How to achieve hardest erection? How to increase libido?
I had a pretty average libido for a woman - which is pretty low compared to men's - before I started running daily, now it's much higher. I don't know if this works for men because it increases blood flow, but sex after a run is always really good. Or any cardio, I guess.
Not watching porn would probably help too but I think everyone else covered that.
One time I went on a pseudo starvation diet mostly cause I'm cheap as fuck. I would barely eat anything, maybe 500 calories a day max cause I didn't want to spend any money. But roughly once a week I'd go to a meeting or seminar with free food and gorge myself on like 6k+ calories.
Felt great and for some reason made me horny as fuck. Like on days when I didn't eat all I wanted to do was chase down a bitch and fuck the shit out of her.
You guys want to hear a story?
>Be me, 27 years old, virgin
>Still get a boner if a girl so much as holds my arm, imagine myself being an ejaculator of the premature kind
>Get /fit/, find a nice qt girl with similar hobbies, start seeing each other regularly
>Make plans for yesterday at my place, super pumped to finally get the v-card monkey off my back
>Watch movie, cuddle, things going great
>Have more than my fair share of wine to ease the anxiety, pop a xanax for extra insurance
>Head to the bedroom to do the deed but quickly realize I barely have a chubby
>She's super wet and she's playing with my wang but can't get rock hard
>Attempt to bang her but don't even come close to blowing my load
I can't believe it, bros. All these years of waiting and I couldn't even get off. Thank goodness the girl was relatively inexperienced as well and still had a good time (went down on her) and wants to see me again soon but it's a strict nofap regimen for me.
Let this be a lesson: stop watching porn, don't engage in your fucked up fetishes, and stop using the death grip. I basically have to re-learn everything.
I have been practicing for a month, was kind of a 5-7 minute guy, even after masturbating on the same day, last night banged my wife for an hour straight and was able to time my orgasm with hers.
You were on xanax and drunk, that probably had a bigger impact than the fact that you've masturbated before.
Also if the girl is old or unnatractive your penis isn't gonna be that excited. 27 is pretty old for a female. Maybe you should try and find someone younger.
Is that megsquats? her bf leaked some photos?
>you will never rub your face on that ass and just take a deep breath
why even live
>you will never know what that ass smells like
When hard, my dick runs parallel to my torso. Will this make sex difficult?
I'm a virgin and I don't watch porn so I have no idea
I have been on and off. Back when Mutant had a trip but then he left so I discovered misc, then it went to shit and old miscers made fitmisc, then for shits and giggles I decided to come back and Pianoman is meme again and I'm just waiting for him to come back.
>appreciation of female presence and energy
Dude it's because you mixed xanny and liqs, even either of those by itself makes it more difficult to cum. You're a fuckup. At least you have a second chance to do things right, and do it sober this time.
Who else no has quit trying? I'm about as handsome as north Texas roadkill, so I don't really bother pursuing sex anymore. All the people you meet have the body of the Micheline man, and care more about rib night at the buffet than sex anyway.
Seriously, you folks 7+/10 aesthetics don't know how bad all the other parts of a relationship can be. Ugly is deeper than looks.
I recently regained my erectile strength by cutting out artificial sweeteners entirely. I feel like I'm 15 sitting in class staring at the teacher's juicy ass again.
Try cutting out shitty things from your diet, first of all this is 80% of it, if you're already lifting weights and active.
Then the tip of the iceberg is to abstain from orgasm for a few days.
Porn increases libido and erectile strength, faggots.
Fapping too often and poor health decreases.
They increase erection strength and everything. If you train your pc muscle hard enough you can actually prevent ejaculation during climax, which lets you keep having sex without any recovery time. Male multiple orgasms are pretty real.
You're absolutely right, I fucked up and didn't realize how much of an effect that had.
>All the people you meet have the body of the Micheline man, and care more about rib night at the buffet than sex anyway.
This is why I fear becoming a real adult. I see what these people look llike, and how they behave. They're subhuman. If that's the 'dating pool' in a few years I'm out. Just not interested, I'd rather go back to jerking off.
I know how bad it is m8
Was a 5/10, skinny fat, bloated mess who would were the same busted up hoodie everyday and the same awkward husky black pants. Then I got /fit/, stopped my sodium intake (which helped a fucking ton) and got a good sense of fashion. 9/10 honestly, always have girls mirin and hitting me up on insta, but I'm still fucking awful at talking to them and spaghetti everywhere even on social media.
When I 'hold back' my cum like that during an orgasm I always lose a lot of hardness right away unless I just stay in her pussy and keep pounding, in which case it's difficult not to cum. And when I do cum on the second orgasm it never feels as good, it almost feels like I just cum but don't really orgasm. It's weird shit.
