ABDL #2

Bless the mods for sparing the rod. We only wish to be spoiled.

Curious what others look for in clothing when they want to regress. Especially other little girls. Fluffy dresses are fair and fine, but I always like pastels and whites in regular clothing to feel younger.

>>8244435
Yaaay! ^___^ fresh thread :3

>>8244460
>there's the appeal of non-sexual ageplay and a second childhood as the gender you feel. But I don't think the majority I've met are non-sexual ageplayers. Most seem to have a hefty kink for it too.
For me the kink thing sorta disappeared a few months after starting t-blockers. There's still somewhat left of it, but mostly it's just a part of who I am, not something I do.

>>8244435
Is this /lgbt/ or /bdsm/

>>8244482
>Curious what others look for in clothing when they want to regress. Especially other little girls. Fluffy dresses are fair and fine, but I always like pastels and whites in regular clothing to feel younger.
Ugh, I hate all the frilly stuff. Not my thing. honestly I don't really need any specific clothing to get into littlespace, but some things do help a bit ^-^ like a onesie/body, or cute pyjamas :3 diapers are essential, of course ^^;

God I have a massive cute fetish and this just hits it on the head for me
Not so much into it as a lifestyle but as something I can do with a bf for fun would be amazing

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>>8244482
>Curious what others look for in clothing when they want to regress. Especially other little girls.
I'm drawn to sportier stuff.
I want some corduroy and denim overalls. Maybe with patches sewn or ironed on. And some t-shirts in soft pastel colors. Very much like pic related. And some big colorful velcro sneakers.
Maybe some footie pajamas, those would be fun to run around in during the mornings.
I like to be more modest when I'm feeling girlier. I want a couple of dresses with poofy short sleeves and white Peter Pan collars.

>>8244668
I've also thought about buying key rings and just clipping toys I like to my clothes or my bag.

>>8244668
>I want some corduroy and denim overalls
I love my denim overalls :3 they make me feel super cute and little ^-^ and still pretty safe to wear outside without being labeled a freak, although I feel sometimes people make comments to me that seem somehow "little" ^^; maybe it's all in my head, dunno :3

>>8244639
Yeah, same. I can kinda take it or leave it, like most things, but anything cute is boss. Variety! Well, except when cuteness is involved. Then no variety, always cute. I'm a guy though.

>>8244679
Not everyone who could pick up that you were trying to dress cutely would want to put you down for it. I could imagine some people would just read you as a sweet sensitive type and think it would be polite to treat you a bit more gently.

>>8245167
>Not everyone who could pick up that you were trying to dress cutely would want to put you down for it. I could imagine some people would just read you as a sweet sensitive type and think it would be polite to treat you a bit more gently.
That's what most people seem to do ^-^ it's been happening more anyway since I've started transitioning but it helps extra when I'm feeling little.

I don't feel like anyone is ever condescending to me like that and even if they tried to, I don't think I would really care. I don't really feel insulted by someone seeing me as a little kid or something ^-^;

>>8245191
Oh boy I wish people treated me like a little kid but I'm scared I'm too tall to ever "pass" as one. But who knows?

>>8245204
I'm not *super* short either, I guess sorta average height. I hate it, I almost feel dysphoric about my age/height, but it can't really be helped >__<

At least I have some great moments where I'm deep enough in littlespace that I don't really notice my height anymore, that feels really great ^^;

>>8245246
It's actually a huge comfort to hear that another transgirl little feels that way.
Especially age. In some ways I just feel like a late bloomer, and in others I just feel like I'm never really going to "grow up." But as long as I had someone to take care of me, I wouldn't mind.
Yeah, I feel my best in my cute clothes, cuddling my plushies, watching my favorite cartoons, and playing with my toys!
That you can still get doted on a little bit in your cutest clothes is encouraging, too!

>>8245317
>It's actually a huge comfort to hear that another transgirl little feels that way.
>Especially age. In some ways I just feel like a late bloomer, and in others I just feel like I'm never really going to "grow up."
I'm glad to hear I'm not alone either ^-^;; and yeah, I dunno, I've been a bit late in life with a lot of things, but I don't think the whole "being grown up" stuff is really gonna happen >__< I can do stuff like housework and all that, getting groceries and cooking is no problem, but I can't do it constantly without encouragement and plenty of breaks >__<;

>Yeah, I feel my best in my cute clothes, cuddling my plushies, watching my favorite cartoons, and playing with my toys!
Well, for me clothes aren't super important, but I guess all the clothes I have are pretty comfy ^-^; I do tend to carry my favorite plushie around wherever I can (even if she just stays in my bag, it feels safe to have her close), at home she's always with me ^__^

>>8245317
I've been with a trans little who's pretty fucking tall before. And while that's kinda heartbreaking, it's extra sweet to know you can help bring someone into a mindset where it doesn't matter anymore. Brings out my paternal instincts, I suppose. Better than actual children anyway.

So I'm an ABDL who gets off to the little/ageplay stuff but I'm extremely masculine in my real life and everything sexually. Is that common? I've been to munches and stuff and it's just cringeworthy for me to "live out" the lifestyle for anything other than a quick jerk-off session so I just didn't feel like I fit in. To me it really is just a sexual thing, I have no desire whatsoever to wear diapers around or cute clothes, though I do get off to that shit

>>8245362
>but I can't do it constantly without encouragement
I know what you mean. But I do feel a little more empowered by admitting that I need reminders and encouragement, and seeking the help I need to make sure my needs are met.
>I do tend to carry my favorite plushie around wherever I can (even if she just stays in my bag, it feels safe to have her close
Aww! What kind of plushie is it? Does she have a name?
Just yesterday I dropped one of my favorite toys into my bag while I was out on an errand, and like you said, it did make me feel better just knowing it was there. It felt so nice I did it again today. Mine is a superhero toy, though.

>>8245674
you're not the only one, by far not. And there's nothing wrong with that. everyone experiences things in their own way ^-^

>>8245712
>I do feel a little more empowered by admitting that I need reminders and encouragement, and seeking the help I need to make sure my needs are met.
Yes! ^-^ I know that feeling. Sadly my bf/daddy can't really provide all the attention/encouragement I need >__< I think he finds it a bit hard to do and maybe even stressful .__.

>Aww! What kind of plushie is it? Does she have a name?
It's a little sheep :3 she does have a name but it's not in english ^^;

>Just yesterday I dropped one of my favorite toys into my bag while I was out on an errand, and like you said, it did make me feel better just knowing it was there.. Mine is a superhero toy, though.
Well, whatever you're comfy with is fine ^-^ I'm not that much into superheroes but if you are that's okay ^__^

>>8244677
I've always thought people who did this were super cute. And always wanted to do it, but low self esteem kept me from doing it. The most I ever did was put a couple on my backpack.

>>8245739
>Sadly my bf/daddy can't really provide all the attention/encouragement I need >__< I think he finds it a bit hard to do and maybe even stressful .__.
What do you need and why does he find it hard/stressful?

>>8245768
I had been too self-conscious to try it before now, and I'm only just about to start. I know I'm going to be jumpy and self-conscious the first few times I do it.
Don't put yourself down for not feeling ready, it can be a process. But if you want to get there, I'm sure you can.

>>8244677
>>8245768
>>8245807
I love doing this :3 I have a couple small plush toys attached to my bag, and a paci as well :3 I haven't really gotten any comments on it though so it's probably fine ^^;

>>8245779
>What do you need and why does he find it hard/stressful?
A ton of attention, really. Words of encouragement, occasionally being told what to do.

I mean, I get some attention, just never enough, I feel like I'm really a little kid that way >__< I can't help it

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>tfw when I'm a trans little with no mommy

It hurts

beddy bye bye time for me .__. seeing my psychologist tomorrow. Dunno what to talk about really, I kinda just wanna stay in bed all day >___>;

To the guy in the last thread who talked about his family finding diaper porn at Christmas:

You said you came back in to find your brothers laughing and your parents smiling. Do you realize how much worse this could have been? They could have disowned your ass or demanded you go into therapy.

In a way, it seems like things went as best as they could in this shitty situation. You should be grateful.

>>8245902
Are you the one I talked to on Friday that liked blue chewy candy?

>>8247306
Not that anon but this is a good point.

>>8247963
No I'm the blue candy anon he or she is a different person ^~^

It's not fair! all I want in life is to be a switch with a bf or gf. I want to pinch their little cheeks and check their nappies, play dressups with them.

And also sometimes be a little girl for them, and be cute and shit.

I just wanna sit on the floor and build lego with daddy.
It's not fair!

>>8245902
I'd be your mommy... as long as you'd switch sometimes

>>8245902
maybe you'd like to tell us some things you'd want your mommy to do?

For those of you without mommys or daddys how do you deal with lonliness at night when stuffies aren't enough :(

>>8244668
Always have trouble finding cute overalls in a size the fits me femininely, but fit. Couple boosters in back gives me booty, but it's been hard to find the ideal.

>>8249101
Well If I'm feeling like a lonely little, and I was still crying even with my teddie. I think I would actually have to just get out of my little space to deal with it, being little is tough emotionally.

Although now its easier, I got my daddy to sing me a nursery rhyme over skype.

>>8245246
The sorrow of being 6'. All I wanna do is fit into cutesy lolita dresses.

>>8245674
Naw, that's just diaper lovers. Totally normal, toooon of them. They're not always as social but they're a good portion of the community.

I hear the cringe remark a lot. The secret of a lot of ageplayers's is we're well aware in our adult heads some of the stuff is cringey. We know, but for some crazy reason it's a lot of fun and freeing to just take your hands off the wheel in your brain in a safe environment.
There's some people who wish to do it all the time. There's most who just do it at home, or at meets where they'll slip into littlespace.

>>8249128
Same being super tall is no fun makes it so tough to feel cute :(

>>8249128
>>8249128
5'11 here. It pains me. 5-5'3 would be perfect, most girls that tall are like so fucking cute it hurts sometimes to see them. Besides being more cute. It's easier to pass when short..

>>8247306
Sure, but that's kind of a harsh way of looking at life. It could have gone worse, would have been better for him if it hadn't happened at all.

I got beaten and shamed a lot for trying on dresses. "It could be worse" is what I told myself with a lot of the abuse. I eventually learned how horrid it is to look at life like that.

