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what do like about men and what do you like about women?
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I like people who make me feel safe...
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>>5640740
Yeah I like that.
And if they can dance well and eat pussy well that's a plus.

Men: sexy veiny arms, being able to lift me up and shit like that, less high maintenance
women: curves, pussy, smell, laughter

Guess I'm more of a les leaning bi tbqh
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men: muscles, cock, "makes me feel safe" kind of person, body
women: tits, pussy beauty body
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Men: bulky figure, strong, ass, cock.
Women: cute, beautiful body, tits, ass.
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If I want to be dominated I want a strong stallion cock and strong arms to hold me down, missionary is amazing

For women, I love their softness and delicacy. Their cute pussies as well and licking them

Being bi is truly amazing
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>>5640733
Women are pretty and it's easier to talk to them, about tough shit also they make cuter noises during sex.
But It's easier to get men off, they are more willing to give compliments and the warm safe feeling you get in a man's arms just isn't the same as being hugged by a girl.
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Couldn't tell you
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guys: they either have to be cute beta nerds who get nervous around me or strapping studs who are experts in the flirt game. sometimes guys can accidentaly pass for the latter by being standofish and cold. the former almost always needs to have a peesonality flaw of some sort so i dont feel bad fucking with them until theyre barely holding iy together.

girls: femme but not too femme, chapstick at least, with an ENTP or ENTJ personality. INTJ is also acceptable. basically someone abrasive, speaks her mind, untameable, gives me the straight dick. having somewhat androgynous features helps a lot (think kesha without makeup).

im still kinda figuring out tho what i like in girls. someone in the yestersay gaygen said it best: that most girls are raised to be petty and overl self concious and as princesses waiting for other people to take the initiative and do the work and be absorbed in girly rituals and bad magazines, and thats just all extremely unattractive and hard to work with. like i feel sorry for them, ans i do love having female bonding moments, but its just a lay killer. on top of that im always around more guys and women so my pool is tiny to begin with.
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>>5642474
oh i forgot to mention, i don't date, so this is all sex related
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In men I like the big, beefy (not fat), hairy, strong guys with a nicely trimmed beard and a kind personality. The kind who is intelligent and has a heart of gold, who will hold me tight and gently. Can't stand that alpha male bullshit.

In women I like small, cute and intelligent girls. Tall sexy women, like the ones you see on magazine covers, kind of intimidate me. I prefer the short and bubbly kind. The kind of girl that I can have bubble baths and drink hot chocolate with.

Both of these are of course super idealized and probably don't exist in real life, but they'd be my first pick anyway. The bottom line is that they are kind and on the same wavelength as me.
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Is it weird as a a
guy that with a girl I become more dominate and assertive, but with a guy I feel I like more bashful and submissive. I don't even try to do it, it just seems like a reaction
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>>5640733
>What do you like about men?
The dicks
>what do you like aobut women?
The dicks
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>>5642901
kik me your dick?
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Anyone else go through "bi-cycles"? Sometimes I just can not get turned on by men, but other times I want to do nothing else but suck dick and get fucked.
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>>5642928
me desu its weird like somedays i just want to cuddle with qt girls but like their times i just want cock its werid
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>>5642928
me desu
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>>5642960
desu
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men: saftey when in arms, dicks, easy to talk to won't pretend to be nice to you then laugh/ talk shit behind your back
ladies: High voices,Cute bodies,tits pussy, Have really nice personalities when they're not terrible
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men: everything
women: sarcastic tumblr ones
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>>5640733
what do i find about a gender attractive or just specifics? in general:

men: related interests, strength, confidence
women: playful, understand vanity (who /femgen/ here?), capable of discussing feelings

men are often terrible to form relationships with. masculinity strips them of personality and leaves those violating (e.g. by being homosexual) its proclamations broken by prying, judgemental, systemic, incessant scrutiny. they're attractive in their own way, but only when they're more successful than i am; otherwise i'm continually reminded that they have failed where i have succeeded and are not in the position of control they so desperately seek to occupy.

women don't learn to expect of themselves, do not learn competence, and rarely learn to chase achievement the way men do. immediately i lose respect for them, largely because, as a male, i would expect my peers to do the same. a personal failing.

beating these vices, by refusal in succumbing to the cauticities of their respective gender, makes for good company. depressingly rare, though.
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>>5642547
no
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I don't really have a preference for either. It'd be great if they were thin, and around my age. But that's about it. Generally I want both to be:
>Same height, or taller then me
>Can make me smile/laugh
>Give me a reason to live
>Make me feel safe
>Can deal with my social anxiety and social awkwardness
>Can be the extrovert to my introvert. Very outgoing, but finds my shyness really cute, and can always make conversation.
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>>5644784
good
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>>5640740
>>5640876
>>5642224
>>5643000
>>5644956