Some more things as far as diet:
Don't eat highly processed foods from the center of the grocery store, often.
Don't eat fast food often. Most fast food has MSG, as well as snacks and chips/crisps in a bag, and MSG is a neurotoxin like aspartame- both aspartame and MSG induce erectile dysfunction and many other shitty effects, including headaches.
Supplement 3 grams of EPA/DHA daily, or consume tuna, roe/caviar, salmon, and other high omega-3 foods a couple times per week.
If you are vegan, omega-3 shouldn't be a problem.
Eat vegetables, lots.
Greek yogurt or l. Reuteri supplements may help raise testosterone by improving gut health, thereby increasing libido and erectile strength.
Balanced diet and mostly whole foods plus no artificial sweeteners= healthy sex life
I can't stress cutting out aspartame enough though.
How likely is it that I got a UTI from unprotected anal with my ex? Going to the doctor tomorrow praying it's not Gonorrhea or Chlamydia, my only symptom Is urethritis. Hold me brehs and tell me it's just from E.Coli.
No you fucking underage faggot. That's the general fat public of america. Basically the 99% consisting of people born in the 60's/ 70s'. Hopefully they're dead by the time I'm 50. They're the type of fat, inconsiderate loud shits you find in walmart having a conversation, blocking the fucking way with their carts and not controlling their loud ass kids. Fuck them. Pic related, they're the red goats.
it's 2016 yearfag
also I agree
The one time I actually wanted to fuck a girl in the pooper was when I saw was 16 and thought a grills had clean, pink, flawless strawberry smelling shitters. Boy I was fucking wrong.
lmao I'm hoping
Jefferson Sides is getting pretty mainstream and EVERY fucking male, idc if you're 12 or 30 would want to have lebron delts. Sports are already extremely mainstream and it's playing itself really nicely. The fat pudgie minecraft players are the autistic social outcasts along with the skelly weebs while the athletic kids and jocks still are the 'cool kids'. Funny how kids make their own hierarchy
We don't know
Guys, stop drinking aspartame. Stop all artificial sweeteners.
I lost my dick for 6 months because of drinking coke zero daily. Around a third to half a liter daily. No spontaneous erections.
I've been off aspartame 12 days now and I now walk around with a half chub a lot of the time. My dick twitches on an hourly basis baby please.
>If you are vegan, omega-3 shouldn't be a problem.
Humans don't convert ALA to DHA in meaningful quantities, and even ALA would need to be supplemented in a fag diet
bro even if it's gonorrhea or chlamydia then it's not that big of a deal. those can be cured.
but if it's osmething like herpes or hiv then you're fucked for life but i don't think urethritis is a symptom for those two stds
i think ur good breh
they use to say that cold showers were good for recovery, but more studies having coming out (which i dont have or feel like looking up) that are saying that ice cold showers make DOMS worse and do nothing to help with recovery
it is suppose to be good for blood flow. but ive read that starting cold, and alternating from luke warm to cool is just as good
and you feel like youre fighting a demon when you force yourself into a cold shower
>Leave town for a few months
>buddy tells me cute blonde co-worker is interested and misses me and is waiting for me to come back
>"fuck it I'll hit it when I come back"
>she's gained probably 40+ lbs
still debating if I should or not
Lets get fit
NASM CPT, WLS, FNS, NREMT-B here
Fuck your fat bodies, gain muscle in winter, cut that body fat during spring
Whats your diet plan and workout look like?
Also fuck the patriots
Round two anon
Round 1 without a condom always ends within a minute or two for me
But two I can last about 20 minutes which is good
I would suggest cumming and then to keep kissing and eating that pussy out while you get hard again
Okay, I looked into that and i agree with you now. I was wrong.
It's not all bullshit. Processed foods have lots of compounds, including MSG and aspartame, which are excitotoxins. They have been shown to cause chemical imbalance in the brain and even nerve damage. And of course, My own experience should serve as a warning in and of itself.
Cutting out aspartame made my penis sensitive again. It improved my sex drive tremendously and made my semen volume and number of ejaculations increase.
I don't know what else to tell you.
I was struggling to get my dick hard by hand and dribbling out tiny loads for about 6 months, and in less than two weeks off aspartame I am back to normal, shooting loads 7 feet flat.
could just be simple traction urethritis related to whaling on some butthole. depends on what kind of time period we're talking about - g/c have an incubation time of a few days. UTI is fairly unlikely too.
you should probably give yourself a rectal exam to make sure it isn't prostatitis. you might even enjoy it.
Kegels and a cockring.
People seriously neglect the amazing feeling of fucking with one one. So fuckin' hard, she loves it, and she rides me hard on top cowgirl style.