I hope the anon that had to live through that remembers its okay for others to not understand. They make you happy, and that's what's important.

>>8249124
True I guess it also doesn't help my bestie is in another country with a really different time zone so it's hard to talk and it's making me extra lonely

Mornin' ^__^ I'm up again :3 at least I had a good sleep :3

>>8249128
I dunno in imperial, but i'm somewhere between 168 - 172 cm .__. kinda average height for a girl, still feel way too tall. I wouldn't mind losing like 20cm at least >__>;;

>>8249173
Same height, same feel. I try to keep in mind that my job would be harder if I was shorter

>>8249119
You wear diaper boosters to give you booty? That's awesome. Reminds me of a fake adult diaper ad that mentioned "makes your butt look great" as a selling point

>>8249119
>>8249664
and here I am feeling anxious my diaper butt is *too* noticable >__<; despite knowing nobody will care anyway...

>>8249947
Last year I bought some elastic waisted shorts with an extra inch or two in the crotch. They were so baggy and puffy that they hid my diapers *perfectly*.
If I wore a diaper under form-fitting pants, I would always fret about the band poking out when I bent over. I learned to bend at my knees to avoid that

>>8250030
yeah I don't really wear much that fits tightly >__> I've always worn kinda loose fitting stuff 'cause it's the most comfy, and I sorta stuck with it.

I'm not *as* worried anymore about anyone noticing though. People don't really care and if they do, well.. usually I don't have to see them again anyway ^-^;

>>8250055
Baggy clothes can hide all kinds of things! They're kind of an essential part of trans culture aren't they?

>>8250062
>They're kind of an essential part of trans culture aren't they?
dunno, I haven't really noticed >__< I don't keep up with trans culture that much and I guess I don't really know a lot of other MtFs... I just never bothered to really change my wardrobe, and it doesn't matter because I still get gendered correctly most of the time anyway.

>>8250084
I've heard from a lot of trans men and women that they wore baggy clothes to cope with dysphoria or to hide the effects of hormones before they felt ready to come out.
> I just never bothered to really change my wardrobe
I changed my wardrobe a lot when I first came out because I was excited to wear girl clothes! I love to learn about fashion and I realize now that my wardrobe goes through phases every few months. But it sounds like your clothes reflect you after your transition as much as before, so why not?
>I still get gendered correctly most of the time
Golly do I wish I could say that! Your wardrobe must be cute enough to do the trick. Lately I've been into black and camo, but I've tried everything to pass. Makeup and skirts and such... nothing seems to help. I don't know what it is. Maybe you've just got the right face or something

>>8250148
>I changed my wardrobe a lot when I first came out because I was excited to wear girl clothes! I love to learn about fashion and I realize now that my wardrobe goes through phases every few months. But it sounds like your clothes reflect you after your transition as much as before, so why not?
Yeah, I mean, I'm sort of okay with wearing girl clothes ^^, there's just not a lot that I feel really suits me >___< I've got two skirtall kinda things, those are alright with some cute leggings or stripy socks under, but I don't wear those much. I definitely couldn't wear a diaper under those without it being seen >___>;

>Golly do I wish I could say that! Your wardrobe must be cute enough to do the trick.
I dunno if it really is. A lot of loose fitting black shirts/hoodies, and jeans. Not really feminine, not really boyish either I guess. A friend got me a grey hoodie recently, it's a bit less loose fitting and I kinda am starting to like that too ^-^;

>I've tried everything to pass. Makeup and skirts and such... nothing seems to help. I don't know what it is.
I hardly ever even wear makeup. Mostly just a bit of mascara and eyeliner. I don't really care for makeup that much, it just seems like a lot of work and it's expensive >__<;

>Maybe you've just got the right face or something
I've always had a bit more of a feminine face, yeah. As a kid I would constantly get people thinking I'm a girl (and I'd be annoyed by it because back then the dysphoria hadn't hit yet), so yeah, a year of blockers and a few months of estrogen have definitely helped. Long hair finishes it I guess.

>>8250202
You started a lot sooner than I did if you took blockers, and you've been on hormones for much longer, and that could make a big difference between us.

And weirdly, when I was wearing makeup it was everything *but* mascara and eyeliner!

>>8249664
Abrilet maxi boosters. If you've ever seen diaper models wearing brands you've tried, but they look ridiculously thicky and fluffy on them. That's usually how they do it. One in front, and a second folded over lengthwise in the butt.

>>8249947
If I'm daring enough to wear them out when they're THAT thick, I kind of like they're noticeable. Never had a comment or anything, but catching myself in the mirror makes me tingle.

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>>8250202
>>8250223
Make-up IS a lot of hard work. However, put in the effort and work to learn contouring, highlighting, and disguising your eye shape it can do wonders.
Learn make-up from drag queens rather then female youtubers.

I'm not really sure what's wrong with what I want to post but I keep getting a "connection error" when I do...

>>8250368
Awesome, I'll be sure to try that the next time I'm in more of a DL kind of mood.

>>8250431
I agree. I did a lot of research and experimentation last winter, but I stopped at mastering how to hide my beard shadow. And now that HRT has softened my skin and lightened my hair growth, the makeup I was doing before looks too thick and dark so I'm back to square one

>>8250223
>You started a lot sooner than I did if you took blockers, and you've been on hormones for much longer, and that could make a big difference between us.
Just cypro. I started last year, a bit before my 26th birthday with that. Estrogen last summer.

>>8250431
I mostly just don't really feel like it...

>>8250593
Oh, okay. I started just after I turned 27 actually... but I only started three months ago

>>8250757
Ooohh, well, if it's only been 3 months, you still have a long way to go! I really wish you the best ^-^

>>8244435
>ABDL #2
>#2
Is this a permanent thing now? :D :D :D

>>8250826
>Is this a permanent thing now? :D :D :D
who knows ^-^ I'd like it if we could manage to keep this around :3

>>8250826
Don't know quite yet. But for now we're going to keep trying with low key starting images.

>>8250779
Thanks! I've already noticed some changes in my face. And my chest has developed enough that some of my shirts are too short

>>8250826
>>8250842
fuck off degenerates this doesn't belong on this board

>>8252956
>And my chest has developed enough that some of my shirts are too short
heeeh :3 I don't think that'll ever happen for me any time soon because of the whole loose fitting thing ^^;

it feels great when you make noticeable progress though! I don't really notice much anymore lately but I guess I'm just kinda used to it by now...

>>8249199
>Sure, but that's kind of a harsh way of looking at life. It could have gone worse, would have been better for him if it hadn't happened at all.

So wait... being grateful that it wasn't worse is a BAD way of looking at it? Sure it would have been "better" if it hadn't happened, but what is dwelling on that going to achieve? Be grateful that it wasn't worse - not upset that it happened in the first place.

>>8252967
>implying everyone else on this board aren't themselves degens

Good morning everyone!

>>8255979
Mornin'~ ^-^ I woke up 2 hours ago but i couldn't get outta bed >___> too comfy with my stuffies and no daddy to tell me what to do .__.;

>>8256000
Aww, poor baby! Maybe you should brush your teeth?

>>8256004
but i'm having tea now >__>;

>>8256008
Sorry honey, I thought you were still in bed. I take it you eventually managed to get up and make tea without being told?

>>8256025
Yeah ^-^ and I like my tea so it was a bit of motivation :3

>>8256052
Well, I'm glad you found something you could do without being told to!

>>8256131
yeah >__< I hate doing grownup stuff right now but I try to stick with simple things. at least I'm not feeling as depressed as a couple days ago... >__>;;

>>8256149
I'm glad you're feeling better, precious. I'm sorry that you're having such a tough time taking care of yourself! I understand how overwhelming that can feel, and I hope you get some help with that soon.

>>8249128
I'm in the exact same situation, so no brand for me :(
However there are ways around it, jsk's are much better for tall girls as you can lengthen the straps. Also there are some places that cater to taller girls, and if worst comes to worst, you can wear a dress that fits your torso. Also a petticoat is great for hiding diapers!


Also unrelated question, are you a little, big, or a switch
[spoiler] switch is the best, I love mothering and being a little [/spoiler]

>>8256444
Switch here. Nice to meet another switch! I love doting on other littles but I depend on the bigs in my life, too.
Do you have a favorite kind of diaper?
I have a few, actually. Bambino Teddy, Bellissimo, and ABU Simple.

>>8256444
>Also unrelated question, are you a little, big, or a switch
I'm a little! ^-^ I kinda have some mothering feelings too but I don't think I can really keep it up for very long >__<; grownup stuff is so exhausting

but for a little bit.. I guess I could ^-^; I never tried too much..

hi fellow littles! who met a 44 yr old mommy into ageplay??

this girl (:

GO

TO

/D/

mods this isn't alright

>>8256567
Awesome! A mommy on the more mature side sounds very soothing.
Tell us what she's like? What kinds of things has she done or talked about doing for you?

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I've been into diapers since 12 yo. I so want to be a little but I've actually never got the chance of wearing any because I still live with my parents.

I just want to feel like a spoiled princess ):

>>8256585
Threadly reminder that we have BDSM discussion threads on /lgbt/ too
And /d/ is for sharing porn. /d/'s regulars there get triggered if you don't attach porn they like to every post, and usually if they're reminded that trans people exist
Why do you think we aren't there already?

>>8256588
she said she knew as soon as she saw my stuffy family. she's awesome and i love her lots. im not really her first little, so she's moving way faster than me than i thought she would.

...diapering, watching cartoons and cuddling together, playing w stuffies, letting her friends babysit me while she cucks me..she wants to start breastfeeding me :3

.........i wonder what her kids would think.

>>8253191
Yes, it's a bad way of looking it. It puts the blame on himself that he doesn't feel better.
I don't know what happened to you to make you comfort yourself like that, but I hope you come to learn a healthier way.

>>8256444
I'm a little. Though being tall is one of the benefits as it tends to make dresses hang a bit short, keeping my crinkles peaking out the bottom. I love wearing multiple petties to make it as floofy and bouncy as I can.

>>8256626
Omg you're SOOO lucky! Total jackpot!
What's the cucking like?
Also, tell us about your stuffies and favorite cartoons cutiepie

>>8256585
What's a /D/?

