I think she just might be fat. Her photos are mostly face pics
Will post convo in a minute
I never brought up this shit. I asked her what she thought of me since she asked me earlier.
Had to prod her since she didn't want to say. Didn't bring up working out at all
she's right. you should have agreed with her and said what's wrong with being superficial ?
but you're a dumbass.
9/10 people who use buzzwords like pretentious,hipster,superficial and asshole have no idea why they hate it. especially girls.
ask yourself what's wrong with being superficial?
I found her on Facebook. Pretty sure she is fat.
Good advice but I didn't follow it, I was annoyed
Because she is fat?
That makes no sense
Because she posts color filtered photos of her wide face and pushed up cleavage on social media. She is superficial. You are the proxy by which she can address her flaws without putting herself down.
Yes, Freud here is absolutely right, isn't it kind of weird that she said people who go to the gym are superficial when she herself judged you for going to the gym?
Also people who believe that others who care about their appeareance are superficial, are in most cases, really egocentrics, they want to be judged by what "they are inside", which is just mostly, "why can't people just look and observe me for hours? Why do they need to be so superficial and not realize how deep i am?".
No, jesus fucking christ no. Never, EVER respond. She is not arguing with you. She is arguing with herself and she's already done it at least 100 times before. There is nothing you can say thst she hasn't already disregarded herself. Do you know what she hasn't heard, though? Silence. Silence will drive her crazy because shutting up is the one thing she is incapable of doing.
silence works. but making them thinking is much better especially on a sex app like tinder.
if op played his cards right he would be getting a blowie right now.
people like that expect to be told to fuck off. but if he agreed, should would be forced to use her brain and explain why
Blowjobs are easy to come by. There's no use in debating a 6/10 on the finer points of her delusion for a blowie.
That statement is ridiculously ironic. I bet she doesn't even realize it either. Can't be blamed for it I guess. Children are raised with this idea that everyone is equal so if you're good at one thing you must lack in other areas. In reality there exist people who excel at everything and people who are bad at everything.
Behave like you don't care about what she thinks, change topic, be a douche and she will feel attracted to you. Find hot bitches and be shure she notices it. She will crave the D
Not too late to turn her into swimmer high test qt?
Translation: she's upset that she's not attracted to anyone but gym guys.
I bet she got her heart broken by a fit dude and now she's taking it out on everyone else. Steer clear of this one.
But are you? All the negative connotations of being superficial aside, are you society's definition of superficial? That is, do you value physical appearance, action, and presentation significantly more than thoughts, internal monologues, intentions, and feelings?
In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with valuing physical action and results over "muh feelings"; if anything, you've got to be seriously delusional if you believe your feelings and beliefs matter more than what you do and how you do it.
>matched today with muslim who wears the hijab
Anybody have any experience? Any chance that she just wears it in public but is down for hooking up? Or is there like a 90% chance I wouldn't even be "allowed" to hug her?
I'd be careful with Freudian interpretation of like actual life.
But yeah sometimes shit is just textbook.
But the reason that therapy exists is not to confront the client suddenly and shockingly with his or her faults. Their ego will recoil and heap defense mechanisms in the way of the truth. OP, just move on. Either you throw her flaws in her face and piss her off, ignore her, or you decide to initiate long distance fucking psychotherapy whereby, over the course of weeks, you establish a trusting and theraputic relationship and slowly teach her to understand herself. Ask questions about relationship with parents, give personality quizzes, try to figure out any actual underlying disorder (versus simply poor self esteem). Build her up, earn trust, help to develop adaptive coping mechanisms (versus bad ones).
Or you're actually a narcissistic git idk.
ruined, should have just 'wanna sauna and swim at my place l8ter toninght?'
my tip for tinder is before replying imagine ur a hr guy doing interview for riding ur dick and theres 1000 resumes/swipes to go fru
>bitch, im training to better myself, instead of some people who sit on their fat ass and post to instagram all day. when im 80 ill be healthy, while you will be a tub of lard. think about that when you criticize me for caring about fitness
fuck this cunt. not literally.
if she is scared of superficial men that means she is insecure about her body and thus ugly both outside and inside
>" No there is not a chance you could beat me"
HOLY SHIT WHY
My nigger. Me too. Man I was at a hotel with a sauna last month and was just hoping for a girl to come into the sauna when I was there so I could say that line, but it never happend
Holy fuck if you think that's a dumb thing to say to a bird you've got a long way to go
Prolly best thing OP could have said, women love to be reminded of our dominance, particularly physical dominance
yeah you know there's a chance she's right. i feel like due to most of the posters here it is true.
BUT the hilarious thing, is that even the most insecure of men STILL reaches nowhere near the insecurity of even an attractive female
They truly are a pathetic people
TIL you're superficial if you want to be strong and lean
life choices != superficial
that bitch is judgmental
I'm a gril and telling you this - she'll lead you down a dark, dark path OP
don't do it
>I learned that from Peep Show
>Learning this line from some weaboo BBC cuckold show
>Not learning it from based Kramer
>tfw small/average dicklet
just kill me senpai