Also, fucking awesome to add a little kink. I'm not talking 50 shades, more like some dirty talk, and a little hair pulling.
I have small blops under the skin on my dick everywhere. No pimples but really just parts of my dick covered with these blops.
I am dating atm and I am scared to show her my dick in this state.
How do I get rid of it? Dont want her to think I got STDs.
Recently started seeing a girl and my libido completely plummeted, anyone else experienced this? I'm guessing its just anxiety. Things seem to be getting better though as I'm feeling horny again
Sucks not being able to get fully hard / hard at all. Little awkward at the start of a relationship.
I know this all too well. Sometimes the chase is better than getting the reward. If you see her often, have sex with her and don't masturbate in the meantime.
On a side note, my libido plummeted when I was on a cut. Once I stared eating at maintenance and consuming a bit more fat, my libido went back to normal.
Actually I distinctly remember my dick hurting during and after. my dick is retarded anyways, can't use certain condoms and almost always get similar symptoms after a new partner. Guess I'll be finding out soon.
Have you always had them? Sounds like Fordyce spots, I have them too and no girl will ever notice/ask you about themselves.
>Women prime around 18/19 nowadays.
stop being such an edgelord and go out some time.
Oh shit nigger, I got one like that too
>be 20 at the time
>meet girl from class, talk to her a lot
>find out she's down to fuck
>invite her over one day for a movie
>didn't make a move the entire movie
>fuck it, put in another movie
>start making out with her and getting frisky
>not my first time with a girl but I'm still a virgin because I'm a retard
>Hard as a diamond at this point
>Take out my condom and tell her to bend over
>"wait anon, I'm on my period"
>the thought of blood just oozing out of her cooch got to me
>she goes to the bathroom to take out her tampon/clean up and comes back
>went from throbbing to flaccid in about 30seconds
>she notices while trying to give me head
>that awkward feeling of having your flaccid dick flopping around as she struggles to get it hard
That was the worst feeling in the world guys. I stopped her, told her this has never happened before, and that I'm really sorry. She knew it was bad timing in her end too and understood. We just called it a night from there and she went home.
Fucked her next week when she was off her period though. Shit was pretty cash.
Idk but since I can remember I had them.
I googled forcyde spots and it looks identical.
Is it something you can get removed easily or will I always have an ugly dick? I want smooth skin, at least on my dick.
I think you ca get them (kinda) removed for a few shekels but I wouldn't stress m8, a bitch rarely is inspecting your dick that closely so stop stressing. I've screwed 36 different women and have never been asked(funny because I used to be in the same position as you).
Same, performance anxiety is a bitch, the worst part is, is by thinking about it, it makes it worse, and when you tell yourself not to think about it, you end up thinking about it.
K mate, I wont stress about it. But did you also have large spots with like 50 small blops? It isnt something you need to be inspecting to see it.
I have just read that lose underwear can help. I fucking hate lose shorts...
>whole day be horny as fuck just waiting for a chance to bust a nut
>dont get a chance to so just go to sleep horny
>wake up in the middle of the night with cum drenched boxers
>no memory of a dream, literally came for no reason
>wake up not as horny as I was before
Was disappointed desu, I am rarely that horny and the antisipaction to bust was quite nice
question here brahs, looks like I might be tfw gf soon, but due to cocoon mode have not had sex in 2 years, I feel I have lost my mojo and might have a "manual walking" type situation on my hands.
Any thing to recommend to get me out of my head? Also whats the best cardio to prepare myself?
>Had a girl invite me over on a saturday
>Didn't realize I should have given her the D
>Next saturday this:
>Had a few drinks, some coffee
>First time with girl at 21, she had to take the kissing initiative (kissless virgin/5)
>Once we started making out I had it in the bag, all the way until I had to put on a condom
>Nope, nope, nope
>Lay awake with her almost all night having not gotten off
>Next morning get benis in vagina, without condom first (they really don't notice), and then with condom
>overall pretty shitty
>Next time I go visit her place, way less awkward, start making out at the end of movie
>"Anon, not today, I'm on my period"
>:"It's ok, I've seen blood before"
>"Really? But still"
>"Ok it's fine no problemerino"
>She takes a shower
>When she comes back from shower, fuck like normal
>the next morning when I leave I notice I have just a little bit of blood on my fingers
>fast forward to last week
>I autistically count days from her last period
>Play it cool again, "doesn't bother me at all" etc.
>After we're done end up laughing together
>looked like a fucking crime scene
>would bang again/10
So my dick is pretty broken but I need to have it working by Saturday for this concert. There's gonna be mad bitches and I have a guaranteed fuck coming too to it.
My question is, how will cialis work with mdma? Is it ok? I've never done cialis but I've popped multiple mollies before.
