>someone is willing to listen to your self-centred, juvenile ramblings >get mad at them because they only sort of care what the fuck did you expect her to say? you haven't given her anything to work with other than "I'm sad"
>>25581436 I kinda agree but that's what this shit does to you. Even if the girl did care, what would really explaining do? She wouldn't understand and then she wouldn't know what to say. And if she did, it still wouldn't change things long term.
This is why guys like us need to focus on other things. As impossible as it seems.
>>25581500 I don't know, I just think having a normal conversation always makes more sense than out-of-context whining. If you don't have friends and your life sucks that's bound to come out, and then the other person will have some background to go with it. There's a chance they won't lose interest and won't think you're a whiny cunt, too. Nobody likes whiny cunts, even when they're suffering. t. whiny cunt with a shitty life
>>25581545 You have to actually be normal to have a normal conversation. For instance, what do you say to someone if they talk about having friends or doing things when you have no friends and life left you behind a long time ago?
>>25581667 Talk about the shit that they're doing, talk about hobbies or interests, news or sports or whatever. They'll probably know you're trying to weasel your way out of talking about yourself, but it doesn't really matter since most (normal) people like to talk about themselves. I think that's a separate issue though, in this case I don't think OP really needed to worry about embarrassing himself or saying something wrong, assuming he was really talking to a depressed/anxious person. He just needed to get into some sort of actual conversation instead of just jumping straight in with complaints about his life
>>25581748 So many times I had friendships with girls where we'd talk about their lives. For a while it's okay. The last one would tell me mostly about her sister. I'm genuinely glad that they're close.
After a while though it's just too much... it starts to sting like hell hearing about someone who can enjoy life and enjoy other people. Because you know you'll never have that. It makes you want to go to sleep and not wake up.
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