Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom General
- "if you want to post something, just do it. you don't need a new thread until this one is full" edition
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
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>What is Role Reversal?
Old Role Reversal Map:
irc channel: irc.irchighway.net , #gfd
/rr/ and /gfd/ megapastebins:
New doujin list per LL:
Rusefemanon VA work:
and drawfags welcome!
My manager is my mistress (non lewd)
"I don't bite"
Smolbrit: Little Soldier Lady
Smolbrit's fashion guide:
Other: Protective Amazons
In Her Argent Embrace:
Valentine /gfd/ (Written by a 4chan writefag. Supposedly was going to be 5 parts, I only ever saw 2)
Part 1: http://pastebin.com/tW34EBHL
Part 2: http://pastebin.com/hMDENVVs
Pretty Human (Highly reccomended by many): http://seafoam.pbworks.com/w/page/77839289/Pretty%20Human
no offense but you'd probably make some shity edit
Finished up the second part about our young officer, lost in amazon lands.
More chapters to follow.
Creative input much appreciated.
on your fucking PC. post it
'Trap' cute or 'Bara' cute? I only have traps, sorry if you wanted something else.
Did mods delete my post? The fuck did
do wrong? Punk ass mods delete ontopic but leave shitpost...
>I'm not sure if the snarky comment was needed.
i wan't trying to be rude even if it did sound like that
any other /r/?
>Garden of Words
Live Action Film:
>Witch Craft Works
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Kimi wa Peto/Tramps like us
>Takane no Hana Nara Ochitekoi!!
>Ore x Yome
>Altina the Sword Princess
*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.
Doujin List: http://pastebin.com/BjvGSkMi (Credit to LL)
Hentai List: http://pastebin.com/jVY1dAeb
I added Miss Julie to the live actions. There's also a GFD story list that was posted in the last thread. Should I create a third pastebin for the stories? Or is OP's link to Taiyakisoba's archive and a few others good enough?
A brief scene at the end of Aneki My Sweet Elder Sister shows a cute boy in swimsuit being teased and lead to sex by two older women (his teacher and her friend). I'm on mobile, then I can't post any screenshot.
is that it?
GFD Story list:
>Under the Falcon's Wing:
>The Leprechaun's Charms:
>The Sentimental Succubus:
>A Taste for Christmas Cake:
>Wings of Desire:
>In Her Argent Embrace:
>Bringing the Heat:
>Until you are:
>My manager is my mistress:
>I don't bite:
>The Bear and the Wolf Cub:
>Pretty Human: (by Sea Foam):
>Love You to Bits!: (By SilentOtakuGirl):
Subs: Do you grope yourself when you masturbate?
I more often grope myself just whenever. Like if I'm getting dressed in the morning or when I'm washing in the shower. The last time I got really drunk I kept squeezing my butt too. Its got just the right amount of squish.
Someone in the last thread asked for captions. Here they are on another booru if that works better for you: >>6624383
Wait, really? I've never heard of a guy being that sensitive. You at least touch your penis still right?
Either you're the most sensitive guy to live or you're spouting shit.
Credit to you if it's true though, that's awesome. I have to be with someone else or I don't really get much out of non-penile stimulation. Mental thing I think.
> You at least touch your penis still right?
Yes I do, but I usually stroke my penis really fast in order to come soon, because a slow stroke could make me moan like crazy. I also avoid touching the top of my penis, because it would lead me to madness.
>Credit to you if it's true though, that's awesome.
Not really. I'm embarassed to say that, but I'm 27 and I'm still a virgin because I was always scared by the strange reactions of my body and I always thought that they would embarass my lady, which is a thing that I'd want to avoid as much as I can. The few times a girl I liked approached me or even touched me, I almost felt like I would faint: I started blushing like crazy, I felt like my legs were really weak and trembling and my heartbeat was out of control.
So its not even a painful sensitivity? Just pure pleasure? That sounds amazing. I'm not even a dom, but I still think it would be super fun to tease you.
> I still think it would be super fun to tease you.
I know that it may sound funny, but I'm still worried about the reactions of my body
>been on these threads for a good while
>still haven't found a qt dom girlfriend
all I want is a protective girlfriend that actually likes me ;__;
I can understand the embarrassment, but I would think most people would be understanding. In fact, I'm sure a lot of people would find it hot. Especially the kind of girls into this stuff.
This makes me really happy from a certain point of view, but from a different side I feel like I'm not prepared for a woman. My ideal woman would be someone who could gradually lead me to love and sex, even if she had to make the first move sometimes and accept my lack of courage in some situations. I'd gladly do what my lady wants if this makes her feel better.