Is cialis any fucking good? I think it's just nerves that get me but it's annoying to have a broken dick with every single girl I meet
You need viagra over cialis. I had bad performance anxiety, so I tried a viagra when I was already tired as fuck, and that son a of a bitch gave me an awful headache, but I did get an unstoppable erection.
Can someone tell me how to do Kegels? Are you just kinda squeezing your anal sphincter, or does it get squeezed in the process of a kegel? iunno, cant tell if I'm doing it right.
2ndly, any supp recommendations that actually work for you, not just shit you hear? Will get Zinc, already taking Vit D 5000iu daily for 2 years.
So I suck at missionary when I'm on my knees on the bed. It's fine if I'm standing off the side of the bed. Doggy is fine both on knees/standing.
I get really get any force going in mish, and get tired having to kinda bend over when on knees, way easier/forceful to do it doggy on knees.
Can someone tell me how to improve? Lifts/exercises to help with mish on knees, or just technique help? pls
I've looked into it before, there are different suggestions. There are some that just say flex/squeeze as hard as you can for 50 reps every other day, some say 30-40 per day, probably up to you anon. If it's anything like lifting, I'd start with some amount every other day. Maybe do some warmup kegels too
Are kegel gains real or helpful though? I remember I read somewhere a few months back that some dude said he kept prematurely ejaculating and it stopped when he stopped doing kegels...
pls looking for advice to this...
I do RDLs, deadlifts, and seated hamstring curls for my hammies... iunno not really helping I guess.
plus iunno what it is, but in mish, it just feels less tight and I get soft quicker compared to doggy. kinda sucks when my girl is tired of doggy
I used to have real problems with bed wetting when I was a kid. I'm talking every night until I was 12. Kept me from sleepovers and shit. Most fucking embarrassing moment night of my life was at a birthday party sleep over when I wet the sleeping bag I was using and made a two foot wide piss puddle on the carpet.
Anyway, I started simply training cutting off the stream. Drank about 8 cups of water during the day and every time I had to go piss I would cut it off as many times as I could manage while evacuating. Usually meant about ten to twelve cut offs per piss session. Did wonders for my urinary sphincter and piss control. It's also something that you do everyday anyway so it's not like you have to make special kegle exercise times.
So yeah, everytime you go piss just cut it off and start again as many times as you can.
Guys, stop chewing artificially sweetened gum and drinking diet soda.
I went from dribbling out 1 cc of cum to shooting out 6-7 in like 8 streams. I can cum multiple times per session and my dick is as sensitive as it was during puberty.
I'm 20 years old and my dick worked poorly for 6 months because I was drinking so much aspartame riddled soda.
In 12 days I am cured.
I can't get sex off my mind now
>and have sex everyday
i think this can become an issue. It's almost like jerking off everyday; your dick becomes used to sex eventually and needs something different.
Either dont focus on cumming, just have sex. Or try to cum in different ways, anal like the other dude said or something else (lol sure stomach humping if ya want). Or reduce sex frequency for a bit to desensitize your dick.
Are you having sex with a condom? Cause condom usage for a while makes it super hard for me to cum, or even maintain an erection desu.
still hoping for an answer to this.
>You're probably getting enough of both in your diet and natural production of vitamin D.
I have thought of this. it is summer here at the mo and I go out for long walks all the time.
>I'm the anti-aspartame anon by the way.
Yes I do use a condom and I found that makes it hard to cum, the one time I did cum inside of her I wasnt wearing one. I kind of get to the point where I feel like im going to cum but barely a drop comes out. Ill try to slow it down a bit.
condoms suck man. Yeah i get the need to avoid stds etc, but if you're with the same grill for a while, and can pull out (never trust a grill with birth control), then do it.
It's night and day for me, imagine putting a candy wrapper around your dick and jerking off. Feels retarded and 100x worse than skin contact. Try anal too dude, tighter + no worries about pregnancy there, make her wash/clean herself first.
Its not about STDS we are both clean (got tested) its just she had to take plan b afterwards and she was in pain from it and it cost quite a bit, she doesnt take the pill either. I might think about anal then but ill still wear a condom for that.
My pullout game is also non existent.
well it is normal for missionary on knees to be harder. on doggy you're straight on your knees and thrusting right forward. when you do missionary on your knees, you force yourself to a lower and angled position. what I'd suggest is a big pillow under the girl's ass, putting her feet on your shoulders/in the air/wrapped around your back (which is much better for g-spot simulation) and lying on your legs instead of on your knees. you can thrust easier and go faster this way, and when you align the position correctly by putting her legs up and sliding a pillow under, you hit all the right spots. It's second only to doggy/prone in terms of g-spot simulation.
