What am I meant to do about it? I'm a bi virgin, but I only really get turned on by the idea of being a bottom. I'm too self conscious to actually put myself out there because it's disgustingly hairy and gross (I think). I'm assuming that hairy assholes are unatractive? I'm pretty sure they are.
But it's like a warzone or something down there. I tried before with a razor, and it just won't do. Hair is like 1" long, all over that area. I'm not flexible, and I had a really hard time reaching down and around, and it doesn't seem possible to shave it smooth.
What is the verdict on hair removal methods? I would prefer not to go into a waxing clinic or something, around here it all seems to be for women only. I'm also really self conscious of it, so having it done by someone else would be a nightmare. Are the diy waxing strips any good?
Also, if I find a way to shave it, how far down am I meant to shave? My legs are pretty hairy as well, and I don't want it to look like a fucking baboon ass or something. I don't know if I want to go the whole way and shave of everything below the waste.
I don't know anything about this, please help.
Get laser if your hair color suits it. Many men get hair removal done. You could also get one of the home hair laser machines, but do your homework. The ones that work properly cost a lot.
Laser epilation only works if you have very dark hair on very white skin, because it's the contrast between the hair color and the skin that ensure the laser is not just burning everything up
Dying only changes the external color of the hair, retard, you're supposed to be shaved when doing laser epilation, oh wait, are you gonna dye your fucking hair follicles under the skin ?
No, the image is entirely unrelated, in no way relevant to the discussion./s
So, OP here again. I had another go with a razor, and it's been a lot more successful this time. While it was really long, it wasn't very thick, so it was actually quite easy just using the razor.
However, the reason I am making this update, is because I fucking cut myself with the razor in the process. Right in there, a big cut. It's bleeding so much, I took a shower and it just kept bleeding heaps. I think it's stopped now, but I really don't want to soil my underwear. Be warned, and take more care than I did.
>are you gonna dye your fucking hair follicles under the skin ?
Treatments with melanin? may be able to dye the roots enough to make laser more effective. No real research I've seen.
When and if you do decide to bottom for the first time, don't shave immediately before since that can leave cuts which can increase your risk of catching an STD. Shave a couple/few days before so any cuts you get can heal