Why can't I get rid of these trans feels? Help plz.
I'm on hormones, which have been an absolute life saver, in femmy boy mode for now, but I still feel wrong about being trans. Girls want to date me and flirt all the time. When this happens, I start to feel guilty, and think why am I throwing this away to be an unlovable freak? Whenever I've tried to date girls though, I just get envious and sad. I started crying during sex. I know I'm attracted to men, but I can't admit it without feeling gross. And the type I'm into, masculine outdoorsy and not liberal, would probably never want me anyways.
I have aclose buddy of mine, who is dating a trans girl. We're both military guys, later 20's, got ourselves figured out, both of us are devilishly handsome.
His girlfriend is a stunner. I honestly wouldnt have known she wasnt fully female (probably because Mil females are super masculine).
Mind you, neither one of us are "liberal guys". He just fell into feels with this girls, and I'm happy for him.
I dont care who I develop feels for either. Just as long as they are true to themselves, everything will work out just fine.
As much of a tired old anecdote as it sounds, there's someone for everyone.
I'm a 23-year-old military male political centerist, and I loves me some femmy boy.
Don't ever force yourself to do things that hurt you just to avoid who you are. If you don't want to date girls, don't date girls. If you don't want to have sex with girls, don't have sex with girls. The longer you try to tether yourself to what you think "normal" is, especially when you feel anything but "normal", the more it will hurt.
Be true to your deepest self, OP. You'll be a lot happier for a lot longer that way.
If /r9k/ types can go their whole life without ever experiencing sex or being intimate with another person, why can't you suck it up and stop having sex with girls if you're not even attracted to them and just start seeing gay men.
If I was a straight robot I'd loose my shit if I knew a gay femboy was hooking up with girls(hording girls).
OP when a gay man has sex with a woman he's just being greedy and hording another mans happiness.
I don't know where this empathy for /r9k/ came from...
>I started crying during sex.
Ugh. I kinda know that feel. I was actually masturbating a while back and I was watching something amateurish and sensual (some video with james deen) and I started crying hard. I'm passable, but I just got a wave of extreme body dysphoria and genital dysphoria. I've never cried during actual sex though.
>I'll just settle for being femboi (which gets me plenty of positive feedback) and girl mode when I want to feel fem
You're not actually trans, just an attention whore, so fuck off out of this thread and go back to your gross /femgen/ nonsense.
You are gay. Stop being a homophobe, accept it, and move on. Lopping off your cock will not make dating dudes any more acceptable, it will just make you look more crazy...
At least homosexuality is found in other species, the shit is found in nature, UNLIKE transexuality...
Depends on what you mean by transsexuality.
Well, I am on hrt, but I'm mentally fighting against being trans. The limp hrt dick is a welcome side effect. Ideally, it would be gone altogether, but can't get SRS without socially transitioning.
You're probably a man who is gay but doesn't want to feel marginalized like the stereotypical man. Trust me there are gay conservative men like that. Why not see if there's a local chapter of the log cabin republicans nearby?