You know, anon? I really wish I could completely opt-out, and never think about talking to women ever again.
but the problem is
girls are just so cute
Even if I know a girl has a shit personality, I just can't help but fall in love with their cuteness.
This is a cuties thread.
>you will never be invited to a rich qt's birthday party
>see cute girl
>try to catch up with what aisle she's on
>follow a few yards behind her for 30+ minutes
here's a story from my youth
>16, maybe 17
>teacher somehow sucks me into speech and debate
>halfway through a competition at a different school
>one of three people from my school
>each school has to have someone run the snack bar in rotation
>I'm asked to run the snack bar
>sitting bored, steal a few candy bars
>qt comes up
>feel like I recognize her
>very disoriented by her cuteness and familiarity
>"D-do I know you?"
>she replies with "Maybe, you do look kind of familiar."
>already in love with her
>don't want her to leave my snack bar
>ask a bunch of places we might have met before
>this goes on longer than it should
>she finally has to leave
>any time I see her the rest of the day, I try to talk to her
>don't know how to start a conversation
>randomly ask about a place we may have met
>always with a 'no'
>don't follow up on any of these conversations
>she's obviously irritated
>several weeks later
>find her on facebook
>send a friend request and a very long and autistic message
>she responds shortly
>continue to try to get her to talk to me
>eventually she stops responding
just take the redpill faggot and you will see women are nothing but wolves in sheep's clothing. I don't even bother to look at them anymore and they will probably have to evolve some other way to manipulate me because beauty is not enough for me to fall for the vagina trap.
This is a good thread.
But any time I see them in the wild, or even think about them it breaks my heart.
I know the feel OP. I try to convince myself I'm better off not worrying about it, but I want to believe I can find a meaningful connection with a girl and love her, and have her love me. I try not to show it but attractive girls really get to me when I see them in public.
It's too late for me but I can still dream.
I can feel it.
>tfw most every girl in my folder has a personality I've made up for her
>lots of them have imagined lives with me
Take the beta pill and realizes a lot of betas are shallow conceited assholes who live fantasy lives with gorgeous cuties but would probably spurn the affection of a 4-6/10 or 'fall in love' with hotties they never talk to because it satisfies their wish fulfillment.
I feel you. Sometimes I save pictures of these girls to my phone and pretend I know them. I envision my life with them and daydream about it.
I don't keep the pictures on my phone for long for fear of someone seeing them (though nobody ever looks at my phone but me). I'm pathetic.
I know the feel. Don't even want anything to do with a girl in reality, all I want is to genuinely not care anymore, but the urge has been there for years. Chemical castration is an option I guess, but there's a lot of other drawbacks and apparently even eunuchs have phantom sexual urges. You just can't win.
because they evolve to be cute to manipulate men. Alpha males are more willing to accept her and protect her if she has more child like features. Women depend on men to take care of them and protect them or else they will die. when you put men in an island they have no problem hunting and navigating on the island. while on the other if you put women in an island they will make horrible leaders,will be unable to hunt, or do anything in an island. this is why women evolve to manipulate men to extract resources from them and to get protection from them.
That's okay, anon.
This thread is for pretend.
>Alpha males are more willing to accept her and protect her if she has more child like features
We have a genius here, folks. I'm not being condescending, either. Women can't look after themselves so what do they do? They make themselves as attractive as possible so that men take care of them. Every man has different standards (the people on r9k have very low standards, for example) which is why pretty much all women can find someone to look after them. I was going to continue but I need to respond to this idiot.
Are you really saying this chick: >>25608652 is a 4/10? I hope you missed her when you were going through the images or you're just baiting for replies.
>tfw I order potassium bromide from 1800PETMEDS
>tfw I buy black licorice in bulk
>tfw when these 2 substances help suppress sex drive
>tfw I experience kenjataimu 24/7 without the need for intercourse
>tfw I no longer masturbate
I have transcended mortality and achieved true wizard status through alchemy.
Is there any way to do it without force-feeding myself black licorice?
tfw no 7/10 at 3.14 to go to a train museum with
Meanwhile, I just grew up to be an adult, and quit falling in love with every woman I see.
