why so many bisexual men are submissive with men? for my interactions with bisexual men the majority have a sissy fetish or at least are submissive bottoms, they are no interested on fucking men, only on men fucked them.
any other gay men have is experience?
Honestly, I don't believe in "true" bi-sexuality, as in being literally attracted to both sexes. Every time I see a bi guy posting a thread, it seems like they're just AGP. Either that or the bi guy is actually a closet gay. I know this won't be popular, but I'm bi-sexual in the sense that I am attracted to the thought of myself taking cock, yet I can't make myself attracted to men. The only way men do anything for me is if they indulge in my fantasy 100% and make me feel like a sissy. So call it want you want, faggotry, AGP, cockfetish, sissy, etc. I know what sexually attracts me.
Emasculation fetish. Seriously. Some "straight" men find the thought of being attracted to men and being fucked like a girl to be the most emasculating thing of all time. I've seen the porn... looks like an extreme cuckold fetish. Emasculation fantasies are not the same as androphilic fantasies, in that the person fantasizing is aroused by the looks of the man. So technically, if you denifine homosexuality as being attracted to members of the same sex, that isn't you. Yet if you do have sex with men, you are commiting a homosexual act even if you're not attracted to them, so you can call yourself bi-sexual.
I think fetishes like these manifest themselves because of a lot of deep seeded homophobia. It is frowned upon highly in society to be seen as gay. The gay men is seen as a woman and one imagines the gay bottom to be the most humiliating postition one can be in, the true "woman" of the relationship. This is why for some, putting on ladies clothing and picture themselves getting fucked by men is so arousing. It's humiliating and embarrasing to them, thus the otherwise "straight" acting crossdressers.
You are wrong, I like both sexes (I wouldn't say equally, but I haven't worked out the ratio yet) and I'm definitely not AGP or Trans. I've heard that it is quite common for men to be interested in penises but not any other part of the male body, so there is that. Apparently that's the reason why futa is so popular.
I'm a "bi" guy who only wants to fuck feminine men. I feel like there are a lot more people like me than there are like OP describes but we don't say "I'm bi" or shit like that. We're straight dudes attracted to "the cosmic feminine" who don't happen to discriminate between sexes.
I feel like their needs to be a term for straight guys who only want to fuck cute boys. Cause it's not really bi.
I'm not, i assumed other by guys were like me.
If this is true, It's weird.
I'm very much Dom with both genders, in fact I've only ever tried subbing once and it was with a girl (and not something I particularly enjoyed)
Right. Every time I see a "discreet bi masc" guy on grindr I get my hopes up that he might be into my faggot tranny ass but he's always look in for some masculine guy to suck off and Fuck him. I would feel so pathetic being the gf of these sissy bitches lol
I'm Bi and my sexual behavior doesn't change too much from gender to gender. I'm vers, and I can do either, topping is nice because I'm definitely going to get off and there's no complications or prep needed, and bottoming is nice because it's different than what I can get from most women, but has a number of downsides too.
bi here, i would tap another man but only if it looks extremely feminine, like almost a girl but with a cock.
Otherwise i'd rather be treated like a lil whore desu, man are attractive when they look like men, or totally like a woman, there's no middle point. Fucking something that is not a woman or resemble one has no sense to me, and getting fucked by another man who doesn't look absolutely alpha and masculine has no sense either.
That doesn't speak to my experiences at all.
Most bi men I've been with were actually total tops.
But then they weren't at all like those insecure men I read about on 4chan that call themselves "straight" bu are "crazy for cock".
I just can't see bi-sexuality being a thing and them being dominant unless 1. they are actually just gay or 2. they are AGP/sissy fetishists or whatever Of course I'm being really ignorant and could most definitely be wrong.
Well, I'm bi, but I'm mildly submissive with both. Maybe a little more dominant with women than men, but it's not by much. Not into being a sissy, though, just prefer to not be super dom.
I am basically what OP describes. I like to look cute and be a sub to a man in bed. But when I get in bed with a woman I am the top. I've tried having the woman top me and it's just not right. I end up just flipping them onto their back and having at it.
