I accidentally make a child with gf....
I and her are college student, doesn't have enough money to rise child. both of us have future and dream.
In this situation, abortion is reasonable choice. right?
If she birth child, both of us have to quit college. so our future is dark.
we don't have money, we have bright future if she aborts the baby.
Tell both of your families about it.
If they're willing to support both of you, i'm sure that there would be another option.
Both of you can't quit college, at least one of you needs to continue if you want the kid to have a future.
Just remember that in 10-12 years, when you wonder what your child would have looked like, you will realize you are a murderer, because that 12 year old doesn't exist because of your action.
Killing a baby kills it in the present AND the future. Period. You delete their entire timeline.
Fucking deal with it you stupid gook,
>I accidentally make child with gf
How the fuck do you accidentally have sex and cum inside her? Dp you trip and then magically her clothes disappear and you get inside her and with your 2 inch dick go sploosh?
Fucking man up. You're what's wrong with this world.
Ah yes, the honored Japanese practice of solemnly doing number puzzles.
To honor ones ancestors.
Japan needs babies, doesn't it?
She can have the baby now, put off going to college later.
You can continue going to college if your parents can help out.
DON'T GET AN ABORTION, JAPAN NEEDS BABIES
>get job without finishing degree
ughh.... no thanks.
I need money. I want quality of life.
why the fuck I have to take care of baby while I am still 20years old? It's insane.
I am still college student. I can get better job if I have finished my degree.
with that wishy washy grammer sounds like its a jap, isn't bearing a child out of wedlock extremely looked down upon in nippon?
Use more lotion and the condom won't break.
Don't abort the child though, Japan needs babies. Unless you are not ethnically Japanese, in which case go ahead and murder your unborn baby.
How in the world do you accidentally make a child?
>Your lover can finish college later
that's not good for her career.
Usually Japanese finish degree for 4years. and japanese companies are not willing to adopt a girl who has child.
man. It's japanese society. We are livining in Japan where having child is huge disadvantage.
>If she birth child, both of us have to quit college.
So many hormone recipes to try out, gender can't be determined until it hits puberty.
making a decision based on /pol is the first horrible choice youll make in your cuck life do what you want fuckhead also you chose to have to have sex you got preggers kinda only your fucking fault kiddo
How about a compromise?
Your first abortion is free, but at the same time you both must be surgically sterilized to prevent any future "accidents".
If you can't take responsibility for your actions then you should have that choice taken from you permanently.
Why abort? Why not put it up for adoption? Why not raise it and still pursue your dreams? A child is not the end of the world. You can still go to school and work. You may have to cut back on going out, but if you're responsible, you can make it work.
Are there no adoption agencies in Japan? Your country has literal extinction-tier birthrates and this rare occurrence of a pregnancy is actually quite precious for your country.
Tell me what would be so difficult about completing the pregnancy and then giving up the child for adoption. Is it because she is a selfish whore that loves to party and binge drink with her girlfriends? Because it may be socially difficult overall being pregnant around her peers (pro-tip: you don't have to quit school when you're pregnant).
Both of you are absolute scum.
okay. Having baby at early 20s have bad influence on her "ENTIRE" career. She is very educated, smart woman. so I do not want to interfere with her way of life. I'm pretty sure that she can be great business person in future.
abort it, seriously
if only your gf is okay with it then don't let the baby suffer in adoption center, and your gf may look less fit after giving a birth
LIFE STARTS IN A MOMENT OF BIRTH
This kind of materialism is the primary responsible for your pathetic birth rates (and also high amounts suicides). You already live in one of the best nations of the fucking planet, why not focus on just being a decent honorable person?
Stop being a dumb American armyfag who impregnates Japanese prostitutes. Problem solved. But since you already there, just tell her to abort it, Japanese prostitute women are obedient and they probably done it before.
Her entire career is over once she gets her first child, early 30s it is over anyway.
Also if you both fucked up, than she must bear the consequences and look for another career.
>I'm pretty sure that she can be great business person in future.
Who are you to judge that? Everybody thinks that when he is 21.
Early 20s is nothing for career. You can be a great career person in late 20s and 30s. Give the baby up for adoption if necessary.
Japan needs Japanese babies. You should be having as many as possible. Save your country!!
holy shit. I am a japanese so is she.
It's not like that in Japan.
It's reasonable choice for career woman to have child in 30s. It's socially acceptable. but a girl who have baby as college student? It's 100% bad for her career
AGAIN. It's Japan. not CANADA
Who do we have to contribute to Japan? It's our life. NOT politics.
If you never wanted a child, you never should have had sexual intercourse. Did you never learn what happens when a man puts his peen into a woman's taint?
You only have yourself to blame and it's criminal to murder an unborn child.
Well raised children is ALWAYS incompatible with career. Its not a Japan issue, its a REALITY issue. In Brazil we have a word that surgically describe sociopaths like you, its "arrivista" - Google that.
Yes, kill your baby for mamon.
Sex wasn't inconvenient for you.
