How to be a great lover?
>inb4 depends on the girl
1. Foreplay, motherfucker. Find erogenous zones and exploit them.
2. Foreplay round two, fingering and cunnilingus. Try to find a rhythm/location/stroke she responds to most strongly, then do that thing repeatedly without chaining until she pops.
3. Same as round two but with yer derk. Start slow, many women prefer slow thrusting over fast thrusting. Build up speed slowly, find an angle/speed/position she particularly responds to and do that exact thing until she pops.
"Do the thing that works and don't not do that thing" had me making my last gf cum double-digit times in a single fuck session. I'm not a very experienced lover, not boasting, the technique works.
> How to be a great lover
How do I do this? Serious???
>Oh that's easy. You just gotta find the clitoris.
first good answer, thanks.
Does dick size really matter that much? My dick is 6 inches long but on the thin size
>tfw skinny 5 inch dick looks ridiculous on my 6'4" frame
What the fuck are you talking about
I just wanna be that guy where girls look back and say:
>yeah, he was a great fuck.
And then recommend me to their girlfriends
I have never not been able to make a girl cum
2 main tips: Patience and dominance
Understand that it takes time, and make her know that you're willing to put out
The female orgasm is much about her psychology, it's not as physical as with guys, so learn how to talk to girls properly while doing your thing
Never ask for permission, take control and make her know that you're doing this because YOU WANT TO.
I've had tons of experiences where the girl is just lukewarm then cums 10 seconds later because I say "I could do this all night"
Also look up videos on how to eat pussy, finger, etc
I'm more worried about getting chicks like these in bed than pleasing them. I like my gf but she doesn't satisfy me sexually at all and I've been having uncontrollable wet dreams nightly about pumping my seed deep into some prime teen pussy. I never used to be attracted to sluts, but now I have an overpowering need to fuck them. Tips please.
Dick size matters but not above a certain low minimum (I hear about 4 inches, it's all probably broscience). You can always take smaller women for lovers if you want to get extra mileage out of your dick length. Btw 6 inches is above avg.
PS: The majority of women orgasm due to clitoral stimulation primarily or entirely. That means positions with high friction and great depth (so your pubic bone is against their vulva) are probably most ideal. Anyway try everything, ask for her opinions, take it easy and don't stress. Stress is the boner killer.
I've always had best success with a "come hither" motion. IE supinate your hand and use your middle and ring finger to rake the anterior side of the vagina. The G-Spot is there and usually you'll find sensitive zones and muscular contractions etc.
Depends on the woman homo.
My last girl couldn't come unless I was all but punching her in the snatch, the one before that I could barely nibble on and she'd be siezing.
Each girl likes different shit, you gotta build your skill base and submit your resume and see how she responds. Then make adjustments to the game plan and throw in a couple more clichés and see how that goes, rinse and repeat.
>Reading these tips as a vag owner
You guys can probably give better advices than I can, I have no idea what would a good fingering be like.
Rub the nipples gently.
Rub the clit left and right fast as fuck
Don't push the clit too hard
Suck the tits as you do so
Make her cum
Then put your dick in her
You'll have free reign after that
She got there
Now do whatever you want
Tru, I've had women I literally couldn't make cum without licking their clit for like 40 minutes (and I have a huge dick) and I've had other women who'd cum before I could even get the whole thing in them. It's like how some guys cum after two strokes and others can't cum without jerking off at light speed.
>I just wanna be that guy where girls look back and say:
>>yeah, he was a great fuck.
>And then recommend me to their girlfriends
If you're serious about this, you're a fucking moron that's watched too many movies.
>What you look like in clothes matters more than what you look like naked.
>Women are more insecure than men
>Dick size is pretty irrelevant if you know how to stroke right and eat the pussy(used to be stressed about a 6.5 topkekels)
>Sex with a woman you genuinely love is fucking magical and beats 100 tramps any day of the week.
>Always wrap your willy because STDs are fucking rampant.
