I get the appeal of topping puny, hairless & smooth traps/twinks, but can some of you hardcore faggots explain to me what can possibly be the appeal in topping a fat, stinky & hairy bear's hairy shithole? Just even thinking about that makes my dick soft in an instant.
Please explain how the idea of doing that isn't completely disgusting to you.
They don't stink anymore than a normal person that bathes on a daily basis so thats a pointless argument to make. I like bears because I'm more gay than bi. I'm not going to knock gays that like twinks, but seriously whats the point in saying you're gay but want to top a twink? they're so small and and hairless and small and feminine that you may as well be having sex with a girl. When you're topping a muscly or chubby bear with hair everywhere you know you're fucking a man
Bigger guys are more fun to snuggle up and watch trashy movies with while eating junk food. Also their butts are all soft and cushy, much more fun to fuck than some bony shallow-assed twink butt that is more likely to harbor some STD.
True but some of those twinks out there are so feminine that there's very little that distinguishes them from a chick besides a dick.
I don't want to fuck men(unless I get really horny), I'd rather have a real muscular man(or well fit) fuck the shit out of me.
What's the appeal of fucking a man in the ass when there are men that want to fuck you in the ass? Yet I'm straight acting, I don't come off as a flamboyant faggot irl. What's wrong with me?
What if you become muscular and have a low bodyfat %? That's the body type I'm aiming for in the gym(and in my diet). I can't wait till I start seeing more definition in my muscles. I also get a really big ass from lifting weights(is that good or bad?)
I never understood the whole "twinks and bears" part of the gay scene myself, a hot guy is a hot guy regardless of what lame-assed category you stick him in. Some twinks are hot, some bears are hot, and a lot of people in between are. Don't feel you have to fit into any bullshit category, you're beautiful just the way you are guys.
They don't have to be hairy mang. I don't even want to fuck men, I want to be fucked by men.
>There's nothing wrong with being attracted to teenagers anyways.
Not if you're a teenager yourself, otherwise it's kinda wrong and fucked up. Especially if you're actively trying to have sex with them. Don't be corrupting any minors ya hear.
Maybe one is more appealing to those closer to gay/straight
Straight > Woman > Shemales > Traps > Twinks > Dudes > Bears > Gay
You don't just stop being attracted to young people just because you got old. I would never do anything with someone underage, but I'd be lying if I said I couldn't find at least 15+ attractive.
If everyone consents and everyone is happy, I just don't see what's morally wrong with it.
Moralfags like you are a cancer. You remind me of this girl I knew in college who thought I was a creep for dating a freshman when I was a junior. Totally hypersensitive and unhinged.
It's called grooming, some teenagers are too naive/gullible to and can't figure out what exactly is going on.
When I was a teenager I would have been easy to groom, thankfully I wasn't around any sickfucks as a teenager.
When adult manages to use his tricks to convince a minor to have sex with him that most often fucks the victim up emotionally.
That old spout. Are you telling me you don't have any morals anon? Or do you just find it easy to justify doing something amoral?
Eh, you could say the same for adults desu, we can be just as fucking stupid. I do agree that teens should be left to their own kind though, but demonizing men for being attracted to younger people is fucked up imo, makes people feel like monsters for something that's completely natural.
Calling it grooming first of all denies agency to the younger partner, who shouldn't be denied sexual agency. (Hence why most places around the world have an age of consent around 16-18).
Grooming applies to sexually unfamiliar children, which is of course wrong.
However, a teen who is mature enough to know what he wants is not some helpless twit falling for a predator. He's selecting who he wants to have sex with, like anybody with developed sex organs and a will to use them.
The clueless, underaged and vulnerable ones I wouldn't touch, nor do I have the desire to do so.
Maybe I/they want someone younger/older.
Like I said, would never even touch someone underage without good reason, but age of consent laws don't perfectly split the line between when and when not someone is ready for sex, that would be impossible, so naturally there are gonna be times when someone is attracted to a person who falls under that line, and I don't think we should feel bad for it as long as we don't cross that line.
I know I'm not alone here, I think guys still being attracted to teenagers is normal, but its taboo to even mention having a preference for younger girls that are legal, let alone underage ones.
Anon here, I wished I would have known some older man that could have imprinted homosexuality into me at an early age. That would have taught my about gay sex, and that I liked it, and that I would then go and seek out more homosexual activities with my friends or people in my school.
