>People getting all sad because of a "her"
>I never had a her to be sad about
>Not even a high school crush
Should I feel happy or bad?
Also obscure feels thread I guess.
Do you want a her though? I guess it depends if you're seeking a gf or not. You shouldn't feel bad for not wanting something. I personally don't give a shit anymore. I find other ways to distract myself.
I don't know if I want it because I never really cared, but I think it's not normal, even for r9k standards, to never had someone you liked, even if said person didn't even acknowledged you.
>tfw you used to crush hard on a girl in high school
>text her on her birthday
>months pass I stop thinking about her and texting her
I honestly don't feel anything for her anymore. But I'm lonely AF and I'm thinking about texting her but what would I say? Tbh I really just want to fuck someone and she might be the best possibility right now.
There are asexual people, but it's true that we all crave social interaction no matter how introverted or antisocial. Try not to worry about it man. As long as your not a sociopath with zero empathy than you're fine.
it depends. everyone is different. ive only had one girlfriend and I regret it. we were together for 4 years and then on and off for another. the breakoff was extremely painful. I ended up being replaced by some dude she always told me not to worry about. made a lot of good memories with her but it all felt like it was for nothing. this was mostly during highschool btw. I wish I just focused on school. grass is always greener tho.
I had a crush on a girl for 18 months.
Started talking to her, turns out she was a bitch.
Be glad this hasn't happened to you, anon, it was such a waste of time.
I had average looking women interested in my, but I had no interest in pursuing anything with them as I felt no need for moving away from solitude.
Any incentive for going after women purely for sex, goes away quite quickly after masturbating.