no but I did now I dont and I dont have any friends either and I fucking suffer from mild acne, which I mask with bb creams, concealers and other shit and I'm skinnyfat and people think I'm arrogant/grumpy/unapproachable even without talking to me and I live 5k miles from home so yeah next time u feel bad cause u dont have a gf remember me
Lots of medication issues. Turns out she had been in a mental hospital in helsinki at one point. I remember during a rough patch she was just laying in bed, complaining she was too weak to move, so I offered to cook for her. She said to wake her up. I finished and I went to wake her up. No movement, but she's breathing. So I eat without her. Half an hour passes. Still can't wake her up.
I knock her out of bed. She falls over like a rock. Underneath her I find a bottle of pills. She starts to move on the floor, crying. I'm just fucking freaking out, she says she was panicking earlier because she's so alone, usual bullshit drama, so she took one. It didn't get better so she took another one.
Then she pukes. I'd like to state for the record that I'm a normal fucking guy and this is not something I was ever used to.
We lived in Paris. It was her birthday in June. We sat in one of the Islands next to the river. She's incredibly drunk, I'm trying to keep everyone at the party happy. She says she wants to swim. "Hey, maybe not in the Seine, right?" too fucking late, she took her pants off and jumped in. She starts flopping around, the rest of the group just stares like what the fuck. I jump in and pull her out. She's still laughing and saying why I didn't just let her swim.
After a while of this I was fed up. We lived together, but I genuinely believed that if things were talked over reasonably, we come come up with an arrangement and I could help her move out. I break up with her and tell her I'm leaving for a few days to let her deal with it. I bought her a phone (she had smashed hers during a fight a few days before) and encouraged her to get in touch with her parents or friends back in Finland.
She's sometimes really /fa/ and sometimes not. Like she'll go from discussing Japanese mori girl fashion and telling me she wants to see me in skinnies and sweaters, and then she goes and unironically gives me cargo shorts and a trenchcoat.
I'm walking through the courtyard when suddenly BAM! Like bombs crashing around me. I turn around. She's throwing tomatoes at me from the window. She runs out of ammunition and I can hear she's screaming in the apartment. She smashes a glass. I pick up the tomatoes and appologize to the numerous neighbors peeking their heads out their windows. I exit the building and I can still hear her screaming.
I walk back up to the apartment. She's sitting on the kitchen floor, surrounded by broken glass. She's ripped her shirt. She's clutching her hair and screaming manically, her voice is raspy and worn out.
"I don't want to break up, I love you."
I realize breaking up won't be a one step process. We get back together while I figure out a proper exit. I meet another girl, and while nothing happens, I start to feel for her. My "girlfriend" figures it out by monitoring my phone (she smashed the other one and she insisted on us sharing a phone, if that makes any sense).
I get to the apartment and she's jumping up and down naked. "CALL HER! CALL HER AND TELL HER YOU NEVER WANT TO SEE HER AGAIN!" She climbs onto the window, the freezing december air pouring in. What was I supposed to do? I made the call.
When I finally got her to move out, she fought until I took her key. Originally she wanted to keep a key so she could cook in my apartment, since her new one had a really shitty kitchen. She was smashing things in the apartment saying the whole relationship was a waste of time.
But then seemed like they might be normal. My Mother came to visit me for a week and was staying in my apartment. I went to a party and my ex was there. I get home and lay down. I hear footsteps in the hallway (this is 4 am). My phone rings: "I'm outside."
I tell her she's drunk and to go home, but she says she wants to talk. I tell her this is not a good time and that my mother is here blah blah blah. She starts ringing the doorbell. She keeps it pressed.
I didn't start dating until I was 26, and at the time I was wearing stonewashed jeans, running shoes, and baggy dress shirts. I still found a girlfriend, so I have no sympathy for impeccably dressed 21-year-olds on /fa/ complaining about tfw no gf.
I disconnect the power so the doorbell won't ring. My mom's an older woman, so she's freaking out too. My ex starts beating at the door with her fists. She's screaming and calling my mom a cunt. She takes a boot off and hits the door with it. I call the cops.
