I'm sure you get this question a lot but I'm going

>Is this something that will come with time or what?

For me attraction comes with getting to know someone. I wont have much interest with them at first but sometimes after spending 100 hours (estimate) with a person I can sometimes start to find feelings for them. At that point its not even about what they look like, more about their personality.

>>5558757
Oh, that actually sounds like demisexuality! Demisex high five!

>>5563400
tumblr bullshit

>>5563516
Despite many irl people using it? lol okay

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I'm in the same spot as you, still not totally convinced I'm bi. I think trap porn is just some fantasy shit that makes homosexuality look more appealing, kinda like how furry art makes animals look fuckable when in reality they aren't, hence why we never find ourselves attracted to guys when we are actually around them.

>>5558648
>Is this something that will come with time or what?
yup. you like what you like. if it only stays as an internet porn thing then thats great. if you actually find a qt irl that you like you could try out a relationship if you wanted.

really being bi isnt a big deal. just live your life and see what happens

>>5558648
>Is this something that will come with time or what?
Cis dyke here
For me it did.
I've been repressing really really hard since always, I was into straight porn before realising (didn't realise I identified to the guy)
I found out because I fell for one girl, but I felt 0 sexual attraction toward her or any other girl...
But then sexuality came along with time
It's like it shifted from virtual porn reality where I was a straight dude fucking girls, to the real reality where I'm a girl fucking girls