I'm a 20 year old kissless virgin with similarly autistic male friends. How do I lose my virginity?
Well when you grow up watching a shit ton of porn realistic expectations go down the shitter. I was literally scared to death when I lost my virginity because I thought I wasn't big enough...ended up laying pipe though.
is that a dick head
of a vagina?
like, what exactly am i looking at here?
how to be a great lover
-be very good at tongue
-experiment with your tongue look for sensitive spots look for reactions
-as long as your tongue is good then you can fuck up as many times as you can really
>tfw even if I cum to early I can compensate with my tongue
Besides the misogynistic, deeply troubling part about manipulating this is a great read.
It's weird: I feel a bit of a dejavu reading this. It's like I felt these things on a deeper level before I ever read about it. Weird
Similar question as the above:
I wrestle and fight alot with a guy I have a crush on (we take combat classes together). I'm not going to touch his junk, but what can I do to flirt with him in the process? I'm thinking I'll bite his neck maybe? Honestly if I had the chance I'd sit on his face but he's probably too good to let me get that far.
I'm aware it can be painful for the woman. I had a gf (kek) that whenever we drunk fucked, I was aiming for her cervix. She hated it. But it felt kinda weird kinda good rubbing against the top of my tip.
What I've found out is when you have the chick on her back on the bed and her legs are up and you're leaning on them. What' I've found is to put pressure on her pelvis while I'm thrusting. Like right above the shaft where her bush would grow if she didn't shave and push down and towards me.
I remember freaking out the first time I saw a girl have a legit orgasm, I legit thougth she was seizing. You guys should try it I've had 90% success rate at making a girl convulse by doing that.
Can vouch, I use the palm of my hand to push down just above my pelvis (so it looks almost into my lower stomach) while I'm masturbating. 10/10 feels. Similarly if she's on her stomach can put a pillow there to add pressure.
>used to make my stripper ex-gf cum multiple times
>my anatomy/physio fuckbuddy only would cum with penetration and putting a pillow under her ass was a must
>made my current GF cum just by rubbing her clit through her jeans
It's not always us guys.
Super thankful my current GF seems very easy to please.
When you finger her, pretend you're spiderman so your fingers rub her G-spot while the heel of your palm rubs her clit.
No, it might be a good book if you hadn't had any experience. For experienced people, that book is useless. The concepts about dominance should be known already and when things could start to get interesting the author simply does not describe them any further.
Example: The author keeps mentioning the "constantly orgasmic state" (iirc) but fails to explain how to actually get a woman into that state. He uses poor generalizations that don't help you at all. Saying "fuck her until she gets into that state" does not explain what to do and how to do in order to reach that state. If it was a matter of simply fucking normally, every woman would get into that "rare and special state" all the time.
Another thing he fails to explain: He mentions a position for "g-spot sex", but fails to explain what he actually means in detail. Even though I assume that he refers to that missionary style position where you have the woman's legs above your shoulders, he doesn't explain how to constantly stimulate the g-spot and lead her to orgasm. He doesn't talk about pace or depth or anything.
tl;dr: The book might be full of nice ideas, but it's just ideas.
You are just out of touch with reality. Every girl talks about size and how good other guys were in bed with her friends.
>How to be happy?
Keep lieing to yourself that you are happy. Do it every day, and distract yourself with other shit. Every time you feel a feel step back and say "nah im happy" and smile. Eventually you will become so good at this that you wont even think about being anything else besides happy. This actually works, it may sound depressing or sad or some other gay shit. That is the pussy in you brain thinking. Kick the pussy out.
>tfw no high test qt's neck to suckle upon
Why even live?
Simply just find a way to be around women with similar interests as you. Whatever your good at or enjoy doing do it in a more communal setting. In my experience that's the most full proof way of getting a chick you like and can relate to and who's down to bang.
>try to find sauce
>not what I was expecting
How do you deal with knowing your girl had the same amount of sex partners as you? Shes just became legal and already had as many as me and im a few years older than her. She thinks i banged at least 15 chicks cause i can last alot and make her cum all the time but really only had 2 night stands and she had 2 boyfriends which were even older than me.
