Why is this a thing now? I mean I understand when I was a kid I wanted to be Optimus Prime, but I went through puberty and all of that changed,
Seriously though, these people are fucking with actual gender issues making up “identities” that they’ll drop when they come out of puberty. Meanwhile, people with ACTUAL gender dysphoria will have to deal with the bullshit the Tumblrkin left in their wake.
How long will it take for this to pass or will little kids like this push actual transgender folk away?
So does this mean I can identify as a Naruto AMV with a Limp Bizkit song as my gender?
>Why is this a thing now? I mean I understand when I was a kid I wanted to be Optimus Prime, but I went through puberty and all of that changed,
The "tumblrkin" as you put it are mostly teenagers as well, what makes you think they won't grow out of it too? Give it a few years for the next fad to come and all of this shit will be forgotten.
(????) friendly reminder that if you are white and try to claim yourself as a nekogender, you are culturally appropriating and erasing this gender from PoC. (????)
Shrug. Why get so worked up about it? Let them have their fun until they drop it, and let them help with the issues that will remain.
Some person calling themself a tri-gender pyrofox doesn't affect you at all. It's just going to be one of those things that they regret when they come out of their chuuni phase.
why is looking up the things random sad pathetic antisocial autistic children are doing on the internet and making it out like its a thing a thing now?
when i was a kid, we'd all hop in a car, drive out into the middle of a field and huff propane straight from the tank.
you kids today dont know what fun is anymore.
>yfw this stuff has already changed the wording in the DSM IV to include nonbinary and neutral 'genders' and presentation choices as basis for dysphoria
>yfw this behavior is popular is university undergrads who compromise the majority of psychology, gender, and sociology research subjects pool
>yfw crackpot religious leaders and therapists are using this conflagration of trans and trans* to further their 'it's just a phase' ideology onto patients and congregations
>yfw you have no face
This is pushed by third-wave radical feminists who use young, weak-minded patsies like this to dilute the inherently binary nature of transsexualism with "gender is a social construct" tourist teenagers who grow out of being "faegender", or whatever the fuck they make up, by their 20s at the most. In the meantime, they treat transsexuals as if they're bigots because they don't accept a pangender otherkin slitherborn as one of them.
Second wave radical feminists are too stupid and too painfully conservative-minded to utilize this strategy to destroy the (non-existent) social clout of transsexuals because of the threat they pose to feminist ideological rhetoric.
sadly its these Trans trenders who really are Trans* that fuck everything up for everyone who is treally trans i dispise the group espically since its quickly becoming the main source of power in the trans community while making the community looks worse. the sad thing is that even those tumblr people tend to hate transsexuals for saying stuff like they dont go through the same thing
That's so incredibly fucking stupid.
>note: this gender is Asian-exclusive
Do these ignorant weeb fucks not realize that Japan isn't the only country with houdecats.
Jesus, this whole fake gender garbage reminds me of all of my friends in the 2nd grade making up superpowers for themselves and LARPing during recess.
I volunteer at our local AIDs foundation, there are two groups, one for teens to 25 year olds and one for 30+, I stuck around for both once, and the teen one was all special snowflakes talking about bunselves, and the one actual transgirl there who actually had dysphoria was so uncomfortable, the undertone bullying the trenders gave her was unreal. Switch to the adult group, and someone brings up tumblr genderkins and they say the same thing, that it is hurting the actual trans community so much. This is pretty sad because there really is no outlet irl for actual transkids to go without seeing tumblrkins invading their spaces.
This so much. I'm a young trans man, and there's a few groups in a city I live near, but they're all called shit like "many genders" or "all genders of the rainbow" or fucking dumb stuff like that. Or they have "FAAB trans groups" (I fucking hate the terms Female/Male-Assigned-At-Birth because it just lumps trans men in with women and trans women in with men), but my issues as someone who is the middle of transitioning and just wants to transition to male and live as a man are completely different to a genderqueer or agender who was born female and still lives as female but wants everyone to call them by a special name and pronouns.