>>8256590
Getting comfortable with wearing diapers while I was living with my parents was a process, but I got there.
Also, as much as I wanted to think my parents were in the dark about this, they already knew. They knew from when I was a kid. They knew from when I was a teen. And the fact that I was still doing it as an adult didn't really surprise them.
I stayed in my room when I wore them, and my parents figured out not to ask me about the packages I ordered.

I understand that your situation could be different. Just take it at your own pace, but my advice is to consider that this might be something you could make work, even if it could be super awkward.

>>8256567
Aww, grats ^__^

>>8256626
>she wants to start breastfeeding me :3
I honestly don't think I could ever do that >__>; I don't see the appeal...

>.........i wonder what her kids would think.
not really any of their business, is it? ^^; at least I sure as heck hope it isn't.

>>8256590
>I've been into diapers since 12 yo. I so want to be a little but I've actually never got the chance of wearing any because I still live with my parents.
It can be difficult, but honestly, if your parents at least respect your privacy a bit, it shouldn't be a big problem ^-^;

>>8256691
Oh, and this isn't necessarily a problem you have just because you've got an unusual kink.
Lots of parents whose adult children live with them are uncomfortable with thinking of their children as adults that are old enough have sexual feelings, and think it's reasonable to try and forbid that.
Cut yourself some slack and keep in mind that it's okay for you to have a sexuality even if your parents are having trouble accepting that.

>>8256739
>>8256707
I'm terribly ashamed of imposing my parents that. They're also pretty nosy. They're the type of opening my door without knocking, and looking for stuff in my drawers without permission.

>>8256768
I know it can be hard to realize this but your parents are human too! They're capable of making mistakes and having biases than can be unfair to you.
And that sounds like what they are doing. They're imposing on you! If nothing else, you should tell them you want some amount of privacy. This might be appropriate if you were a still a child, but you're not. They should at least knock before coming into your room!

>>8256768
>I'm terribly ashamed of imposing my parents that.
Sounds like they're imposing you more than the other way around >__>; but i mean, you know your parents better than any of us ^^; if you feel the risk is too high, don't do it.

In my case, I told my mum outright >___>; badly. I didn't even really fully understand at the time, but oh well... at least there wasn't as much of a fear of being discovered ^^;

>>8256800
>>8256816
You're right. Actually I have the same problem with transitionning. I don't have privacy so it's hard doing stuff I like in private to feel better. I just don't know how to word it.

>>8256881
Like I said, this might be super awkward but it could be good for you. My parents needed to be convinced more than once that it was okay to be trans and that that's what I was. This isn't necessarily something you'll only get one shot at selling them on, and it's not necessarily something that they'll never change their mind about after their first reaction.

>>8256816
you told ur mum u like diaps? y?

>>8256907
>you told ur mum u like diaps? y?
I was 13 and I just didn't wanna deal with being caught >__< and on top of that I felt like it's not a big deal, we were always able to talk about anything at home, so... I mean...

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>>8256958
"....thats wonderful honey, i'm so proud of you. do you need me to buy you some huggies next time i'm at the store?"

>>8256978
>"....thats wonderful honey, i'm so proud of you. do you need me to buy you some huggies next time i'm at the store?"
if only that happened >__> but nah, I had my own pocket money and at the time still small enough to actually fit baby diapers (size 6), soooooo...

I mean in retrospect maybe I shouldn't have said anything but it all worked out in the end so i don't really care ^__^

>>8256993
I think it's okay that you felt better telling your mother than trying to keep it a secret from her.
My sister definitely tattled to my mother about it at least once when I was a teen and she didn't want me to feel bad about it, either.

I was lucky/unlucky being forced to live on my own when I was 16. So I got to indulge in my diaper desires pretty freely through out puberty.

However when I was still living with my mom and later in a foster home I got pretty crafty when it came to hiding my diapers. I tended not to wear at home unless I KNEW no one would be home. I'd go out for a walk, to the library (hehe so quiet I could always hear my crinkling), or just somewhere.
There's two main places I hid my stash. The first is the basement at my mom's had an unfinished ceiling. So I would put them in a black garbage bag, get a step stool, and hid them in the middle of the ceiling. No one would even think to look in there for anything.

The second when I was in fostercare, I bought a plastic storage container. Dug a hole in one of the many areas of unkempt bushes in my city. And hid them buried. Inaccessible in winter but it worked the rest of the year.

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>>8257164
That's pretty inventive! It kinda sucked that it was necessary but I'm glad you found a way that worked ^^

back at my mum's place I kept them in a tool box with a padlock on it for a while. When I later moved out (but still had other potentially nosy people around) I used a locker thing from Ikea.

Now that I have my own place pretty much, they're just in the same place I keep my clothes ^-^ nobody snoops here, and at this point if anyone does, well... I don't really care anymore if anyone knows >__>

>>8256567
>>8256626
How did you meet your new mommy?

If I'm being honest with myself this stuff seems super cute to me and I'm really interested in it but when I try to or see people much deeper into the life style it seems like too much to me and is really overwhelmeling. What do?

>>8257433
Take it slow! Just try some little things that would make you feel more comfortable. This is about personal comfort before performing or fitting in. Don't feel like you need to do anything you aren't ready for. To start, you can just get a stuffed animal and cuddle when you're on the couch or in bed. Or a water bottle with cartoon characters on it. Watch a kids' movie you enjoy. Maybe have your dinner cut into small bites before you start eating it.
Maybe order a large size pacifier or a pack of cute diapers if you're feeling more adventurous. You don't even need to do this with anyone else at first, and you can wait to try it with someone you trust to respect your limits.
Make it work for you!

>>8257433
pretty much exactly what >>8257484 said. It's a very personal experience and everyone has their own likes and dislikes ^__^ don't let anyone else's experience dictate how you should do things, and don't worry if it takes you some time to figure it all out ^^; I've gone through different stages as well before I got to the point I'm at, and I'm sure I'm not the only one :3

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>>8248159
I can switch sometimes

>>8257484
>>8257557

Thanks for the advice, I already do somethings like cuddling with plushies and watch cartoons and such but that's just how I do, but its comforting to think about going slow

>>8258027
>that's just how I do
That's pretty much what I was getting at ^__^ just do whatever feels good :3

>>8258027
Well, if you want to keep going, the question you need to ask yourself is what other childhood creature comforts would you like to incorporate into your relaxation time?

>>8258111
I don't really know desu, I kinda want to try diaps but at the same time I'm super sketched out by it :/

>>8258163
I know what it's like to need to think about doing something for a long time before I actually commit.
Like I said, think about it until you feel ready! There's no hurry.

>>8258182
Tbh I've been thinking about it for a while and I feel like I'm close to doing something but at the same time i don't know....

>>8258163
What sketches you out in particular?

Gave the advice to anon last thread that most of the premium suppliers offer samples of 2. They are more expensive per diaper then a full package. But trying a real diaper on rather then poorly made store shelf ones will let you k ow pretty clearly if you like them or just the idea of them.

>>8258216
Yeah I was actually that same anon idk I find talking about it is helping me that's why I'm back lol

And I don't know I guess I'm scared of getting caught by my roommates or something like that

>>8258229
If you really want to play it safe you can tell them you're considering it, and see that they're comfortable with it first. It might be easier for them to take if you invited them to hammer out ground rules about cleanliness and discretion.
Just as an alternative to the obvious "Just try not to get caught"

>>8258163
Why sketched out? What puts you off about it? And as >>8258182 said, you don't have to hurry. or do anything at all. Find your own way ^__^

You can always try it sometime and leave it behind if you don't like it.

>>8258229
>Yeah I was actually that same anon idk I find talking about it is helping me that's why I'm back lol
Talking does help! ^-^ I found that during the years I couldn't really get proper diapers, and didn't really have any real life contacts, talking helped a lot. It still does, in fact! ^__^

>And I don't know I guess I'm scared of getting caught by my roommates or something like that
Are your roommates ever away? You can plan something out that way. Might not be as relaxed as possible, but it's something. If it's recieving packages that worries you, some suppliers will send things discreetly (i.e. no markings of it containing diapers) ^__^ even though I live at on my own, I find that quite nice because the mailman doesn't have to see either... but I guess I don't think I really care if he would.

>>8258243
>If you really want to play it safe you can tell them you're considering it, and see that they're comfortable with it first.
I'm not 100% sure if randomly telling your roommates you're planning to get diapered for fun is necessarily a safe strategy o.o;; unless you really know them well enough. It's an alternative, but I think that if >>8258229 is a bit scared of even trying diapers, maybe that's not the best option yet ^^;

how would you even bring that up anyway? ^^

>>8258243
Idk I hardly ever talk to my roommates as we're all rather reclusive but one of them was giving me crap for being trans for a little while too so I really don't want to talk about that stuff

>>8258252
Well my roommates have been absent for the past week because summer just started but they'll probably be back soon when summer classes start up

>>8258286
Then yeah, it sounds like it would be easier and better to just keep it to yourself, if you decided you wanted to chance it

>>8258286
You don't necessarily have to stay home while padded. Back when I loved with people I'd get padded at home but then would go out. Flooding myself at the movie theatre is tons of fun.

>>8258554
>Flooding myself at the movie theatre is tons of fun
Seconded!

>>8258554
>>8258579
hmmm o.o I've never done that... but I don't go to the movies that much either >__<

I think the thrill of wetting in public is kinda waning off? I tend to wear diapers now if I expect to be out longer anyway ^-^; it's just more convenient not having to deal with public bathrooms (if they're even available)... >___>

>>8258638
>it's just more convenient not having to deal with public bathrooms (if they're even available)...
I know what you mean, I don't feel comfortable using gendered facilities anymore.

>>8258753
>I don't feel comfortable using gendered facilities anymore.
I usually don't really have a problem. I tend to pass well enough for that I guess. I just don't feel comfortable, shy bladder and the toilets can just be icky >__<;

Diapers are my gender neutral bathroom

>>8244435
Can we have have a quick 'things you love about your little/big' detour?

> He sleep cuddles. If you pull away from him he’ll make this mix between a chirp and a mewl until he pulls himself back into you. He buries his entire face into my side too I don’t know how he breaths.

