I've decided that I'm 19 and if I want a perfect gf I have to be efficient at finding ones that are possible choices while still talking to enough that the chances of one fitting the bill being good.
I'm picky so I have a lot of requirements.
>no weird piercings and no tatooes
>shorter than me
>skinny (small boobs are a plus)
>at least a 7/10 face
>shares some interests
>has common sence
How can I filter out staceys quickly?
Sluts need not reply.
Women are ultimately the ones who decide the future of humanity by choosing the best mates to procreate with, the most I could hope for is that they at least set their standards high.
What do you mean, 'okay'? This is not a meaningful descriptor. I don't care for women whom I can't have a conversation with, such as those who require income or status. I'm just saying that it is incongruent to state virginity as a requirement for a woman while also stating good personality as one, because this implies that the former is not given as a predictor of personality/character, so it is given as a value in itself... which is pretty absurd.
I want a virgin because I think waiting for the right person is important. Anyone can have any reason for not dating someone else. Rules only come into play when you agree to start a relationship with knowledge of each other.
So all the women who thought they found the right person and were mistaken are just garbage in your eyes and you will never date them?
People make mistakes and have poor judgement pretty often, especially when it comes to relationships and love.
At my age yes, they are mistaken. No 19 year old girl has been in love, they just couldn't control their hormones or desire to feel wanted. I'm not tolerant towards these sort of mistakes either, maybe it's because I'm not very gullible but that sort of shit makes me mad.
There are many ways to filter them before a date, but I won't go into detail of those. If you do manage a date with someone, there is one surefire way to know if she's a feminist bitch or an actual decent human being.
The way is watching Blue Valentine with her, and at the end asking her who she thought was at fault in the movie. If she says it was Gosling's character, she belongs in the trash. If she sides with Gosling's character, she's decent and able to distance herself from her toxic gender and think rationally.
It's also a good way because beforehand it seems like a typical romcom flick, but it really is a test movie.
Hate to break it to you, but what you hate is the female archetype. You saying "I want a good woman" is saying "I want a woman who isn't a woman." Loyalty, especially, is a male trait.
I'm not trying to be arrogant but it's almost impossible to find someone who is better than me in "every" way where I live. Sure some might be a bit more attractive or smart but nothing so significant that they should leave me over it, that's just a never ending cycle of dissatisfaction.
>it's shallow to try and build a good marriage
Honestly I'll never tire of posting this
And even without divorce the more sexual partners the shittier the marriage is.
It's worth a shot! I met my girlfriend at school and she's pretty perfect. I just think looking for women at places that atract those with higher values and curiosity is where you'll find the girl you're looking for.
>So all the women who thought they found the right person and were mistaken are just garbage
Stop playing fantasy football with her sexual history, maybe she just wanted to get laid retard.
Retarded whiteknights like you like to pull out the dumbest victimhood sob stories as if they were the norm, as if no girl just wanted to get fucked.
this all women are hypergamous and ruled by emotions. if you don't stay ambitious or fail to progress in life she is going to cuck the shit out of you. Jamal is the most dangerous of them all because I have observe them in action. they actually have game and don't give a fuck if she is take, they are going to hit on your girl like it or not.
because hypergamy. a relationship is not going to stop her from trading up.
>this all women are hypergamous and ruled by emotions
And yet >>25557400 virgin brides are highly unlikely to leave their husbands and report happier marriages.
Shop your bullshit somewhere else.
it starts out as the perfect romcom flick with the greatest love any robot could ever hope for, the perfect waifu, etc. and then halfway through it turns into a women hate movie.
Go to church bro. Or kill yourself. But really there's bound to be at least 1 virgin at church......right?
ITT: special snowflake chasers vs sluts of tumblr
desu I want a special snowflake virginfu myself, but since my personality is that of a brick when PC stuff doesn't count as a hobby (even though I have master race tastes), fornicate the ladies, acquire currency
>nothing so significant that they should leave me over it
That's what a lot of people think, but "Chad" is so much more funny or charming or smart or fun to be around. You just don't understand her like "Chad" does. You can't please her like "Chad" does.
