Non-binary/Genderqueer

OP here, I'll start us off
> does your gender change or fluctuate?
Not that much. It's been different at different points in my life, but right now I feel neutral all the time
> what are your pronouns
They/them. if that's too much to ask then people can just call me by my name.
> is your presentation more male or female?
More female right now. I've done more male in the past though.
> what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?
Mostly i feel like they talk about it behind my back. I would rather they just ask me. I'm not going to be offended as long as they're not intentionally an asshole.

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>does your gender change or fluctuate?
Yea. I'm a straight guy that really wants to be a lesbian girl sometimes. I like women so much i want to become one.
>what are your pronouns
He/Him but I frequently refer to myself as a girl (in my language we have masculine and feminine verb conjugations when speaking in first person). Usually it's as a joke but sometimes not really
>is your presentation more male or female?
Right now I look more like a guy, but in my ideal world I'll look feminine as shit. Yet still be a guy.
>what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?
Everyone at work thinks I'm a gay dude J('_')し

All in all I'm not trans. I'd never change my gender because I think it's impossible to be an actual female instead of just a dude pretending to be one. Sorry to all trans people for this. I wholeheartedly support you, but I can't go down that path.


Also this >>7782739

>>7782751
Why don't you present more femme? If everyone already thinks your gay what do you have to lose?

>>7782763
I'm slowly starting to walk like a girl and talk like a girl, sit like a girl. And I swear it's all subconsciously and not at all forced. I do still think like a guy sometimes and I follow certain mentality patterns that guys usually have. So I don't actually feel like I'm completely trapped in the wrong body. I'm just extremely feminine. Especially emotionally. I even stopped watching straight porn. I can only get off to lesbians lately.
But I just can't muster up the courage to cut my hair the way I want it and dress with very unisex stuff.
Yeah, everyone thinks I'm gay, especially since my best mate at work is a confirmed homosexual and he's open about it with half the company too, but I don't want to give them any confirmation that I'm gay, 'specially since it's not even true.
Not sure why I care so much

>>7782677
> does your gender change or fluctuate?
not really
> what are your pronouns
he
> is your presentation more male or female?
female
> what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?
"what the fuck?"
"i'm not gay, but..."

> does your gender change or fluctuate?
I almost always feel male, very rarely do I feel female. Usually when I hook up with a woman, I feel some what feminine.
> what are your pronouns
He or they
> is your presentation more male or female?
Male
> what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?
Usually people just think I'm lesbian. Though, I never really pay attention to what others think about it.

I don't consider myself transgender because I have no desire to go on T. I don't want to grow facial hair, more body hair, etc. Bottom surgery is a no go as well. Not only is it expensive, but knowing me, something would go wrong and I'd end up with an infection or something. I would however, go for a breast reduction if not full top surgery.

>>7782677
why make a gen for people who dont exist?

I'm AMAB. All the men in my life think I'm a butch lesbian, and all the women think I'm a gay dude.
It's not bad, except nobody ever wants to fuck other than straights, which is...eh.

go back to tumblr we don't want you here

>>7782936
TRENDERS GET OUT REEEEEE

My friend told me I have the aura and personality of a man stitched onto that of a woman. Feels like a mental abomination man

Usually use she pronouns but I beg to be called a cute boy sometimes
AAP and AGP
Overall just a degenerate mess

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>>7783980
I DON'T UNDERSTAND MEDICAL RESEARCH OR WHAT IT MEANS FOR TRANS/NONBINARY PEOPLE REEEEEEEEEE

>>7782677
>> does your gender change or fluctuate?
I've thought it has in the past, but I don't really know anymore. The more I listen to it the more it sounds like nature vs socialisation.

>> what are your pronouns
She etc, am in the closet. Wishing Xe etc was remotely socially acceptable because that would be perfect but oh well

>> is your presentation more male or female?
Female, but only because unpassable body and long hair. Originally I grew hair to be a "metalhead" and not to be feminine, but it's now an insecurity thing as I live with nontransfriendly people. At a general low point in my life and don't feel able to present anywhere as masculine as I want.

>> what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?
Nothing personally bc am deep in Narnia, but the general consensus seems to be "you know that's not a thing, right?"

Just want to be cis.

>>7783980
Well aren't you just a peach? I've done plenty of research and decided going on T or having bottom surgery isn't for me, as well as discussing it with my therapist, but thanks anyway?

>>7782677
My, my! This is where speshultards gather!

Go back to your Tumblr hugbox, buttergolem.

I dont even fucking know. I thought I was a girl because I hate being a boy. Sometimes I'm okay with just being andro, but usually I really want to be perceived as female. My 2d:4d ratio is equal, I think it might mean something...

>>7782677
I don't know if this counts as actual non-binary. I do not identify as some third\mixed\arbitrary gender, although I present non conventionally. Never made a fuss about it, and I do not talk about why or what I like what I do to my body. It's just my own personal faggotry

> does your gender change or fluctuate?
no, it's always been stuck where it is.
> what are your pronouns
he
> is your presentation more male or female?
Male, but not overly masculine. I dress andro, I like accessories like rings, necklaces or bracelets, especially piercings in the face and ears. My hair is very long, I colour it sometimes. But I've never done shit like makeup or wearing skirts\feminine clothing in public.
> what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?
That I look like an underage faggot. But that is as long as I don't speak, because I do not have a fag voice, I sound like an average 20yo male.