I love her to death but it bothers me that some pedos fucked a minor even tho they dated for at least 4 months each. I know its insecurity on my part, probably wouldnt matter if i had banged more women.
great lover you mean great at sex? Because that definitely depends on the girl too.
Anyway, learn her reactions to the things that you do. Also, try to indicate what you like and dislike in a subtle way, so that you don't get bored with it and just do it like you do not care at all.
Just give it your all, anon. Sex is something where you can give a bit of yourself to another person (no pun intended... maybe a little) but it can only be done if you do it right.
1) always expect the worst. You will either be prepared or pleasantly surprised.
2) realize nothing lasts forever. Good times? Enjoy them while they are there. Bad times? Push through till they aren't.
3) stop wanting petty shit. Stop wanting as much as you can actually. Wanting shit leads to wanting more, and getting attached, and then being upset when something breaks/fails. Anything you get, from a new car to a relationship, is just temporary. Best case scenario it lasts till you kick the bucket. But understanding it's always possible to lose what you have, and to appreciate it rather than wanting new shit.
Long winded for something people probably won't read, but this shits changed my life. Maybe it can change yours too
Marriage is a trap for men. Women pretty much base their legacy on what they can spit out from their cootch and that requires a stable environment in a best case scenario. To ensure survival the woman will try to be the pretty one in the relationship so the guy feels lucky when she's really just keeping her options open which is why they get shitty with us wanting to remain fit and healthy. They fear we're going to ruin everything so they tell us we're fine the way we are and shit like that before leaving us and taking half anyway.
Don't think not getting married changes anything either. You can just be with them for 6 months and have the same result depending on where you live. They've rigged the system fellas and most of us are too blind to do anything other than fall for this love meme because from birth mother drummed it into us. Remember her telling you to treat women right, respect them, never talk shit or shout at them, etc? Gotta get that indoctrination in when they're young...
Learn what it takes to be in a de facto relationship and avoid that shit like the plague. Always be the pretty one and tell them straight up that you have no intention of playing into the bullshit. There will be some push back because it goes completely against how they usually trap a man but you'll still get laid all the same and after a few times of shooting down the advances for a relationship you'll still keep getting laid because you'll be the pretty one being desired.
>Women don't date based on how "nice" you are
>Dating is more based on confidence although looks do play a part
>Not all college majors are created equally
>College is for networking
>weightlifting is a life long thing not some bs
Halp me guys
>22 yrs old
>virgin, have been to bed with like 4 women who wanted me to fuck them
>was with the 3 first either extremely nervous or drunk
>no hard on
>4th one. isn't very attractive (like 4-5/10)
>she wants me to fuck her, enjoys my fingering and i get her very horny all the time
>can't get hard for more then 20 seconds
>and obviously can't wear a condom
wtf do i do. i must get rid of this v-card already, i don't care she isn't very attractive (her body is ok though)
I was in the same boat. Used viagra for a while to get through it. I shit you not, I was in my early twenties.
But good news is, after a while your confidence grows and it turns out it's all 90% psychological. Doing kegel's exercises etc resolves the remaining 10% which is literally atrophy from not using your dick.
Also, stop watching porn because you are conditioning yourself to only be aroused by excessive audiovisual stimulation.
I actually consider getting viagra
godamnit... it isn't even i'm not confident about my dick size or anything, it's like i stop being horny while being in the action
no problem getting hard from porn. maybe that's indeed the problem
isn't it obvious? you want to lose virginity so much that it stresses you out and you pursue sex out of this stress and not because you want sex or w/e
just take it easy. obviously you don't have a problem with attracting girls. just find one that you actually want and (important) have sex because YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX AND NOT BECAUSE YOU WANT TO PROVE THAT YOU'RE NOT A VIRGIN
there's no fucking way that you won't be able to get it up