>tfw you think a girl likes you because she wants to spend time with you but she makes sure to drop "My boyfriend is blah blah" in the middle of a conversation after you got your hopes up and she actually just wants homework help.
>be me in elementary school >new to this school >2 girls are my neighbors and go to same school >they say stuff like "Move it, anon!" in a joking way but I was too much of an autist to notice >one day when they're in front of me I yell "MOVE IT, FEMANONS" >because the hallway is so loud almost no one hears it >someone says that she liked me >fast forward a few years to 6th grade >this stupid shit my friends would do is to hump each others binders to piss us off >gradually find it funny >do it to other people >they laugh >one study hall do it to femanon >doesn't speak to me for ~3 years >gradually forget about her >ff to high school 9th grade >she starts speaking to me and I completely ignore her >next year try to speak too her and she ignores me
She was considered the hottest girl in my grade from 4th (that's when I came to the school, dunno if for longer) till 9th grade. How retarded am I, /r9k/?
I just kind of assume that everybody who takes the time of day to contact me is doing it purely out of pity.
I have no real reason to assume otherwise. I mean, I hope for the contrary, but I can't see it any other way. Somebody would have to hit me in the fucking face with an "I'm attracted to you" for me to even consider otherwise. Even then I'd have my eyebrows raised.
I'd probably even be more confused than happy about it, too. Why the hell would anybody be interested in me? I've got literally nothing positive to bring to a relationship.
The thought of someone actually liking me seems so foreign to me. I have literally nothing going for me. I did have a gf once but I'm not sure she liked me at all because she kept bitching about me and ended up cheating on me. The only people I could call friends are born of mutual desperation and our relationship revolves literally only around taking drugs. I can't for the life of me get any self-esteem going which makes every matter worse and keeps showering me with worthlessness, it's a vicious cycle.
>>25551907 >elementary school >girl that i'm friends with openly has a crush on me, all of her friends come and tease me, telling me how much she likes me >be weirded out, stay in touch but kind of avoid her for a while >years later >we still keep in touch, she's pretty much a 10/10 now >still talk to her every now and then >tfw i delude myself into thinking that she still has that child-like crush on me when really she probably thinks nothing of me
i keep on having dreams about her bros, this fucking sucks
>>25552502 iktf bro. I kinda have a crush on this friend but I honestly feel like shit when I think about her sexually. Just imagining her not liking me and she finds out I think about her like that. She would probably think I'm some sort of freak.
>>25551907 >tfw a qt girl shows interest in you >constantly smiles and tries to start a conversation >give her awkward one word answers and cringy small talk >can see the disappointment slowly creep into her face >eventually loses interest after a while >moves on to someone else Every single time...
>>25551907 >be me grade 12 (5 years ago) >End of math class friend wants phone number to send me funny pictures >Don't think about it sure... >Totally forget about it >Get home, about 1 hour later get texts >Text is from 2 girls in my class who like me >Panic mode activated >I am really confused, think its someone fucking with me >Text back fuck off cunt >Girls text back confused and pissed >Don't go to class the next day scared it was them >Get text next day, its them again >They call me to prove it >Tell me to come to the movies >s-sure >don't show up and play civ
A lot more happened but its even worse and pretty long
>>25552675 I have a buddy who literally looks like a walking corpse, incredibly skinny, unnaturally pale skin, very little, thin hair that is so light you can see his scalp. That guy always gets the hottest girls, mostly scene girls but still. It's not hopeless.
Only ever been called ugly by a girl once that i can remember and she was a disgusting 1/10 random that was walking past me on the street, sisters friends always say im attractive, never really made a move on a girl though because i dont know how to talk to them and am really afraid of embarrassment, not rejection. The only action ive had with girls is at parties when theyre drunk and come on to me, and i havent had a girlfriend since i was 13. But hey it could be a lot worse
>>25552829 yes it has happened to me a few times. I just gave up a few years ago. Its literally the worst feeling t b h f a m
>working your courage up to talk to girl because she looks in your direction a lot >one day ask her out. >says she doesn't like you that way or some bullshit answer I hate getting my hopes up just so it can be crushed
when a girl likes me it makes me SO FUCKING ANXIOUS I can not deal with it.
Pretty sure one of the hottest girls that was my crush liked me throughout most of highschool, definitely at some points though. She actually asked me to dance with her at my graduation dance thing when nobody else was dancing so everyone saw us.