>>7782936
> I have no desire to go on T. I don't want to grow facial hair, more body hair, etc. Bottom surgery is a no go as well.

I feel the same about all of the things you mentioned here, except I did go on T. I do not regret it. I like toying with body modifications in all forms. I didn't like facial or body hair, so I got the facial hair lasered completely as soon as it started coming in, and I've been taking DHT inhibitors (finasteride) + low dose T ever since I reached the voice I wanted to achieve. That made my body hair shrivel quite a lot, and I did not masculinize much more than 16yo-level of puberty. Getting keyhole+hysto this year.
What I'm saying is that there's means available to decide where your appearance goes, even if you wanted to try testosterone in the future.

>>7785807
*why or what I like to do with my body
Had a brain fart there

>>7782677
> does your gender change or fluctuate?
Sometimes, very rarely though
> what are your pronouns
They/Them or He/Him
> is your presentation more male or female?
Its mostly androgynous
> what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?

offline I get some confusion but mostly understanding, I've only come out to my therapist and a few of my close friends. but online i get a lot of hate, mostly saying i'm wrong and I should kill myself. but i've gotten use to it

>>7785897
I forgot to mention that I'd like to have top surgery one day

>>7785807
Sounds cute desu

>>7782677
> does your gender change or fluctuate?

No idea

> what are your pronouns

He, Him, His, etc. (I think thats all about male pronouns in English, right?)

> is your presentation more male or female?

Masculine Male. Out of Lazyness.

> what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?

Im commonly seen as a Cis Male.
Allright random /b/tard here.

Thing is: Im in the LGBT Scene for some 4,5 years now, im 22. I started out when i was 17, had my first experiences with boys before i even started with girls. (Mutual Hornyness was higher and girls were eew back then)

But thats not the point.

Ive come over because,

A: the tumblraccount i i got for lolz dosnt get fast responses like chan,

B: Ive allways said that im a Cis man and yadayadayada simply for the sake of simplicity and because i dont like to talk about myself.
So now i got some days off because of sickness and thought: hey, why not finally figure out what gender actually fits me?

I guess it will boil down to me not being that much applicable into any of the genderroles but meh.

For the lolz, to throw around some buzzwords in disscussions.


So here is the sitrep:

About 95-99% of the time, i identify as Max. The name i was given when i was born. 1-5% of the time, i identify as something else, which i recently named Jennifer.

God tier level Autism? yes, indeed. But inb4 hear my story:

I reject most parts of socially constructed gender roles, i dont want to bow down to a society that never helped me. The things i do are because i personally consider them right, not because someone told me to do them.

I (would) like to wear dresses sometimes, and i would love to switch bodys into a female body every once in a while. But i dont want to get any attention about this shit so i wont. Also, i like my beard and kinda dont want to loose it.
(Some scifi stuff where you can just transfer your brain would be pretty cool.)


Sooo... yeah. What am i?

>>7785968
you're an effeminate guy who likes traditionally girly shit, that's it

>>7786120

What is effeminate?

>>7785968
Sounds like your gender is mostly male but occasionally female. It's not that complicated, but unfortunately can suck to try and express. You could try just presenting more feminine male, but it doesn't sound like you rally want to.

>>7786168

Well i am, but despite me being one of the most masculine (and, forwhatever reason that seems to be connected) precieved as brave, person, i dont want to start some sort of stress by crossdressing.

At work, thats impossible anyways. 100% men, antisocial as fuck and we allways shit on each other.


And i have no idea about style so... how could i even put some feminine touch into my clothing?

> does your gender change or fluctuate?
constantly.

> what are your pronouns
they/them.
except there's no equivalent to that in my language. In this case I prefer she/her, but I don't care too much about it.

> is your presentation more male or female?
I have a beard.

> what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?
I don't go outside. But I'm pretty sure that everyone who knows me talks about me behind my back.

>>7782774
>still think like a guy
>follow certain mentality patterns that guys usually have
Can you explain what you mean by this?

>>7782936
5-alpha reductase inhibitors being administered alongside taking testosterone would help to stop body hair, facial hair, and male pattern baldness. Being at a lower dosage of testosterone would also help.

This thread was probably a bad idea, OP, but I'll bite.

> does your gender change or fluctuate?
My gender is nonbinary, so, technically no. If you're asking if I feel closer to one binary identity at some points and another at other points, than sure.

> what are your pronouns
I prefer they/them, but if someone calls me by something else, eh.

> is your presentation more male or female?
I don't have the money or time to present more than a poor butchy lesbian. I'd like to alternate in a dream scenario, more on the masculine side but embracing the titties, but that requires planning and money.

> what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?
Most people just assume I'm a lesbian. I don't really mind. It doesn't really matter what others think, as long as I feel comfortable in my own skin.

