I couldn't get it up with a girl I like yesterday evening. Today is the lowest I've ever been in my entire life, shit just keep piling up like it'll never fucking end. I'm really starting to consider ending it. I know some people probably have it even worse but I can't do it anymore, it hurts too much. How do you do it guys? How do you fucking hang on to it?
Yeah but it didn't help, I had a semi at best. I think I have some kind of physical erectile dysfunction, sex went the same way with the previous girl I could get to bed with 4 years ago. Holy shit this is pathetic...
Chill the fuck out, I did the same and lost the girl because I got insecure and weird. She was just going to wait for bc to kick in so we could try it sans condoms
Happened to be before anon.
I was nervous and didn't tell her I was a virgin. At the time I should have just been honest and admitted i was nervous etc and I'm sure that would have helped.
Nearly happened again next time with another girl but I relaxed and told the truth and was fine then in the end. I didn't get it up at first but was OK after a bit. Since then its never an issue.
Not sure if this helps, did you lie about anything to her I.e virgin
I try not to think about it. Same happened to me with 3 different girls, just could not get hard no matter how much we tried. Too much performance anxiety. If you keep persevering it can get better.
I'd rather get nothing than being that much of a disappointment
It was the same without condom with the previous girl
I'm not gay but definitely nervous as fuck, even tho I think it has nothing to do with me not being able to get it up
Wasn't my first time but it went the same way
There was definitely some anxiety but I think I actually have a dick issue as I can only get it up in specific positions when masturbating. And its not like I can get other girls easily to see if my theory is right.
Don't watch too much porn lad and don't listen to "muh not a choice" fags, if you watch too much porn you look for a more taboo fetish as time goes on which could make you slightly interested in men or abnormal women.
Yeah I've been doing that for 7 months already but trust you'll come around like me, it works for some time but after a while its just not enough, you need more to go on than just living through your computer. I'm depressed as fuck and what happened is kind of a big deal, like a nail in the coffin.
Yeah I'm gonna go full nofap till I can get it on with another girl to see how it goes. I don't think that's the issue but it's worth trying. I've been fapping to hentai scans exclusively for the past 2 years and that can't be good anyway.