So I've been dating a trans girl for the past 2 years.

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2016-02-12 00:01:04 Post No. 5710387
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 00:01:04 Post No. 5710387 [Report]

So I've been dating a trans girl for the past 2 years.

I met her in another city when I moved out to go to college. My parents are aware of who she is, but they have never met her. Last Christmas, I told my parents how I think she could be the one. So they urged me to bring her over after this semester is finished.

As much as I love my girlfriend, I think some people can tell she is transgender. I have a really good relationship with my family, they have been nothing but caring and supportive of everything in my life, but I'm not so sure what they would think.

I have thought about maybe telling them beforehand how she is transgender, but I also don't know how to go about it. I can almost picture my mom fainting in the middle of the living room as my dad runs over to support her body, all the while looking at me with the "how could you, after everything we have done for you" look in his eyes.

What do?

Anonymous 2016-02-12 00:07:38 Post No.5710411
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 00:07:38 Post No.5710411 [Report]

Copy paste this a few more time anon that'll solve it!

Akaka (ID: !AUJiOzf4rM) 2016-02-12 00:15:28 Post No.5710442
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Akaka (ID: !AUJiOzf4rM) 2016-02-12 00:15:28 Post No.5710442 [Report]

>>5710387
You've been dating for 2 years. Talk to your girlfriend. Does she want you telling your family that she's trans? Would she prefer to do it herself? Would she rather not tell them at all?

Go from there. Your family is probably not going to be as dramatic as you think, regardless.

Anonymous 2016-02-12 00:17:30 Post No.5710454
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 00:17:30 Post No.5710454 [Report]

Just come out anon. Being gay isn't that big of a deal these days. Its 2016. Just tell them the truth I am sure they will still accept you.

Anonymous 2016-02-12 00:28:37 Post No.5710503
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 00:28:37 Post No.5710503 [Report]

>>5710387
Post of pic of your gf so we can see if she's passable. If she's super passable, no need to say anything at all.

If she's not, then you might want to tell them before they figure it out.

Anonymous 2016-02-12 01:07:03 Post No.5710716
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 01:07:03 Post No.5710716 [Report]

>>5710387
If you're really worried then don't tell them. You'd be surprised how oblivious people can be, especially if they're not well-versed in LGBT phenomena. If they're meeting her like one time for dinner then I don't think you should bring this up and cause drama.

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