/fit/ a girl broke my heart
What routine will help me recover the gains of my most precious muscle?
Also, girls are literal gains goblins right? Even /fit/ girls, cause they can break your heart.
All girls are gains goblins, yes.
Time bruh, over time you'll get over her. Eat better, workout more and you'll feel better, and then when the time is right and your happy, she'll want you back and then you can be together again! That's when you assfuck her sister and best friend and tell her to get fucked for being such a conceited cow. Bitches ain't shit.
If only she had a sister, don't know the best friend.
Man, fuck time, i've been disappointed a second time now by a girl i opened up to and showed what i felt and it sucked even more than the first time.
>What routine will help me recover the gains of my most precious muscle?
time x F
reconnect with friends, do shit that you want to do x F
realise that you come first anyway x F
move on x F
gain some maturity. Sometimes, we go out with bitches, sometimes the fault is in ourselves. Sometimes it's both. The trick is to be your own worst critic, don't blame others for your faults, always workout, and move on.
you could just avoid women for the rest of your life
or you could embrace this part of the human condition
you probably dont want to hear that you will likely feel this shit again
but it's the truth, dawg
so nut up once you have had your pity party and cried all your tearsies
That's what they all say, but if you examine it. You probably made some mistakes. The path to improvement is through self-awareness.
Maybe she was an asshole, maybe not, but you're the one heart-broken for a reason. The mistake could be you didn't evaluate who you were with probably. Maybe you started arguments over nothing, relationships end before the break-up actually happens.
I can't really understand it myself, she knows she's a girl after a long time ( 4 years ) that i really like again, maybe too much pressure? dunno
Buddy of mine told me she was back with her Ex boyfriend, so much for her "i lost a piece of my heart in your hands when we first met"
I thought that she was worth it man, really did, but got disappointed in the end.
I know it might happen again, but it's a real let down and doesn't make me want to try it again to be honest.
Hm, just maybe we hit things off too quickly?
Then again, for both of us having sex the first time we saw each other felt right. I should've nailed her down to an answer sooner, i guess.
either way man. Good luck on your journey. Don't hate women. Honestly, It is a waste of energy and time. Women are fantastic. Yea, you can meet some pretty big whores sometimes, but the good ones are worth it.
The worst thing you can do is become some jaded asshole like most of /fit/. Be a rare person who sees the truth, and tries to improve. I been in your position, and I was so hateful, and pissed. That I couldn't see that the problem was me. Anyways, good luck, bro. You'll survive and be stronger for it.
i feel you lad
i was you once, and i was mad at the world for about a year after getting dumped by the (once) woman of my dreams
now ive grown as a person and am much better for it
recently met a cute girl, was falling for her pretty fast when she decided to call things off
was upset but this is not world shattering
now examine maybe why and move on with my life
whats important in my life is me
The only way to not get hurt is to use the girl.
If the girl uses you you will get hurt.
When my ex broke up with me the best routine was cutting.
That gave me some control over myself, borderline pro anna, when my feelings were all over the place
Thanks man, nah i don't hate woman, they're just creatures with a really confusing thought process.
>whats important in my life is me
Nailed it i guess.
Yeah, well, i'm almost over it, it's just that when i think about all the nice things she told me, how she showed her affection to me through her actions, her decision makes no sense at all.
Nah, i've got to bulk all day every day, skinny fat ain't gonna go away on its own.
they'll only steal your gains if you give them permission. same thing goes for heartbreak.it's your fault if a girl broke your heart.
and it has nothing to do with using someone either. you just can't let a woman be the biggest emotional point in your life.
How is a heartbreak the fault of the broken one, anon?
>you just can't let a woman be the biggest emotional point in your life.
That's a good point,sure,but even if you don't do that, the heart breaking isn't the fault of the person left behind.
Family and friends are great and all, but i'm not the type of guy who just opens up to those people, i tend to stay to just one, my girlfriend, with whom i share every little detail there is.