>>35562033 >top 5 best fucks I've had were with chubbies Ok, ill bite The only advantage i could give chubbies over attrative girls is that it SHOULD be easier to fuck them but they are actually harder to fuck than attractive girls they think they are hot shit and deserve the best, doesnt compute
>tfw the only lifting females I know of are white trash chubby 22 yr olds with a half black kid with a bunch of tattoos of sassy saying and that stupid short feathered hair thats dyed so black its blue
>>35562253 I've fucked just shy of 30 women. I've fucked some fatties and some chubs. The sole advantage to fucking fatties is that visceral fat puts pressure on the vaginas, makes it tighter feeling. Plus fat gets stored in the outer labia giving every hamplanet an innie.
I wouldn't put a single fat chick in my top 5, not even top 10. Skinny and fit chicks think they have just as much to prove. If you're not making them feel insecure then you're failing as a sexual partner.
I've had a threesome with two fatties. Their combined weight was >500 lbs. The Paki cab driver gave me a thumbs up as I was wrist deep in both of them in the back seat. And it still sucked.
I have experience from female locker rooms cause I'm a female too. And honestly I was surprised to see that slacky asses are a thing for women. I thought that my some what firm ass is normal yet not ideal (you know those fitness chicks in the magazines seems to have such perfect almost rubbery like bubble asses) but after seeing those asses around there, I can say that the normal ass for a female who does some sorts of sports is usually more or less flat, has at least some cellulite on it and it looks saggy and soft.
Also I learned that young women often have saggy tits too. But it was a good reality check and made me look at my own body a lot differently. I'm just afraid that you guys been watching too much porn and that you have false images of female bodies just like I did, and I don't even watch porn.
>>35562253 I don't mean like morbidly obese fatties, just like 70-80kg. Honestly I think they go just as hard as the fit ones (although I did find I did a lot of the work). But anyway, you can literally do anything to a chubby and not give a fuck because a) they're just glad to get sum dik b) do you really care what a fatty thinks
>>35562813 >Also I learned that young women often have saggy tits too
>tfw a lot of girls have saggy tits and big areolas I was happier when I as a young boy thought every girl had firm tits with normal sized nipples. Yoga pants and bras can hide a lot of disappointment. I guess it's not so great for them either though, a lot of them must be insecure about it.
>>35562813 Porn isn't where imagination comes from. Reality is. Girls go from nothing to hotness, and all they have to do is bulk up some, with the advantage that increased tesosterone intensifies sensations, libido, and orgasm as well.
>>35563082 No. She's got a youtube channel where she works out. Like, why does every faggot who accidently stumbles into a gym have a youtube channel of them working out where 70% of the time in the videos is spent driving a car while talking to camera? Pic is me, am I dyel enough to qualify for a youtube channel?
>that uncomfortable feeling of the fat friend flirting with you and you have to entertain her and pretend youre interested because her friends are all around and they will hate you if you show your true feelings and tell her to fuck off
this is the male equivalent to girls who get hit on by creepers at bars or whatever
>>35563038 Hardly. You're just not assessing properly. >yfw first time you saw a naked non-lean male Even a lot of lifters look like absolute ass naked. Love handles, jiggly bellies, cellulite everywhere, every muscle covered in a layer of fat. The average non-lifting dude is DYEL yet fat at the same time. Plus so many young dudes have gyno nowadays, must be the food we eat or something but it's not uncommon to get a guy shirtless and see he has fucking tits.
People are just ugly. Until you stop comparing them to pictures you see online, anyways. I used to focus very intently on the top 0.001% of people, like I'd always have a crush on the hottest 10/10 person in my school or social group, and everyone else was ugly by comparison. You gotta set yourself straight if you ever want to be happy. The average person is ugly, and doesn't look like what the internet would lead you to believe. Average penis is small, average tits are saggy and/or small, etc. Hell, a lot of the things we fap to are literally fucking fake. Fake orgasms, fake penises, fake boobs, cleverly angled nude shots that don't show reality, photoshop. You gotta live in the real world.
>>35562813 >that slacky asses are a thing for women
Well, I don't know your or theirs age, but from my high-school experience, it's not true.