Nothing dirty about it bro. Unless you're hung like a mule and/or she hasn't shit in a while you've nothing to worry about. If you're really paranoid about shit on your dick you can either rubber up or have her get an enema beforehand.
Nah my peepee size is alright, I think 6.5"-7" is decent. I don't think size would affect me getting soft/tired either.
Iunno it only started happening in the last 6-8 months. Before I could do mish no problem on my knees, never tired never soft either.
Can it be anything else? I thought it might be technique, but iunno mish is pretty straight forward.
thanks man I'll try that. So I'd be holding myself up with my arms then right, kind of in a pushup position, with knees on the bed, if I understand correctly?
And pillow under ass only, or ass/lowerback?
>never trust a girl with the oral contraceptives
FTFY Also a progesterone IUD is the. Fucking. Shit. One time fee of about $300, lasts 5 years, 99.95% effectiveness in preventing pregnancies. Completely passive in that there's nothing to remember and it massively cuts down on period bleeding and cramping.
I'm making a big deal about the aspartame thing because it is fucking poison.
I was having low testosterone symptoms for the whole 6 months that I started drinking diet soda, and as soon as I stioped the shit, 10 days later I'm walking around with a half chub all day and cumming like a squirt gun.
Not that anon but I've always found that a good solid booster pillow or a big couch cushion works best when it's under the coccyx (tail bone) and lumbar. Gets her pussy angled up and enables her to spread her legs farther apart. Also helps to lie your legs flat and have something to grab onto so you're not putting all your upper body weight on your wrists.
Works for me anyway.
pillow under ass, you want to elevate her vagina so the penis enters at an angle similar to doggystyle. your position will be similar to a pushup, but the more straight you are, the better the penetration angle, and tougher it becomes on your knees. unless she has flexibility problems, try pushing her into the pic related position as much as you can. the more you push her legs towards her, and raise her ass in the air (support it with the pillow), the better your dick hits the g-spot.
Why am I an idiot? Do you have any other explanation?
Do you have a controlled dietary experiment to prove anything?
You can find people all across the Internet saying the same thing from personal experience.
You can find lab rat studies where paralysis, serotonin imbalance, pituitary and testicular tumors are induced by aspartame consumption.
I didn't believe any of the people bashing aspartame until I started considering it as a source of my sexual dysfunction a mere 3 weeks ago, and here I am now convinced that it has been the problem all along.
It will most likely be a treatable diagnosis. Expect to take antibiotics for a while.
Anal is fun, and going raw dog feels amazing, but it will never be nearly as "tidy" as it looks in porn. Just use a rubber next time.
I jerk off and finger my ass with the same hand sometimes. Am I right that this can't cause a UTI since it's my own bacteria?
Or is the chance of colon bacteria infecting your urethra just very unlikely ...
>Am I right that this can't cause a UTI since it's my own bacteria?
build more confidence in the bedroom.
I also masturbate 1-2 a day. which is more then likely giving me a bit of death grip on my dick.
I tend to come FAST from public sex.
The biggest thing for be lasting longer is just wanting to do everything I want to do.
missionary, doggy, her on top, etc.
jerk more. I also jelq so im sure that helps
Do you guys have the same problem that more pee drips out of your dick after having peed?
I have to wait really long and shake it off so much that it could be considered masturbating...
And even then when I go to bed or sit down there will still come out a little bit. It will leave stains and I have to fucking change my underwear all the time cuz I dont want any infections.
Some1 experiencing the same? I have read that it is quiet normal becauwe of the male anatomy, so there can be drops coming out after. But it really bothers me and I dont think it was always like that.
Does anybody have proof that clenching to stop ejaculation won't damage your body? I know that if you do kegels while urinating, you can send the urine back into the bladder which can cause a bladder infection. Could something similar happen for ejaculate?
It just happens as you get older. When you're a kid you aren't getting hard and jerking off all the time.
As an adult male, your dick and prostrate have usually undergone quite a bit of stretching and blunt trauma, so it's normal for some of the muscles to loosen up and the prostate to enlarge a bit
Cardio at least 5 days a week, no exceptions.
Cardio increases blood flow, allowing your penis to reach Diamond Status. You will also gain stamina because you train and discipline mind.
You will go longer, she will love you long time. Plus you'll be fitter than you've ever been.
My point still stands, you've been jerking off for years now and putting your male sex organs into overtime. Shit just happens. Whatever you do, try to use your kegels to get every last drop of pee out, then wipe off the excess, instead of manually pushing on the urethra.
Save butt sex for when you are in a serious relationship. Comfort and trust make it work flawlessly.
But when you do:
Anal douche. They're like $12, easy to use. Only lets you put in about 200ml, which is all you need. Also water or silicone good lube. No anal-eze or anything that numbs. Butt sex should never hurt beyond the first penetration, just to let the muscles relax.