Killing your baby, must be quite convenient. YOLO! Who cares about consequences?
Hope you feel satisfied when the skull of your baby is being cavitated, having its brain removed by a suction tool.
Killing your own child. There is no more degenerate act imaginable.
Did contraception never reach the Japanese isles? Your woman is pregnant, that is your own kin, alive and growing inside of her. You nips used to be monsters, I thought you had grown out of that. Shame on you.
If your kid grows up to be just like her, would you be okay with it?
If yes, don't abort
If no, abort
Same question applies if you cant figure out if you wanna be longterm with that person in your and want kids.
>It's reasonable choice for career woman to have child in 30s. It's socially acceptable. but a girl who have baby as college student? It's 100% bad for her career
That's normal in Russia. So if you really love your woman then fuck social opinion and be true man. Marry her. You know my gf said once: "If world will be against us i will stand behind you and charge bullets into magazines for your weapon"
Trust me, in the near future everything economical in the world will change. First move is going right now on markets. So most happy people will be who stand with their beloved families but money. Good luck.
Of course not, since Japanese people plan their children, even check if the blood type of partner is correct, they don't just fuck around for pleasure.
Why the fuck did you have sex if you aren't prepared to deal with the consequences? Dude what if your partner had HIV? You'd be paying buttloads of money then, treatment is more expensive than raising a kid. And you wouldn't even have the choice to get rid of it! I'm 19, and while I'm not in college, I went into the trades and started welding. I'm not even working right now and I have an 8 month old and a child on the way. I've never broken the bank, not once so far. You just need to know what to buy for the baby. You don't need tons of money to take care of it.
Why kill the baby rather than giving it up for adoption?
"I don't want the baby so I am going to kill it. I will not give it up for adoption. If I cannot have the baby that I don't want, no one will".
Fuck, I would commit suicide from guilt if I ever killed or hired someone else to kill (abortion "doctor") a child of mine.
>"If world will be against us i will stand behind you and charge bullets into magazines for your weapon"
>Of course not, since Japanese people plan their children, even check if the blood type of partner is correct, they don't just fuck around for pleasure.
holy fuck sounds like retarded.
No one give a fuck about blood type when we love and sexually frustrated.
Probably because being pregnant for most of a year for a child you're not even going to keep is expensive, painful, and a huge loss of time.
Also, first trimester pregnancies are not children.
We also have duty, responsibility and honor. Entertainment is just a fraction of life.
Its your duty to raise that fucking child, stop being a dishonored piece of shit for once in your life. If you can't convince your girlfriend to put her "career" on second place (keep in mind she prefer killing her own baby instead of neglect a new shoe every-month, that is the kind of being you are in a relationship with). Raise that kid on your own.
Bruh you sound like a stupid child. Ever heard of adoption? Why kill a baby? What's the point of it?
Killing a baby cos you don't want to quit school is stupid. Just go through with it and then give it up for adoption. All you gotta do is wait 9 months. It's really not hard to just wait. Imagine telling your parents that YOU KILLED THEIR GRANDCHILD. Don't say "she's gonna have an abortion." Tell them you're going to kill your child. Now idk how they would react but if it were my parents I told that to I know that it'd break their hearts and I would bring shame to my family.
Just put it up for adoption man. Be a decent human being ffs.
Don't do it faggot.. there are always ways, only weak sub-humans say no to challenges.
You can transfer to university where you have to present only for exams.
A kid eats what you also eat.. it will grow, it will help, provide and love you.
DO NOT FUCKING ABORT HIM.. you will cause so much misery in your soul in her soul and before God.
Then once you have a good job and a wife have the double of babies.
Just be sure about it, what do you prefer? A life with a kid and shitty job, or a life where you killed you potential child but have a good life?
Don't ruin your life for a mistake, and that's said for both outcomes.
Are you sure you are even in Japan? Maybe they put you in an American ghetto.
Mhmm ? Girls work in Japan ? Are not they good waifu who do housetask and cook ?
Btw can your gf cook ?
no. I have another choice.
Having burdern is blue-pilled cuck activity.
Why do i spent time and money into burdern? I may have child after married but I'm still college student.
Again, abortion is not legal here. Your girlfriend cannot just wander in to the clinic and get your baby murdered.
And her career will go nowhere. She'll always get passed up by a man because "they're supporting their family" or "you'll be married soon and quit" or any number of reasons because most women do get married and get their day jobs and businesses don't have any faith in female employees. I have heard this time and time again from doznes of women here.
I'm sure you'd know at least some of this if you were actually in Japan, though.
So basically you feel mature when it comes to stick your tiny dick into your girlfriends pussy, but you are immature and too young to take consequences of sex?
Abort this child, kill it before it will be born because no human being deserves to have such shitty father.
Marry her and raise it. Japan objectively needs more children.
>our future is dark
No one starts out life where they want to end up you have to work through it. Deferring having children is why the West is in such trouble, along with welfare/tax schemes that make it even more attractive to wait.