> He hiccups furiously when he eats spicy food. He loves spicy food.

> When we get wasted it always devolves into him slurring all the things he likes about me. It’s something new every time.

> He wants to be friends with every animal. Dogs? Friend. Squirrels? Friend. Stray cat? Time to drop everything and baby talk some poor confused animal.

> Refuses to kill bugs. Absolutely refuses. I hate this. I think it would break his heart if he knew I killed spiders when he wasn’t looking. So I don’t.

> When I come home from work he acts like he hasn’t seen me in three years and I just came back from The War.

> Since he’s shorter than me he’ll jump up into the air, wrap himself around me like a koala and _then_ make out.

>>8259313
>> Refuses to kill bugs. Absolutely refuses. I hate this. I think it would break his heart if he knew I killed spiders when he wasn’t looking. So I don’t.
I hate bugs >__< but it's the opposite here, daddy won't kill them >__> he always just releases them .___.

it's beddy bye bye time for me now but maybe I'll make a list of things that daddy does that I like tomorrow ^___^ nini~ :3

>>8259313
That's sooo cute <3

>tfw no daddy
i really wanna be a little but i dont see it happening really i dont know how to meet someone into it

>>8259501
Same :(

>>8259313
>Refuses to kill bugs. Absolutely refuses. I hate this. I think it would break his heart if he knew I killed spiders when he wasn’t looking. So I don’t.
Same. It's sweet of you to not kill bugs for your little!

>>8256629
Ok, I was being polite first, but that post just pissed me off. It's filled with bullshit assumptions and incorrect information altogether.

"Healthier" way? Who the fuck are you to know what's healthy and what's not? As long as an individual views something in a positive light and moves in an appropriate direction of change, however they do it is "healthy." I would know a thing or two about this - I do it professionally.

Gratitude is HUGE and is used in the latest evidence based therapeutic practices, including DBT, CBT, Motivational Interviewing, and several others. Re-framing negative thoughts and experiences in a positive light and learning to practice gratitude for what one DOES have is an indispensable step in healing past trauma.

But what would I know, right?

Seriously, go fuck yourself for thinking you know anything.

>>8259807
> I do it professionally.
I'm sure. Sure demonstrating that. Flipping out on a diaper thread and telling people to go fuck themselves. That also part of the 12 steps, doc?

Congratulations on being the first drama whore in a diaper thread. I guess it's inevitable. Yelling at some dude who went through a pretty messed up situation telling him to be grateful that he's not homeless and disowned. That's kind of fucked up. Then flipping out, screaming out about being an expert on the internet, and killing the fun of the thread. Just stay on /d/ or /aco/ if ya can't behave yourself.

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Anyone else actually have bladder problems here? I'm a bedwetter and I also squirt whenever I'm scared or too anxious.

>>8259997
I did until I was a teenager.

>>8259958
>I'm sure. Sure demonstrating that.

lol, fuck off, you pompous cocksucker. I'm not on the clock and this is still 4chan, in case you got confused for second. You can fuck off to ADISC or some other diaperfag site if you need a safe space, "princess." In the meantime, what I said still stands, and you're still an idiot for not knowing better.

Don't get your diapers in a twist over it ;)

>>8259997
>I also squirt whenever I'm scared or too anxious.

Is this not normal O-o

>>8260119
Normal for little children and the very old.

>>8260138
Seems to be fairly common for transgirls as their bladder muscles weaken

>>8260138
heck

>>8260102
>/lgbt/
>calling someone a cocksucker like its an insult
You sure you know where you are sweetums?

>>8260102
Don't be such a Cameron.

>>8259807
>>8259958
>>8260102
Someone needs a time out :c

>>8260188
Cocksucker as in "cocksucker," not cocksucker, you dumb cocksucker.

>>8260241
OoooooOOOOoooh. Someone's maaaaad.

>>8260249
Yes, I was mad. But you're still dumb and wrong. And that makes me feel good :3

So I'm not mad no more.

And best part is I identify as a brat when in little mode, so you can't call me out on it or you're oppressing me - and I know how uppity you trannies are about oppression :p

>>8260119
It's an anxious tick I've had since I was a kid. I have to wear diapers pretty much full time because of it.

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>>8249128
Sameeeeeeeeee

Why are all us fuckin' trannies into this stuff? I was into little play for a long long time, then my previous trans mommy/gf got me into the diaper part of it then moved, and now I'm stuck with it - thankfully my current bf is also into it. Not so bad I guess but like dang please explain this shit to me how this happened.

>>8260357
So you're a permanent cutie~!

>>8260357
I know it makes shit harder but I'm kinda jealous because you have an excuse to do it???

>>8260357
Ah I'm not that bad wear it makes a big mess just like very mild dampness at worst

>>8260357
stuck being a cutie patooty!!!!!!!!!!!

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>>8260392
>>8260456
I-I guess. I... I am looking for a mommy/daddy if anyone is interested...

>>8260402
It's not as fun as it sounds. I was bullied severely thanks to it. Kids were ruthless to me when they found out.

>>8260512
Oh god no I'm sure, I'm just saying that I can't say I don't envy you. I feel for the suffering of it, but at the very least you LIKE the effects of it now that you're older I assume.

>>8260530
Now that I'm older it's fine and even fun at times. But smelling like pee all the time isn't. It's hard sometimes.

>>8260542
Ah, I can see how that would be an issue.

>>8260542
Still sounds sorta cute. Just gotta sprinkle your bottom with extra powder lil one.

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>>8260671
L-lil one?

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Hey, my name is Stevonknee and I'm (in my heart) nine years old ^-^. Does anybody want to play hide and seek with me? :3

>>8260713
HECK yea

Okay I took my plunge into the kiddie pool and ordered some diaps >~<

(tfw posted in the wrong thread initially oh god longest minute of my life *sweats*)

>>8261150
Awesome! What kind did you get?

>>8259501
>i really wanna be a little but i dont see it happening really i dont know how to meet someone into it
You don't have to! :3 My current bf didn't even know about it when I met him, but I've slowly eased him into it. It's not always easy and I don't always get 100% of the attention I need, but... hey, it's better than nothing right? ^__^

>>8259997
I dunno how or why exactly, but yes >__> started happening around the time I started HRT and also started wearing diapers at night all the time >__<; I don't aaaaaaalways have accidents though, and I guess I don't really mind, except when I have to stay somewhere else (which I've mostly avoided for the past year) ^^;;

>>8260162
>Seems to be fairly common for transgirls as their bladder muscles weaken
Oh, I guess maybe that explains then >___>;;

>>8261150
Yay, congrats! I'm curious what you bought as well :3

>>8260504
I would literally check your diaper and change you when you needed it. Because that's cute and tiny tots are cute and you're cute

contact info? >:3

>>8261538
>I would literally check your diaper
Not the anon you replied to but I love how passionate you are about this!

>>8261673
Thank you, darling. I enjoy a lot of things but the underlying and inescapable fact is that I'm a huge sweetheart and want to pour affection on someone who makes it worth it. Certain things just trigger my desires faster.

>>8261711
Yeah, I really like the vibes you're giving off, like you'd take very good care of me very lovingly.
That really appeals to me because I think I mentioned somewhere in this thread that I have some trouble taking care of myself.
I realized this morning that I was more comfortable with neglecting myself before I started hormones. Maybe because I was depressed, or I had a stronger sense of pride? Either way, now I just want to make sure things like hygiene and nutrition are well managed, and I'm more comfortable with the fact that I'm better off with a little extra help with those things.

>>8261843
Hey, I'm better at taking care of someone else than I am with myself too. Kinda? I mean in some ways. I'm plenty clean and tidy, I'm just also a bum sometimes. Having someone to share life with makes it all more appealing. Whether or not they're a teeny little bundle of joy and padding. I've never wanted anything more than that, and then to be able to share life through that prism.

>>8261856
Yeah, I get that. I like to help other people (and I can even be good at it!) even though I feel less self-reliant than the average adult.
You just seem really sweet. I would let you take care of me and I think you'd do a heckin good job :)))

>>8261877
I'll be honest, I don't NEED diapers in my life or anything. I don't need much. I'm relatively undemanding. My level of affection is really surprisingly rare, though. It doesn't feel like it should be rare, like people have it in them but just don't let it out. And yet it seems like it is that rare. But this particular context attracts people like me, and that's what I love most about it. I appreciate the crinkles and the joyful innocence, but it's just a yummy flavor on top of what really counts.

Want to chat? I do. Leave me something if you do, okay?

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>>8261877
>I think you'd do a heckin good job

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>>8261917
I was thinking of this Paul Blart edit that never stopped amusing me

>>8261673
same, I love it ^__^ it's super adorable :3 although for me it was the phrase
>tiny tots are cute
that really sealed it for me :3

>>8261960
Glad you appreciate it. I hope you feel appropriately smol and adorbs in your life, sweetheart.

>>8262031
>I hope you feel appropriately smol and adorbs in your life, sweetheart.
Not enough >___>; I wish I could get more love and attention >___<; but as i said in the previous thread, daddy doesn't really always know how to deal with it and stuff so yeah .___.

>>8262048
Could be worse. Obviously. I don't really need to tell you that, just love him lots.

I'm jealous of him :P

>>8262103
>Could be worse. Obviously. I don't really need to tell you that, just love him lots.
*nods* I know :3 I do my best! ^___^

>I'm jealous of him :P
I'll let him know *giggle* :3

BORN TO CRY
WORLD IS A HUG
I am trash pants
410,757,864,530 used diapers

>>8262508
Well I meant jealous since I don't have anyone's hand to hold and nose to nibble but yeah :3

>>8261538
My kik is Spherical_Autumn

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>>8261328
>>8261353
pic related I thought they looked cute, just got samples because I'm just trying things

>>8263096
Just a reccomendation, these have been the best ones I've used! Hard-ish to hide though. Easy to hide under winter clothes though!

>>8263149
http://www.crinklz.com/
Ah, forgot to press ctrl+v.

