>You're so brave!!!¡¡! >So are you a double faggot or a double dyke >If you were going to date boys, why didn't you stay a girl >What, just being a lesbian wasn't enough for you >Bisexuals are all liars/in denial/using it as an excuse/don't exist >Can I watch
>Why can't you just stop liking guys and like women only? Then it wouldn't be a problem. >It's because you don't have a good relationship with your dad. >This woman was a lesbian and then she found god and became straight, so you need to try harder. >So that means you have AIDS... >What you are is a mental illness, and people want it to spread.
>>5493029 >do you prefer sausages or waffles? >I don't understand how can you get turned on by dicks! >How did you know you liked men? >I watch shemale porn sometimes but that's not gay, isn't it? >no homo bruh
>I don't judge them for it. It's god's job to judge :^) >I may not agree with it, but to each their own
This happened to me recently >female coworker walks up to me seductively >"hheeey, you have any girls on your mind ;DD?" >"Nope" >"Why not, anon? Too busy with your artwork ;DD" >"I am a homosexual." >silence >"...whatever makes you happy!" >walks away Thought that was a patronizing thing to say. Maybe I'm just a bitter gay.
>>5495338 It's straight people thinking asking about how you have sex just because you're gay. for a lot of people who aren't very open about their sex lives, that's pretty intrusive. I'm not one of them, but it's not hard to understand why it's not always a welcome question. Also the way the question is worded completely ignores the whole point of gay relationships, not to mention it's pretty sexist.
>>5494961 I had a similar experience last winter. >at a bar with a couple friends >go out for a smoke >no one else out there >girl comes out after I get a pipe ready to go >asks if I have a light >light a match and get her cigarette going before I light my pipe >we start talking a bit, hit it off >finish smoking, go back in, she joins me at the bar, we talk a bit >later we're out smoking again and she asks me if I want to go back to her place >mention I'd ask my friends if they'd want to head out too >"No, just you, and me." >seduction eyes >"Oh, I'm gay." >silence for a minute >throws her cigarette in the ashtray and stomps off >lol_okay.jpg
>>5493098 >be in two girl relationship >both of us like to cuddle in either male or female position >I work on our cars and do the handyman stuff around the house majority of the time >I usually drive when we go to places together >I give her my coat/flannel/whatever when it's cold >she tells off mean people and is much more aggressive than me >we take turns cooking and cleaning >I tend to handle the bills >I get depression and lack confidence, she's the opposite
Straight people can't comprehend a relationship with blended gender roles
>>5495726 >Straight people can't comprehend a relationship with blended gender roles It's especially weird nowadays since a lot of guys in straight relationship do household chores and a lot of girls have their own career and stuff. Yet that's still one of the most common questions people ask gay couples.
>>5493098 >>So who's the man/woman in the relationship?
>closestgay >former friend of mine is actually gay too >marries his bf >mom: I wonder who is the man and who is the woman in this relationship. I don't quite understand
did anyone of you have parents like that? she is by no means homophobic or anything I just think she doesn't quite understand that two men are two men (although those two are flamboyant faggots, so who knows)
>>5497242 I don't get why people are so upset over this question really. All she's wanting to know is who is the active partner and who is the passive partner. In her experience she is the passive partner and your dad is the active one, so naturally she wonders how this translates into their relationship she's just uninformed on the nomenclature
>>5497242 I have a couple of gay friends who are dating. My mom makes comments on how they're basically girls, even when what I'm saying about either of them has nothing to do with the gay thing. I like to think she's kidding but she has trouble with the phrase "her wife" in regards to the lesbian she works with. It's weird.
>>5498286 People get upset with it because of the connotations with "who is the man/woman" with regards to the typical breeder relationship. I.E., people don't like the fact the stereotypical gender roleS associated to the statement BEYOND what occurs in the bed. Sure it is innocent if you consider it a statement inquiring about fucking, but I think some feel it a statement way beyond just that, especially if you consider that most homo relationships are far more egalitarian than hetero ones.
There is also a cheeky connotation to it as well, as you are gay because your partner isn't a man or woman.
All and all though, it's harmless and it shouldn't upset anyone. Is it a stupid question breeders ask? Absolutely. And is that the purpose of the thread? Yup.