Urg, one of the fucking groups even said that otherkin were welcome but "truscum" aren't, like they'll accept fucking people who think they're bigender dragons but not actual trans people
"truscum" and "tucutes" fucking piss me off. I am the one you replied to, and on the community FB page they are trying to spread that shit there. As one of the older adults there who is supposed to be support for everyone, it just makes me want to punch the fuck out the the "tucutes" for pretending to be that shit and alienating what they claim to "identify" as. We have started letting some of the "truscums" that are not tumblrinas into the adult group for a bit more support if the need it, but yea, that shit is vile as fuck and pisses me the fuck off.
It really pisses me off a lot too, especially when people who still live as the sex they were born (like people who were born female but still live as women, happily wear women's clothes showing off their breasts, or people who were born male with beards) tell trans people who are going through transition that we have privilege or w/e, or make all these dumb "jokes" about cis people when they pretty much are cis (and there's nothing wrong with being cis, hell I wish I didn't have dysphoria and didn't have to transition).
It pisses me off most of all because all these genderspecial "you are whatever you identify with" "die cis scum" idiots are everywhere online, and they're going to be a lot of people's first impression of the trans community. And I bet in five years after this trend is over most of them won't be trans anymore, but I still will, and I'll have to deal with the consequences of their shitty activism.
"FAAB trans groups" (I fucking hate the terms Female/Male-Assigned-At-Birth because it just lumps trans men in with women and trans women in with men)
why the fuck would they do this?
Sorta. Tumblrinas make shit up to SEEM more interesting without actually putting forth any effort to enrich their lives.
Also, playing the victim ironically gives them power by placing them in a position of unassailable moral superiority.
AMAB and AFAB and all variations are misused a lot, but they were not created to lump in trans men with cis women and trans women with cis men.
They were created to replace stuff like female-bodied or biologically female and so on because a lot of stuff attributed to it is more about birth assignment.
Because people start making up random genders and my gender and situation will start being a joke too. Being trans* is not snowflake-kid shit, and I doubt that being plantgendered will make you suicidal because you will never be entirely a plant-- whereas being legit trans* can.
Holy shit you guys are straight oppressors.
Genders are nothing more than a PERSONALITY TYPE.
I can have a penis and call myself a female and dance around in a dress.
I can have a vagina and wear a tuxedo can call myself sir.
There's NOTHING physical about gender. It is all about how you want to present yourself publicly.
I figured a transboard like this would have some open minds, but I should have known better.
stop being prejucided, what is happening on tumblr is a revolutionary process of self discovery.
it is helping people know themselves on an ever more just and personal scale.
it is helping non-binary soulpeople break the chains of cishet-centric universalism and oppression.
"you" might feel ok defining yourself in terms neatly defined in a narrow, cishet-centric, cishet-written dictionary for cishet-readers but for the rest of us it isn't.
some of us are just to complex to bind ourselves in a single bland word.
because as levi-strauss wrote, language delimitates the known univeerse so if cishet-centric dictionaries don't recognize our identities then that is an act of denial and an act of oppression.
in fact i dare say the dictionary is one of the foremost weapons of oppression ever invented, right up there with guns, gas chambers and "white" identities.
i define as a (demi-essential) paleogender (zimbabwe-core) neuroatypical grrrlfemme-presenting pansexual soul.
if you have any questions then i am open to answer them so long as you respect my pronouns kay/kayz/kayselph aaand my tense (past, because im paeogender, duhh :3)
There comes a point in every species progression toward a singularity where a purge is needed in order to ensure that some concepts are not granted exponential growth.
I think we're way past that point.
I went to a university group at my college. One time i heard" we are all a little trans". We also had a fucking" demigirl" struggling with her identity, she was femme as fuck she just cut her hair short and dyed it green. Then the leader of this group was "Stephanie" who a year before i went there went around asking all the gay girls "she" knew if it was ok to call herself a lesbian cause she was trans now (she hadn't even started hormones and looked entirely like a dude). All she fucking talked about was "queering" the term lesbian. Shes only attracted to girls and has a girlfriend who "she" fucks all the time. She has reach out events where she sits at a booth and advocates for trans people and educates the public. Im sure all the see is some weirdo talking about how gender is all on the inside, which im sure hurts trans people.