>>8263051
Any interest in talking to another little?
>>8263096
Oh I love Bellissimos! Those are some of my all time favorites

>>8263030
aahw :3 maybe some day though ^__^

>>8263096
Belissimos are awesome <3 I love them ^__^

>>8263149
>>8263153
Not as thick as they used to be though >__> definitely thinner than the belissimo, safari, ABU space and such ^^; still really nice. it fits perfectly and I got a Crinklz t-shirt with one order so I'm not complaining :3c

>>8263168
Really? :O Huh

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>>8263181
>Really? :O Huh
I'm assuming you mean about the crinklz? ^^; I'd take a picture but I don't wanna break open my last pack of the old style ones just yet >__> I wanna keep it for a little while longer, else i'd take a pic to compare the two ^^;

There's more per pack now and the packs are the same size though, so that already gives bit of an idea, I guess.

Top one is the old style, bottom new.. and opened, so maybe not a super fair pic, but enough so you can see some design changes and more diapers per pack... maybe I can take another pic when I place an order again if these threads are still alive by then ^^;;

>>8263096
I loooove Bellisimos. They're been the diaper I've used the most. I've tried tears footprint and they were really fun. Bloat up a whole to. I bet you'll look like such a cutie in those!

>>8263161
So long as we can switch

>>8259807
>>8256629
>>8253191
>>8249199
>>8247306
I'm the anon who went through the Christmas episode with my family, this is my first post in this thread and I just want to thank you all for turning a very private, horrible moment of mine into a public shit-flinging contest that I wasn't even a part of.

>>8263776
lol, you made it public by posting about it. So... you're welcome?

Anyways, it could have been way worse. Your family laughed it off - get the fuck over it.

>>8263161
>>8263168
>>8263338
I guess I made a good choice then I hope I enjoy it ^~^

>>8264426
<3

>>8264426
I hope you enjoy it too ^___^ I should order some more, my stash isn't quite how it looked in the pic I posted before >___<

>>8264400
This guy's a real Cameron

>>8264791
My name is Chad, brah.

I noticed a hole in my favorite stuffie :(((

>>8266858
Don't worry sweetheart, we'll just take them to Doc McStuffins and she'll make them all better~!

>>8264400
They didn't laugh it off though, my parents did (though I know they're concerned) and my brothers constantly give me shit over it.

>>8264400
> I'm a pruhfeshunal, I tell all my clients to get the fuck over it and it works!
Just stop dude. You're more worked up then the guy that had this shit happen to him.

hooray, diaper rash ;___; I haven't had it this bad in a while >___<;

>>8268312
Poor baby :'(
What did you do about this problem in the past?

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>>8268404
>What did you do about this problem in the past?
This stuff helps a bit ^^; but other than that I can't really do much except try not to be diapered as much (I still gotta be at night 'cause of bedwetting >__<) and change way sooner... I should've done that anyway ;____;

>>8267053
But the doctor is scary they have needles and other unfun stuff :(

are you cute /abdl/?

>>8268953
I wish I was

>>8268953
I like to think so :3

>>8268953
Some people I care about have thought so. But I don't need to try convincing everyone else here.

>>8268953
I don't think I am.

>>8268953
yes!!!!

>>8268953
Is fat and hairy cute?
>tfw it's too late to be a femboi.

>>8269597
It's never too late :3 you can at least always try shaving and maybe try to lose some weight, if you really want to ^__^ being, or at least feeling cute, comes from the inside and how you act though, but appearance does help I guess ^^;;

>>8268953
I try to be!

why are there so many emotes

get the FUCK off of my board

>>>/trash/

>>8269968
its my board now uwu

>>8269968
> my board
We learn to share in daycare (᷁‿᷇᷁)

>>8267535
It's almost as if this is 4chan, amirite? kek
Also, it's *than, you retarded faggot.

>>8267499
And? What are your choices? Seems to me like you can keep letting it bother you or shrug it off and move on. I bet your brothers continue to give you shit because they know it bothers you. If it didn't, they would stop. The sooner you realize that and move on the better it is for everyone.

>waaahhhh muh victim blaming

Find a flaw in my logic, I dare ya.

Not sure how I fit into the whole ABDL thing, just yet. I know I'm pretty casual compared to others. I'm definitely a little sub, and I have some diapers and pacifiers, but most of the persona just occurs organically, and I've never felt inclined to decide an "age" for myself or to buy most of the bells and whistles it seems a lot of hardcore folks have.

>>8270309
Cite any psychiatric paper that recommends "get the fuck over it faggot". I'll wait.

>>8270406
I don't think that's so strange... but at the same time, I see your point. That approach appeals more to me as a caregiver anyway. I don't need a bunch of pageantry, and any feeling that it's artificial isn't great. Not to say anyone else is doing it wrong. Just do what makes you comfy.

>>8270406
A lot of people have a little headspace that's very realized. I'm similar where the age a feel regressed at slides around, But regardless I'm in diapers.

>>8270568
Google the importance of practicing acceptance in literally any type of therapeutic modality, i.e., "get the fuck over it faggot." I'll wait.

>>8270611
No presence of scientific journals. Just blogs with no credentials. Maybe that's what you meant when you said you were a professional.

>>8270406
Don't worry! ^^ you're just fine. As I've said before, everyone's different and there's a whole spectrum of likes and dislikes within ABDL and related things. I used to have a set age for myself, but I figure it sorta swings about so it's not really set in stone either ^__^

You're definitely not the only one though :3 I know there's loads more people that keep it simple, and if that's what you like, that's fine.

>>8270580
>any feeling that it's artificial isn't great
I don't like any artificial feelings when I'm little either, but when I really get into that headspace, it just feels right ^^ like this is how I am and it doesn't feel artificial... though it can depend a bit on how a possible other person in the dynamic deals with it. I don't like being dragged out of littlespace, because that's when it starts feeling wrong/weird >___<

>>8270583
>I'm similar where the age a feel regressed at slides around, But regardless I'm in diapers.
I know a bunch of people like that! ^__^ they all used to have sorta specific little ages and nowadays they just slide around or have a slightly older little age, but still diapers are involved :3 I think it's fine, really. Life is too short to try and fit into something that isn't you, especially when it comes to these kind of kink/lifestyle things :3

>>8270630
lol ok buddy - no therapeutic modality talks about practicing acceptance - dialectical behavioral therapy has no session dedicated solely to it, Motivational Interviewing doesn't use it, cognitive behavioral therapists never touch on it, addiction therapists haven't been preaching it for decades - what do I know ;)

>>8270583
Same here. Being a kid in diapers is way better than being a baby.

>>8244435
How is this lgbt
Pls go

>>8270714
it's all the same degeneracy my man

tfw you know a little who doesn't have a mommy and you want to spoil her rotten and buy her colouring books and sit her in front of the tv to play and watch cartoon and tuck her in at night with a stuffed animal and sing her lullabyes and leave a cookie and a glass of warm milk on the bedside table but you're poor and live in another country

life is really cruel

>>8270765
the amount of bigs I've met online that live too far away... *sigh* >__< life isn't fair!

though I did fly over to another country once for a week and got to stay little for the whole stay, that was pretty awesome ^___^

>>8270823
I-I'm not really a big I just think it's cute, and that she deserves love and attention. I'm not really all that knowledgeable about ABDL other than the few things she's told me. I don't really understand the fetishistic part of it, but I guess I can accept it. I'm not sure how I would handle changing a diaper. I guess I'd be okay with her using it for no.1s but not no.2s. Poop is kinda disgusting and I don't really like it...

>>8270714
Read the thread, it's packed with LGBTs discussing queer self-expression and relationships.

>>8270668
Yea, what the fuck are you talking about. Therapeutic modality is not a seperate field. Its simply the physical method of treatment. Did you just Google a bunch of words and salad them together?
Because holy shit at most you took a psych 101 class and have no clue what you're saying.
And no recommended treatment details to tell someone to be grateful they're not homeless and to get the fuck over it. Even the guy it happened to as told you your advice is useless. Take a hint.

>>8270834
>I-I'm not really a big I just think it's cute, and that she deserves love and attention. I'm not really all that knowledgeable about ABDL other than the few things she's told me.
Hey, that's fine ^___^ kinda the same thing happened with me and my Daddy :3

>I'm not sure how I would handle changing a diaper.
Practice? :3 find a way together that works best ^__^

>I guess I'd be okay with her using it for no.1s but not no.2s. Poop is kinda disgusting and I don't really like it...
My daddy doesn't really like it either but he'll still sometimes change me in those situations >___>;; usually he'll tell me I have to use the potty though ^^; cleanup is a heck of a lot easier if you do it in the shower, that's for sure :3

>>8270907
I mean...

I'd love to do a lot of it, but again, we're in different countries, and I'm really poor... I'm still living with my parents (who never took care of me the way some of the people here are...) because I'm sick a lot of the time and can't afford to rent and pay for medicine at the same time...

>>8270580
Part of it I think has to do with my emotional investment in the person more than anything else. I don't particularly want to do very much for myself as a sub, so my superficial needs are pretty limited. I have my fetishes and I love it when my Dom fulfills them with me, but my ultimate goal is to please him and let him care for me all the while. Even the diapers and pacifiers tend to satiate more superficial desires in me, and they're most effectively used by my Dom than me. If I'm taking something painful or nerve-racking, the pacifier is a good symbolic gesture to let me know he's keeping an eye on me and trying to help me calm down. The diaper is useful if he wants to make me feel little and embarrassed. But all this centres around what he's doing.

>>8270583
I think my "age" is a little ambiguous, and I've never been one to pin it because I think it's unrealistic. Sometimes I can talk within my full capabilities but just a little cuter, and sometimes I stumble over my sentences and cry about it. They seem to represent me after certain levels of intensity have been reached.

>>8270639
Yeah, that's what I usually think. I guess I sometimes wonder if maybe I'm out of place because of how far some people go with it.

>>8270973
>I guess I sometimes wonder if maybe I'm out of place because of how far some people go with it.
I think those are just more noticable ^^; there's loads of people like you, they just tend to keep more to themselves ^-^;;

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>tfw trans girl mommy with no cis girl little to care for

>>8270973
>sometimes I stumble over my sentences and cry about it
That sounds like fun. Can you describe an example?
Do you ever get comforted for struggling with your words?

>>8270995
That's a perversion of the natural order. Why aren't you a little? Or cis for that matter?