It takes two phone calls for the cops to arrive, but finally at around 6 am they decide to pop by. I see them through the courtyard and signal them up. I explain to them the situation and they tell me to close the door.
So now I've got two women crying because obviously my mother isn't handling this too well. I hear a struggle outside the door and I presume she fell down the stairs. I look out my window to the courtyard. The female cop is dragging her out by her arms as she flails about. I hear her screaming until they get her into the car.
>>8298429 Borderline Personality Disorder. Not even once. And she didn't really adjust to life in France, she always bitched about how better everything is in Helsinki and despite her French being as good as mine, she refused to speak it. Naturally she had a hard time making friends with that kind of attitude and instead just constantly kept our apartment filled with her Finnish theater friends. When they stopped coming because of work, she stopped being able to feel happiness.
Guys, manic pixie dream princesses are scary, awful, broken women who need constant care and attention. Pick a regular girl, for god's sake.
>>8298309 same here well about the the girlfriend, she dumped me like a few weeks ago, it hurts man, she's was so awesome and it just ended. but dude you need to go out to the gym, get out there, make new friends (I lost a considerable amount when she dumped me), meet a new girl, go to the derm. your life can only get better. live it up and forget all the shit. I'm sure you're a great guy and you need to show everyone that.
>>8299620 It doesn't have to be complicated. Lay down a few grounds rules. Base principles on which you can rely. Such as only pursue when there is a mutual interest, and there is. Be gentle on yourself. There's nothing wrong with emotions, or feelings. You are a human, she is a human - this what humans do.
>>8299661 Same here, i tried a lot to stay with this girl i was seeing, since we finally made it work after 3 or 4 years knowing each other. But she had a lot of problems, was bulimic and shit, i couldn't help her and she started thinking she was being a problem for me, so she ended things like, yesterday, through fucking facebook
>>8299683 She had already tried to end things one time but i talked her out of it, now she just ended everything and stuff, telling me everything with only one message, saying i couldn't help her and stuff, so i just went with it. I'm feeling like shit, but if it's what she wants, i can't make her change her mind
>>8299707 That's not the case, actually, if anything it'd be the other way around, since she was into me during the entire highschool(when we were both assholes and she was skinnyfat) 1 year later i met her around my uni and we're both really different, and after a time we started dating. But i do think she liked me more for that "i try to help people" thing that i have
>20 >never did anything romantic with girls at all despite multiple girls liking me in high school >literally did nothing about it, anime character tier retardation >now i'm at the point where there are no girls on my phone, haven't actually had a convo with a girl in like 2 years >handholdless kissless virgin i think im fucked
>>8299908 step 1) get confidence step 2) drink step 3) go to a club, preferably with friends, continue drinking step 4) ??????? step 5) kiss girl get phone number step 6) (hardest part) try to not fuck up what comes next step 7) ??????
>tfw some girl is coming over to fuck soon and you're too tired and lazy to trim your pubes >debating if I should walk my ass over to the bathroom and do them really quick >or just casually whip out Chewbacca and not give a fuck
My gf is qt and all, but her fashion is kinda tumblrcore. She dresses well, in my opinion, just not /fa/. I'm usually dress in typical /fa/ clothes, colors are black, white and gray (rarely dark green, yellow, blue, red) and she's like
>>8299908 jesus, i hate this cliched comment, but are you me? >18 >kissed one girl when I was 12 >since then nothing even though girls have liked me >a few have messaged me on fb, and I have been too beta to even reply, probably come across as a stuck up prick >now at the point where there are no girls on my phone, haven't actually had a convo with a girl in 2/3 years I'll one up you on that, the only text messages i have sent or received in the past 6 months have been from my parents >virgin
>>8298266 >tfw faggot I have a bf but he's not /fa/, I've considered dumping him before because of how plebby he is. >tfw I won't breed with a fashionable qt to make a son who we will raise to be cultured and effay
>>8299908 >>8300155 >>8300172 ARE YOU GUYS ME COMBINED TOGETHER? >21 >never kissed anyone,never hugged a girl >friendless as fuck >don't have facebook, twitter, etc etc never try to connect with old friends or try to make new friends >on 4chan all day eryday and ENJOYIT >don't dream of good things and picture myself on 4chan in my 30's and 40's >imagine myself dying alone like a true gothninja ;) >tfw im okay with my life and don't try to change I talk to ppl due to school work but it's very robotic and I try to distance myself from them only death will bring peace :^)
>>8300180 ill dress up with geobaskets, acronym and wtaps ill be the most effay active shooter ever :^) btw whats the most /fa/ place to do a mass shooting guys? prob somewhere that you can kill the most plebs
>>8300206 I deleted my facebook because i hated going back and cringing at the stuff I posted and I was too beta to have a profile picture, so people thought I was weird as fuck. I think it has helped alienate me even more though.