>>5498406 No, see that's the way you interpret that question because you think relationships are about what happens in the bedroom. As I already said they are just trying to understand the active vs passive roles of a relationship that they are used to.
>>5498997 >pansexual? u fuk kitchenware lololol Pansexual is just special snowflake bisexuality. There is no discernable difference. >ur either a man or a woman Yeah pretty much. We're a sexually dimorphic species there are only two sets of physical attributes to go off of. >u need dysphoria to be trans Yes. I feel like you're trolling hard right now, do you even know what this thread is about? >demisexual is just normal! For the most part yes. Not every needs to like someone before they fuck. This doesn't mean you need to use some made up bull shit label to buy you extra special snowflake points.
>>5495430 I don't really care enough to educate some dip shit about why I like penes. By the way, penes is the plural for penis.I swear to god. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/penis It's pronounced like "pee-neez"
>>5493029 >"Who molested you?" [-] "Okay I believe you, but if you ever want to talk..." >"Maybe you just haven't met the right girl." >"Really; but you don't sound gay." >"Ooooooh, that's why you chose to not believe in God." >"Gay sex is pointless" >"Homosexuals never have truly loving relationships between each other. It's just lust and sin." >"So she started squirting this weird clearish stuff outa her cunt when I pulled out, it was like she wet herself, so fucking hot. What'd you do this weekend anon?" [Tell co-worker I went to dinner and a movie with a guy on a first date, say it was nice and I want to take it slow to see where it goes] "Dude, I don't want to hear about you doing gay stuff. Do whatever you wanna do bro, I'm not gonna judge, but don't tell me gross things like that. You gotta define yourself in ways other than your sexuality, ya know be mature and shit grow as human being? Oh yeah that reminds me, so then I shoved my face in her snatch..."
I never came across anything too stupid. One drunk guy kept bro-fisting and high-fiving me because he was virtue signaling to this progressive chick I was having a conversation with. It was more amusing than anything. I tried to help him out by bullshitting about how rare it is to meet a straight guy who is openly supportive of lgbt people, but I don't think she cared.
>>5493029 Most "gay" people aren't actually gay. There are only a small minority of actual gay people and the rest are like the people on this board. Sad people who pretend to be gay/trans/whatever to be different because they are sad loners who never got enough attention.
>"So she started squirting this weird clearish stuff outa her cunt when I pulled out, it was like she wet herself, so fucking hot. What'd you do this weekend anon?" [Tell co-worker I went to dinner and a movie with a guy on a first date, say it was nice and I want to take it slow to see where it goes] "Dude, I don't want to hear about you doing gay stuff. Do whatever you wanna do bro, I'm not gonna judge, but don't tell me gross things like that. You gotta define yourself in ways other than your sexuality, ya know be mature and shit grow as human being? Oh yeah that reminds me, so then I shoved my face in her snatch..."
Straight men are awesome like that, I love it when they go into details about their sex life and talk about how big their dick is. Then I'll try to act straight and say I like to fucks girls in the pussy too. One time me and some co-workers were doing witch one would you fuck and how, then I asked for how much money would you suck a dick, one of them said "I ain't into that shit" and they looked at me like I was some faggot. Pretty embarrassing for a "straight guy"...
I can't think of anythings most straights say that hasn't been already said in this thread, but the two most amazing arguments I've heard about lgbt stuff came from my parents. They were my mom arguing that it's bad for straight couples to have anal sex because that's the gay peoples sex and my dad getting pissed at her for it, and then another time where my dad was arguing that transwomen who aren't attracted to men aren't trutrans while my mother argued back that straight transwomen were just really gay men and only lesbian trans women were really trans.
My parents have a lot of heated discussions about things they don't understand and it's weirdly adorable.