Contrary to popular belief, emotions are almost absolutely manipulable. You can literally choose not to feel like you need to mate.
We both had our own methods of arriving at that eventuality. Mine just doesn't sound as cool as alchemy.
>a qt who is into trains
sign me the fuck up
>tfw opted out
>tfw never lonely
>tfw laughing at everyone on /r9k/ and /adv/
Hate will free you.
Learn to spot the falsehood on their artificial expressions meant to entice you.
The problem with this approach is that once in awhile you meet an actual innocent cute girl and then your hearth will hurt ten fold.
>tfw you will never experience her comforting arms around you
I know it does. I just like to try to imagine the feeling.
I'll never, ever forget this thread
>girls dad starts feeling her up over a few days
>she's too shy to stop him
>ends up sucking his dick
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feels bad senpai, maybe one day...
I definitely don't share OP's feelings as I actually want to find a girl and be happy with her (or a qt trap), but I can see where he's coming from. It would be nice not to care, but I'm too much of a hopeless romantic for that.
I feel that cutie struggle though. Just seeing them gets me all excited. I can't stop stealing glances and shit. It's almost like I've never seen a cute girl before. Feels fucking pathetic sometimes, but I can't fucking help it.
Pics like this really make me feel sad, but I try to be optimistic about a good future with a nice lass. Funny, because I'm a pessimistic in most other instances. (not the same guy who was hurting from the other pic btw)
I know your feeling. I've always wanted a girl to love and vice versa. Seeing them with nice, modest clothing and long hair and slender legs gets me flustered on the inside. Outwardly I try not to show it though. I wish I didn't care and could cut these desires off but like you I'm a hopeless romantic. I just want to be able to love someone and to feel that in turn.
Someday maybe a girl will come along that'll put up with my shit. Maybe.
you are idiot women are nothing but a liability just look what Issac Newton and Tesla were able to accomplish by disregarding females. also the love you are talking about is nothing but fairy tails because like I have explain here >>25608756 her love for you is all utility based. no reason to love something that sees you as a disposable utility that just want to marry and divorce to secure resources away from you.
I had the same thought, fuck I just want to control with suffering and pain if its necessary
I think I begining to stop feeling things that don't help me for anything
Yes, there's something about that nice modest clothing that really does it for me. The slender legs too, but I also love when girls look like they work their legs either through running or dancing or whatever the fuck they do physically that I'm too lazy to do with them. The shit gets me all bothered, but like you, I try my best to act as normal as possible on the outside. I don't always find it difficult, but there's just something about it that feels so unsettling even though I can act normal and not give my discomfort away. I guess it depends on the girl though. The more attractive they are, the harder it is to stay cool. Like, the girl in your pic would probably have me on the edge of my game trying to stay cool ESPECIALLY with those FRECKLES. Freckles pretty much change the entire game.
Good luck to both us without finding a nice girl to deal with us. I'm a pessimist, but this is one of the rare areas I'm optimistic in (though as the years go by, I'm definitely losing faith). Maybe I should start working out and shit.
Not everyone has to marry to be happy, most people are happier in a stable marriage.
>her love for you is all utility based
And yours for hers isn't? I don't see this thread populated with 30 or 40 year old women seems the target is always young and healthy and ready to breed.
Milf threads are pure sexual, no one makes gf threads or pines over older women.
I will not open my emotional shield for any thing since now. only I'll stay impasible in fron of she and act like all is going normal
I work at Starbucks. I see these kinds of girls come in all the time, and I have to take their orders and have them coyly flirt with me and shit. I've learned to maintain my cool around them most of the time, but every so often one comes in that leaves me smitten. Hell, almost all of my coworkers are attractive females so I have to put up with that.
I've never had a girlfriend and am too afraid to ever attempt it. I fucked up my previous chances and got involved in a complicated 3 way relationship in which I was the outsider looking in. I've pretty much lost all hope, as I have too many emotional issues to ever have a stable, healthy relationship. But there's still an ember of hope that won't die.
what could go wrong?
tell me, what
for a man like me its nothing, I did harder things
A shit personality kinda detracts from their cuteness for me. In fact, it makes my dick shrivel up as though my very DNA is screaming at me not to fuck more cunts like her into existence.