I was so god damn nervous and she couldn't even dance so I had to awkwardly teach her on the fly and I was so god damn nervous I actually did never manage to hook up with her in the end now shes travelling and I wanted to do that too but I'm too anxious /rant
>>25551907 >tfw there was a time when I'd get girls showing interest occasionally Now I literally never have contact with females other than services like cashiers etc I'm going to die a kv and it's all my fucking fault, my school memories will forever torment me
>tfw you randomly stare at and watch the most beautiful women around while working on idle like you're looking at a painting to distract yourself or something. >tfw you notice some of them stare back at you, even when they're like 30 metres+ away
>>25553294 f a m I have no fucking idea. We were on the opposite sides of the class so It could have just been she was looking at something else or spacing out.
its not like i went to her on the first day and said "hey wanna be my gf?" I tried to build a friendship with her at first and it was about 7-8 months of us casually talking to each other by text --> multiple asking if you want to go hang out at X with group X --> a good amount of asking to go to see latest movies together because we both like going to theaters--> one day asking out.
Should I have waited longer? We gradually fell apart after that. and I rarely talk to her now.
>>25552646 Are you fucking kidding me?!?!? Not too long ago I was talking to my manager and he had his daughter with him. She was a super qt3.14. I could see her staring at me and EVERYTIME I would look at her her eyes would divert....only to return when I looked away. I wanted to add her on FB but everyone told me not to cause she was a)my bosses daughter and b)16 (I'm 21). Did I miss out on happiness?? >inb4 "rreeee u have a job and FB normie faggot" I'm a cyborg
>>25553613 You sure about that. I think it's probably more about Daddy issues and wanting something perceived to be unattainable. Hell, I'd be open to fucking a 16-18 year old. It's legal in bongland. It's just that being 25 I'd be seen as a creep if I was open about it.
>>25553690 Its not fair, and its only cause society made it seem like the devils work if their under a certain age. So being 25 with a 16 (9yr difference is creppy). But a 25 can happily be with a 55 (30yr difference). Fuck it
>>25553690 Nah, i think it's because they want someone with more experience and >money. 20yo+ are usually more socially and economically stables than 16yo chads >>25553741 Nah women are just assholes but that's how it is senpai and the way of learning until you meet the right one
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vZChD_Gni8U vid related
fuck me there was this dumb bitch when i was 10 that my parents me and my sister whose house we would go to. she would always follow me around and try and show me her karate moves and ask my sister tons of questions about me. fucking hell she was a 6/10 but thats not the problem. she was INBRED. thats right! her parents were cousins! disgusting 10 year olds
>>25553967 I can't pick up signals from women at all. Hell I would know if a QT was a keeper if she just straight up went up to me and said she was interested. Id respect that a ton,though I'd be quite suspicious. (Mostly because I'd think it would be a trick)
>tfw like a boy who you're not sure about >tfw when you get nervous around him when it seems like he's uninterested, but feel overwhelmed when it seems like he's openly interested. >tfw too paralyzed by fear to do anything except tell his friend and hope that they tell him
>>25555020 I don't give a flying fuck about sex. This is the type of grill I want. Religious, hood values and morals, virgin, never had a bf. We will have so much in common. And she's hot, she'll be allll mine. And we can have nice caramel babies
>not really standout attractive but maybe a little above average and well-built >usually have a girl or two give me that look when I go outside >tfw filled with flattery, embarrassment, and regret >know that I will never be able to act and will likely die a virgin
>>25555435 This feel sucks >talk to coworker, pretty cool. >other coworker tells me he like me >whatever, I don't judge >a couple weeks pass, he messages me on normiebook asking if I'm straight Its just getting harder to look at this guy now. But don't want to be discriminatory against gays
>>25552646 I ignore girls who do this coy shit. It's always the most attractive girls who expect you to do all the work and take all the risk of rejection. "teehee look at me touching my hair I expect you to go out of your way to come and talk to me and face complete humiliation the moment I change my flippant little dumb bitch mind"
>tfw back in college girl showed all these signs that she liked me >would literally say she wanted me to ask her out >would say we should go on dates
ridiculous how i wouldnt go for that right? but then
>would do shit at work, like make sexual comments and advances to me in front of people to laugh about it with them because she knew it made me uncomfortable >my roommates (who were friends with her) said she was doing it just to fuck with me
>Only talked to girl I liked through IM >Hardly spoke a sentence to her face to face, but use all my strength to askher out over IM >"Sure :)" >Fuck yes, so happy >Wait, I have to talk to her face to face >Avoidance for 3 days >Finally do bump into each other, force myself to say something >"S-So, uhhh... yeah heheh." >10 Minutes of awkward silence >Tells me over IM that maybe this wont work
Years later we still talk from time to time. Unsure how I feel about her now. She dated a friend of mine, but they've broken up and distanced themselves from one another. I don't want to repeat history.
Honestly what would it matter if a girl did like me and even expressed that she did?
I'm a 24 year old kissless friendless virgin who's never been close to a relationship. I would be too afraid to even ask her out because I wouldn't know how to do anything. Wouldn't know how dates work, how to do anything remotely sexual even kissing, wouldn't know how to be in a relationship. And I'll never do it at all in my life
>>25557879 put all that shit out of your mind, be humble and just do your best. if a girl isn't satisfied with your best or you screw up so bad its unrecoverable then move on to the next girl. there are plenty of fish in the sea.
>>25551907 What does it feel like OP? >>25551943 God dammit. While it has never happened outside of work or class, I can't tell how many times I've been in a one on one conversation with a girl where she is actually giving attention, not on phone, responsive, laughing at dumb shit, looking at my eyes and other stuff where I think I have a chance and then she drops that she had a bf. Hate it.
>have only had two confirmations that someone girl was interested in me >one was a friend telling me that a black girl he knew liked me >other was walking back to the bus after an XC meet and two girls on our team saying that a girl on another local XC team wanted to date >tfw never had any other girl talk to me or show interest in me besides two obscure moments >had to come to terms over a few year span that I was not attractive >likened it to me not liking unattractive girls so it was only fair no one liked me back
>be in school >fat, acne, low self esteem >all of my friends are manwhores who sleep with women and then break up with them >really like a girl, been silently crushing on her a while >friend starts dating her out of nowhere >pleasedon'tfuck.jpg >he leaves her after three months >she rebounds and starts trying talk to me >know my friend hit n' quit >ignore her
>Girl chats to you more than normal. >Make her laugh >See her again later that day talk and get her laughing again >Actually having a good conversation and talking without showing my inner autist. >Check her up on FB to ask her something >Relationship since 2012 EVERY FUCKING TIME
>transfer to new school for architecture >have an intense passion for the material, love the shit out of it. Was the main reason I transferred >am an older student among freshmen in a first year course >start to take notice in a smaller girl, not stunning by any means, but pretty in her own way >was usually alone or isolated, maybe hung out with one other girl >wasn't an uppity social cunt that had to have ditzy friends around her 24/7 and act like a pretentious moron >Facebook stalk her >had a reasonable, modest amount of FB friends >she had a full out blog that was eloquently written >she took notice in building architecture, city planning, skyscrapers >appeared to have a genuine interest in the material >her models and designs she put out in class were well done, she knew what she was doing >probably the most reasonable shot I would ever have with anyone as she wasn't extremely popular >match made in heaven >decide to wait a year just to make sure she stays with the program and moves onto studio >check the class list for this upcoming semester as all freshmen from this semester transfer over to the same class >she's not fucking on the class list >she's just not fucking there >tfw you wanted someone to talk about architecture with and they're no longer in the program
What happened. Why. So much apparent passion for the material and she was gone in a flash.
I waited so I didn't end up asking someone that would veer off into something I didn't care about. I felt like it would've been great as we could actually talk about shit that interested the both of us and not have banal conversations about the fucking weather. She also didn't appear to be a complete ditz like most women in college.
What killed me was she had a great design sense, knew what she was doing, and her blog that wasn't related to academia in anyway shape or form and that showed she was genuinely interested in it and she just fucking dropped off the map for god knows what reason.
You're right, it was a missed opportunity but if she wasn't in it to the point where she dropped out of the program then it is what it is.
>118 people in last semester class >113 go onto this semester >she was not one of them
>>25559336 Hopefully you don't end up coming back being very very angry because she turned out to be a cunt of some sort. Although if things do go well, remember to also not come back and try to lecture :^)
I asked some customer if anyone told her that she looked like Michelle Obama. She started giggling and went to her table. Her whole table was giggling. As they left, she kind of lingered behind and my faggot boss said she was going me "come to bed with me" eyes. FUCK OFF ROASTIE
>work in a fancy bar >new bartender flirts with you and invites you stop by at the other bar she works at for drinks >sure >get her number >be such a pussy that pretend it didnt happen >dont call her and never stop at the bar
>be me >first year of Uni >standing around in crowd, waiting for a test to start >looking around as I'm bored and talking to nobody >lock eyes a 9/10 girl from my year a few times, she smiles every time >after 2-3 minutes she literally approaches me, starts talking about the test, then quickly switches the topic >asks me if I am going to a certain party >sperg out and say "I don't know" >she starts asking me when I am traveling home, and says we could go the same bus >we start talking at lecture breaks >notice all the positive signs, like her smiling a lot, leaning towards me when I'm talking, long eye contact etc >two weeks pass >in that time, she mentioned a lot how she lives alone and how she goes out for a walk often >we're alone returning from the bus station >I ask her normally (pretty sure I wasn't sperging) if she wants to go out for a walk 2 days from now >she makes a robotic laugh and says how she has something arranged with her sister and her friends that day, but she will tell me when she's going out etc (we know it's not gonna happen) >I cringe a bit but manage to pull out with a response which didn't seem pathetic or angry >decide to stop talking to her >more than two weeks passed >she still greets me, first even, and from afar >the last time we met I was going towards a group of people which was right of her, didn't look directly at her but noticed her following my movies, she expected me to steer left and talk to her I don't fucking get it, what is this shit?