>>8270995
What would you want to do for your little

>>8270973
>Sometimes I can talk within my full capabilities but just a little cuter, and sometimes I stumble over my sentences and cry about it.
>>8271001
when I'm feeling really little I can barely talk >__> but usually pointing at stuff until daddy understands it helps :3 and I've sorta invented some sign language things I can do if I want certain things (like my paci) ^___^

>>8270973
I sure hope you have someone to take care of you, because you sound like you probably deserve it. But also I'm entirely biased and live to give attention.

>>8271027
There is a sign language for babies that are old enough to communicate but not to speak.
You pat your hips to ask for a diaper change, for example

>>8271001
Usually after really intense play, especially anything with sustained pain, I will be far enough in my subspace that trying to put my thoughts into words winds up being too much work, and so if my Dom is asking me to clarify something, I'll still try because I want to please him, but then it won't work and I'll get upset. He always comforts me about it and tells me to talk when I'm ready. He's very sweet about it.

>>8271032
He's very good about giving me snuggles and needed aftercare and attention during the session. I'm a pretty fragile sub and he seems to thrive on being able to comfort me like that, so it's a pretty complimentary dynamic.

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>>8271019
that depends on what my little would want
i really like saying sweet things in a gentile voice over voice chat, helping her sleep, singing lullabies, letting her little self come out as much as she wants around me, just making her feel as safe and loved as i can
>>8271003
just because im not

What's a good gift for a little? she has lots of stuffies, but I think I want to get her something cute to wear around the house? or maybe one of those hot water bottles that's inside a stuffy?

>>8271125
Clothes would be good as long as you can be reasonably sure they'd fit.
The water bottle stuffy sounds good too.
But generally speaking, it's important to know what kinds of characters, play styles, routines, etc. a little likes to give them a good gift.

>>8271047
>You pat your hips to ask for a diaper change, for example
If I ever have a mommy or daddy I'm going to do this for sure.

>>8271203
Same. I think this is a really cute thing to do. Especially if mommy or daddy question what I need a little, making me wiggle about crinkling before patting again.

>>8271177
Hmmmm

Honestly, most of what we do is cuddle and play with jigsaw puzzles, or boardgames, watch childrens cartoons, and I make her meals I used to eat when I was a little kid. She enjoys napping with her stuffies, but we're pretty passive otherwise...

>>8271220
Coloring books?

>>8271220
That's plenty to work with. You could get her a new jigsaw puzzle, maybe of a cartoon she likes. A new blanket or pillow for naptime?

>>8271236
Hmmm, maybe, but I think those would be better as just a "let's have playtime together" surprise

>>8271250
>A new blanket or pillow for naptime?
This is actually a really good idea! thanks!

>>8244435
Why is this diaper fetish thread on LGBT?

>>8271374
Why does it bother you?

>>8270887
When did I say it was a separate field? You're clearly not understanding anything I'm talking about. If you honestly don't understand anything I said in that sentence, it looks like you missed even that "psych 101" class.

By the way - plenty of evidence based practices (aka therapeutic modalities) have published studies on acceptance specifically - (for instance, psychological studies have been done on the use of acceptance in DBT, the modality, specifically). You clearly didn't Google hard enough.

And no, the other anon isn't just supposed to just "do it." If he has anything less than shit for brains and a true desire to get better, he'll look into what I'm talking about and either read up on it or talk to a qualified therapist in his area about it.

What do you think I'm REALLY doing here? You think I have the time or ability to effectively counsel someone in a 4chan thread? Why would I even attempt that? First of all, I DON'T work for free, and second, it wouldn't be effective. I'm being a dick for two reasons - one, it's 4chan and it's entertaining to me to tell people how I really feel after a long day of being patient and empathetic, and two, to grab enough attention in the hopes that he will look into what I'm talking about at the very least.

The fact that I have to spell all this out for you proves once again how daft you truly are.

Now stfu, faggot and kys :p

>>8271374
Because gay men and trannies disproportionally make up the demographics of this fetish and we like to discuss it.

What's the issue?

>>8271443
> look I googled a bunch of terms I misused, but still can't cite a single reference that backs up my claim

> By the way - plenty of evidence based practices (aka therapeutic modalities)
That's still not what that term means. Just stop. This is just embarassing.

> If he has anything less than shit for brains and a true desire to get better,
>you're just not trying to feel better
Further demonstrating you have no clue what you're talking about.

> You think I have the time or ability to effectively counsel someone in a 4chan thread
Evidently not. Still no citation that "be fucking grateful and get the fuck over it" is supported by any method of treatment.

>>8271374
I almost want to suggest is there's a third thread we put something in the OP about how we're LGBTs discussing queer lifestyles and relationships, but I worry it would just invite more debate about whether this topic should even be allowed here

>>8271499
It's all been one off knee jerk reactions that leave immediately. Keep it low key for now.

>>8271520
Yeah, I think you're right

>>8271495
Last sentence once again demonstrates you have no reading comprehension whatsoever, as I already addressed that.

Also:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Modality
"Modality (therapy), a method of therapeutic approach"

Used in my example to define DBT - a modality, which also happens to be an evidence based practice, or EBP:

"Evidence-based practice in psychology (EBPP) is the integration of the best available research with clinical expertise in the context of patient characteristics, culture, and preferences."

Understand now? All EBP's are therapeutic modalities, but not all therapeutic modalities are EBP's. The fact that DBT is an EBP is essential in my example, because "radical acceptance" is a huge part of this modality which has been thoroughly studied and proven effective.

kys faggot :p

I had this fetish for as long as I could remember but it wasn't til my very early 20s that I figured that I enjoyed it more with another guy acting as sub rather than myself
I think I just have some very odd paternal instincts kick in when I see a guy acting as a little, it's just... cute
I'm not very into the whole lifestyle aspect of it but as something we can do for fun sometimes or just casually? It's amazing

>>8271782
>I had this fetish for as long as I could remember but it wasn't til my very early 20s that I figured that I enjoyed it more with another guy acting as sub rather than myself
>I think I just have some very odd paternal instincts kick in when I see a guy acting as a little, it's just... cute

This is totally me. I love wearing and occasionally being little, but I'm not comfortable with a caregiver or daddy over me. On the other hand, I love being a daddy for an abdl boy.

>>8271720
Oh look, you can use wikipedia further showing how you've been completely misusing the term.
Still no citation on "be grateful, fucking get over it". Probably because the school of hard knocks is not a medically recognized facility.
You're clown shoes, it's nothing about doing it for free. You're pretty obvious an 'internet expert' who's not only in way over his head getting called out on down right shitty advice, but immensely butthurt and throwing a fit in a diaper thread on 4chan.

Get your shit together Chad.

>>8271782
That's my ideal relationship. I don't want to do it 24/7, I still enjoy doing grown up things. But I wanna let go of the wheel in my brain, let myself be silly and little, and of course enjoy every aspect of diapers I can.
If it were affordable/permissible wearing nearly all the time would be the main thing I'd like to do. I've been lucky enough to go through short few month stints of wearing nearly all the time and the happiness they bring really don't wear off.

>>8271866
>Oh look, you can use wikipedia further showing how you've been completely misusing the term.

Oh look, you can accuse me of "misusing" the term without providing the "actual" definition, since you're just pulling shit out of your ass at this point. How ironic ;)

Eat my asshole, Caitlyn

>>8271878
That's the one I currently have with my little/bf, and I love it :)

>>8271884
So you got that citation? No? Hm. Funny that.

>>8271878
Sounds like you and I pretty much want the same thing.

>>8271938
This has become a complete circular argument, with you repeating a strawman. I've already explained that the concept of acceptance has been thoroughly studied in therapy, and that me being a dick and telling someone to "get over it" was a combination of me being a dick for my own entertainment as well as a way to potentially get the individual to look into the concept of acceptance in the first place.

Never once did I state that "get the fuck over it, faggot" was an evidence based therapeutic "manuever" or whatever you want to call it. That's your strawman interpretation. Acceptance, however, is evidence based:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/get-out-your-mind/201103/mindfulness-and-acceptance-in-evidence-based-psychotherapy

That's literally the first thing that pops up on Google, you dumb, lazy fuck.

So you got that alternative definition of therapeutic modality and evidence based practice? No? Hm. Funny that.

>>8271938
>>8272079

Oh and here's a ling to the radical accpetance concept of diaectical behavoioral therapy I wqas talking about.

http://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/radical_acceptance_part_1.html

And if you still question the "scientific evidcence" behind it, here's a link to DBT as listed on the National Registry of Evidence Based Practices from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration:

http://legacy.nreppadmin.net/ViewIntervention.aspx?id=36

And another for one of several acceptance based EBP's:

http://legacy.nreppadmin.net/ViewIntervention.aspx?id=366

Anything else you'd like to know, sweetums?

>>8272079
You haven't explained shit. You misused the term, backpedalled never reconciling your original usage. Tried to reference dialectical behavior therapy which runs entirely counter to your "be grateful, get the fuck over it, you're just not trying to feel better" statements and hilariously counter to when you bitched about safe spaces. And have continued to shit up the thread claiming your an expert while doing everything in your power to show the thread how little you know what you're talking about.

> Never once did I state that "get the fuck over it, faggot"
Really now?
>>8264400
> Anyways, it could have been way worse. Your family laughed it off - get the fuck over it.
> get the fuck over it

And oh look a magazine and an actual citation... which completely disagree with your approach thus far. Thanks for demonstrating your vast knowledge of google once again. Thanks for proving you didn't even bother to read your own links. Go the fuck back to /aco/ or /d/.

>>8272079
>>8272125
>I--I'm n--n-n-nuh gunna waste mah tiiiiime. I'm not getting paid. So let me keep wasting my time spamming a bunch of links that don't back up what I've been saying

You're such a Cameron, Chad. Stop repeating what your therapist says, it's meant for you. You're not fit to be giving others advice.

>>8272158
lol you silly little bitch, I never once claimed I was an "expert" - there ya go strawmanning again.

> Never once did I state that "get the fuck over it, faggot"
>Really now?

Do you even believe in your own bullshit at this point? Did you intentionally cut off the rest of my statement hoping no one would notice or are you legitemately retarded? Here - I'll post the whole thing:

>Never once did I state that "get the fuck over it, faggot" was an evidence based therapeutic "manuever"

The second part kinda changes things and makes your "hurr durr really now?" look kinda pathetic.

Honestly, I'm just happy you're actually reading the links, which is proving your original statement that started this whole conversation completely wrong, which was that "being grateful that things weren't worse is a BAD way of looking at life" as demonstrated in the post below.

>>8253191
>>8256629

Because, clearly, gratitude and acceptance are evidence based in providing good results - which is what accepting a situation and finding gratitude that it wasn't as bad as it could have been is all about.

I win ;)

>>8272203
Mhmm ;)
>>8272225

Fucking hell, guys. This is an ABDL thread. Not an arguing about psychology thread.

>>8272274
The tranny started it, as usual :p

>>8272225
> lol you silly little bitch, I never once claimed I was an "expert" - there ya go strawmanning again.
Seriously... do you not realize this is the same thread?
>>8259807
>I would know a thing or two about this - I do it professionally.
You practice professionally something you're not an expert in? Right there Chad.

> Do you even believe in your own bullshit at this point? Did you intentionally cut off the rest of my statement hoping no one would notice or are you legitemately retarded? Here - I'll post the whole thing:
The post is literally linked... nothing is cut off. You claimed to have never once said get the fuck over it, and you literally said get the fuck over it. Like... are you missing some pills you're supposed to be on? Again Chad... same thread. It's just a matter of scrolling up.

You've been arguing this entire time that the shit advice you've dolled out and were outright REJECTED by the person affected was part of specific therapy methods. Which you linked trying to justify it. Which you're STILL desperately scrambling and embarrassing yourself to try and justify. Then linked things that completely ran counter to everything you've done in this thread so far with your glorious shitfit implosion.

Leave the therapy to your therapist Chad. It's pretty obvious you don't have any education in it. It's just getting more and more cringe worthy the deeper you dig this hole over a guy that's already rejected your advice.

>>8272274
THANK YOU

>>8272274
I know, right? Seriously, shut the fuck up. Anon who got outted doesn't want your advice. We don't want your advice. You're doing this to stroke your own insecure ego, and shitting up the thread. Just stop.

>>8272298
>You practice professionally something you're not an expert in? Right there Chad.

Being a professional =/= being an expert. In my opinion, no one can be an "expert"' in therapy or psychology - it's not an exact science.

>You claimed to have never once said get the fuck over it, and you literally said get the fuck over it.

Incorrect. I claimed I never once said "get the fuck over it" was an evidence based therapeutic intervention. Which I didn't. Reading comprehension?

>It's just getting more and more cringe worthy the deeper you dig this hole over a guy that's already rejected your advice.

You're equally contributing to the argument, which makes you just as much a part of the cringe. Welcome to my nightmare ;)

Look - the bottom line is that gratitude and acceptance can make a huge, positive psychological impact in one's life. I'll give you an example:

As frustrating as this argument is, I accept the fact that you don't know what you're talking about, and I'm very grateful that I'm just a regular diaperfag rather than a mentally ill tranny who got beaten for wearing dresses, is generally despised by a majority of the worlds population, and is statistically more likely to commit suicide than I ever will be. Focusing on this genuinely does make me feel better :)

>>8272352
He's still going. Can anyone believe he's STILL going?

>>8272371
Come on Caitlyn - I'd stop if you just ignored me! Don't you know better?

>>8272352
>In my opinion, no one can be an "expert"' in therapy or psychology
Ray Blanchard.

>>8272382
Touche - consider my statement withdrawn ;)

>>8272352
Not even a tranny Chad. Funny how you've completely ran away from "the advice I'm giving is medically based and scientifically backed" to "lawl is forchong, i don't do it unless i get payd. But was all professional, cept when I takesy backsies".

Seriously... the dude has already told you your advice was shit. And you're still shitposting in the thread because you're butthurt no one took your advice seriously.

You've really shown how healthy you are with your absolute tantrum on a diaperfag thread.

>>8272378
Who's Caitlyn? Just seriously, stop. You're the problem. Stop blaming everyone else for the shit you started by shitting all over

New thread theme. No more armchair psychology.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UyShZCLOfDU

Favorite diaper brand?

>>8272397
>Not even a tranny Chad.

AGP - my apologies.

>the advice I'm giving is medically based and scientifically backed

My statements on gratitude and acceptance are indeed backed by research. My roundabout way of pointing that out ITT is me having fun ;)

>Seriously... the dude has already told you your advice was shit. And you're still shitposting in the thread because you're butthurt no one took your advice seriously.

You assume too much - I'm shitposting because I genuinely find it amusing, while at the same time dropping a few bits of links and actual advice that potentially could help people if they looked into it. Whether or not they do I have no control over - but I accept that ;)

>You've really shown how healthy you are with your absolute tantrum on a diaperfag thread.

Thank you! I try ;)

>>8272415
> My statements on gratitude and acceptance are indeed backed by research
>citation needed
Nothing you've posted has agreed with being grateful things weren't worse.

>>8272411
Bambino Bellissimos and ABU Space/Little Pawz! In terms of medical diapers, I really like comficare. I like M4's a lot too - probably because so many abdls wear them that I've fetishized their design. I like them more as stuffers though. Bulk is bae.

>>8272424
Practicing gratitude is practicing gratitude, Caitlyn. It doesn't matter what you're grateful for as long as you allow yourself to feel gratitude, thus improving your mood and affect.

>>8272428
I've tried comficare! I want to get more just because the tape guides had actually helped me get a better hit on all my diapers.

>>8272436
>pivots claim
> still no citation for original statement of being grateful a bad situation wasn't much worse. Placing the blame on the victim for not feeling god.
Nope, you're still wrong.

>>8272437
The tape guides are great! I like them because of their capacity and shell - the plastic is super crinkly and has a great feel to it.

>>8272411
I like most of Bambino's and ABU's diapers. In particular, I like the ABUs that have one tape per side.

>>8272444
Yeah, the plastic is the first diaper that felt "right". If that makes sense. It felt and sounded like the plastic used in older baby style diapers.

>>8272441
kek - whatever you say, hon. I've already explained that studies show that the practicing gratitude improves mood and affect. I'll say it again - practicing gratitude improves mood and affect. That's the end of that sentence. It doesn't matter what the gratitude is specifically geared towards.

Don't get upset with me because you don't know how to interpret a psychological study.

>>8272449
>. In particular, I like the ABUs that have one tape per side.

Booo! One taped diapers never fit me right. Can't get them snug enough.

>Yeah, the plastic is the first diaper that felt "right". If that makes sense. It felt and sounded like the plastic used in older baby style diapers.

Exactly! The tactile aspect of the diaper is a huge part of it for me. I've been hearing rumors that eventually all disposable diapers will have that cloth-like outer shell for environmental reasons. If this happens I'll probably cry :(

>>8272455
>all this backpedaling
>links still do not back up anything in your statement about feeling grateful a bad situation wasn't worse. Also doesn't support random aimless gratitude for gratitude sake to cover up emotions and trauma
Nope, still haven't backed up your shitty rejected advice. Now you're just digging your hole even further away from your rushed attempt to google the terms you were trying to throw around.

Still wrong. Still rejected Chad. Make sure to tell your therapist how that makes you feel.

>>8272463
Same. I can never get single tapes to feel snug enough.
Off the shelf diapers might all switch to cloth. But there will be a specialty market for ABDL diapers for as long as the kink grows. It'll be interesting to see if there's a decline in plastic backed ABDL diapers in favour of cloth backed. But I think even the youngins raised in cloth backed still prefer crinkles.

>>8272470
>links still do not back up anything in your statement about feeling grateful a bad situation wasn't worse.

I literally don't know how else to explain this to you. I've addressed this three times now. Refer to my other posts.

>Also doesn't support random aimless gratitude for gratitude sake to cover up emotions and trauma

Oh my lord - again - practicing gratitude improves mood and affect. This is backed by research. No one said anything about "covering up emotions" or trauma. There are other therapeutic interventions for that. If you'd like, I can refer you to a list.

Now accept the fact that shitty things happen, be grateful they weren't worse, and get the fuck over it ;)

>>8272484
>But there will be a specialty market for ABDL diapers for as long as the kink grows.

I actually do think that this is plausible. The only problem I see is that all abdl companies outsorce the production of their diapers to major manufacturers, usually based in China, because the actual machines that make the diapers are hundreds of thousands of dollars to own and maintain. If the outsourced companies are forced to switch their shells, abdl companies may have no choice.

My hope is that there will be enough money in the abdl market to prevent that. With the kink growing, that's definitely possible.

And yes - I have young abdl friends who were raised in cloth and almost all of them prefer plastic. So there is hope!

>>8272488
Haven't explained anything. Only demonstrated your advice isn't in line with anything you misquoted.

> Oh my lord - again - practicing gratitude improves mood and affect. This is backed by research. No one said anything about "covering up emotions" or trauma. There are other therapeutic interventions for that. If you'd like, I can refer you to a list.
Literally said it to get the fuck over it. Then backpedaled once you were backed into a corner about how wrong you were, and how poorly read you were.

Still wrong. Still rejected. Still hilariously trying to save face on a diaperfag thread. Just because you see a therapist, doesn't qualify you as one.

>>8272463
>One taped diapers never fit me right. Can't get them snug enough.

They do fit a bit looser, but it's never been much of a hindrance for me. The four tape ones often end up too tight. Of course, I'm bad at getting most diapers to fit on me right.

>I've been hearing rumors that eventually all disposable diapers will have that cloth-like outer shell for environmental reasons. If this happens I'll probably cry :(

I doubt that'll happen. The cloth backed ones are actually made of plastic that just feels like cloth. Also, it seems like even non-ABDL diaper wearers tend to think plastic backed is better.

>>8272503
I'm curious who's partnered with who. Bambinos were based on the secure xplus. But I don't think ABU or Tykables are based on existing medical diapers.
I don't understand the entire manufacturing process, and mostly want to reassure myself that crinkles will last long after me.

>>8272506
kek
>>8272371
>He's still going. Can anyone believe he's STILL going?

lol, anyways, the thread is here and can easily be viewed in it's entirety. My links are available for anyone to read, and anyone can google acceptance and gratitude to see if it can help them with whatever they're struggling with. If you're so sure that I'm completely wrong, why are you working so hard to drive that point home?