Your picture reminds me how little smut exists of Adiane.
She was way hotter than that skank Yoko
>You're more likely to find a stable relationship at a bar than here
I almost spat coffee at my screen laughing at you.
Go on grindr or other sex related app, go have some random sex. Sign up for fetlife and do some social media stuff.
Or try to find someone here.
Your chances online are far far better than going to a random bar.
I especially love groping my butt and balls.
Are there any or will there ever be any gfd stories about a sub volunteering for things like pic related? Pushing the limits of the body's ability to feel pleasure is fucking awesome
>>6624091 Thank you for making these, I look forward to them in the threads now~
If that's what you think then I'm not going to convince you otherwise. But you're absolutely retarded if you actually think your chances of finding someone here are better than actually being around people.
That sounds amazing, and really sexy. Where are people like you when I go on my recording binges. I hope you find a girl that appreciates that, anon.
>go to McDonald's
>cashier is a really cute girl with glasses
>too shy to try and know her
Nipple play sometimes. Mistress got me into anal stimulation quite a bit too. Haven't had much of a sex drive since the break-up though, but I apparently have very feminine reactions to a lot of that sort of stuff.
If I can restrain myself, that usually helps too, but it's tricky to restrain myself and still be able to stimulate myself.
Like, the one of the girl committing sudoku.
I even have the famous one - in sound.
>not having TB's of fucked up shit on your HDD, half of which would get you in jail or be executed
Don't harbor any ill will towards her, anon. She is her own punishment. If you don't seem to understand hatred in the hearts of man, just remember that they have to live with who they are. You can move on.
Absolutely correct my friend; escalation is bad and so is vindictiveness. Excessive spitefulness would only make you hang onto bitter emotions which would delay the healing process and exacerbate painful emotions.
bullshit. i bet that you don't have a single CP there
and the thread was doing so well...
I'm a little disengaged since I'm in the middle of a break-up.
I've got porn to post, at least.
Most of it is hers.
I'm sorry to hear that, anon, and I'm a loss at what to say. I don't think I could say anything in a post that would have a lasting effect on anyone. I'm in no higher place than you; the one love I had in my life didn't like me too much and ditched me years ago. I don't hate her. I've got no job, several mental disorders, and am considering ghost hunting as an alternative to suicide. I don't even believe in ghosts.
Of course I think I am a terrible person, but we can't be all bad if we see ourselves as such. Sometimes I think we're born broken and have to stay around until we find our missing pieces. I don't know, anon. We exist as strange people in a strange world.
>Most of it is hers.
Poor kid. Chin up, buddy!
You can always an hero if things get too tough.
>Sometimes I think we're born broken and have to stay around until we find our missing pieces.
Sometimes I feel that way too.
Unfortunately, she fit into my life and I didn't fit into hers the same way.
Sometimes she wants me to hate her. She blames herself for hurting me and letting me down.
I can't, though. I care about her. It's so hard to leave her because I know she's not well.
>You can always an hero if things get too tough
I promised her I wouldn't.
Not as good as it looks. When I tried it it was shit. Expensive shit, too.
Fuck, this is one of my favorite pictures.
It reminds me of us so much.
Does anyone else have a resistance fetish? Such as where a male would try very hard not to give in and/or be seduced and the female would hold all the power and ~slowly break him overtime until he can't take it anymore and gives in whole heartedly. I find this is a really hard target for me to hit. Either the guy is super submissive from the beginning or he puts up a pitiful fight. I want a real struggle between what feels good and keeping your pride.
It's a really fun idea but I don't think I could manage it.
I'm too submissive. I enjoy serving others. I don't like cleaning, but I enjoy cleaning the house for mistress because I feel like I'm being helpful. Healing and helping others is what I need to do.
>tfw you will never put a boy in this position
I LOVE IT
I'd pose that way for someone I cared about. But I'm not ready for another relationship.
There are some good writers for it though. The only one I found was manyeyedhydra on literotica. Not really gfd but at least his guys put up a fight before cumming there brains out.
I fucking LOVE mindbreak. The lack of content pisses me off, though.
In the past I've written some stuff about it, but it's not really good enough to post.
>No pic to post because I've sort of given up on the gfd dream and deleted my folder
then why are you still here?
well, i'm good at delivering shockingly bad truth about the world so if you want to get totally depressed, let me know
Yeah, a lot of guys find it hard to settle down with this sort of fetish.