>>25560984 I wouldn't say so, why would she decline to go for a walk with me? She probably finds me disgusting or is embarrassed of being seen alone with me in public. I'm guessing the reason she is like this is because she wants someone to talk to and kill time while she's at the uni, and likes getting attention.
She was a fat Vietnamese girl of no more than 15 years
I kissed her and not much later very much regretted it, later than that I also realised I probably stole her first and then felt horrible about it
I avoided contacting her for a month and must have deleted her number, because she texted me at some point and like a true minister of love I asked "Is this [other girl's name]?" which must have made her feel really special
I'm only telling this story because I've never mentioned it on /r9k/ but I really feel like I should, and now I have
>Sit next to cute girl in HS on whom I crushed on during elementary school (first crush ever) >I knew I had no chances with her because she was super popular and hanged out with people daily and already had several boyfriends at 15 >meanwhile I lost the few friends I had in middle school and became a shut in depressed autist >because of these reasons I lost all the interest I had in her >mfw she tells my brothe " I sit next to your brother and he only gives me one word answers"
>>25561260 Also to make it all the more akward I was friend with ehr during elementary school and early middle school, like I saw her regularly outside of school when we were children but by HS I was dead inside and almost rpetended like we didn't even know eachother
>>25551907 tfw when youre a virgin kissless loser and a hot girl likes you and invites you over her place with a naked snapchat pic while literally writing to rape her on the pic even though youre whiteknighting and telling her you got a friend and she says she doesnt care about him and you feel unsure and cry
>>25561867 I guess "she is still unsure" is the most logical explanation, if I am going to be optimistic, that is. Not sure about it to be honest, even if I have a chance, I don't think I want to use it. We're too different, she's shallow as fuck, can't even find any topics to talk about, also she goes out often and I hate going out to cafes and other places.
>>25561899 Ask her to come along to some thing you have. Coffee, lunch, some fucking square or walk to some other class or some shit i don't know, just as an excuse to talk to her, if you even want to talk to her that is.
Like the other anon said, it's not as intimate as a walk, there's people doing the same things and you'll both feel more comfortable with the situation
I mean it's worth a try, if you still feel like you don't have much in common after it you could just not do it anymore
>>25562129 You guys have it easy there, in my country first thing you have to do is asking the girl "will you be my gf?", and she normally respond with I will think about it and respond to you after 2-3 days... you fucking having it easy fucking faggots.
>in university >need to solve a math problem for the next day >know a girl from my group had done the problem before >ask her on facebook if she could send me the solution >she says she doesn't have it but offers to get on video conference on skype with me to explain the problem >freak the fuck out and decline with some bullshit excuse >somehow finish the problem myself over the next hours >the next day when I walk up to the class she asks me if I'd finished it >I say yes and she asks to see it >I give it to her, she says it looks ok >class begins, she sits right next to me at my usually empty desk and says she'll check again if it's done okay before I have to present it >all this time I'm fucking dumbfounded wondering why is she still talking with me >I present the problem and return to my desk, she tells me I did a good job
what the fuck? why is she being so nice to me? literally noone in my life before has tried to help me without me pestering them about it
>>25552502 Iktf. The girl who liked me definitely doesn't like me now, though. Not to try to make you feel shitty as im sure you know this intellectually but people change and thats in the past. Youll find plenty others i promise anon
>near the end of mandatory schooling three years or so ago >decently qt girl comes up to me and asks for a selfie >literally never been asked for my picture from a non-family member before >too dumbfounded to take notice of it >skip to the shitty prom I was forced to go to >near the end and she comes up and gives me a massive hug >says "bye, anon" and I never saw her again
Same happened to me with a girl I met during one of my holidays.
>parents invite them over for dinner since it's a small place we're staying at >she keeps looking at me throughout the entire meal >do nothing but look down when I'm not eating >later on hers and my parents are passed out drunk, everyone but me is drunk >she comes in whilst I'm playing some shit on my DS and says "Love you" >confused as fuck, I never see her again
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