, she's only orgasmed once. Of course I asked her what I should do so she comes more often, but she didn't want to talk about it. Why are girls so difficult about it...
>>25621516 yeah, I don't understand it either. If they write and shake, it's quite obvious from a male point of view that they're cumming. It's very easy to tell if a man orgasms, if actually fucking cums or not.
Dude its not like we can help it, c'mon don't be mean about it.
Just FYI we're not like you with the blue-balled thing. We can enjoy sex and oral with orgasm and be satisfied just by the pleasure alone. I've been with my fiance 9 years, never experienced an orgasm through sex, but I am always satisfied after.
Do you mean longer or wider? A lot of men are confused about this and assume longer = better when it's actually wider that's better as it stimulates the walls of the vagina. The vagina actually loses nerves the further up you go, most are concentrated near the open, and then after that it's the cervix and you don't want to be going ANYWHERE near that with your dick. It's the female equivalent to be being kicked in the balls.
>>25620026 The girl I'm dating now is horny all the time and "fingered herself maybe twice in her life" because she doesn't know how to get herself off.
Sucks 2 be a woman because it seems like, from my research, that they need a lot more emotional/story-based stimuli to get off, rather than just visual. Guys can get off just looking at some tits, and that's great for us. But women can't get off unless they get very involved in a romantic fantasy and they feel all these gay emotions. That's the only way to make them cum. That probably leads to a lot of their slutty behavior, as they frustratingly search for someone, something, that can make them orgasm because many of them can't on their own. That leads them to ride every dick in town from Jamal to Kurt.
>>25621688 >We can enjoy sex and oral with orgasm and be satisfied just by the pleasure alone. from a male perspective, that's just odd. our idea of dissatisfaction is if we can't orgasm, which means something has gone really wrong.
>>25621776 How does the romanticism translate towards sex? What exactly are they expecting from the actual act if stimulation alone can't get them off with a 100% certainty? That you kiss them passionately, tell her how beautiful she is and how she is satisfying him?
>>25621783 It's weird right? My gf seems perfectly happy not getting off, and just really enjoys the whole experience. It's not as though she doesn't know what she is missing either. I've given her earth shattering, emotional, shuddering orgasms before. Personally, if I didn't get off (which is pretty much impossible) I'd feel like absolute garbage. In fact, I feel pretty bad when she doesn't get off, as though its much more fun and satisfying when she does, but she doesn't seem bothered.
>>25620670 Female orgasm isn't necessary for reproduction, male orgasm is. Therefore, natural selection favored those who had the genes to cum easily and rapidly as males. Females orgasming more easily could lead them to want more sex, and therefore have more children, and that would be favored by natural selection, but based on the fact it is still hard today, we can easily imagine that during most of humanity times, the males have probably been the dominating ones in the intercourses, raping females to spread their genes if they had to.
>>25621841 Yes basically. The way I get her off is with a lot of foreplay. I start by making her lay on my bed and take her clothes off and then I just rub her down and give her a massage for a few minutes. I touch her sensitive spots and slap her ass a little bit and the anticipation of what's coming gets her excited, horny, wet. After a while I get on top of her and kiss, lick, and bite her neck, don't worry the biting doesn't hurt. And then I pull her hair a little bit and whisper some cute stuff in her ear, bite her ear lobe a little, and then put my cock in. She also likes it when I mouth her tits, but sometimes that's hard to work in. Never do 1 thing for too long, just build her up and build her up doing different things, but cycling through them. All the physical stimulation in sensitive areas like her sides, her tits, her neck, her ears, the whispering, builds her anticipation so that by the time I get to her vagina, she is REALLY ready to go and wants to cum really bad.
I'll drop my guesstimate that about 9 out of 10 women prefer it "a little rough", but nothing like what you've seen in porn. They want YOU to demand the position, they want YOU to throw her around a little bit, slap the ass, tell her what to do, let her know you are in charge, pull the hair, bite her neck, but also be sweet and whisper in her ear and tell her you think she is beautiful and she has nice tits. In my (pretty experienced) opinion, women are most likely to cum when they don't feel like it's their responsibility to make it happen. Yeah, you have to take charge and tell her *I* will make you cum. It's *ME* who will make it happen. YOU just sit back and watch it happen. That's when women cum, when there's no pressure. Usually she'll cum on my dick after all of that foreplay and whispering and biting and stuff.
The hard cases are solved by putting two fingers in, (palm up w/ her belly up), and lick the clit. NEVER had a girl not cum after doing some foreplay leading into that.
>>25621982 Haha. I'm sure she is bro, I'm sure she is. Just like in one of your favourite cuckold scenes.
She absolutely loves having sex with me, and initiates it all the time. I am 1000% sure that she isn't. It's not like "Oh honey don't worry that I didn't come again just like every other time, it's fine". If she misses out once or twice she just isn't fussed and cuddles contentedly afterwards.