>feel safe

I've honestly never understood this dynamic. I hear it all the time though. What is going on? Do you not feel safe almost 24/7? Do you live in dangerous areas or have some form of paranoia?
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>>5645017
someone to save people. in case like for example: some one tries to mug us, that person would save us
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women: legs, ass, and titties

men: body hair, arms, and ass
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>>5640733
Men
>big thick cocks
>sweaty hairy balls
>strong comforting muscles
Women
>firm round asses
>large jiggly tits
>beautiful faces
>sexy curvy bodies
Octopi and Squids of either sex
>long tentacles that can reach anywhere on or inside me
>warm inviting cloacae
>smooth all around
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>>5645017
>some form of paranoia
More this, desu. I have BPD and thus I seek a "protector"...I also don't trust anyone.
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Women are softer and have nicer buttholes

Also vaginae are fun to play with but I can take or leave them desu
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Men: smell sexy, easy to deal with, never have any doubts about whether they're actually actracted to me, dick and the mutual sucking of said dick, sex wrestling.
Women: smell sexy in a different way, better looking bodies, pussy feels amazing, they're so tiny and cute.
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>>5647815
why do so many mtfs have bpd?
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>>5640733
I like that they arent women honestly

Im not that much into masculinity but I dont like feminity

I like someone to cuddle and have tender sex while high as fuck

basically I want a woman that doesnt act like one most of the time
so a bear
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>>5642515
>barry
oh man Im you but just gay
how Id like to be bi
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>>5651433
females that go through childhood trauma usually have bpd

male puberty probably causes it
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Tbh i find guys disgusting, the facial hair, chest hair, body hair. Deep voices, and masculine facial structure is quite repulsive.
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How do I know if I'm bi if I'm a virgin?

I fap sometimes to gay porn but in rel life my eyes only on women?
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>>5651526
Barry is the perfect man. Sad thing is I know somebody who looks similar to him and is a super great guy in real life, we've been good friends for years, but then he got a girlfriend and stopped talking to his friends.
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I like the angles and firmness of men. Erections are so visible and fun to squeeze through pajamas. Chastity is easier. If they have pretty hair they can be attractive.

Pussies are the prettiest thing ever. Tits are squishy. Women are almost all beautiful to me. It's easier to find female subs. Getting a girl visibly wet is the biggest ego boost ever, and they sound so pretty when they cum.
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>>5640733
Men: Muscle and cock
Women: Literally everything
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>>5652058
Are you attracted by men? That would mean you're attracted to men. It doesn't matter that much anyway.
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>>5645083
Marry a stronk man: problem solved.
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>>5640733
>Women
Tits, big asses, the general feminine nature about them is appealing at times, at others it's a little annoying. Towards women I'm more traditionalist in that if she is going to be very feminine in the positives as well as the negatives then she should by in large by subservient to her male partner, otherwise I'm not gonna let her be "strong and independent" when she wants to be and clingy, emotional, and somewhat helpless whenever it's convenient to her, fuck that. This is my main contention with women, that they do not know their place and are typically too brainwashed by leftist ideologies to understand the complimentary nature of the two sexes.

>men
Having more in common is a plus, both physically and hobbies/interest-wise. I like dick, firm abs, and trim slim figures. I like how rugged men are, and the feeling that I don't need to coddle them as much as one does with women. Aesthetically speaking, I prefer cute guys to cute girls, and can typically see myself settling down with a guy more than I can a girl, but at the same time I feel a yearning to be a provider-type for a female. I've decided that I'll never be totally happy with one or the other, but with guys I seem to be more happy. Who knows though, in the future I could decide that I should just trust my biology and wife a female.
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>men
Just very strongly sexually attracted to them, I mostly like everything about them except their personalities 60% of the time.
>women
The more I think about it the less I'm inclined to believe I'm even bisexual at all, I just don't know what to call myself if I watch women more in porn. I don't even think my brain would allow me to comprehend a woman I was both attracted to and not annoyed with personality wise, I don't trust them either. I pity straight men.
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Both are scary :(
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The best men look very strong and lithe, have a good sense of confidence about them, and can be aggressive in reaching their goal. Can be protective and make you feel safe, and working with them to achieve goals can be very rewarding.

The best women are lovely, warm, and receptive. They have soft bodies and can make you feel strong and capable (although I do appreciate a woman who can put you in your place). They're good for relaxing and letting everything melt away.
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>women:
they're nice
>men
rock hard DIIIICKKKK
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>>5651524
>basically I want a woman that doesnt act like one most of the time
>so a bear

You want a tomboy or non transitioned FtM.

Years ago I was in relationships with a couple women who were. I dearly loved both of them. Sadly drugs and intolerance took the two of them away from me. I've met another and I think she likes me, but sadly we live 1,200 miles apart.
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