>high-school gym, I'm usually all alone there, it's quite small >three girls come in, they change right in the gym >I didn't know and I accidentally look their way >3 beautiful most delicious asses I would love to eat, smell, love I was 19 and they were maybe 16 or 17.
>in a sport hall with male and female friend >female friend is changing in front of us like no worries, we were all schoolmates, 18-19yo >I secretly like her, she's cute, has a perfect ass (plays volleyball)¨ >one day I finish changing and talk to my friend, she's standing near him >she's in her panties and a T-shirt >she bends over for something >'Oh my god, let me suffocate in that ass for I require no more from life but that.'.jpg
My favourite three fucks have been, in chronological order, not order of preference: 1) "average" weight girl, little bit of chub, but still wore a size 4, not athletic, not giant tits, but nice soft body with some curves. She had a perfect face and that super soaker pussy. 2) chubby girl, probably 2 or 3 degrees south of fat (150 pounds or so at 5'6"), giant cans, wide hips, little belly, nice legs, etc. horny slut type of girl, I beat that pussy up until it was visibly swollen and she still wanted more 3) super slim girl who runs and cycles, tiny, about 95-100 pounds, size 0, A-cup tits, rock hard, awesome ass. I've fucked a good mixture in between, never a really ripped girl who lifts though, but athletic girls who played competitive sports, female fighters, stuff like that. None of them make my top 3.
>>35563095 >>35563057 Fuck off with your memeing, retards. Not all fake tits are disgusting veiny balloons bigger than the woman's head. You have probably never seen a decent implant job, only god tier genetics can give you naturals that come even close. Or more likely, you have never seen the average tits of an average woman.
Average silicons are so much better than average naturals that it's not even funny.
>>35563108 >Like, why does every faggot who accidently stumbles into a gym have a youtube channel of them working out where 70% of the time in the videos is spent driving a car while talking to camera? Triggered much? >>>/blog/
>>35563018 12% of all girls are in my age range 5% of all girls are in my preferred weight range 20% of all girls have an education I expect from a girl 72% of all girls are white 50% of all girls have anything but blonde hair (which I don't like) etc.
Assuming those things are independent from each other (not even close, actually), This leaves me with 0.12*0.05*0.20*0.72*0.5 = 0.43% of all girls. And I didn't even count out the crazy, ugly, boring, bitchy and whatnot girls. Yes, we don't actually have that much choice, but we evolved to deal with this pretty well.
So, the question is not, why are girls so disgusting, the question is, why did he pick a girl that's not even attractive to him?
>>35563271 Focusing on personality first and foremost leads to the least amount of disappointment IMO. If you form a strong emotional connection with someone before you fuck them, it can be an amazing experience even if they are ugly. On a chemical level, it's much different when you are fucking someone you love VS a random hookup. You may not want to bother randomly hooking up with ugly girls, it's not nearly as satisfying.
Raise your standards for face and fatness. If a girl has an unattractive face and is above a normal weight, there's no reason to "lower" your standards for someone who doesn't take care of themselves. Besides that, I think you just need to be real about it. I've noticed a huge correlation between men and women who fixate a lot on celebrities, porn stars, fictional characters, and exceptional camwhores, and people who have outrageous standards. If you primarily see naked women on, for example, a porn site where they only take submissions from very attractive women, you might start to believe most women look that way. You might even compare the worse women to the hotter women within that group of already cherry picked women. Once you start fucking girls IRL, you might be sorely disappointed, but you'll adjust over time. It's all about mentally realizing that 5/10 really IS the average, not 7/10.