>>25622094 precum does contain sperm, but the actual chance of a girl actually getting impregnated due to cum is quite small, if any at all. the role of precum is lubrication, so it's easier for the male to orgasm and slide in further, and allow safe passage for his semen on a lubricated surface and not across the sahara desert.
>>25622386 Here, have a free hint. If you stopped being so angry and desperate and hating everything, you might actually get sex. But you will remain a bitter virgin for as long as you choose to be nothing but an angry bitter jerk.
I have no idea, you'd have to look up a survey, but if you're asking my personal preference... I've only been with two men, the first was about 5" in length but very thick and I really enjoyed the sex. Physically his penis felt wonderful and it had that really nice banana angle to it as well.
My current, my fiance, we got together before I'd even seen his penis but it's a monstrous 8.5", and I mean monstrous because frequently during sex if he's not careful and goes too deep he whams straight into my cervix and I begin internally screaming and biting back tears whilst trying to act like the moan is one of pleasure and not immense pain because I know he gets upset by how his size injures me.
If I were to divorce myself from my emotions I would say that it would be better that he was shorter, like 6.5", with a bit more girth maybe, but I'm so in love with him that I wouldn't change him for the world. When you're in love with a person even their seeming flaws seem seem perfect and the sex is always incredible.
Long penises are very aesthetic looking but goddamn they're really just not functional. Trying to give him a blowjob is plain comical as we're getting to hurry stuffing it into my mouth before he gets hard because once he's erect I can only really get a quarter way down :l
It bothers me how porn has tricked men into only these comically long dicks are desirable for sex when actually they can cause a lot of pain.
They're getting paid to take it for starters, but it's a well known fact that drugs and alcohol are rife in the porn industry to help get performers, mostly female, through scenes like that. Internal njuries rates are pretty high also.
Yeah, I'm like your gf and my fiance really just does not understand how I can be fine after sex without orgasm. I have to keep reassuring him that I'm fine, "no peanut I don't need finishing off, really it's okay, but thanks for the offer" haha
>>25622657 I was like that. I guess I have a pretty low sex drive. I never masturbated and didn't feel it was necessary. I still watched porn though.
Then suddenly one day it changed. I was feeling horny and fapped. Then I did it again, and again, and... you get the picture. Joined the ranks of the normies. I had some kind of sexual awakening. I was also a virgin, and soon after I started fapping, I also lost my virginity.
The fact you believe that "fingering" girls is how you get them off is making me even more sceptical... You're supposed to focus on the clitoris. What is a lone finger inside the vaginal canal supposed to do? Tickle her?
>I can tell I'm doing a good job if she's wet
We can get wet just from walking around. The wetness is typically a lubricant released throughout the day in order to keep the vagina moist and clean. You sound bad at sex.
>>25622790 >soon after I started fapping, I also lost my virginity I can already see the nofap redditards commiting suicide after reading this. Also, get the fuck off my board, you disgusting normie fucking faggot. REEEEEEEEE
>>25622835 Meetup threads are just largely not tolerate since /soc/ came up. I don't want to meet anybody from /soc/. Have you ever actually been there? It's full of normies and degenerates just looking to hookup.
In the meetup threads, everyone would post their AIM and I'd usually talk to the dude for a while before actually meeting up. I guess there's always a chance that the guy was lying and looking to rape/murder me, but that never happened to be the case.
I think there's always the fear that the person you're seeing is just using you for sex, when starting any new relationship. It's not like I met up with these dudes and slept with them right away. We developed a relationship over time, like any normal relationship. The only unorthodox element was how we met.
>>25622875 I was a late bloomer. A very, very late bloomer. Maybe it will happen to you one day as well.
>>25622915 I didn't have sex simply because I had almost no sex drive. Sure I did want a gf, but that was more for the company than anything else. After my sexual awakening, I realized I want pussy. So I went out and got some. It's actually surprisingly easy when you want it.
>>25623073 They all ended for different reasons, none of which were related to us meeting on 4chan. People get jobs in different states, you get to know a person better and find out that you want drastically different things in life, one person grows and the other doesn't, etc. Just normal breakups.
>>25623138 Get coffee and walk around, go see a movie, go to a museum. Normal date stuff, man. I always felt like it was low-pressure for both parties because, hey, it's just some random fuck-up from 4chan.
I do agree that the userbase has changed a lot. I don't think I'd want to meetup with most people on /r9k/ now.
>>25623197 did you eventually feel you were pressured to have sex with any of the dates you had? was there any underlying tension there from the dude, or was there any time that you actually wanted to do it with? was there a time you flat out rejected any advances from him, since you didn't feel like it or didn't find him attractive?
>>25623138 >>25623197 Glossed over the hookup stuff. No, I didn't hookup with most of the guys I met. It was seriously just normal dating. There were a few people I met up with and just didn't click with and never spoke to again. People I did like, we'd hang out a few times, start liking each other, and become bf/gf.
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