I went to this group identifying as just a normal guy even though i had already started hrt and the amount of cringes i had was unbelievable. It was like they all wanted to be in the secret fucking tranny club. This one aweosmely hot and passable ftm came in and i swear they all treated him like a godam celebrity. Fuck and like i dont even have much ground to stand on because i only came to terms with my unhappiness over being male at 20 which is really late. So maybe im a trender to but ill be damned if i am going to all this shit spinning out of control and damaging trans people that dont get off on being tumblrtard gender activists. Also all these people went to tumblr.
Because we are too busy trying to cover our own asses and separating ourselves as far far far away from this stupidity as possible, it is already bad enough for us without this kind of shit, the last thing we need is 12 year olds claiming trans status just so they can be "special bun/buns/bunselves".
If you want to believe in nekogender (and whatever other gender anyone comes up with in a moment of boredom) being a legit gender, good for you. But when cis people will come at trans people saying that their gender is fluff since some bored kid's gender is, you'll be fucked first.
I will be a cute fucking bun even if no one believes in me.
you all act like you aren't a few shades away from these nut jobs yourself.
you are just as "Special Snowflaky" as they are, you just aren't as blatant about it.
hell there is a thread seriously discussing you guys making "Trans Island"
holy shit, sexuality has moved into OC Donut Steel territory
don't you caps-speak me you arrogant misogynist prick just because you want to compensate your small unsatisfied needle dick doesn't mean you have to impose your phallic capitals on my body you fucking pig damn you got me triggered there hon you happy? fuck you
bitch i come from the great zimbabwe look it up and educate yourself about the greatness that was the ancient megalopolises of afrika before white men came and raped what they called a terra nullius not realizing they owe everything to its ancient wisdom bitch that's right shake and tremble because the third world is rising and in tomorrows world therell be no room for you and your kind
fucker are you trying to shut up the persons of color you fucking rapist what do you want to choke us with your dick? right you fucking pig you better fuck back off to the cold rainy land you came from because america belongs to my kind the kind you and your creed hae shut up for way too long so no i won't stop talking motherfucker because today i have the opportunity of voicing, of channeling the opinions and sufferings of billions of colored people so i will scream, and i will shout and there ain't nothing you can do to shut me up fucker
my people aren't a joke motherfucker hell i bet when the time comes and the people of color rise up and throw your asses to the sea then youll realize it isnt a joke but itll be too late then and in fact its too late now you peace of shit
oh yeah thats right hon push me to the edge of my seat annoy me n shit i dont fucking care you bunch of fuckers. fuck i hate dealing with your kind all the damn time but let me educate you just on this point you prick : masquerade and deception are white inventions just like when you fuckers gave disease ridden blankets right so dont you dare try to disease ridden blanket me motherfucker coz im not taking any of it and dont you dare parody my feelings my opinions my souls coz we is paleogender, sapiosexual, lithromantic etc and all other oppressed gsm/poc minorities and by making fun of that you are in effect committing an act of extreme imperial colonial violence huh you dont understand what i am then ask me questions be an open minded motherfucker!!! dont treat me as the "other" because at the end of the day we are all queer and poc its just some people cough* westerners cough* who decided to secede from that equalitarian stance to take on genocidal ideologies like whiteness and binary genderism ps jesus was gender non binary but thats something fuckers like you deny
paleogender - is paleogender zir who's gender expression is comparable to that which characterized souls of past aeons (the hindu satya yuga, the "age of truth"), that is before their gender was arbitrarily defined solely from their carnal envelope. is "x"-core someone who's soul hails from the past aeons of "x". e.g. zimbabwe-core paleogender persons have souls which hail from the ancient city of great zimbabwe. note: paleogenders from what is commonly called "ancient egypt" aren't "egypt"-core but kemet-core, kemet being the indigenous name and "egypt" being an imperialist name which is an important trigger for poc's who hold this issue to heart.
to fellow paleogenders (in particular kemet-core but basically all afrika-core paleogenders) i make some videos on how to activate your shamanistic powers through mantras, or hekas. heres one you'll find useful when surfing on these forums: