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If I get a gf, I'll stop wanting to be a girl, right?
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PCI Express x16
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>>5596439
ok, great. so how do I get one?
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>>5596447
become a chad
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>>5596449
that's kind of difficult given that I'm ugly and a wuss
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>>5596461
and that leaves us at the center, so know you make up your mind if you want to drag as a man or drag as a woman.
the man part is harder because it demands a hard dedication and physical work.
the woman part is easy because you just take pills and wear clothes.
but you make the choice how you want to drag.
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Reminder:
If you want to be a girl you are NOT trans.

If you are a girl then you are trans.
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> If I get a gf, I'll stop wanting to be a girl, right?

oh god anon that's exactly what I used to think
no
no you won't stop wanting to be a girl
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>>5596478
i'm not sure I understand what you're getting at

>>5596482
that's nice but it's not really relevant

>>5596489
but I'll forget about it at least, right?
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>>5596504
>i'm not sure I understand what you're getting at
pic related is you, not specifically you, but all of us.
now you decide what sort of drag you want, how extreme you want to take it, etc. but either way it's all drag, just remember that.
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>>5596513
i think i kind of get it. you are suggesting to mentally detach from social role? there are some issues in that
>i don't particularly care about the clothes i wear
>i don't have the body of a 10 year old
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>>5596434
Nope, that'd just make you a trans-lesbian
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>>5596504
There are things you can do to push those feelings into the back of your mind for a while.

Just see a therapist instead. Work out your issues; they won't be resolved by dodging them (and this one will keep getting worse).
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>>5596434
I'll give you a hint. I have two gfs, and I still wanna be a girl.
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>>5596434
What is the logic behind this assumption? Can't understand it.
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Your first mistake was perceiving your desires as wanting to be a girl. A mistake that many, like myself have made with my fetish and presumably yours too. Good luck, you're fucked friend.
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You know why it won't work? Because you doubt it will work. Honestly, the whole reasons hormones "cure" anything is because of the strong belief that they're going to cure you of mental issues. Same reason idiots buy weight loss pills and start eating better at the same time,then claim the water pills caused their weight loss... Wanna know where you fucked up? Reading message boards. You're literally a case of being contaminated by the hive-mind. I guaruntee you that you'd only be half as dysphoric as you are now, if it weren't for idiots on message boards. Wanna know why hons lasted so long as men? No community, no internet to tell them who they were and how to feel.
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>>5597022
This is why you can't tell a Christian or a Muslim that their religion is making them feel better about themselves. Belief and community is a POWERFUL fucking thing. Their beliefs are quite literally bringing them some sort of peace of mind.
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>>5597022
>Honestly, the whole reasons hormones "cure" anything is because of the strong belief that they're going to cure you of mental issues.
Clueless uninformed statement.
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>>5596434
Sorry, nope. It'll make your dysphoria worse.
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>>5597073
Do you deny that the power of belief is not one of the most powerful in all of mankindm? If enough people start to endorse that "X will make you better", the confidence in that belief is hard to break. In fact, you're exhibiting this right now, as I've apparently taken a stab at your belief system.
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>>5597083
Is everything based purely on belief in *your* belief system? Do you think cancer can be cured simply by *believing* that you don't have it?
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>>5596446

What's AGP?
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>>5597112
No, because cancer is not a mental illness. However, if you have a support system of people around a person, all saying "You're going to get through this!!!!! We all love you grandpa, fight!!!", that might cause the sufferer to be more confident in themselves and thus may take chances a person with a non-supportive family would take. Though, if the person is meant to die, they will indeed die. Dysphoria can, in no way be compared to cancer or any other kind of terminal illness because there is nothing actually wrong with the body of the sufferer, what is wrong is the mental state and the illness is clearly amplified by congregating with other mentally ill people. Look on message boards all over the internet, you see guys and gals going from "confused, please help" to "I'm going to kill myself soon if I don't get hormones". Ever heard of Gays finding Jesus and truly becoming happy with their lives? On the surface it seems like they're repressing who they are, and they are, to a point, but they BELIEVE with all of their hearts that they should not commit any Homosexual acts, and some all-powerful being is looking down at them, smiling in approval. Well, they've found their comfort and happiness I guess. Anyway, I'm not religious, but I do not deny that the power of belief is a strong one, one that people will die for.
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>>5597083
>In fact, you're exhibiting this right now, as I've apparently taken a stab at your belief system.
Your logic does not follow.
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>>5597157
Sure, belief can be powerful, but it can't actually alter the physical nature of the brain.
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>>5597157
>because there is nothing actually wrong with the body of the sufferer
This is wrong, unless you somehow don't consider the brain to be the part of the body. Dysphoria isn't just thoughts in the brain, it's a physical difference within the structure of the brain itself. Belief can affect how people choose to deal with their dysphoria, but it can't actually make the dysphoria go away.
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>>5597122
Discredited pseudo-science from a shamed gender "therapist" with no clinical successes. Makes great baitposting when you're trying to discredit any transwomen, if you ignore that ciswomen also experience fantasies of having sex as women and becoming aroused from perceiving their own attractiveness to others.
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>>5596434
Do this asap
Hopefully it's all the feminity you'll need

Also, Love and intimacy is a powerful thing
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>>5597083
>>5597157

You have no fucking clue what a double blind test is, clearly. Are you fifteen? Did you just learn about placebos in your freshman bio class? Christ, you're stupid.
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>>5597614
All it did was make me more envious and depressed.
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>>5596446
>PCI Express x16
Okay, I know what that is, but how the hell does that relate to this and why would it be funny?
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>>5597651
>GF
>GeForce
>a graphic card, which use a PCI Express x16 slot.
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>>5596446
>>5597651
>>5597740

And here I thought they made an AGP joke.
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>>5597022
>You're literally a case of being contaminated by the hive-mind. I guaruntee you that you'd only be half as dysphoric as you are now, if it weren't for idiots on message boards.
I don't doubt that there is some truth to this, but the seeds have been planted at this point. and....:

>>5597022
>>5596929
So how do I help myself?

>>5597614
well I'm trying but >>5596461
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>>5597740
No wonder I didn't get it... I don't use geforce... AMD pleb here.
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>>5596434
Oh, you sweet summer child
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>>5597077
isn't it reasonable to expect that in some individuals crippling loneliness can mess you up?
see:
/r9k/
"become your own gf" posts on /r9k/
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>>5596434
Want to be my gf instead?
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>>5607789
only if you are a girl :3
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>>5609143

See >>5601077 You'll lose out on so much with that attitude. You should give him a chance.
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>>5609883
is that implying that 07:22 is late? disgusting
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>>5609972

What's so bad about being an early riser? Besides autistic for that to be the thing you zone in on.
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>>5610108
everything.
and men are just gross 2bh f4m
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>>5610453

We'll see if time on estrogen sorts you out, anon.
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>>5609143
I was a girl...
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>>5611997
if you look like a dude it's just as bad imho lad
sorry
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>>5606628
They're probably just joking around really. Nobody would seriously decide to transition just because they're lonely. Just look at all the other threads where they're otherwise just normal men being cripplingly lonely.
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>>5616763
Are you sure though? Like basically anyone can get pills and I don't see why someone couldn't be sufficiently confused and do it out of a weird sense of desperation
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>>5618056
that's fucking retarded and you're fucking retarded
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