I'm a lesbian, I have no interest in men, but I've been thinking about getting a seeking arrangement profile and just seeing if I can find a rich guy to take care of me because people tell me I'm hot and I hate my job. Anyone have any advice for how to deal with having sex with someone you find disgusting? And what do straight girls do on dates? Anyone have any experience with this kind of thing
More trying to find a sugar daddy type set up. Seeking arrangements is for rich dudes looking for girls to be their arm candy and side pieces in exchange for lavish pampering basically. I'd rather fuck one disgusting dude who buys me a lot of stuff than several who pay me a little bit
I don't have any person experience with this at all, but I think a lot of mistresses find their sugar daddy through escorting. And that means fucking multiple randos until you find one that's interested in pursuing a stable thing.
Well the part I need help with isn't finding a dude, I'm sure I can do that online. I need advice on like if straight guys expect certain things from girls on dates, and how to deal with fucking someone you aren't actually attracted to
Look up sites where you can find men into financial domination. (findom)
Also maybe consider paid camwhoring. I have a friend who makes bank just doing that 3-5 days a week.
Hell, some people have even paid her just to play WoW with her.
Kind of. At least a fair amount of friends that got into some kind of sex work. Couple cam girls, strippers, one sugar baby kinda girl.
It's a lot more work than you think. You think you're pretty but you have to be beautiful and then on top extra make up. And the good shit too. The kind that won't come off easy yet looks natural, higher than sephora quality. You'll be in the gym keeping your ass good and weight off. Hair cuts often. Gotta know fashion and keep up around him. Rich dudes willing to pay for a full time girl expect basically perfection. Plus you have to have no personality but what they like. They're basically paying for you to be their perfect girl. Got issues? Sucks be broke. They're rich and likely already have a girl to piss they're money and bitch, that's the wife. Who you'll also have to figure how to navigate around.
Fuck what straight girls do on dates basically. You're gonna be perfect, agree with what he wants, wear what he expects, act how he wants without him even saying he wants it. You just gotta read that shit.
And on dick-taking you're gonna end up doing a lot more anal and just other shit that average straight girls don't wanna do. Mostly fetish shit. They're paying you cause straight girls aren't willing to do it without bitching.
So yeah that's what it is. Most likely you won't be able to find some uber rich dude actually willing to pay you the allowances and getting you shit you want along with paying your bills. Just cause I doubt you're THAT hot or smart enough to figure how to get that from a guy. Plus it's just such a pain in the ass you'll just settle for being some fake lesbian dom that a guy fucks in the ass and then skips on the pay cause you can't figure how to get the money up front.
get into femdom and train (yes you need some experience an education) to become a dominatrix
don't lie about being a lesbian (some guys will be turned on by this)
you will be able to engage in relatively low risk sex-work that usually won't involve penetrative intercourse
you won't have to kiss/lick/suck/fuck/etc most clients. maybe you will spank them. maybe they will lick your shoes. maybe you will just yell at them and won't even touch each-other.
if you are lucky, you will find some guys with a financial-domination fetish
study up on the law of where you live. if you take things too far, it is possible to end up in legal trouble (some of the same laws that prevent thing like old people getting scammed by con-artists are also applied to financial dominatrices).
don't be too surprised or devastated if you become a 'hasbian'. female sexuality is very fluid. many lesbians switch to men at some point, and increased sexual exposure to men exacerbates the chances of this happening.
be safe. have fun.