>>8300227 na, it's been too long... like 5 years If I was lying I would have broken down by now and be a pleb piece of shit texting other fucktards Truly i can not enjoy the company of others :( sometime I wish I can stop showering so other people will dislike me and leave me alone I"M EDGY LIKE THAT...okay? GOT IT?? HATER
>>8298355 >>8298383 >>8298397 You sound like a genuinely great person, I can't imagine handling myself as calmly / level-headed as you did in those situations. Big ups to you, glad you're out of that situation!
>>8300246 not same college she's doing some /fa/ design shit i aint got time to lose im goin pre-med suck my dick watch out for my $$$$ >>8300245 eh i dont really like her in that way just that she's really cute and one of my best friends and i really, really dont want to go alone to prom ( who does ???) so i though eh why not ask her
problems are: 1) her best friend fucking hates me because she asked me out and i said no (childish from her part but wtver) 2)my niqqas told me i have to at least give her some flowers or something, that i cant just ask her in normal conversation. but idk if this is true, I aint trying to start nothing? i just want to go to prom with her, so idk how to actually ask her
>>8300209 lol that's actually the thought I had couple days back I seriously consider getting a shotgun or sth like that, ordering sickk pieces and dressing up and killing some people. I dont have any friends or gf for 6 months
>>8300269 >millennial >identifies a sense of entitlement and narcissism based on personality surveys that showed increasing narcissism among Millennials compared to preceding generations, when they were teens and in their twenties. I WANNA BE HAPPY NOW!
>>8300260 flowers is too relationshippy but it's prom the expectation is for something to be done also moar visible effort = moar likely yes ;^) just bake her favorite kind of cake and put icing on it that says "prom?" easy peasy
>>8300260 Srs, why does asking this chick to prom make you so uncomfortable? There's something more than 'I just haven't done this in awhile'. Nut up, put a bit of thought into what she wants out of this, then ask her in a way you think she'll like. Will she like something low key and sentimental? A spectacle? If you're one of her best friends you'll know.
Then go to prom, have an awesome time and fuck that qt. You won't ever see each other except to hook up when you come back from college for xmas and maybe summer anyways.
>>8300350 >There's something more than 'I just haven't done this in awhile'.
i don't know man i just like to post my rambling thoughts on the internet so that may be why it comes off as me being very uncomfortable i'm just slightly nervous
she definitely isn't the kind of person to like a big spectacle
>Better hurry before someone asks her first bud.
my biggest fear right now im telling her monday i tried friday, but i simply couldnt find an opportunity, she always seems to be with her girlfriends sunday my good friend is going somewhere where she'll be and he told me he'll ask her if she wants to go with someone, me possibly, bla bla kind of pave the way if you know what i mean cant imagine anyone else asking her anyway no one else is close to her "type"
>>8300155 Go there and meet other guys. Ask if they're coming next week and try to pregame with them. Buy a 40 or two, 3 bucks max and pregame with it. Go in club already drunk and buy the cheapest beer. Go to the dancefloor with guy friends and initiate dancing with girls by grabbing their hand. If you stand around for even 1 minute your success rate dives. Alcohol and friends are what keep you plowing, don't stand around and laugh off rejection/diss girls if they think they're too good. Talk to girls you dance with and get their numbers. Force yourself into a funny, almost obnoxious talkitive mood. The louder you are the more success. Godspeed.
>>8300371 The worst thing you can do is ask through your friend. It never works and makes you seem 10x more beta than otherwise. Also just ask her to go somewhere don't make it the high school "will you go out with me?" shit.