And consider letting her fuck you sometimes as well. It brings a whole new level of intimacy.
>have anxiety problems cause first time
>get kinda drunk
>take a xanny bar
>can't get rock hard
THIS IS BECAUSE OF THE SATANIC PORNOGRAPHY AND THE FACT THAT I HAVE TOUCHED MYSELF BEFORE
Just means you need a different position, ive had girls that i can and cant do missionary with comfort, mix and match . Prefer reverse cowgirl but front cowgirl is the master of making me cum.
I was fucking with a girl, I could maintain erection, but there was no fucking way to cum. After 30min of fucking I was doing her doggy style and ( I was quite drunk at this point) intrusive thoughts of dank memes attacked me (old lickaroo etc.) and I started laughting uncontrollably.
I said I am sorry but I have dick problems and I am not able to cum.
after we were in bed drinking bed she asked me if I like her body and if she was good.
Girls are extremly insecure.
Just do not give a fuck and do not act like it is end of world if you can not get an erection
I've been on nofap since new years and have almost constantly been horny and edging, in fact ive changed my desktop background and login pic for my computer to scantily clad women because i cant stop thinking about it, i go to the gym and see 7/10s and have to go lift to take my mind off it, even girls i resent knowing have suddenly been a lot more appealing
>Girls are extremely insecure.
It kinda changed my views a bit when someone told me once you get to a certain point in the act all women think about is two things.
Hoping they look good enough for you and feeling that good dick
Many people don't bust there first time because of nerves. Next time skip the Xanax and just get a little buzz of the drink, and remember she wants to be there so you already did the hard work so relax and dive into the pussy.
I know people say the height thing is a meme but you are kinda fucked if you aren't tall.
I mean shit, in winter and covered in a bulky jacket I cant even show off my body. it sucks.
oh here's a kicker though
I've got one that's like inflated and regularly fills with a hard white substance that i can squeeze out
it's really fuckin unsightly imo but I think it's a Fordyce spot gone wild
Can you stop talking like a fucking retarded child? If you're referring to actual missionary (pic related and not a similar variation) work out the arm muscles which you feel tire, as well as planks to improve your endurance in supporting your body, fatty. If you need more control for thrusting harder, I suggest resting your body on hers and sliding your hands (palms up) under and behind her shoulders (your forearms flat on the bed). Doing this allows you to grab onto the tops of her shoulders and pull her to you as you thrust for amazing control, as well as places your weight on your elbows and forearms. Enjoy your new thrusting potential.
Also, your legs should be spread out behind you inside hers. If she wraps her legs over, hooking her feet onto your legs, she can use this leverage to pull her hips up giving you a new angle inside her. -admittedly only my last girl showed me this, so not sure how it always works. With her it exclusively allowed the top of my dick head to slide directly against her g-spot. Made me bust within 20 secs every time, like having the smoothest, silkiest, wet tongue warmly pressed, licking the top of your dick.
Don't be a nigger and spread this shit misinformation.
These >>35748808 >>35749089 Lifting helps with strength/power but cardio is best for stamina. Also, confidence above all. At my worst (needy/desperate) I'd come within 1-2 mins. At most confident, dgaf, I cum when I decide I'm ready. Best feeling ever, be confident, bros.
>Don't be a nigger and spread this shit misinformation.
well. not to be that guy. but I pulled out for over a year with my gf. No problems
only time I came in her was with a condom, which broke. We got the morning after pill.
He/she seems well acquainted with the ineffectiveness, bro.
Take your own chances, just don't go around telling your friends/family/anyone they can avoid unwanted pregnancies by pulling out.
And some couples have been trying to have kids for a decade and settle for adopting or an alternative.
One out of five, bro. It means you can fuck a girl raw 4 times, but make sure to strap for that fifth time. Maths.
>I've got one that's like inflated and regularly fills with a hard white substance that i can squeeze out
They're basically sebaceous glands so it's not uncommon
a couple months ago i noticed i have a dark spot on the underhead of my wang. this was during a period where i was fapping all the time. its flat and just looks like skin otherwise but looks like i have a notch in my weiner from distance. it hasnt really changed shape or anything. sometimes i dont even notice it and if i stretch the skin there it looks faded. am i going to die?
So you want to be a man... Big dick master post:
Gym time: power moves. Stick to the Olympic lifts, cleans, deads, bench, squat. And squat every day too. You are a pleb, no risk of overtraining. The only time I've ever over trained was when I was in construction, 12 HR days + gym time. Also do ab routine like Pilates.
Supplements: troubles and L- arginine, and any other N.O. booster is good, as long as NO CAFFINE.