>be 5/10 at best DYEL skinnyfat Jew manlet 5'8 with no jaw >somehow get objectively 8/10 Nordic blonde 5'7 fitgirl qt who loves exercising just for the fun of it and loves me for my personality (lol wut) >calls me her sweet genius, idolized my intellect (lol). perfect flattery, etc >perfect 10 for me, had huge crush for year before we started dating. >she's psycho (great in bed) and, my friends say, abusive to me. at least it kept me interested. >break up every week, finally end it totally after 1 year, dont talk anymore. that was a year ago
>see pic of her on fb, dream about her nightly.
how can I go back to normal girls when I possessed such a transcendent beauty?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bg8EKTZ52Bo vid related
>>35562959 yeah sag is a problem but i never understood ppls obsession with areolas and nipples. Yeah there are the occasional alien nipples but i quite like the diversity in areolas. My favorite though are the largish ones, tad bigger than pepperoni, just slightly darker than skin tone or straight up pink. tiny iddy bitty nips are about the only thing that does nothing for me
>>35563717 He means you should always be making your SO/partner/whatever the fuck strive to be better than they are and if they feel like they are good enough they have become content and lazy and will end up relationshipfat and nobody likes those people because they are wastes of space.
>girlfriend told me for the first time shes loves me yesterday >sit across from her having breakfast today >all of a sudden find her very unattractive >don't want to have sex with her at all >want to break up and go away
Why does this happen every time a grill says this to me? This has happened in 6 of my past 7 relationships. Once they tell me they love me I lose absolutely all interest, and then I pretend I still like them and want to be their boyfriend for a few months until the charade becomes too obvious and then we break up and she cries and I go leave and find someone new.
I've had this suspicion for years. How do I fix it? Serious question, I'm not fucking around. I haven't been happy in years, I feel like I've spent the last several years trying to make or making other people happy but I can't do it to myself.
you have abandonment issues that likely stems from getting only conditioned attention and love attached to an expected performance from your mom when you were a child, so you learned to derive a broken sort of pleasure associated with the performance rather than the attention and love itself; for you performing the role expected of you in a relationship is like studying for a test or edging masturbation, once it finally comes to fruition that is when the grade comes out, the cum comes out, the love comes out, you feel that the cycle is completed already, the performance is finished and its time to close the curtains and move on. your condition is transmissible (i. e. your daughters will very likely have daddy issues) so consider not having children.
tl;dr you're a narcissist and it's all your mother's fault. there's no fix, just deal with it.
>>35560783 holy shit. so many of you have an unrealistic view of what women look like because you all started to fap to porn from an eatly age. you are all damaged goods, anons. you will never be happy.
>>35562788 >I've had a threesome with two fatties. Their combined weight was >500 lbs. The Paki cab driver gave me a thumbs up as I was wrist deep in both of them in the back seat. And it still sucked. Greentext, maybe?
>>35564396 You have an aversion to commitment. You're happy with a girl until she raises the stakes by suggesting a permanent relationship (along with kids, marriage, and all those other things society expect) and you get cold feet.
Ignore all the cvcks saying you need therapy though. Do your own fucking thing and you'll settle when you're ready. If you were a woman you'd be applauded for "valuing your independence".
>>35565516 >but why settle? Desperation, im afraid Goddamnit i want a gf since i miss companionship, sex, love and caring The longer time goes on the more i compromise and become willing to settle for even less I wish it wasnt so and that i could find/get better but...how long is that supposed to take
>>35564426 yoga pants are fun to look at. do you really need any other reason to get your girl to wear them? >>35563164 agree with this guy, the chicks you see online are rare IRL >>35565743 ya, its a bit of a stretch when she's not using her gender as a point unto itself
>>35565802 >no, I expect more of myself now since getting fit. But what if you cant get a gf at all? how long are you willing to wait? I expected to find a gf within a year after starting to look since i thought i had things going for me (fit, educated and got a job) but ive had one date since i started looking and its really starting to get to me Id love to hear your thoughts on shit because im litterally loosing it
eventually you stop caring, and you focus on your own goals more: I dont obsess over girls anymore...yeah, i'd love to have someone, but I cant force people to like me. all I can do is work on myself and hope for the best.
the worst part is seeing people in public who are in far worse shape than you, holding hands or kissing someone. and then you wonder "is there really something terribly wrong with me? what does it take?"
I just dont know anymore. I'm pretty happy with my body now, but the confidence to get girls is gone. but at least i've learned to like myself, even if there is noone to share that with. maybe i'm just meant to be alone? who knows.
it just seems so easy for other people, and so hard for me. so I try not to think about it so much.