> abortion is not legal here
Learn the fuck you fucking moron
we are both college student. have no money. so abortin is permited.
do research before shitpost. we already gathered information
Yeah, being a responsible man is being a cuck. You are the one who is going to have to live with the blood of your own child on your hands. For the rest of your life, blood will be dripping from your hands. Killing your own child...I don't even end have words.
Your baby is like a piece of random junk to you. Like your PC it is just cheap and disposable.
It has a fully functioning nervous system. The torture that it undergoes during the procedure is unimaginable.
.. and liberals complain about water boarding of full grown adults but have no problem with a baby with a functional nervous system being torn limb from limb or having its skull punctured by a suction tool while having its brain ducked out. Abortion is fucking brutal.
Killing your own child on the altar of pleasure. Molech is pleased.
You're not nearly poor enough to qualify for that. If you can afford college you can afford to quit college. Your obgyn will tell your girlfriend to drop out and live off her parents until you can support the child.
>Having burdern is blue-pilled cuck activity.
ITS YOUR FUCKING CHILD, its not a burden, its a God given gift. Allowing your girlfriend to kill your prole because she wants to dedicate her life to corporate bosses is quintessentially what a cuck would do.
A lot of successful people have children at young age, but somehow you can't do that because you not only admitted to yourself that you're a failure, but because you're willful murder.
What you're doing is the perfect analogy of a satanic sacrifice, you're willing to kill your own child in exchange of mundane material gains and recognition from people on suits that don't give a shit about you, and see you as commodity.
>You're not nearly poor enough to qualify for that. If you can afford college you can afford to quit college. Your obgyn will tell your girlfriend to drop out and live off her parents until you can support the child
sorry. we can abort it. because we have reasons. It does not matter that there is "actual" reson or not. It's tatemae that there is "reason" to abort child.
Do you two want the baby? Just think on it a little bit. Do you want the baby?
Things aren't going to get better economically. But, for some people their children are worth it. What to do, what to do...
Can you live a simpler life, at least for a little while? Can your parents help? Remember, this will have psychological effects upon both of you if you do it for convenience.
>It has a fully functioning nervous system. The torture that it undergoes during the procedure is unimaginable.
It's not even remotely conscious. Some nervous function is not anywhere close to the same thing as complete nervous function. Additionally, it's killed before they remove it.
A woman has a right to her own reproductive choices
She choose to have sex, you both created a baby.
Time to take responsibility cunt
You may have as much babies as you want. But you can't make THIS baby again. See? You're a materialistic asshole, you have no notion that when you kill another human, you're killing another universe of rich possibilities, dreams and so on.
No, you are scientifically incorrect.
>tests DNA of the fetus
"Looks like it is homo sapiens, therefore it is human."
>tests DNA of a onion plant
"Looks like it is allium cepa, therefore it is an onion"
There is a difference, quit being scientifically illiterate.
>We have sexual desire
Yes, we have all forms of desire. Sometimes we desire to play, to sleep, to eat, all fine and normal things. But other times we have the desire to hurt others, to take what is not ours, to to commit all sorts of other such acts, and we must supress and overcome these desires as they will lead to ruin.
And even those desires I said are fone can become bad. To play when one must work, to sleep when one needs to be awake, to eat when should not eat, these things make good desires bad.
Whether you view sexual desires as bad, in which case you should have not acted on them, or good, but clearly you were not ready to take on the main role and job of sex, to create children, in which case it was a good desire mad bad by acting on it when you shouldn't have.
Just because you want to fuck something doesn't mean you have to or you should act on those desires.
I see you're new here. Welcome. But you might want to lurk a little bit before making yourself look like a total retard.
I know you're from Jewbook and all, so it will take some time to get used to it.
>why the fuck I have to take care of baby while I am still 20years old? It's insane.
Your ancestors did it at 14yo.
And you can't even do that?
This child will be a source of strength and willpower. You will be better because you have a child.
Not that I'm anti-abort,
but there must be other options available, you should search and inquire just to know. It might be a more stringent regime but it could also be a catalyst to a more stable life, something more subtle than what is expected. "bright" futures aren't always so.
Either way, live well.
>It's reasonable choice for career woman to have child in 30s
It is NEVER a reasonnable choice to breed that old.
If you do, your kid will live a shorter life, be dumber, be more prone to sickness, be a social tard because you can't give him siblings.
Do not have only one kid. Be strong, breed an army.
Can't the child stay with relatives? This is a better option than some organization as it creates family bond, not bonds with random people with random outcomes that are awkward to resolve in some formal business situation. It also means that your child will see you as a professional performing a function within the family and not someone that cast them off.
>In this situation, abortion is reasonable choice. right?
No, you are murdering a child you created. Would you want to be murdered in the womb? If no, then don't do it to others. You are responsible for this folly, raise the child, love it and you will look back on your consideration of this abomination as the foolishness that it is. If you do not listen to me, and you do kill the child, who is innocent. I can guarantee you'll regret it, you're life will be filled with wickedness and misery and at the end of your days, you will stand before God and have to give an account of why you though murdering the innocents was good.
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