I have been with my husband for 3 years. I love him but I have been finding the intimacy very dull lately.
I have been having extreme urges to hook up with a stranger (no strings). I feel as if I need to experience my sexual side more before I completely settle down.
What are your thoughts?
Sounds like you can't stop being a gay male. If monogamy and dedication aren't for you, just say so and go back to doing what gay males do. Or, work out the details with the poor sap you're with to either improve the physical level of your relationship or tell them you want a fwb.
Thanks for your opinion. I don't want things to end between us. I have a feeling things have gotten boring for him too. So at least it's a level playing field (no pun). The way I see it, sex is sex and nothing more UNLESS the person you're with means something to you.
Why don't you guys talk about it and find ways to spice up the bedroom?
There are many ways including role play, toys, drugs, etc.
Maybe get mutual friend in on it and have a threesome. You guys might find that sharing your spouse with someone will bring you closer together. (choose someone your spouse likes).
Hell, maybe just dirty talk or changing your usual positions can makes things brighter. Even having a date before hand.
People like OP are the reason I hate faggots despite being one myself, and it is all thanks to the LGBT cancer. All I want from life is a monogamous chaste husband to dedicate our lives to each other but all faggots care about is fucking. Sex is supposed to be a bonding experience between two lifelong partners, not a shallow pleasure.
Trust me, the benefits of total monogamy far outweigh those of open relationships
>No STDs ever*
>Condoms are not needed since STD risk is so low
>Closer relationship with your partner
>Trust each other more
>Can do more kinky bed stuff, because more trust
*assuming he doesn't already have one, get a dodgy blood transfusion, or get raped
Do you really want to throw all of these perks just so you can feel some other penis that will be 99% the same as the one you already have virtually infinite access to?
If you're getting bored in bed, it's not a matter of who you're with; it's a matter of what you're doing.
Monogamous gay people do exist, but unfortunately, they're few and far between.
Well that's just like, your opinion man.
You only live once. If someone wants to experience fucking different body types and personalities, that's fine. Sometimes there's a kink your partner isn't into, or you're just craving the thrill of the chase.