>you're reinforcing sexist stereotypes by wearing makeup and dressing feminine >you erase women's stories and appropriate their struggle by saying your one >you're not a woman because you weren't raised as one >you're only dysphoric because of gender roles and stereotypes, if we got rid of them, you wouldn't have dysphoria anymore
>I'd literally rather go gay. hory shet. >Give me a single reason why this creature does not have to be put up against the wall and shot >WHAT IN THE FUCKING HELL IS THAT AND WHY IS IN MY COUNTRY >KILL IT BEFORE IT LAYS EGGS >my how i wish i could end their misery. >I had a boner but not anymore. >You gotta be PC, bro. Come on bro It's 2016 >people claim that this isn't a mental illness >This thing, and countless other monstrosities, is living in my city. Give me a sword. >I hope his parents died before having to see the abomination their son had become >2016 : This tranny is seen as an ideal sex object and not degenerate. If I fucked it, I would be lauded as open-minded and progressive >I find her sad. When she commits suicide and she will. Or dies from treatment. Sjw will just add her to the numbers of trans people who died because of the goddamn patriarchy.
>>5505152 >lmao do u live in the bible belt or some shit Sort of, yeah, Huntington Beach Orange County California. It's like southern California's containment city for middle class social conservatives. I actually refer to it as "the beach front bible belt."
e.g. -I live within walking distance of the guy that wrote the "Sodomite Suppression Act." -We have a long rich culture of neo-nazi storm fags. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LtJK5C1yAwY / -Our main street is a favorite haunt of the famous young earth cretinist and "Audacity" creator Ray Comfort. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dVl9-Pxzkrk
I'm convinced West Hollywood, North Park Sandiego and San Francisco are LGBT meccas mostly because of how fucking nuts my neighbors are.
>>5493029 >"Hurrr hurrrrrrrbr, so who's the woman in the relationship?" We are literally two men in a relationship, we are both the man. How fucking hard is that for autistic fag-hags to understand? Also, that's intrusive as fuck anyway desu. Like, I don't ask you if you fuck your bf with a strap on.
>>5493169 >>Bisexuals are all liars/in denial/using it as an excuse/don't exist I've heard this more than lesbians and gay guys than straight people. only a few straight people have jokingly said, "yeah that fits, you do want it all you greedy bastard."
>>5494961 >coworker didn't know you're gay and wanted to hit it up. >you explain you're gay. >oh okay as long as you're happy > The fuck is wrong with that bitch
Stop being a bitter bitch. you basically shut down conversation from the sound of it instead of saying something to at least end the conversation in a polite matter so she said something to show she aknowledge your comment and end the awkward conversation.
Not trying to be an ass, but you seem to have taken it for more than what it was.
>>5494992 so you're getting butthurt over nothing?
>>5495676 not saying you are, but are you flirty? or did she perhaps mistake something as flirting with her? either way the way she handled the rejection is shitty; I'm just trying to figure out why she acted that way.
>>5498523 do you have a source showing it isn't that way (in first world countries, not in africa in places that believe having sex with a virgin will cure it.)
>>5502951 they literally just said to educate her that you are gay, not why you are.
>>5505628 Nope, inane evangelical christian propaganda. The film's message is for Christians to be pushy proselytizing assholes to gays and lesbians, cuz we might go to hell if they don't convince us to stop being gay. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g2WqiFDKAok
>>5505761 >I highly doubt that last one to be true. I took that to be an exaggeration of what some straight guys do. When they talk about chicks with each other they're all like "hell yeah I'd eat that pussy like I have a disease and the antidote is inside the pussy" but when they confront gay stuff they react hypocritically.
>>5506003 alright I can see that then, considering I'm the type that doesn't really speak of my sex life with co-workers or friends; though when I worked in a grocery story a few years back the people literally only talked about sex, who they wanted to fuck and stuff like that. As a bi male I openly said shit about hot guys, and some of them would say shit like, "dude I ain't gay." or "Did you just call me gay asshole? I'll fucking knock you out." (As a troll I started calling him gay more often because he was just a bitch trying to act alpha.) Though the reason they are probably against this kind of stuff is the straight to gay ratio is really low it was 5 straight guys to 1-2 bi guys. though I don't know if the other guy was bi, or just talked about the stuff to try to make me feel more comfortable.
>>5506056 The conversation was at a Blockbuster, minimum wage, nothing to do but talk with each other about everything and nothing or go insane.
I slightly exaggerated the raunchiness and compressed a 20 minute conversation into a fraction of a green post for the sake of brevity and wit. The details are all there as I remember them though.
