I'm desperate

did she try and suck it to help you out?

>>25583441

Yeah but it didn't help, I had a semi at best. I think I have some kind of physical erectile dysfunction, sex went the same way with the previous girl I could get to bed with 4 years ago. Holy shit this is pathetic...

Atleast you can get a girl to bed.

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Chill the fuck out, I did the same and lost the girl because I got insecure and weird. She was just going to wait for bc to kick in so we could try it sans condoms

>>25583650

Maybe you are just gay, or nervous.

>>25583349
Happened to be before anon.

I was nervous and didn't tell her I was a virgin. At the time I should have just been honest and admitted i was nervous etc and I'm sure that would have helped.

Nearly happened again next time with another girl but I relaxed and told the truth and was fine then in the end. I didn't get it up at first but was OK after a bit. Since then its never an issue.

Not sure if this helps, did you lie about anything to her I.e virgin

I try not to think about it. Same happened to me with 3 different girls, just could not get hard no matter how much we tried. Too much performance anxiety. If you keep persevering it can get better.

>>25583675
I'd rather get nothing than being that much of a disappointment

>>25583680
It was the same without condom with the previous girl

>>25583681
I'm not gay but definitely nervous as fuck, even tho I think it has nothing to do with me not being able to get it up

>>25583715
Wasn't my first time but it went the same way

>>25583716
There was definitely some anxiety but I think I actually have a dick issue as I can only get it up in specific positions when masturbating. And its not like I can get other girls easily to see if my theory is right.

Your just nervous, get some blue pills and let it happen breh.

>>25583680
u using sans condoms u gon have a bad time

>>25583349
I'm constantly trying to nimb myself by vidya and internet.
Works for me.

>>25583828
Don't watch too much porn lad and don't listen to "muh not a choice" fags, if you watch too much porn you look for a more taboo fetish as time goes on which could make you slightly interested in men or abnormal women.

>>25584790

Yeah I've been doing that for 7 months already but trust you'll come around like me, it works for some time but after a while its just not enough, you need more to go on than just living through your computer. I'm depressed as fuck and what happened is kind of a big deal, like a nail in the coffin.

>>25584841

Yeah I'm gonna go full nofap till I can get it on with another girl to see how it goes. I don't think that's the issue but it's worth trying. I've been fapping to hentai scans exclusively for the past 2 years and that can't be good anyway.

>>25584067

Where I live they are hard to get and expensive as fuck, and I'd like to know first if I'm actually able to fuck a girl without it to be sure that my dick is not the problem.

>>25584941
You don't have to go completely nofap lad, just watch more amateur porn and don't fap every week.

>>25583349
stop whinging its not the end of the world

>>25583715
how old virgin were you?
i am surprised she didnt run away and slowly push you away