Tfw dad says im not tru-trans enough to transition because i was never a super girly boy as a kid. These fucking "this is how transgender people are" are recking me up. So i have to live with my fucking gender dysphoria because i never wanted a fucking barbie?
BTW sorry for the blog post, im just kind pissed off (pic unrelated)
are you sure you're not just an autist with a fetish for trap porn and you think it's a good idea to transition because you're literally retarded?
Because he might be trying to say that in nicer words, and it's a real problem that actually happens.
Dysphoria is not just a magic word that absolves you of accountability you know
oh yeah, sure. So to believe im trans i have to show all the fucking signs of it everyday, but he'll believe in stuff like god and whatnot like his life depends on it. Even if i were a fucking autist, what am i even supposed to do? Suffer in silence for being a man?
When I was little I was super jealous of girls with barbies and had the desire to cross dress when I was about 8.
I'm now a happy "straight acting" (not camp in any way) gay guy.
Take that transwhatevers!
If you are an autist then your suffering doesn't come from being trans. It comes from having a fucked up brain. There are coping mechanisms and resources out there for you.
I don't know what your childhood was like, but there should have been some signs. You didn't need to be some flamer or anything, but there should be signs you can point to that could help you if you really are trans.
Only you know if you are a neckbeard autist of actually trans. Don't push the issue if you aren't trans. We already have enough people jumping on the bandwagon and you'll be doing nothing other than hurting a marginalized population.
thing is i have seen 2 therapists about it. One of them said he agrees and i should go after transition. The other one can see i have tond of gender issues but is more of a christian retard and says i should wait more and i think she tried to talk me out of it. Even tho im almost sure about what to do im still pursuing it. If its not what i am, ill stop. Just doubts and internalized transphobia are kinda fucking me up to the point that people taliking about tru trans bs piss me off alot more than it should. Thanks tho
got the same shit coming out to my parents. They were all over how I didn't act girly enough as a kid but made no mention of how I didn't act very boyish either. I was a massive bookworm with no interests in sports or fighting, but because I wasn't all tutus and barbies they still don't believe I'm really trans even tho Ive been on HRT for almost two years now.