>>8298355 >>8298383 >>8298397 This is a woman who needs help. I'm not saying that you were obligated to be the one to help her, nor that you deserved this treatment or that the way she acted is okay, but I am saying that maybe this information shouldn't be shared on a forum like 4chan, and I am absolutely saying that the people calling her a crazy bitch need to sit down, and just stop talking until they reach a real level of maturity.
>>8300406 >high school "will you go out with me?" dude idk maybe you misunderstood, or maybe customs are different in the USA (I live in Canada), but I'm not asking her out, like in a gf/bf type thing. I'm asking her if she wants to go to prom with me.
what do you mean by "Also just ask her to go somewhere don't make it the high school "will you go out with me?" shit."? Like what do you suggest i do exactly
also hes not asking for me. he insisted on asking her, w/o mentioning my name, if she is going with anyone and who she would like to go with. this is some basic highschool social shit man how come u dont know what im talkin bout
sidenote: yeah i mean if she was down id fuck her, but i dont think so. i dont know how i would approach that. i guess if at the day of prom we get drunk and shit happens, good for me but if it doesnt wtver
>>8299908 >>8300172 >>8300206 Hey, I'm you guys too! >first kiss was when I was 6 and fucking made out with this 5yo neighbor girl, like weird as fuck what >next girl I kissed was when I was 18, first year of university, some gamur girl chick who wanted the Descartes and I was drunk >started hanging out with another chick, but my dick kept alternating between hard and soft whenever we made out because her face was so bland So not entirely the same, but still kinda close
fuck guys iktf all too well u know how sometimes you see on facebook, or in lame jokes people make how men don't like affection or anything but just sex? how the girl is the one that is supposed to actually enjoy hugs and cuddling? BUNCH OF HORSEShit i love hugs and handholding so fucking much. i can masturbate, but i can never recreate the warmth of a woman's touch by myself, when im lonely and need it the most
>>8300506 >tfw p sure masturbating every day to increasingly weirder shit has made me unable to find normal girls attractive That, and I'm only attracted to that generic hipster sort, who are few and far between here
boy asked me out recently but he's more tumblrcore than /fa/, like colorful sweaters and fjallraven kanken and all that in college next year i'll probably try and find an /fa/ boy to shop online and cuddle with... SB is probably full of disgusting frat fashion though
>>8300439 The OP of this lil thread of convo here. If you do this, you'll realize how ridiculously high school bullshit it is for your friend to just caaasually trryy to bring up if she's interested in going with anyone, but not mentioning you even though you're his bud? C'mon now, don't let being nervous cloud your judgement of how childish that plot is. Open yourself up a little bit, pull this chick away from her friends and ask her, or devise a cute strategy of asking her to your grad/prom.
ive only ever had 1 serious gf, and her mom had more of a fashion sense than she did
she was awful, and i wish i could just take the year i spent with her back. extreme anger issues, extreme sense of self-entitlement when it came to her expectations of me, (wanting me to pay for everything, take her everywhere, got mad when i asked for gas money when ferrying her around saying that she pays me in sex, so i called her a prostitute) came from a broken home, her mother was extremely abusive which warped her personality a ton
i really want a qt effay gf to talk about clothes with. i met ONE in college; absolutely gorgeous foreign girl of some sort of middle eastern descent, but shes currently dating this ugly dadcore faggot
I've had one gf, dressed and acted like a 6 year old in public and around her friends. When we were alone together she was great but the second she encountered another person she turned into an absolute retard.
>>8299661 Iktf I just destroy every relationship emotionally one way or another because of jealousy, or anger and stuff. Not like hitting them, just it blinds me and I get paranoid and say hurtful shit to them. I hate myself
>>8301305 he does not his massive paragraphs can usually be condensed to "be demanding and don't be shy" with a pic of a screenshot of his chats ... WOW THANKS LUKE Fuck For all we know he can be some fatty who is pretending he is some gay homo to go on lunch dates with girls...that fucker never EVER posted a pic of himself or any of his fits fuck luke and his basic advice... filtered his annoying ass Also his comebacks are really bad and unfunny >inb4 u mad, u jelly etc buzzwords
>>8301320 >>8301312 Nigga first of all he ain't PUA, and second, 'be demanding and don't be shy' (or rather, don't let her walk over you --> she'll leave you because you're covered in dirty footprints) is pretty much the basis of a healthy man-woman relationship.