The guy I was talking to was a braggart, but to his credit the next shift we had together he offered an apology for being a hypocrite (pretty sure the assistant manager lectured him on it though). After that he still would talk to any guy that would listen to him about his sexual encounters, but he hushed up whenever I was around.
>>5506089 you're getting sad over the fact that you look like a girl. IDK if you're a guy or a girl, but if someone looks like a girl I act like they're a female until they say otherwise. it shouldn't be something you get sad over, and if you do then just dress differently, cut your hair differently, and maybe try to talk differently.
>>5506170 I feel like that's what most minimum wages jobs entail, though I worked with the stock overnight so after we broke down the load we weren't really able to talk much except on lunch, which I tried to time with the cooler people, or to be alone. the other guys would sometimes force everyone to wear a walkie talkie to act more official and to find cute/sexy girls easier, and forgetting they were straight I'd sometimes accidentally send them to look at a hot guy, XD tell them idk where she went she was just there.
but damn dude, that guy sounds annoying A.F. Though in all likelihood half of it was probably a lie.
>>5505397 actually thanks to epigenetics we know that a traumatic event experienced the the grandmother increases the odds of becoming gay. It could be an archaic mecanism created by evolution so that in dire times the population would be naturallycontrolled by making some people unattracted to the opposite sex.
>>5511246 >whatever makes you happy! >oh okay as long as you're happy! You didn't say it was in a sarcastic voice, which makes it appear that you were a salty bitch over someone saying something nice; so go fuck yourself you aspergers diagnostic limp noodle.
>>5510948 Fucking this. I don't want to be trans. I wish I was a normie and didn't have to worry about any of this shit. I tried to deny it away for like 14 years and all it did was fuck my life up.
>Why would you want to MUTILATE yourself??? >Being trans is like wanting to cut off a perfectly healthy arm or leg! >I thought you were doing the hormone thing - you still want surgery, too? MOTHER I CANNOT MAKE YOU UNDERSTAND
>So you're seriously gay? Why? >Like not joking, for real? >You don't even look gay
Even worse just happened today when my friend slipped that I'm gay to his female coworker >Oh my god, you're gay?! >You found another one for me! (to friend that introduced us) >Well if I ever can't decide what shoes to wear I'll know who to ask
>>5513861 Last I heard the scouts were now allowing openly gay scouts and leaders. Or did the Mormon's get their way again, and shove all the gay scouts back into the closet or out of the scouts entirely?
>Hey Anon, Anon, Anahh*arp* hey. That guy; that one, the one over there. The faggot grabbing his coat. The one that turned me down. He's gay right!? I think he has got to be gay, because what straight guy would ever turn me down? So how'd you guys tell *hic*, you can tell when another guy's gay, so tell me.
It was a debate in the 90s and mid 2000s because back then they didn't. Now they do. There was a lot of ignorant nonsense batted around by people who opposed them allowing gay scout leaders or coaches or whatever the hell the grownups are called.
The other night the guy I've been in love with for a year now was was pretty tipsy and started talking to me about life and I decided to make a move and kiss him. Some fat ugly looking bitch noticed and came over and said that it was cute but she'll take care of him now. And took him away and fucked him in the bedroom I later found out.
>>5494961 I have something similar at work >anon you're a handsome guy, why don't you have a gf yet? >hey anon, wanna help show my daughter around school (when I was in HS, my coworker tried to make me dare her daughter) And the best of all >anon, if you acted more gay your sales numbers would be bettet
>>5524927 Similarly when I'm with my straight guy friends >he's gay but he's cool >he won't hit on you, promise >gay guys are like the ultimate wingmen bro >he'll teach you how to dress up for the chicks dude
>>5498266 I literally cannot understand the level of stupidity or self-repression needed to be this close minded. Sometimes I wonder if I was just one of many people not born slightly mentally retarded and able to understand these basic concepts of human behaviour.
>>5505177 People get crazy mad about this but how is this worse than those disgusting old men that don't wash, drink all day and grab at young women in bars/ openly make racist comments? Because there are thousands of those.
>>5505265 I'm bi and I'm divorced and pretty disillusioned about long term relationships but being opposed is a bit far. Don't push your views on relationships on other people. Other people's marriage doesn't really affect you desu.
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