Hey guys, I need some advice and I am too tinfoil hat to ask this on Reddit.
Last week I met a trans girl through Reddit, on a subreddit where we hate both her (Ill just say her, other shit is too weird) gender/sexuality/condition and her ethnic group, and I frequently do too, sorry guys. Shes from a different country from me, but we could meet up in a 2 hour train ride. Shes smart, shes pretty, shes kind, she shares my hobbies and interests. Only difference is that she is about 4,5 years older than me, but I have no problems with this (turning 20 myself in a few months). Weve been talking every single day, sometimes until 4 am. We Skyped a few times and I am pretty much sold, I guess, shes awesome. But theres some stuff that bothers me. Ive never had a girlfriend or sex and Ive sort of given up on that shit. Maybe deep down Ive been looking at trans girls as a surrogate for an actual woman? Is this fair towards her? I really like her anyways. Also, when we meet up it seems like its going to end up in sex. What if I ended up weirded out or something? Its not exactly a one-way thing from me, so I dont want to hurt her feelings.
Shows just how morally righteous you stormfags really are, huh?
well what are your options? you could just not meet this beautiful charming girl and entrench yourself one step closer into a lifestyle that'll make you more bitter and lonely every day
or you could meet her and A) hit it off and it could be a wonderful experience for you. maybe you'd even become less of a closeminded shithead or B) it wouldn't work out and it'd be messy and suck.
I don't see how the second option isn't strictly better? at least it has a chance of not being awful.
Adding on to >>5569797
>we hate both her (Ill just say her, other shit is too weird) gender/sexuality/condition and her ethnic group, and I frequently do too, sorry guys.
>Shes smart, shes pretty, shes kind, she shares my hobbies and interests
I just don't understand this. Who is this plural we? Is it you and her or you and everyone on the subreddit? Why do you like her if you don't like that she's a trans woman? You think of her as female even though you know she was born with a penis and you seem to believe that makes her mentally ill or corrupt? If she is mentally ill, aren't you taking advantage of her and giving in to her "delusion"? What's wrong with her ethnic group if you think she's all of those nice things? How did you even start talking to her? Surely you're struggling with the cognitive dissonance of this situation.
Actually I study IT, lol.
Im sterile so it doesnt matter whatever I fuck
I guess it is, thanks
We (me and the sub) hate on her ethnic group because of their religion. She left that religion to escape being potentially killed. She is also right wing so shares our hate on the religion and the male demographic of the ethnic group.
Its not that I dont like her because of that, but in general I see it as an identity disorder, so Im not applauding it.
She posted on the sub telling part of her story. She sounded like a 1 in a million unicorn so I sent a PM, then we started talking a lot.
>We (me and the sub) hate on her ethnic group because of their religion. She left that religion to escape being potentially killed. She is also right wing so shares our hate on the religion and the male demographic of the ethnic group.
She must have been a Muslim then.
She's not bothered by your post history about trannies?