Most successful homosexuals are the ones that were fucked as a teenager by an older man, it's a learning thing for them. I wish I knew I was homosexual as an teen.
I was molested at 14, ten years later and I'm still in therapy for it and suffer from regular panic attacks, cannot trust people and can't even enjoy sex anymore. So stop spewing bullshit and fucking kill yourself, anon. You know nothing about how this shit feels.
Lol I'm sorry I didn't mean to trigger you, I'm not trying to be mean right now, but I can't stop laughing. I wrote that post high as fuck(im on ambien right now, tripping like a motherfucker) I feel godly sedated. I can't stop laughing... Am I that much of an asshole when I get drugged up?
What was I thinking when I wrote that? I'm so pissed out of my mind.
I know of panic attacks anon, I know of not trusting people... I'm fucked up 2.
I'm also in therapy for some shit.
Don't be so mad anon, it was just playful banter...
I haven't sucked dick yet, but I already have people on grindr that want to meet me up and fuck me in the boypussy. It turns me on but being so submissive toward another man is kinda spooky(and hot at the same time).
Is it ok to go with an older guy? He's rich, he wants me to sleep over and cuddle does that sound good?
I have another on that's a bear but he leaves far away...
Then there is this hot guy wants to pop my cherry, he wants to help me go through my journey of homosexuality.
Which ones sounds best for first time? it's is easiest getting to the rich ,middle aged man.
>Most successful homosexuals are the ones that were fucked as a teenager by an older man, it's a learning thing for them. I wish I knew I was homosexual as an teen.
No, the most successful ones are the ones who figure it out young, then aren't afraid to go for it while still young.
I didn't have any teen partners when I started my gay sex life, so I went for older guys. I know I nailed, and was nailed by, guys all the way up into their 40s. I didn't try to have a relationship, and I was doing it for my pleasure.
*HUGS* I know what it's like to have PTSD and C-PTSD. It really fucking sucks. I've been in therapy for mine for decades. I'm sorry you ended up being molested. I strongly recommend finding a counselor that is familiar with treating sexual abuse/trauma, and knows EMDR.
There is a very big difference between voluntary and involuntary sex. My gay sex at 14 and 15 was voluntary. I chose to be there, and actively pursued the sex. I never had any psych issues that could be tied to that sex. I did get PTSD form being raped at 23. The C-PTSD comes from teasing and harassment when young.
>so I went for older guys.
Should I do this 2, I have an access to one rich lawyer that is in his middle ages. I just want to get bottomed and have him dominate me, he really isn't that good looking. I Just want to know how if feels to be with a man.
This is literally me. I'm 22 but I look like I'm 16 but no one thinks I'm gay because I don't act like a flamer faggot and I have a deep voice/no lisp. Everyone asks me what grade I'm in...
I'm one of these "youthful twinks" fyi... and i really no problem with what other people are into. If you like older guys that's fine. I just don't think someone should be called a pedo for liking younger guys.
I've been watching a lot of gay porn lately, I mean alot! And while I mostly agree with op, I did notice that some bigger guys really do have nice fat asses. As long as its face down ass up, I could work with a smooth bear ass (I cringed as I typed that)
But other that I don't see the appeal, as far a relationship I just have to have something cute and feminine, the yin to my yang.
me neither, but what's happening in this thread is just basically two sides arguing at each other for having different tastes
one calls the other shit-likers because they like 'manly men', and the other calls opposite side 'pedos'. Really no reason to care honestly.
Pick somebody you like as a person and can get along with. I always tried to get to know the guy some before fucking.
When I was underage and at the clubs I got asked what college I was at or where I worked.
Be nice and respectful. After a few months, I had guys seeking me out because I was a decent and respected them.
You're right sir, being gay is a contest, and the bi's are loosing, that's why they get so easily butthurt. Fuck them and their perverted femboy/tranny/pedo lust. Bisexuals are just mentally ill straight people.
"Sexual peak" doesn't mean anything.
At best, such a concept would be defined by the end of the development of reproductive capacities, which happen around 12 in women (first period) and around 14 in men (ejaculation and adult-sized dick).
They're not naive or gullible because they're teenagers. People who never had sex are naive and gullible when it comes to sex, whether they are 13 or 25. Teenage sex experiences are good memories for 95% of peole, except if there was an actual rape or if the "teenager" was actually younger than 12 (aka not a teenager, and we're debating teenagers here).