Can't you just accept that you're an idiot and be grateful that you're anonymous? :p

>>8272515
> why are you still arguing I'm wrong when I'm wrong. Stop it!
Anyone who reads your links will see that your advice was completely outside their parameters, and generally just terrible advice to give to someone. No matter how desperately you try to rewrite past posts like "never said get the fuck over it" and "never said I was an expert".

You're wrong. You're hilariously butthurt over being wrong. And still refuse to accept your advice got rejected so you continue to throw your tantrum.

>>8272513
>But I don't think ABU or Tykables are based on existing medical diapers.

They have to be - I personally know Casey and several people associated with him, and while they're doing great, there's no way they actually own a diaper production facility. Perhaps they "designed" their own shell remotely, but I'm sure the production is still outsourced.

>>8272510
You do you boo! Getting diapees to fit right does indeed take practice.

I hope plastic survives to some extent. But I still worry that if they begin manufacturing plastic diapers solely for abdl brands, prices would skyrocket. But you never know.

So you two can at least agree to not carry this bullshit into the next thread, right?

>>8272533
I don't think they own the facility itself. Assumable it's custom orders from a manufacturer with that capability. Then it just comes down to placing orders gigantic enough to take advantage of economies of scale making resale profitable. But the tykable isn't like any other diaper I've encountered, size, style, and feature wise.

>>8272526
>Anyone who reads your links will see that your advice was completely outside their parameters, and generally just terrible advice to give to someone.

You're right - it's terrible to advocate for gratitude and acceptance - evidence based interventions which are proven effective. I'm a horrible person :(

>No matter how desperately you try to rewrite past posts like "never said get the fuck over it" and "never said I was an expert".

Yeah yeah yeah - get the fuck over it.

>You're wrong. You're hilariously butthurt over being wrong. And still refuse to accept your advice got rejected so you continue to throw your tantrum.

YOU'RE WRONG!! YOU'RE BUTTHURT!! ADVICE REJECTED!!! WRONG WRONG WRONG!!! STOP THROWING A TANTRUM!!!

You're cute :3

>>8272548
>desperately trying to rewrite history again
It's been days, and you're still mad. Or are you going to try and backpedal on that too?

>>8272547
>But the tykable isn't like any other diaper I've encountered, size, style, and feature wise.

Not to keep namedropping, but I know Todaler too, and I can guarantee you 100% he does not own the manufacturing facility. That being said, I don't know who he outsources to.

>>8272560
>It's been days, and you're still mad. Or are you going to try and backpedal on that too?

Depends on what you mean by "backpedal." I can honestly state that I'm not mad at all right now - I was annoyed and irritated at certain points throughout our discussion, but never mad. Having high emotional granularity is the mark of a competent professional such as myself ;)

>>8272574
> but never mad.
>>8260289
> Yes, I was mad.
Can't keep even the most basic things straight, can ya Chad?

>>8272574
If you're not mad can you prove it and please just quit this

>>8272564
Oh yeah. I know none of them own the facilities. But I think it's a bit more complicated now then what bambino did with secure in the beginning. I'm just not exactly sure how. But enough that I'm pretty sure even if the rest of the medical brands switched we'd still get plastic.

>>8272589
lol, you got me there! Honestly though, I was just giving you what you wanted and throwing some insults at that point. In any event, whether or not was mad at some point, I'm not mad now - if that answers your original question, Caitlyn.

>>8272591
Two things to that:

One, how would you expect me to "prove it?" And two, why is it on me to end this? I already stated some time ago that if Caitlyn would just ignore me I would have stopped a long time ago. She doesn't understand the rules ;)

>>8272609
Come to think of it, I've never asked Tod about this myself. I'll be seeing him in a coupe of weeks, so I'd be interested in asking him then and reporting back.

>>8272623
> shifting blame on to others
> frequently attempting to rewrite the past when its still documented
> tries to shift blame on to victims for not feeling good about their shitty situation
Man... just how messed up in the head are you Chad? I think I was dead on to begin with. You really have mistaken your own therapy sessions as being an expert yourself.

>>8272623
You ARE the one that started it by giving unsolicited advice to someone who very clearly a long time ago said it was unwelcome and not helpful.

>>8272665
Wow Caitlyn, you're really invested here, aren't ya? I must have struck a nerve somewhere along the line. I bet I remind you of your father. Don't lie - you know I'm right ;)

Sorry if I triggered or retraumatized you - but look at this as a way to practice your coping skills. Everything can be reframed as a learning experience pumpkin :)

>>8272679
Meh - that's a matter of interpretation. Our argument began long before the original poster responded to that advice because you decided to chime in and critique it.

In any event, regardless of who started it, you're just as much complicit in continuing it as I am.

But let's not play the "blame game" here - it's not productive :p

>>8272691
> projecting this hard
Kind of sad Chad. You're the one that got indignant and proclaimed themselves an internet professional... while failing at every opportunity and only linking things that only went on to prove how worthless and destructive your advice was. No matter how desperate you are to backtrack it.

>>8272700
> you're just as much complicit in continuing it as I am.
Well they have the blaming everyone but yourself right. Fix your own issues before trying to fix others. You are the main person shitting up the thread since the beginning. Just accept that your advice is not welcome, and evidently incredibly uneducated.

>>8272718
You clearly didn't read the links, little lady ;) Practicing gratitude and acceptance is the opposite of destructive.

>>8272732
>You are the main person shitting up the thread since the beginning.

I respectfully disagree - for one, it takes two to tango. But also, I've been the only one posting any relevant advice and links to proven effective treatements. The other side has contributed no solutions whatsoever - only calling mine "worthless," which evidence disagrees with.

If posting relevant, evidence based interventions for a variety of issues is "shitting up a thread," then consider me guilty as charged ;)

Anyways, I'm off to bed. But I will definitely be back to continue this discussion tomorrow provided the thread doesn't begin autosaging.

In closing for tonight, be grateful that I'm going to bed - after all, things could be worse ;)

>>8272770
>look look I'm desperately trying to backpedal on what I originally said
Seriously Chad, take a hint. Everyone is telling YOU to stfu. No one cares how many hours of therapy you've been through. You're pretty shit at giving advice. Just listen to your therapist, and stop trying to play pretend on the internet.

Morning! ^__^ wow, what a lot of replies! :3

>>8271125
>What's a good gift for a little?
Every little is different! :3 You're usually better off asking them, though I think it's really cute you're asking here ^___^

>>8271203
>If I ever have a mommy or daddy I'm going to do this for sure.
If I really need/want a change when I'm in littlespace I usually just grab a diaper myself and bring it to daddy >__> that usually gets the hint across and it feels really cute ^-^

>>8271215
>Same. I think this is a really cute thing to do. Especially if mommy or daddy question what I need a little, making me wiggle about crinkling before patting again.
In general I like daddy questioning what I want ^^; the words "use your words, sweetie" are absolutely magical as well :3 makes me melt ^-^

>>8271374
>Why is this diaper fetish thread on LGBT?
It's also about non-diaper, non-fetish related things. In fact, it's mostly been about that.

>>8272411
>Favorite diaper brand?
I don't have a single favorite, but some of mine are ABU space, SDKs, cushies, safari and crinklz :3

>>8272428
Bambino Bellissimos and ABU Space/Little Pawz!
Oh yeah, Bellissimos are super awesome as well, can't belive I forgot about those >__< I don't like little pawz much... the design is almost perfect, but I don't like how the sides look like picnick blankets >__>;

>I like M4's a lot too - probably because so many abdls wear them that I've fetishized their design.
I used to wear them a lot (or well, mostly S4s), but nah. They're not that cheap, and if I spend big money on diapers, I want them to be cute :3
If I'm getting boring ones, it's usually Tena.

>I like them more as stuffers though. Bulk is bae.
I haven't doubled up in soooo long >__> maybe I should again some day :3

>>8272449
>In particular, I like the ABUs that have one tape per side.
Something about the single tape ones that makes it feel cuter and more little :3

>>8272463
>Booo! One taped diapers never fit me right. Can't get them snug enough.
Practice! and they don't have to be super snug :3 I kinda like it when they're not completely snug, it feels cute when they start sagging :3

>>8272463
>I've been hearing rumors that eventually all disposable diapers will have that cloth-like outer shell for environmental reasons. If this happens I'll probably cry :(
They already tried doing this and went back on it for some models. The cloth backed ones still have plastic in it! it's not *that* much better. >___> the main argument for them was that they breathe better but there's been complaints about that too, so... I wouldn't worry too much! ^^;;

>>8272484
>Off the shelf diapers might all switch to cloth. But there will be a specialty market for ABDL diapers for as long as the kink grows.
Hopefully that will always stay. As long as someone wants to put the money/effort in, I guess ^__^;

>It'll be interesting to see if there's a decline in plastic backed ABDL diapers in favour of cloth backed. But I think even the youngins raised in cloth backed still prefer crinkles.
I'm pretty sure I was raised in plasticy ones, but also oldschool cloth diapers. When I finally got the nerve to buy my first diapers, those were baby ones >__> cloth backed. I sorta started to like them so when I got my first S4s, I got them cloth backed. ^^; also partially stealth reasons, I guess >__<; but later on I of course fell in love with the crinkly ones ^__^

>>8272533
>They have to be - I personally know Casey and several people associated with him, and while they're doing great, there's no way they actually own a diaper production facility. Perhaps they "designed" their own shell remotely, but I'm sure the production is still outsourced.
Can't they just have their own design but made by an existing facility, without it being based on an existing product? ^^;;

Littles, prepare to cry...
https://1d4chan.org/wiki/Stuffed_Tarrasque

>>8272922
>Something about the single tape ones that makes it feel cuter and more little :3

Even though I'm more on the DL side of the spectrum, that's partly why I like them. I also feel that single tape ones are the most iconic diapers. I hope that ABU makes an all white version of their single tape diapers someday.

Let's see if we're on autosage yet

>>8275343
Pretty sure it is? The post count was italicized.

Get a new one started pls

>>8275362
Would it be better to wait til this one gets bumped off?

>>8275401
We can wait a little while longer :3 I'm going to bed in a few hours so I can take care of making a new thread before then ^__^

>>8275401
That's what I would do