That being said, I really prefer the "cute" look over the "hot" one.
The Starbucks thing doesn't surprise me at all. I don't really go there because I don't really fuck with coffee like that and the food is overpriced (literally only good for coffee), but considering the sort of girls that are associated with Starbucks, the amount of 7/10s and up must be pretty high. I feel for you. I'd probably lowkey love that shit, but the other part of me would probably dread that shit. It's sort of bittersweet being around a bunch of beautiful girls when you aren't a fucking Chad.
I've never had a girlfriend either, but you definitely should give it a shot if you feel like something might be sparking with somebody. Emotionally unstable or not, something good might come out of trying. There are a lot of emotionally unstable people getting into relationships everyday, and they come out okay. Regardless of your instabilities, you control your actions. It's a 2-way street. Just don't be an ass and communicate. It can't possibly go that bad unless one of you is a few bad decisions away from a straight jacket.
Holy shit I thought I was the only one. I don't delete mine though...
I listen to this while I daydream:
I've got a girl I'm trying to get to know. She's in a relationship but the guy treats her bad and things aren't going well for her. She seems to like me pretty well and drops, at least I think, hints to me. I guess we'll see. I'll try not to fuck that one up if it comes about.
I feel like if you "think" she's dropping hints, then she just might really be. Unless you read to much into everything, then you're probably on the money with the assumption. Hopefully she leaves the guy, but that entire situations seems like a problem just waiting to happen. However, fuck that though. Go for it if you get the opportunity. No point in squandering the opportunity (I say even though I probably would lol).
I've let every opportunity pass me by in my life regarding things to do, people to meet and places to go. She's a nice, wholesome girl and has openly stated she pretty much just wants a traditional relationship. She's not the kind of girl to slut around or anything too.
We'll see. I don't have much hope for it but we work together so it's not like I'm going anywhere. Typically I'm too retarded and miss even obvious signals, so I doubt I'm reading too into this.
Girls definitely look for guys who can take care of them, or if it looks like it they can at least (whether they know it or not )
But we also look for guys like that because it would be seen as embarrassing for the girl to be the more dominant or capable member of the pair. Guys are taught to be the provider, and how it's embarrassing to let your lady make more than you financially wise. It's a hit at the ego. I guess it's also embarrassing for some of us to be the more capable in a relationship because then we have a "deadbeat" partner.
Same things can be applied to height, athleticism, intelligence etc. If the girl is better at one of those, than the guy is seen as weak. So appearing cute, dumb, and docile will give guys the confidence to approach us (or fall for us) which would give them the idea that they are already capable of taking care of us/being the dominant one of the two.
I'm 80% sure the other images aren't actually her.
But I can't completely remember the context of when I saved it.
Sure thing, anon.
Just google "Hanna Hallysem"
Should find most of her photos on instagram or vk.com.
I somehow convince myself that it'll get better tomorrow but it never does. Why do I constantly do this to myself.
>tfw a girl will never look at you like this
you don't opt out from talking to people, you opt out from having false hopes of relationships, fidelity, idealization and mind your own business
I lived like this all the time, I'm starting to appreciate this way only now though
there's nothing women can give me anything I haven't obtained myself, like paychecks, fucks, fantasies, good time. Relationships in reality are nothing like in movies, but my life in solitude is more thrilling than some shitty drama that most of women bring about
just enjoy the stuff you genuinely enjoy, jack off before diving into a world of pain with women, don't be betabux/meal ticket, rise no expectations of others, know the only person that can make things right and what you feel is right is only you. Only your hands won't abandon you.
you need a reality check, realize that time is not something like a count of days, years, hours, decades, seconds, it's simply a duration of universe and you're wasting it with false promises and resolutions
also that girl is cute, damn. Think I saw more pics but she looked nowhere as good in them
> thinking cute boys will like you because cute girls don't
I'm sure she feels the same... about Chad's dick.
I wish I could tell you that having a gf is not all it's made out to be, but it is.
I'm sorry guys.