I didn't answer the question.
I think this is because I'm mildly AGP
I've always dreamt of being a woman or having womanly traits. I've been told I'm girly by many many people in life including SO's.
However, I'm comfortable with my penis. I like having it, and it's not a let down as far as size is concerned. It's a part of me and I thoroughly enjoy using it in the "intended" way in addition to bottoming for a guy.
I am way more picky when it comes to men than women though. Most women I see I would fuck if I could. Only some guys make me want to drop to my knees and call them daddy. And that usually happens after I get to know them a bit. I almost never feel that way about a guy on sight.
In conclusion I'm a whore, I don't fucking know.
Same here. I know we're still technically bi, but its hard to feel that way when you're not attracted to most guys, namely guys who actually look like guys. I'm mostly comfortable with my sexuality, just not with the label that comes with it because it implies I like normal dudes.
Exactly my point. Closest to it would be tomboys trying hard to look like a guy Or a femboy.
"Normal dudes" this is the one detail that's negative for us since we're "normal guys" just with a sexuality that counts majority bi. We technically like guys just feminine guys. I'm comfortable with it but I'm sure in a group it'd get incredibly annoying having to explain what people I'd sleep with. I can just imagine telling a female friend "I'm bi, but I top." Then them freaking out wanting to set me up with a big muscle dude that's a bottom or worse a top. I've actually had a couple do just that sending pictures of boy band guys asking "You think he's hot?"
Traps/girly boys only
Straight people would call me bi, but if I said I was bisexual and then revealed I only liked traps/girly bitch boys they'd say I wasn't really bi at all.
You can't win. Masculine men don't attract me in any way shape or form. The thought of having sex with one of them is not appealing in the slightest.
>I'm comfortable with it but I'm sure in a group it'd get incredibly annoying having to explain what people I'd sleep with.
That's why I keep it to myself, I doubt I'll ever find a guy who suits my preferences AND likes me back, whats the point of being "out' if you're not even gonna get anything out of it?
>masculine men aren't attractive at all
wut, masculine men are the most attractive men, when they're slightly fit and have soothing bright eyes, and they're well endowed, hnnng. Sometimes they're even better than a woman or a twink imo.
Similar to what >>5546357 said, I think a lot of guys are bi not in the sense that they love men the same way that they love woman, but rather they have kinks or turnons that fall under the umbrella of bisexuality. Getting fucked is less about being physically attracted to the person fucking you and more about the mental aspect of being submissive and just enjoying a good dicking, whereas fucking someone is more about enjoying their entire body, which is why I've always felt tops were gayer than bottoms.
>be FtM twink
>have fantasy of assfucking a bi male with a strapon while he lies on his back and I jerk him off, gently kissing his legs that are resting on my shoulders
>have the penis in vagina sex regularly, but occasionally take him like above
>What are your preferences
Cute, feminine guys, the least bit of facial hair and I vomit, this alone removes like 95% of guys off my radar. I'm not exactly a catch myself, which is why I don't complain, but preferences are preferences.
I view myself more as a guy who is open minded enough to fuck guys who are as cute as girls than a true bisexual.
Same f.am. same. Would be great if therr were a word for it. I feel like all I can really say is bi but that leaves too much room for random dudes I would never like at all.
ftm as well. Basically I like women and other trans people either gender, mostly ciswomen though.
(So before, I would've been considered "mostly lesbian" and that gets awkward since lesbians are so weird about that gold star purity crap and it makes it weirdly hard to say you're bi if female, heh.)
This is why some people just say "fuck it" and call themselves queer since it's more vague.
>I feel like all I can really say is bi but that leaves too much room for random dudes I would never like at all.
>I'm bi but won't tell anyone cause I don't want guys hitting on me
lol this is some next level shit, I relate though, I love how the straight label protects me from gays I'm not attracted to.
This is me as well. Smooth and hairless, just overall qt. I couldn't ever come near to fucking a "normal bro" type guy. But cute feminine twink with a nice butt and likes to dress up, yes please.