Or maybe I'm just a bitter failed 25 year old normie who has had way too many relationships go south because someone was a slight upgrade from me.
TOPKEK, as if. I am horribly bitter toward women.
Some girls make mistakes. "I thought I loved him and he loved me and we were going to be together forever!" and all that, until he found a girl that would let him do anal and bounced on her, now she's used goods. I never denied that some girls want to get fucked though. Some girls are sluts and that's OK too. Their choice.
You'd be surprised, many people fail to distinguish unique traits of people they love/wanna fuck, which usually ends up with them going for an upgrade or cheating until they're official
> Pretty absurd.
How so? Number of sex partners is a clear indicator of what type of character a woman has. Also, please address the physical requirements I stated, not just status and income. Thanks.
>Some girls make mistakes. "I thought I loved him and he loved me and we were going to be together forever!"
And making mistakes isn't a negative indicator? Are you retarded?
>Or maybe I'm just a bitter failed 25 year old normie who has had way too many relationships go south because someone was a slight upgrade from me.
>probably dated sluts
Maybe one day you'll learn that sexual history matters.
>Some girls are sluts and that's OK too.Their choice.
Anyone who cares about finding a wife should choose to avoid sluts.
How satan? Explain.
>tfw devout Catholic
>never masturbated or had sex
>all I ever wanted was a nice girl to reproduce with and raise a family
>never get my virgin Christfu
Church girls are a meme. They won't be any more attracted to you or any less attracted to Chad.
>she just wanted laid get over it nerd
>stop judging her
You're retarded, 'making mistakes' is innocent and downplaying slutty behavior
"oh she just thought she was falling in love~ he was just a mean old horny monster ~~~"
I'm saying she just wanted dick, he's the one talking down the guy looking for a virgin with shit like 'grills make miss steaks'.
I did date sluts, I didn't know they were sluts until afterward. How am I defending sluts? If anything I probably hate women more than anyone else in this thread because they have done nothing but ruin my life since I was 14.
>never get my virgin Christfu
Chuchgirls aren't going to fall into your lap anymore than normal girls you still have to pursue, shit ton of people in my old church got married and are happy I'm just a self-inflicted loser and don't attend anyways.
my picture was aimed as a warning to watch out for Jamal because their game comes to them very naturally for some reason. I had to study game to get to their level and this Jamal was way younger then me. if op gets any girl above a 6/10 every guys is going to try to get in her panties everywhere she goes and Jamal was the most persist.
Because you tried to play off this "so just because she made a mistake she's garbage to you?" bullshit, you don't know she made a mistake she was probably down for it. Just because he's after a virgin doesn't mean he hates your special fantasy foolish girl who just got caught up in the flow.
I don't even masturbate for pleasure anymore, I just do it 2-3 times a week to literally empty my balls just so I don't get wet dreams. The 4 wet dreams I've had have been the shittiest experiences ever, especially since I'm a clean-freak when it comes to my dick and especially when it comes to semen
Okay I get it, you're retarded, don't bother me retard.
Stop posting your cuck shit, I swear to god the faggots who post about 'jamal' get off to talking about how sinister he is.
>People make mistakes and have poor judgement pretty often, especially when it comes to relationships and love.
This is why the norm for most of civilized history was arranged marriage, with some input from the spouses.
But women have so may demands when choosing a partner. He has to have a body and jawline of a greek god, 6 figure salary and over 6ft etc. The least i can demand is a girl like op said
LOL this is obviously coming from a roastie, post a pic with a timestamp to prove you're not a roastie.
When will you roasties ever learn that we have different biological imperatives. No decent human male is attracted to leftovers.