Dick massage 2x daily : keep the blood running, but NO FAP. In the shower just massage till thick and stop. Ok to fap 1-2x a week, 30 mins each time to build contracting muscles. Keigels every time you piss.
Bigger dick, harder boners, better sex for sure.
Diet: eat clean. No carbonated beverages. no caffeine.
apparently they can be removed
I should go to the doctor and ask for this, I have huge skin issues (acne on my back is so detrimental to my confidence... I could have fucked at least 5 more girls that I curved because I was so embarassed about my back shoulders and neck...)
I have a natural erection that works this way too, granted since I have gotten older and started having more sex, it has not been as noticeable, but it still comes right up to my belly button, so let me give you the run down.
Getting your dick sucked is awesome, but if the girl is a novice, she will not do well on your dick in this case, and most chicks will not deep throat it, due to the angle, but it still feels great and is not hard to handle.
As for sex, any position can be done, but reverse cowgirl and reverse V eagle need to be done slowly, as if done too fast, and she slips, your dick has a much higher chance of breaking than the average angled dick.
Doggy position and normal cowgirl take getting used, but tend to feel great for both you and the girl due to the angle.
Missionary is always a safe bet, and a great starting position for any angle of dong, so you should start with that and work your way to the others.
ive never tried it. but I have lots of exp of what you're talking about.
either fuck coming up on mdma or coming down off of it.
you can fuck during your peak or around your peak. get your girl to blow you or give you a lap dance.
or just have a sex party during the whole thing. you can still play when you're soft and 69 etc.
watch porn together. Go down on her. The boners will come and go.
cumming on it can be hard. but it happens.
L- arginine + kegels help.
>tfw 10am still jerking off to porn
>get a bunch of tests done at doc
>all come back normal
>blood pressure is fine
>doctor says he can't do much else besides order retest the initial issues
>refers me to endocrinologist & urologist
>going to be a month or so before they're able to get me an appointment
jesus fucking christ you don't know true pain until your dick refuses to get hard despite your girlfriend being naked in front of you
>overuse of porn
>you are actually a homo
There is any number of reasons your dick isn't getting hard but since you are on /fit/ I think we know the most likely answer.
>>overuse of porn
Today marks my 21st day of nofap/noporn
possible, I don`t really feel that stressed, nor do I have other symptoms (I think)
Don't think so
>>you are actually a homo
possible but how the fuck do I test that without losing and or cheating on my girlfriend
I had the same thing happen as you. My testosterone levels were actually very high. Once I stopped drinking diet sodas and consuming all forms of artificial sweetener, I gained everything back in 12 days.
It turns out aspartame was stifling my erections, sex drive, ejaculation strength and semen volume.
I've been posting in this thread a lot so you can see my story if you search 'aspartame'
Ok. Ignore what I said about aspartame obviously.
think long and hard about any new things you have been putting into your body since the problems started.
Did you get prolactin, estradiol, cortisol, dopamine, serotonin, pretty much EVERY pituitary hormone tested for in a blood test?
>Did you get prolactin, estradiol, cortisol, dopamine, serotonin, pretty much EVERY pituitary hormone tested for in a blood test?
This I am not sure of. Doc said, before I got the tests done, "there's any number of thins that can cause it so we'll basically just test for everything under the sun".
It was bittersweet when everything came back normal, because holy shit, if there was something wrong I'd at least have a reason for this shit and a foreseeable goal and means to an end.
I think you should know, you have severe autism
>And some couples have been trying to have kids for a decade and settle for adopting or an alternative.
go project somewhere else faggot.
You didn't know about God's gift: you last really long your first time.
With the Xanax and liquor it was too much probably. Really almost every dude lasts real long first time because of nervousness.
Jack off and have sex to women that turn YOU on. Not what you think should turn you on. I beat off to fat girls more than once almost everyday and I've never failed to get hard and blow big wads.
Maybe I'm just gifted that way. I've never understood those stories of guys insisting on taking cold showers, doing that nofap broscience bullshit, etc.
Anectodal "evidence" is just that. A person's own interpretation of their experiences. I drink tons of diet drinks and never noticed a drop in libido or my ability to ejaculate or perform.
Just drink tons of water, lose the fat, and have a healthy heart
I'm the diet soda guy here. You shouldn't just shit on the idea, because hell, it worked for me.
Like I said way up in the thread, there are rat studies where aspartame causes endocrine disruption, pituitary and testicular tumors and even partial hind leg paralysis.
It's definitely a viable thing for you to consider if you have a medical condition and there is a decent body of evidence, anecdotal or not, to support cutting something out of your diet for a short period of time to see if you will yield the same results.