>>35565938 >it just seems so easy for other people, and so hard for me. so I try not to think about it so much. Damnit, i think so much like you I see ugly ass guys with gf all the time and shit i know girls can like guys who dont lift but seriously it seems like the bar is set just above being able to breathe for every other guy but when it comes to me the bar couldnt be higher
I honestly wish it was easier to get a gf, at this point im not even sure its possible
>>35566038 >>35565938 mfw people think that they got the girl by some miracle, and not by just having common interests (read: HAVE an interest to begin with) and not being autistic. just like lots of guys are willing to settle for lower standards on a girl for reasons, lots of girls are willing to settle for probably similar if not the same reasons.
>>35566074 >I still feel like I have to get better. I hear you, its never enough
>>35566084 >lots of girls are willing to settle for probably similar if not the same reasons. I really doubt that, i have a shitton of intrerests but the girls have zero interest in me If i do approach a girl at one of these places i just get a cold treatment or platonic politeness And ive never met a girl willing to settle, unless she already did and thus is "off the market"
>>35566107 you automatically assume that someone who is single is someone "noone else wants"? it's so strange how you can't find someone to like you and your sparkling personality.
plenty of people are too busy just living their own lives to care about actively seeking out a partner, and if you stopped masturbating to pornographic material with vast misrepresentation on what the average woman looks like and idolizing those ~8-9-10/10 women, you might be able to net someone that is 5/10 like you probably are.
>>35566140 the hard thing is that the type of women that are giving you the cold shoulder are the ones that don't want to settle. what I did was make a bunch of friends of the opposite sex, and they occasionally warm up to you, and if they are single (after a while, you will know) you basically pick from there. it starts with people knowing who you are, especially when you're having fun.
guys are conditioned (probably by girls) to think that they want to be approached and wooed or whatever, and if you're charismatic that might work (*i'm not, let me just state that- i've never been able to walk up to someone, start a conversation about whatever with the sole goal of taking them home and be successful) but trust me when i say it's a lot easier when they kinda have an idea of the kind of person you are beforehand. otherwise they will just make assumptions
>>35566240 >the hard thing is that the type of women that are giving you the cold shoulder are the ones that don't want to settle. Im kind of charismatic becasue i need it for my job but its still hard to talk to girls and even more so to connect to them since they reject with superfast speed and show no interest at all in return I mean fuck, ive tried both the connect deeply and just try to find common ground and the casual flirty method and both net the same results
Most of the people i hang out with are drug users so the girls are usually pretty fucked up and looking for guys of a similar caliber but ive tried to connect to people from every section i can think of I am litterally stuck with this prooblem
>>35566323 out of curiosity, is there a general commonality in your group? I'm thinking that you should expand and have multiple "circles", don't limit yourself to one group of friends
for instance, I had a couple friends in the workplace, and some days we would go out and chill. but for the most part, when I got off of work, I would go home and play vidya or sometimes hang out and play games at the local gaming center.
