hey /lgbt/. i have a friend, and i like him a lot, but i don't know if i should tell him, because he recently got out of a bad relationship, and i don't wanna be a rebound hookup or something. sometimes i'm convinced he likes me, but other times i have no idea. should i wait a few months then tell him? or not tell him at all? i'm afraid or ruining our friendship or making shit super awkward.
besides advice, i'd like to hear some of ur stories about telling ur crush ur feelings, specially if u were friends
Try to be subtle with him, take him out to eat or see a movie or something, sit close to him and see how he reacts, best way to get the truth is some alcohol+sleepover, me and my boyfriend were just straight friends for years until we realized we were in love
i'm happy for u :) thing is, we're already p gay. like, he'll sleep over and we'll sleep in the same bed, and cuddle. he kissed me on the cheek goodbye last time he left. one time he was drunk and we were hugging and i gave his neck a peck and he he started full out kissing mine. he was drunk and i wasn't so i laughed it off but like, what the hell.
he sleeps around a lot, and whenever he mentions someone's attractive i get rly jealous. how do i show i'm jealous without being obvious? i feel like that would b a good hint
Oh my god, I thought it was only straight boys who had this problem. Tell him with real words of language that you want to date him and during this period you'd like him to not bang other dudes. That is the way out of the friend zone. You fear failure, but if he doesn't want what you want then pussyfooting around the issue isn't going to help and is only going to waste your time.