That's how I approached cutting out aspartame, and lo and behold, I haven't felt like I do now since before I began drinking diet sodas, which was 6 months ago, when I began drinking coke zero out of the fountain at my school cafeteria.
this is accurate (medfag who rotated through ob/gyn). pullout is successful from 70-95% depending on how 'perfect' your technique is. male condom in comparison is 85-98% effective.
I won't advocate it, but condoms make a big difference in sensation especially if you're circumcised - less sensitivity and greater dependence on friction.
2-15% of the time the girl will get pregnant after protected vaginal sex?
Hooking up is a bad idea then. Why does this site glorify it so much?
If 2-15% of the time the girl gets knocked up, then the heavy hitters on this board have gotten girls pregnant dozens of times.
jerk off with some kind of lube to mimic the real thing as closely as possible, and once you start getting really close back off a bit, then start again. Repeat several times. I did that every day for a month and went from being lucky to last 60 seconds to being able to go 15 minutes with no problem.
Also changing position helps. If you don't want to ruin the mood for her even something simple like slowing down and moving your weight to a different leg or adjusting how you're holding yourself up.
Breathing helps you stay relaxed too, focus on it and take deep slow breaths.
those numbers are for 1 year of that type of sex, and the range is for typical (including slippage/breakage) - perfect use (perfect=correctly and consistently) and does not include other forms of contraception - i.e. the woman did not take the morning-after pill after a condom failure.
during no fap my morning pee sometimes burns a little, not painful, just barely noticeable but is it cause my insides aren't getting soothing jizz flow or what?
100% pure pommegrenate juice daily.
100% pure beetroot juice few hours before sex.
1 glass of tannic red wine (tannat, madiran, cannonau) daily
porn ban or edging, just dont cum breh
Saunas, hot/cold shouwers..
basically anything that enhances your bloodflow.. and your sexual appetite.
try the juices though, they word wonders... kinda expensive but it's good for your general health also.
Are you me?
>split up with gf of 3 years
>could fuck fine
>hanging out with friends
>go down london
>have a few drinks and go back to house
>stay up flirting with girl till gone 4am
>she goes home
>hour later she invites me over
>5am, stood in the middle of london waiting for this chick
>know i won't be able to get it up
>get to hers
>literally the wettest a girl has ever been around me
>it was down her legs wet
>cannot get a boner to save my life
>she starts sucking me off
>my flaccid pee pee squirming in her mouth is the most embarrassing thing I have ever experienced
>i apologize and she said 'don't ever apologize for that it's not your fault'
>going to see her again tonight
Probably a mix of being awake for 24 hours and nerves. Just got some viagra, never used it before. Is it worth it bros or should I just hope to god I get a boner
Just started fucking an amazing 5'11 chick. Am only 5'8. Am only useto fucking girls shorter than me.
Anyone got tips on how to... accommodate for the difference in height during sex, am finding it a bit awkward.
I'm oddly enough in a similar scenario, I'm 5'8 and I'm having sex with a girl who is 1-2 inches taller than me
What problems are you running into, I'm actually finding it easier to have sex, her longer legs are a lot more easy to grab and position so I can get my stroke down as opposed to smaller girls who I feel like I'm going to fucking snap while having sex.
The girls gonna know quick (lol) that you bust fast so I would just say you cum quick and get ready for round 2 like most anons say, if she doesn't like that then get ready for four play, then fuck in whatever position she likes till you come. Then you can either round two at that point or wrap up. I usually round two or get the girl off on four play then fuck for as long as I can. I found just relaxing and getting to know the girl (lol again) is the best way for me to last longer because I'm not so in my head and in turn tense and rigid. Also for piece of mind you can buy a desensitizing spray for your dong which keeps you from getting too much stimulation too quick. Good luck it just gets better from here on out, or it has for me. Also I found slowing down jerking off to porn helps, shouldn't be a huge issue either if your getting laid semi regularly.
hahaha turbomanlet here, 5'6 and my gf is 5'9
I honestly think sex is better with a tall girl because those long legs are great for wrapping around you, plus if you're into domination like I am its that much better
Some positions i've found to be easier and 'more fun' due to long legs, nothing like them wrapping their legs around you.
Mainly the problem has been in doggystyle and the variations on that.
Word, never had sex with a girl taller than myself so I was slightly worried but I found myself actually a lot more naturally dominant and confident, could just use all 165 pounds of me to slam that shit home, also her riding me was a lot different, not sure how to explain it.
Just a question
Howmany of you are circumsized? I still have my foreskin and without a condom I bust in 2 minutes depending. I literally use a condom with my girl sometimes just to fuck her longer.
How good are numbing sprays btw? I still wanna keep it up in bed. Recommendations?
Srs question, is an 8x6 too big for an average asian girl? I know they aren't much to look at in the face without makeup but they have good bodies and are very sweet and honest and cook fantastic food.