>cheating on gf with a cuter girl
can we get a good feels thread going?
>21 get first qtgf
>been together 2 years, she loves me and she's wife material
>oneitis when i was a teenager adds me on fb
>invites me to watch some bands next friday
>my friend tells me she said she's into me
I'm 23 and this is the first time something like this happens to me. I dont know what to do with these normie feels.
>fuck a girl
>sext her when we can't fuck
>eventually finds out I've been playing her for sex
>leaks my nudes
>big tit popular girl adds me on snapchat
>"I saw your dick anon"
>"I've had a huge thing for you since year 10"
>"I guess this is my excuse"
>"please fuck me"
Cheating messes with your sense of trust, whether you're doing it or on the receiving end. You find yourself constantly on your guard, unable to jump into a new relationship feet first.
People who tell you to "play the field" when you're young are washed-up Chads and used up feminist cunts who want you to be as miserable as they are.
You age and eventually work becomes your main social outlet, not college. Even if you want ot shit where you eat the gender ratio is probably skewed and the pool of under-40 people is small. More and more of the good girls get scooped up leaving behind the crazies, feminists, gold-diggers, girls with impossible standards, et cetera.
tl;dr: You find a good girl, stick with her
Why would somebody just lie on the internet anon?
I havent done anything wrong. I was going anyway with my friends. If she comes up to me once there, I wont do nothing more than talk to her. Still, its a really weird feel. I've never rejected a girl because they never came near me at all.
You are going to become a fucking mess if she finds out and leaves you. Even if she somehow says it's okay and forgave you, she'd never be able to completely trust you again and your relationship will most likely deteriorate. If you really love her, then sticking your dick into another girl a few times isn't going to be worth it.
You're going to feel like shit passing on this, but would you be able to live knowing you lost the girl you considered wife material or looking at her face and thinking about how you cheated on her when she trusts you?
I cheated on my previous girlfriend thrice, and I regret it on every end. It was clear I wasn't satisfied in the relationship and I don't know why I let that hurt her and ruin my chances of being happy with the other girls, whose friendships became muddled with shit.
Now though? Dating a qt blonde with all the same interests as not only me, but my close friends and my siblings. So I feel like I really struck gold with her, honestly.
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