>>8301344 A person is a person, and when he's wise I'll protect the fucker if I want. >>8301342 That probably means there aren't that many people with half a brain or more around. Cause I see little bitches everywhere, on/fa/ too.
>>8301381 >he's wise jesus...this is what /fa/ has become fuckin helll.....disgusting.... Talking to women is now considered "wise"? What are you 16? Jesus man there is more to life than just women....Also talking to a lady isn't hard so it isn't like he is doing something AMAZING
>>8301391 >>8301385 You're both purposefully misreading my thoughts. Of course talking to women isn't hard, that isn't what he does, he gives the framework in which to be successful with women and social interactions in general. >>8301385 This is the second time you make the 'argument' that caring about someone else being insulted is a wrong thing to do.
>>8301421 yes Why should you care about a person who only talk about scoring woman like he is on pua forum? Also it is a FASHION board why the shyness when someone asks to post a fit He should go to /r9k/ or /adv/ if he wants to trips and not post fits fyi he is a shitty person who talk about things un/fa/ related and should be reported
hey /fa/ i think im getting the feelings for a girl i'm in a math and science program with. she pretty outwardly liked me last year.
she's super skinny - ruler body type - and dresses whatever the female equivalent of MFA is, which i'm v down with. she has the most agreeable personality imaginable, laughs and smiles a lot, really clumsy. she's pretty smart and has roughly the same work ethic as i do, so a relationship would actually probably be really good for school. she's not religious, i don't even know the religion of her parents, she's politically literate (note: we live in south carolina) - i couldn't possibly have an issue with her.
but i don't like... feel it? around her. i'm more a fan of white girl body types than central asian, and definitely prefer people with more shape.
the question is should i d8 her next year? i think it would be a good move for me instead of doing nothing and dying kissless and alone. pls /fa/, be my older brother.
>>8301476 wait hold on there mister ladies man... You 100% sure you have a chance with her? Why are you weighing out her qualities buddy if don't have 100% chance with her also don't think about her positives and negatives that just fucks up the relationship >"man she such a pleb...wearing mfa shit!" - A nono quote to think about during a relationship Also you don't need to be deepballs in love with her to start something
>Nerdy ex gf still hot to bring me around from time to time >Aspires to be /fa/, listens to what i tell her will look good approx. 50% of time >Tries to tell me she is seeing someone "more seriously" now and has to move on >idontbelieveyou.jpg >youknowyouwantme.avi >Invites me on a vacation
Id love to keep a full time qt3.14 fa gf around for myself... but this is ok for now i guess. Still on the hunt, just not under as much pressure, since i got a placeholder
I had once. Now I'm a complete wreck, incapable of experiencing actual happiness. Anxiety, depression, self loathing and worst of all, knowing that she is out there, living a happy life, meeting people, being interested in them, trusting them, enjoying their company... loving them. Don't fall in love Anons, seriously. It's not worth it.
>>8302778 What >>8302792 said (minus the i would with her shit for the sex). Crazy girls are cumsluts in the bedroom. Last girl I was with was one but she was too much to handle & constantly starting fights with me over nothing. She keeps messaging me but i dont reply lol.
>>8302824 Just imagine if your ex gf's knew about this. "Sarah, do you know what Anon is doing these days?". "Oh I found out he posts on an anonymous anime imageboard about how he can't get a gf, and he posts pictures of sad frogs and bold upset cartoon characters whilst doing so". "Sounds great, he's really moved on".
Posting on 4chan about how much of a fucking faggot you are means you will most likely never get a girlfriend, so just take the easy way out.
>>8298439 Yeah I had a GF i broke up with about a month ago, she had Borderline personality disorder and it was just too much all similar things to what happened to you (except the beating of doors with shoes) and in the end she cheated on me and it was the excuse id been looking for to end the 7 month relationship. couldn't be happier since i left her...
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