I can't appreciate music. I try to listen to music but I can't grasp the artistic meaning of it. Literature, I get it. But music feels so out of touch and not emotion evoking. Sometimes post-rock does something but that's very rare. What the fuck is wrong with me? I have never heard of anyone who doesn't love music. I never feel like listening to music.
All the time.
I'm not from a first world country, not extremely third world either. So the music I exposed early was mostly movie sound tracks.
I got into actual 'music' when I was around 13/14 with pop songs of that time downloaded from Billboard lists.
Then around 15/16 I started listening to bands of all sort.
Try and listen something you enjoy at face value. No deeper meaning. I can't really think of a literature equivalent (romance novels?). Most people enjoy music because they like the sound of it, not because they can analyze it.
Did you ever try listening to mainstream rap? That's a genre you can't really get too 'deep' on (there are notable exceptions of course).
If you derive no intrinsic artistic value, meaning, or connection from music, the just listen to fun music that doesn't attempt to connect with the listener on a personal level. There's tons of genres that mainly pander to enjoying yourself, partying, and having fun, and don't require you to actually invest yourself in the music.