Is it possible to be gay and be attracted to the opposite sex?
I've accepted that I am gay and my family accepted that ever since I came out when I was 16. But recently there's this girl whom I can't stop thinking about. I enjoy spending time with her and want to be close with her the same way I have desired my ex boyfriend. This is the only time I have been attracted to a female but I feel it is more intense that any attraction I have felt for males.
I know I am friendzoned (gayzoned?) because she knows I'm gay and it will be awkward if all of a sudden I profess my undying love for her.
Please help /lgbt/.
I'm thinking that I may be a bisexual but my attraction for guys is slowly decreasing. I'm not really a flamboyant gay guy and I am not a bottom. However, as I don't have any experience with women, I don't think I can have her. Like I don't know what to do...
Look, with girls typically you have to be obvious about what you want. If you don't say something and act like an emo bitch when (not if) she gets with someone else, that's on you. I wouldn't start with the undying love angle, but it wouldn't hurt to indicate you're bisexual and that you like her at least.
>Look, with girls typically you have to be obvious about what you want. If you don't say something and act like an emo bitch when (not if) she gets with someone else, that's on you.
I'm afraid to lose the friendship. I don't want to take that risk.
>1 hr video
>It's much easier to get girls than guys
If that's true then how are there more heterosexual guys who can't get any as compared to gay guys? I mean my ex bf and I meet easily and there was no more courtship etc.
>that walking cane at the beginning of the video
>the guy talking about how to hold a manly conversation and how to pick up girls is a flaming fag
just....why? He's so flamboyant my monitor is aflame now just from watching the vid.
I'm the same except flipped. Attracted to girls and one guy. Not sure what to do about it desu and it's actually really fucking with me. Complicated by the fact that he's my best friend and straight. If he was gay I would've just gone for it...
cmon son step up your game you know sexuality is a social construct; I went from bi to pan to gay to pan again lmao x D face in other words sexuality isn't black and white but grey
It's possible you're either bi or becoming bi. No one really knows exactly how it works.
Probably though you're just noticing that you're really fond of a girl and hoping for more sensual feelings to follow because you could live a life as a normal straight guy.
Straight guys get the same sort of feelings for other guys (mancrush, maybe to the point of wanting to experiment) but they don't all become gay
>want to be close with her the same way I have desired my ex boyfriend. This is the only time I have been attracted to a female but I feel it is more intense that any attraction I have felt for males.
Does she make your dick hard tho?
do you feel an insatiable urge to ravage her gurlpussy?
I've felt like this a couple of times, too. Girls normally do nothing for me sexually, but there's a few who I think I've felt almost romantically attracted to over the course of my life. Like getting nervous before talking to them, wanting them to like me/wanting to hang out with them more than normal friends. A couple turned out to be lesbian or were just a bit masculine, so its whatever.
dammit! now I wish I were in the lgbt community
jesus christ you're bi you faggot
to be truly honest I used to be just like you. there was one girl I thought was really hot and always a few female pornstars I liked. but then it hit me: Even if you've only ever noticed ONE person of the opposite sex, you're still bi. just because it's only one person doesn't make you any less bi. you're either bi or you're not. I've accepted that I'm bi, and you can either accept that, or live in repression.