>Go out with friends.
>Have drinks at a bar.
>Have drinks at another bar.
>Get carded. Bouncer compliments my style.
>Then he says it's more than my style.
>I blush hard. Friends laugh about it.
>Two rounds of shots ordered.
>One was jager and the other was pepperminty?
>Go to nearby dance bar. Order a Stella.
>Dance floor opens. Friends and I start dancing.
>Comfy with dancing because I feel good.
>People mostly watch but then they all join.
>Getting close with a few girls. Denied by one.
>Dancing with friends and by myself.
>Guys watching me. Whispering to their friends.
>Slowly but surely they start edging towards me.
>Grind against a bunch of guys. One by one.
>Look back & moan as they grab at me.
>They touch my beasts, hips, and stomach.
>They spank me as I dance with my back to them.
>Feeling the hardness in their pants with my hand.
>Turn around and dance against the guy.
>He puts arms around me and I tell him "I'm trans".
>None of them angry but they kind of back out.
>See them at different points in the night.
>A few avoid eye contact but others smile.
This happened 5 different times last night. One of the guys was much shorter than me but he was really muscular and he kind of forced my hands behind my back and made me bend over on the dance floor whIle he rubbed against me. I felt a tingling sensation throughout my body.
Anyway, when do I tell them I'm trans? Its different than telling girls because if they're straight or curious then they won't be repulsed by a shenis. I'm just too afraid to not tell men at a certain point. I don't want to get beat up for "tricking them" or whatever.
That aside, just mention it sometime before they would notice on their own. Preferably not by shouting 'SURPRISE COCKFAG' before dropping trou. You seem to have handled it well enough.
The problem is that I don't want SRS. It's not like I want them to touch it or anything. I just don't know when to explain in a way that doesn't scare them off.
Thanks :) Imagine if I didn't tell them until we were in bed with half our clothes off! I wish I could successfully do it then but another outcome could be murder, lol. Idk if it's because I'm skinny but most adult men are really bulky and strong. It's hot but I'd never want to have to fight one!
>made me bend over on the dance floor whIle he rubbed against me. I felt a tingling sensation throughout my body.
That's your prostate, honey. You can get the same thing by riding a bike for 20 minutes and you don't even need to buy drinks or get dressed up.
Seriously just get a gun.
A nice little direct blowback pocket pistol or the like can be concealed by anyone. Technically these establishments cannot ban firearms (though they may put up signs claiming to do so), and can only force you to leave if they find out under trespassing and private property laws. I'm assuming you're in the US, of course.
LOL, says the most fetishistic dude ever. do you even think before you spout that garbage out of your mouth?
"How about miss cock? she is a good girl"
I don't think that's necessary. I feel like I'd receive a lot of unwanted attention. I went to a more bro-y place last night to dance and I felt comfortable. I feel like the only barrier is in my panties.
reminder not to respond to kayla: an autistic crossdresser who wears his mom's skirts and thinks he's trannier than thou then goes and does a creepy thing like he always does, like posting shemale porn on /mtfg/ or fabricating stories about how he passes
Some girls don't have genital dysphoria. Others don't have enough of it that they feel it justifies SRS (cost, surgery, recovery, results, or all can be responsible). Honestly, it's a pretty personal topic - Kayla is being characteristically uncharitable.
The truth is that I technically don't need SRS to be regarded as female so I'm not going to explore the possibility of having that surgery until further notice. I've had bad experiences with medicine in general so I worry that there could be complications or regret afterwards.
My rule is to try to tell them before we leave the dance floor, and yeah I bump and grind with nearly anybody I find cute, male or female. I pass well enough that people who have seen me in just my gaff don't know I'm a tranny.
I have no issues with partial transition. I may go that way even thought I'm not fully comfortable still having a shenis.
>Don't make this a thing.
I like it.
>I feel like the only barrier is in my panties.
Will you shut up about Kayla. You derail thread after thread attacking her.
nah u did alright op, best to tell them before things get very physical. also best to disclose in a public area... less likely to get beaten/killed, because witnesses.
the truth is there is little to no hookup culture if you are trans. not saying it cant happen, just a bit rare. its kinda sad too if you just want to go out just for a quick fuck with no commitment.
even with guys you actually want to have a relationship with, its safer to play the long game with them and friendzone them for a while, because most guys will just bolt right off the bat, coz their initial thought is "im not gay" rather than take a minute to think about it to realize that fucking a transgirl wont make them gay.
yea gun is kinda a lil to serious.
but if you are a transgirl deffo carry mace. If it is legal where you live it may also be a good idea to carry a taser.