Abusive parent putting me down with shouting/verbal abuse and calling me names
How do you deal with it? I'm told I'm a skinny faggot that will never surmount to anything and that I'll probably die in the gym and will never be able to eat or build muscle
How do I find the will to not be put down to go to the gym? I've had a history of verbal abuse by parents and this is the best place to ask since /adv/ is empty
Ok bud. Heres what you are going to do, stop listening to your parents, you need to take charge in life and move on. Stop listening to them on this shit go to the gym and work out. Over time if you keep up with it you will gradually become less skinny and more buff. Just listen to /fit/ and keep reading the sticky.
sorry bro that is sad af.
you're going to make it, though. you seriously need to get away from them in whatever way possible and stay away. get a job, find someone to live with, or something.
I'm sorry to say, but you have a family of crabs. They are pulling you down because they see success within you and are scared of you succeeding where they never could. But you're more than that, OP. You are a brilliant man who wishes to join the Gods of the gym and you rightly deserve so. Don't tell me that someone destined to be a God is going to accept the blows of those who are lesser. YOU ARE EXACTLY WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND WHO YOU ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE! DON'T LET YOUR LOUSY PARENTS DICTATE THE FATE YOU ARE MOLDING YOURSELF! ITS YOUR LIFE, OP! SURPASS HUMANITY ON YOUR OWN JUDGMENT
My parents were never supportive of anything I did infact they would put me down about everything I told them that I was interested in. So being older now I can tell you that shit will haunt you forever, if you have the money I would say move out now and never speak to them again. I moved out in my mid 20's after years of putting up with their shit and have never spoken to them since. Its the only way you will be yourself.
Take responsibility of your own life. Own it. Take charge. Take control. Take action. Do what is necessary to reach your goals. Negativity will turn into envy. Envy will turn into denial. This will fuel their negativity and keep affecting them negatively. Their loss man. But your pride will fuel your self-esteem and you will be strong and live a fulfilled life. Self-actualised.
Brohug from anon to OP
Mine are dismissive of anything I find enjoyable and doesn't fit their value system. It's sad because we are programmed to want parental confirmation/acceptance. You are essentially torn psychologically in these type of families
You might actually be a skinny faggot, but the journey of finding out who and what you can become can be predicted by no one. Let your actions speak even if your words must at this time remain quiet.