>>5591669 >When I make love to him I can't help but think how his body was abused and used. Yeah he's been a sentient jiz rag for a while
>He blamed it on insecurity and depression Oh I'm sure he did. And what if he feels insecure or depressed again? And do you even honestly buy that? He's a slut, he's used goods. Do you honestly want to go to bed each night next to somebody's used gym sock? If you can stomach it then that's great but I know I couldn't.
>>5591403 This is coming from a slut. We wont change, yes some of us will be physically loyal to only you but, our eyes will always wander, we will flirt if given the chance, your friends secretly want to fuck us, and we are still in contact with old fuck buddies.
>>5591424 Implying sucking cock isn't the ultimate cuckoldism. I'm a broken straight male... I'm demoralized and emasculated, brb have to jerk off to the idea of getting gang banged like the little bitch I am.
>>5591669 He made a decision to use and abuse his body because he liked it. Don't say it like it wasn't up to him. I'm insecure and depressed as fuck and I never became a slut, a drunk, or a junkie. We are all accountable for our choices. The fact that he doesn't own up to it and instead is trying to remove himself from any responsibility should be a major red flag. How do your arguments look like? Is he ever willing to admit fault, or is it always you who is doing something wrong?
>>5591669 Insecurities coupled with depression is the most toxic combination. It never just "goes away". It's never just a simple change. Tackling depression and insecurities is a huge battle, and he seems to have tackled it through being a major slut which just makes things worse.
>He's much different now Everyone's different with a new man.
>>5591969 Say you're fucking someone with the history of murdering their romantic partners. Is the past still just the past, or would you reconsider what that means for your safety? She's going to cheat, hell, she's probably doing it right now.
>>5592020 She used to go to parties, get drunk as fuck, and have orgies. Occasionally, she'd get greeted by people she had no recollection of, and she would have to wonder if she slept with that person or not.
>>5591403 To some degree, yes. I've gotten over it for the most part. I've only had sex with two people before my current boyfriend whereas he has had sex/fooled around with countless guys and some of them he's currently friends with and I interact with occasionally. When I told him I was open-minded about monogamy I think that somehow made him think it was okay for him to tell me that he slept with X after I met X only 10 minutes ago.
It doesn't help that our sex drives don't exactly sync up and he's done stuff with past hook-ups/exes that he hasn't done with me. If anyone else was in this situation I'd tell them to just break up with the guy.
>>5592232 Just the fear of breaking up and not being able to find anyone good for me. I live in a small country and can barely find people I have stuff in common with, least of all gay people that are comfortable with themselves, intelligent and attractive. Also, when sex is out of the equation, the relationship is perfect and I couldn't imagine being happier to be honest.
We did have a lengthy and honest discussion about our sex life (he's the one with the lower libido, ironically) and I also mentioned him talking about his past but that was literally only last Sunday so I haven't had the opportunity to see a change.
OP should just do the same. Just go for broke if it's bothering you that much.
My ex was a pretty big slut as well (we broke up because I moved away). But he had slept with probs like 400-500 different guys over the course of about 15-20 years or so. I was never comfortable doing bareback but other than a little bitching here and there everything was just fine. He seemed pretty loyal and didn't really go out very much at all so I wasn't very worried. I never got any std's and I was already vaccinated for hpv. He didn't get cold sores or anything so no worry about the herps.
Gay guys lie so often so it's not like I care how many people they've slept with, it's probably not true anyway. I have no problem with using condoms for the entirety of my relationships, in fact I prefer it, so past sexual history isn't a big deal for me.
>>5591403 Ooh ooh ohh! You the guy who has a femboi who slutted it around before you? I think he was a bitch who mentions how his ex had a bigger dick and dominated him and took his virginity, just to make you jealous.
>Anyone who's had sex in the past is automatically not worth your time and you're a beta xD Sure is /r9k/ here. Anyways, your bf sounds like a priss and a cunt, break up with him. I know it's not as easy as that, I was in a similar situation with an emotionally abusive ex, but anon, you don't have to take that shit. This isn't the forties where you have to cling on to the one half decent faggot for miles, find someone better.
>>5593343 Are you referring to OP? I'm OP. Most of his slutty days were when he was underage. Once he turned legal he stopped all of that. I feel bad because his ex, who was significantly older, was the one who used him. I hate him.
>>5600029 No, not really. If you're genuinely and profoundly bothered by his past then you either need to address it or you're agreeing to let it manifest inevitably as a huge burden on your relationship. Why opt into that? You're wasting both of your time and effort. Everybody has a slutty side to them - we're animals - the important thing is monogamy and loyalty and as long as he gives you no reason to doubt him then you should have no grievances, really. If what you're bothered by is the 'purity' (or lack thereof) then you're an idiot, not only because gays have a ridiculous number of sexual partners but because you've obviously condoned it by fucking him anyway.
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