What you women fail to realize is that men don't even genuinely like you as people and would've never approached you if you didn't have a vagina. The vagina comes first, and if it's all beat up and used no one wants it.
>Whore's a whore; there are no phases.
You obviously don't know what you're talking about. Pretty much everyone (guys and girls alike) who has ever been in a serious long-term relationship that ended after many years together takes a small break from serious dating and has some casual sex. It is the normal reaction to that kind of experience.
Only a fucking whore would think like this. Me and all of my friends have never done this shit. It's absolutely not normal to fuck strangers because your sad unless you live in some degenerate shithole.
The best way to end up with a conservative girl is being a huge player for a while. Every guy that I know who used to have harems of girls in the end settled down with a super conservative girl who was known for turning down guys by the dozens.
I'm a 8/10 normally but most people say I look even better if I do something with my hair. I look like a younger pic related with straight hair.
Of course I am. Most blacks I see are idiots and thugs, so I start expecting them to be. There are exceptions with everything but usually women who don't have enough self respect to not sleep around are shitty people.
Some of you fags got the wrong approach to this. Instead of making this list of how your partner should be and behave, you should simply socialize a lot and get to know real women. Get out there, meet them, fall in love and out of it. Have casual sex if you must, or don't if you don't want to.
Simply meet someone you can imagine spending your time with. You make this way too complicated. And before some spergs start screaming, "b-but girls are allowed to have...", you should realize that most of the girls with long ass lists of how their boysfriend should be are fucking single. They either set their standards too high, or drive away any decent man with their demanding attitude. Just enjoy yourselves and stop overthinking everything.
So you can't get to know someone emotionally without fucking them? So all the people who waited for years until marriage weren't actually in a relationship because they never fucked?
>So you can't get to know someone emotionally without fucking them?
Sex and other forms of physical intimacy is what differntiates your relationship from any other friendly relationships you have (aka platonic friendships). Sex also makes you grow together even more (assuming you felt close before).
>weren't actually in a relationship because they never fucked?
Yes, basically they have been simply close friends.
Idk man, asking 4chan for advice on this subject is ...hard...
do your own thing imo, mindset, in my experience has a heavy effect too...
what im trying to say is, maybe get with a few dirty girls, learn how to pick em, then go from there? Get me? Got it memorised?
>>jus live in de moment brah who cares if she took 100 dicks
>she's an innocent virginic angel or a dirty cum slut who has taken a hundred dicks
Why are so many robots only capable of looking at things as either black or white?
It has everything to do with your sex drive. You need to find a girl who is not interested in sex. Sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship. A girl with a normal sex drive wouldn't stay with you for long.
I'm willing to have sex regularly with a partner but I don't prioritize it. Like if I really bored I might fap almost every day but usually only once every week or two. It's just not something I need.
But it might bother you after a while if she keeps pressing and you fail to get into the mood. Or if she likes different than you, and one or both of you remain unsatisfied with your sex life.
Like the other anon correctly stated, sexual compatibility is extremely important in relationships.
>I am saving myself for marriage but once married I will have sex with him every day!
Girls say that, and it's of course not true. You won't have sex daily with someone magically once you are married if you have a low sex drive.
>If I'm attracted to her I'll get in the mood. I feel like you're over complicating this.
I don't want to put you down or attack you in any way, but your inexperience is showing. I've never been with a girl that had a higher libido than I but that is not how life works. There will be a million situations in a long-term relationship were you will turn down sex.
I don't think you understand. It's not that I don't want sex, it's just that not having it doesn't really bother me. I can masterbate every day for months or go months without masterbate nglyspe at all just fine. It's not that I don't want to but I just don't care enough to sometimes, sort of somewhere in between . If someone else wanted it I'd be fine with it as long as it's not a ridiculous sex drive.
Ya but not for that reason. I've had times where I didn't want to do much with my ex for specific reasons. Like if I was stressed out maybe but that happens to everyone to some extent.