the place was generally centered around playing league of legends, so sure there would be a lot of that going around, you can always find a new group, see who's not a shitlord and just be myself
I would try not to be a regular on specific days of the week, for instance if I went on wednesday one week, I'd try on sunday instead the next time, because it's more likely that I'd meet someone new playing something different, and I might inquire about it, since they're having fun, and I'm just being curious, we find common ground (me, video games, them their game) and hit it off from there
to be fair, I worked at a coffee shop, so when it wasn't dark it was pretty easy to recognize me. I wasn't "charismatic", per se but I was very polite and people knew me as a kind person on the front. people that played games with me after a few drinks (or some time smoking, for that matter) would see me open up and be loud, wild, and eager to invite into fun
anyway it's just my example, one i could obviously talk for a while on. I've been to bookstores and coffee lounges on some random afternoon and found people playing tabletop games, if you enjoy weightlifting you might try a rec center or something similar to swim/play ultimate frisbee/football/lacrosse/whatever. go somewhere where people aim to have fun, gather around an interest and do the same for yourself. if you are just being yourself you will have a better chance of getting in and making friends
you seem like a decent person
making friends doesn't always happen instantly, but if you don't try its harder
>>35566323 >>35566546 most of that was to say throw out a bunch of lines, if you have a lot of diversity in what you're doing for fun you meet more people and have a better chance of finding a ladytype that will dig what you do, because short of being into underwater basketweaving (i'm not sure of the male-to-female ratio there), there are females with interests doing things somewhere, and lots of them are single
>>35566546 >making friends doesn't always happen instantly, but if you don't try its harder helpful tip my friend, thank you It does help to read about others and their journey, sometimes i guess we stare ourselves blind at an invented problem and forget what it was all about
>>35567492 >be me >be 17 >beautiful 15 year old takes interest in me >girl invites me to party >we date for 2 years >after our 2nd anniversary we go to party >she plays beer pong >guy says if you lose you have to suck my dick >i just stand there, awkward >she agrees >don't worry honey, i'll win >she loses a few rounds >she's topless now >she eventually loses and guy pulls out dick >she sucks him off in front of me >i'm stunned >he finishes in her mouth >show him he says >she comes up to me >opens mouth >it's full of his cum >she gargles it and swallows >i leave and don't say a word >still in shock a year later
>>35567810 It's funny because I was so naive at the time I believed all the cvck stories I read on 4chan, I didn't even know cvckolding was a thing. And I remember the threads about that guy who went to college and during orientation some guy named Feon stole this dude's childhood sweetheart.
>>35567851 Yeah, dude! That was the same thread. I was 17 back then and I remember not believing that type of shit, though. I was just like "Oh, it's only really really fucked up people who do that" but I still don't know. There was that one story about the guy eating a girl out after she cheated on him. I'm still in the fence. It does happen but how widespread? I have no idea. All I know is I'm never commiting to a chick even though I always thought that was the way to go.
Lmfao you ass hats. This shit crossed my mind last time i hooked up with a girl. I avoid these threads like the plague because i know what this website does. Hey man if they eat yogurt and avoid red meat their ass holes actually taste pleasant. Can't get that in a high test thread.
I know everything you talk about. I feel like I've entirely given up at this point. However every so often I feel this anger when I see someone else with a girl. It's not even jealousy but more or less why am I so miserable? I lost all this weight and got a degree for fucking what.
Though I do have plenty of confidence it's just that almost everyone I meet is excruciatingly boring.
I am just very alone and very misunderstood very high functioning autist.
I faked my way into socializing. I have never felt like I had a friend, don't really know what intimacy feels like, and romance was completely never happening because I had(have?) no idea what I am doing. 27, witty, intelligent, confident in public, but have no idea what the fuck romance is because I can't learn it form the outside in. Never felt good enough, and the rejection I have faced has I am pretty sure scarred me beyond repair. I dunno. Fuck I'm crying.
I oscillate between being a sad hopeless nihilistic poetic philosophical cunt lost in sophistry and the misery of an ultimately meaningless existence desperately filled with slim glittering beams of the happiness of music,movies, writing, and a viable career and education that follows my interests - and a fucking confident funny to the balls mildly sociopathic jokster who takes nothing serious except what he wants out of life, if that. People like the clown. No one knows it was developed as a coping mechanism in my pubescence to deal with people.
I have this kinda, I dunno, dim, miserably far away barely glimmering hope that I'll just kinda say the right thing at the right time, and we find each other attractive enough, and that will turn into what I hear 'love' is. I mean, If I could find that just one fucking time, even for just a little bit, at least I could be grateful I got to have it with someone, that thing that everyone else seems to just... know how to do. You know... be attractive in the right way, or say or do the right thing, and find someone to share the world with for a while.
>>35563391 Does he have to be interested in what I assume is your intellectual pursuit, or would you deal with someone with a similarly intellectual pursuit that isn't necessarily math for people who cant take care of a family?
>>35562714 This is why one of my purposes for 2016 is to stop (or at least reduce) my time spent in 4chan. Too much sex images, then in real life everything looks like shit and i can´t egt it up. I really can feel my libido increasing and my sex drive by just staying 1 or 2 days out of this place.
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