>"Non-binary/Genderqueer"
Faggotry in it's supreme form. Realize you're just GNC/trans or kill yourselves.

>>7782677
Please don't do this to LGBT. Just keep this shit on tumblr where all the meme genders belong.

>>7782677
>does your gender change or fluctuate?
It changes about every 3 hours to cupiosexual/bigender/genderfluid
>what are your pronouns
ze/zir
>is your presentation more male or female
It leans more to androgynous
>what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?
I get discriminated a lot, even by me fellow LGBTQ++ members. Cis usually looks at me with disgust though.

>>7787529
i was smiling as i was reading but stopped when i read the last part and realized you weren't joking.

>>7787481
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>>7783980
>>7782739

>Being triggered by other people's gender.
Here is your complimentary (You)

>>7786235
Just check out some androgynous fashion and see if you like any of it at all.

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>>7782677

>>7787989
Well, it's not their gender, it's their mental illness. There are two genders. Didn't think that was an assertion which needed to be made still.

>>7787989

>If you have an opinion you prove you are triggered

Nice try Franz Kafka

>>7789170
>There are two genders
No.

>>7789363
Maybe on tumblr, but not in the real world.

And before you try and pull the whole "other societies/ancient societies/etc. had other genders!" know that when you actually look at what those "genders" are, it's just gnc men/women or transsexuals.

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>current planet
>Not philosophizing/practicing magic/intersectionality secularly doing drugs and exploring esoteric worldviews and destroying any personal identification with a gender further than needed to interact with more traditional citizens

>>7782751

>i'm attracted to women and want to be feminine
>this makes me a "lesbian girl"

lmao men are just an embarrassment.

>>7789486
To be fair, this person is obviously just repressed.

>>7782677
> does your gender change or fluctuate?
"Gender" makes no sense to me, in my language we only have the word for "sex" (Norwegian)
> what are your pronouns
She
> is your presentation more male or female?
Female. I have had short hair most of life and is trying to build a bit more muscle mass recently, but I'm still obviously female and often wear knitted dresses and leggings since I find them comfy and nice looking on my body type.
> what kind of reactions do you typically get from others regarding your gender?
Can't quite answer that since the whole "gender" thing doesn't make sense to me.

But to elaborate a little more, I'm biologically female but have always felt slightly out of place in my body. Particularly my vagina bothers me and even now after turning 36 years of age, I still haven't been able to turn this feeling. My whole life I've wished I had a penis instead and it's affected me to the degree where I have big problems being intimate with anyone. I have less issues with having breasts (they're not very big, B-cup) and a female body in general, but wishes I was taller and fitter... at least the latter I'm trying to work on. But above all, I hate my lower regions, and phalloplasty just seems so inadequate. Tried therapy, but it's never had any desired effect. Still just feel lost and broken.

>>7789845
And just to ad: Calling my self by weird pronouns makes no sense to me, since they won't make me feel better about sexual characteristics. I'd just feel stupid. (pardon bad English)

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>/lgbt/
Where in the letters LGBT does it say nonbinary/genderqueer?
Oh wait it doesn't.

Bye.

>>7782716

>I'm not going to be offended as long as they're not intentionally an asshole.
The behavior of certain tumblrinas has convinced them that asking stupid questions is considered a "microagression" and that they just shouldn't do it.

>>7789845

Maybe you are just a trans man?

You degrence baka. You use savages tripping on mushrooms as an excuse for why there's nothing else interesting about you. By saying gender doesn't matter and that it doesn't exist just illegitimizes transgender peoples feelings. You're fake, look at me, I think I'm edgy, disgusting Weeaboos.

>>7782751
> impossible to be an actual female

I agree but by not transitioning you will also never be one. Might as well try to get as close as poosible.

>>7790149
I have no real desire to actually look 100% like a dude, with facial hair growth, deep voice, male clothing and all that jazz. I mean, I'd be absolutely fine with it if I woke up one day and was a real man, but going through all the hassle of transitioning and ending up a dickless man... I don't think I'd feel a hair better about my self.

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>>7789919
LGBT is actually short for LGBTQIA which includes queer and intersex.

The flag is a rainbow because it represents ALL colours.
Everyone is included by default.
It is not exclusive of anyone.

Stop being a cunt and take your divisive frog back to /pol/

Lmao I'm trans, that's how you people make us feel

>>7790232
LGBTQIA is long for LGBT. The retards added "QIABBQWASDQERTYUIOP" to the end because they want to feel special. There's nothing queer outside LGBT. Intersex people aren't LGBT, and I doubt they want to be considered such. Kys.

>>7790232
You missed a T and a + sign.
Or a T, a Q, an A, a P and a + sign, depending on who you ask.

But seriously, the LGBT+ is the best form. Short, and totally inclusive thanks to the + sign.

Hiroshima Nagasaki should just add the + sign to the board name.

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>>7790232
>LGBT is actually short for LGBTQIA which includes queer and intersex.
Keep your QIAAP++ nonsense and fuck off back to tumblr.
If I wanted to see your Sonic OC levels of autism I'd go to deviantart.

Fucking cisstraight people and your deranged needs to feel special.