>tfw you fell for 'lifting will make you attractive to girls' meme
These 5 years were for nothing
you mean you didn't simultaneously work on improving your game?
I dunno, man, I've been monogamous the whole time I've been lifting. On the plus side my ex got fat as shit while I've gotten progressively better looking, and I definitely get more physical appreciation from my g/f, between appreciative comments when I get home from the gym and self-deprecating comments when she skips. I feel better about myself, and I feel better physically.
On the downside it fucking crushes my soul when someone says "Oh anon, you're so skinny!" and I'll probably never be happy with my body no matter how far along this path I get.
I haven't seen a huge improvement in being approached by girls, though. I never really had trouble with it before, but somehow I always imagined getting swole would bring on the rain of chicks. It's kind of a bummer.
my guess: she actually didn't really want to have him over. If she really did she'd write something like lol or something. That guy was obviously joking and she just had to know it.
>That's because they know you're lifting just for girls and have nothing else going on.
It's most likely this in OP's case. In fact, this used to be me between 20 to 24. My life was just school, work, and lifting. My dullness neutralized my aesthetics. At best, I would have scored some slutty pussy, but that was all empty.
KEK but you know this could be a great way to tell if a girl is DTF if you aren't sure/ dont want to come off as a thirsty fag.
>mfw i can cook chilli
>mfw forever alone
>tfw you fell for 'lifting will make forget my ex' meme
These 4 years were for nothing
Fuck my miserable life. I'm strong as fuck anyways.
>getting gains, getting some mires
>it's all moot because I can't even respond "hello" on tinder, fear of rejection and/or ridicule is too strong, probably due to childhood trauma
>Lifting for 5 years
>Women don't want you
Just go gay. I really don't get this reddit meme of lifting for women? Odds are if you're swole enough and lifting for that long, you could get any bloke you want.
That's because you have nothing else going for you, apparently. Looks are only part of the puzzle. If your personality is shit, girls won't want you. If you are poor, girls won't want you. If you are a whiny little cunt that posts on /fit/ about being forever alone, girls won't want you.
>Was 30%+ body fat
>Had good success with woman
>Would get laid a lot
>Decided to make to a spite some bitch I caught feelings for
>Ended up getting over her
>Making it is for me now
>215lbs 16% bf 6'1
>Can't even get a text back or a reply on pof
Fuck woman they are all fucking crazy
Lifting does help out when you go out looking for female attention.
It's like leaving out long hair.
You can only benefit from doing so if you're already sort of good looking. People disgustingly ugly will never get better despite how much they lift & what body they have.
>played football, so I was in normie shape
>normal social life, drinking every now and then and so on
>boys were interested in me
>intensive lifting and exercising 6 times a week, twice a day
>don't drink or eat shit anymore cause you are well aware of dieting and nutrition generally. just can't enjoy it anymore. skip social happenings which include eating saying that I'm allergic
>look a hell lotta better at least by your own standards, in CBT thread they once asked if I'm tranny tho
>don't socialize at all, it's all about lifting
>haven't had periods in 2 years
>now instead of normal social activities spend time on this Chinese carpet making forum and watch Rich Piana's videos all day every day and non of your real friends have no fucking idea who he is
>start thinking that Sara is pretty hot and her accent and voice is sexy, so on top of everything I'm turning into a dyke
such a waste of time. if women are the reason you lift you should practice talking to women not lifting.
i see so many ugly mofos with pretty gfs, there is hope for pretty much everyone willing to learn.
and busting your ass in the gym for years on end just to hear some chick complement your quads just isn't worth it. getting complemented actually got old pretty quick.
>tfw feel vain whenever anyone complements me
It's probably due all the exercising and relatively low bf. So this has costed me my fertility, or it's possible.
I was being slightly sarcastic, I wouldn't change a thing. But this lifestyle has kinda isolated me from most normies in so many ways. I don't necessarily see it as a bad thing though. I'm definitely on my way to making it, in terms of being the master of my own life and destiny.
Just how ugly are you?
No seriously, post pics, it sure is not normal to not look good after 5 years of lifting, unless by lifting you mean going to the gym once or twice a month and expecting to see results anyway...
Again, post pics.
i forced myself into it by taking a job in sales. at some point you're bound to become charming.
but it works without that too. you just must be completely willing to fail. i had to crash and burn so many times. so much spaghetti.
but at some point you just come out on the other side and your effort seems irrelevant.
Yeah I guess I should consider this. Would they find it weird if I hired them for coffee and the like? I'm not ready for sex, I just want to learn to be comfortable around women my age
Seriously anon, its about confidence. I wasn't that great looking, and lifting made my looks go up quite a bit. However girls won't give a fuck about you if you aren't sociable, funny or confident at some level.
Just because you have the fantasy of "maybe that girl will come talk to me if I sit here and look good", it doesn't mean you're gonna get anything. Girls want guys that are confident, and are just as self conscious as you are, except society is biased towards men making a move and women have more dating options then men do.
TL;DR Pull up your big boy pants, talk to women, and learn to accept failure, you fucking autists.
A million times this.
I avoid men that go for what attract women. I speak for myself, but for me if someone is in the business of just trying to attract you, they probably don't have much to fall back on.
Besides, there tends to be a small nuance in the way someone acts when they're actively trying to get someone compared to when you are doing your own things and you happen to stumble on someone.
It's much more attractive to know that you can become part of their plans, to help them achieve their goals and be part of their lives than it is to know that they've followed a guide to lure you in.
>mfw lifting for girls is worse for pulling chicks than not lifting
>training 12 times a week
>not making money with it
So basically you're a NEET?
Nobody on /fit/ told you to dedicate your whole life to lifting. Keep it a hobby and enjoy other things a well.
>implying most people on here have a face like Zyzz', let alone a physique like his
>implying most people on here aren't natty 17 year olds thinking they can be zyzz after 3 years of training
The delusion is strong
>not posting a pic of own body
top kek, you're one of those delusional kiddos aren't ya? ;^)
Except for the lifting twice a day part this is my exact life also. What in the world... Well if you're natty then your period must have stopped because of the intensity of your workout, mine stopped because of Anvara and Premobolan. And yeah Sarah is pretty hot
Yeah that's why no one has done it yet, right?
>be a black guy in virginia tech
>barely get any matches
>use tinder anywhere else in the country, Philippines (Strangely), and Scandinavia
>get easy matches
What the fuck?
>implying most people on here have a face like Zyzz',
So, is his face suppose to be the pinnacle of attractiveness? He's okay, but not someone I'd need a mop for.
I'm not white but if I were this is what I would want to look like.
>TFW I will never be Dimitry
Этo чyвcтвo, кoгдa нe мoгy пoднять нa poдинe
His face was damn good imo. well above average
I think he used to post here. I saved it a while ago.
>tfw won't have Dmitry cuddle you
He's okay, but I find his eyes to piercing and his face too harsh. I like more soft and approachable. It's good though that different people find different things attractive. I just hope that (royal)you don't think Zyzz is the *only* form of attractiveness or *the* pinnacle to strive for as there's lots of super attractive men that look completely different.
>there's lots of super attractive men that look completely different.
of course pham. Even jeff "plsgo" seid went from lesbian face faggot to legit heartthrob recently (no fucking homo)