To be fair there is a lot of pressure for guys to take charge in relationships, longer term relationships especially. Even if a guy THINKS he is totally at peace with his fetish, he may find a little piece of internalized prejudice against it.
>i'm good at delivering shockingly bad truth about the world
As long as you don't try to use pseudoscience and ethos to say dommes don't exist, we're cool.
Probably. Wouldn't surprise me.
Now I have no reason to move to the UK and am at the lowest I've ever been.
She made me feel worthless and weak.
All I want is someone to love, that loves me back and makes me feel safe for once in my life.
>All I want is someone to love, that loves me back and makes me feel safe for once in my life
You need to find somewhere you're safe first. You'll have a hell of a time being with anyone if you're not. I made that mistake and I'm paying for it now.
I definitely feel a need for control and I don't think I'd ever want to be in charge.
But fuck drinking to try and get your emotions together.
>You need to find somewhere you're safe first.
I want to move out of my country once I finish uni, but now I have no idea where to go. And even after that, it would probably be a while until I got my own place, where I could be and feel safe.
Why does everything have to be so complicated ;_;
>I made that mistake and I'm paying for it now.
I'm sorry to hear that. Want to talk it out?
i can pretty much confirm to what that guy wrote. just so you know
I'm in love with a girl I met here. I moved to Louisiana to be with her.
She's not in a healthy place and neither am I. It made her realize she's not ready to be with me. She wants me to leave and be somewhere where I'll be safe. I'm scared to leave her before I know she'll be safe, especially because right now she's probably going to have to move back in with her family and they really disapprove of her. I don't think that'll be a safe environment for her.
But I can't help her the way I am, so I've accepted that what I need to do is move away, go live with my family for a while and get my life back on track. My cousin's gonna help me get back into school.
I still love her and want to be with her, and she's not sure she'll be ready to be with me even when we're both healthy because of this. But we still both want to support each other and I'm holding onto that.
And I can confirm the opposite, so piss off.
no anon. you can't confirm shit
I'm on mobile right now, but I can probably post it tomorrow.
youre never going to find a female with the correct finger ratio identifier for the dominant genetics you require to take charge because those are only found in men and women specifically look for those. they only pretend to have those genes and pretend to be dominant to obtain more social status or providers to try and attract more dominant males looking for a challenge.
I guess the mods got mad at my lack of pics.
Yeah he was emotionally unstable. We were in an LDR and I offered to pay for his ticket so he could come visit and see my whole family and I
We were talking about being serious and down the line possibly getting married. I was really excited for that
Now I realize that finding a man that's right for you and wants to settle is much harder than my friends and family make it seem
So what other fetishes do you guys like to mix your /gfd/ with?
For me, it's gotta be impregnation. Nothing like dreaming about a woman who's gone babby crazy and wants to be bred like she's meant to be! Even if she's on the bottom, she's still topping like a motherfucker.
It might not have made anything better.
When my mistress offered to bring me to her I jumped at it even though I knew I wasn't emotionally ready.
Now I'm in a lot of pain.
Which I hate to admit because I know she can read this and the reason she wants me to go is because she's worried that as long as she can't be what I need her to be I'll be in pain and she'll feel responsible for that pain.
i can provide what what i've seen/heard/read and know, nothing more but also this much. but then i really don't care if you believe it or not and i'm not gonna start a full debate because it's /d/ and only pics matter
Funny enough, I actually have a couple of these.
Because mistress likes 'em. She's a /k/ommando.
That's the other one I have too, so that's that.
For some reason when I let all my problems out and hear other peoples' problems it all seems so petty
I find it kind of hard to be a dom sometimes because I want to be so much to one man and I get disappointed when he doesn't do the same
I want to care for him, nurture him and watch him grow to be a great person so he can be happy
I never seem to be able to find someone who has as much enthusiasm for me as I do for them
I may not be very social and seem unfriendly but I do always wish the best for the people I love and would do anything for them
You wanna talk on a more permanent basis? I'm not ready for a relationship and I won't promise to commit to you, but what makes me happy is helping and healing other people. If I can help you I'd like to.
its very easy to feel like your problems are petty. theyre not but really other peoples problems seem so large and alien that its impossible to not make them more important than your own sometimes. people like who you want exist, but you have to make sure that you can do all that for them. that youre strong enough and well enough to be a pillar for somebody so they can rely on you when they try to grow. otherwise youll end up hurting both of you.
Sometimes it's hard to feel like someone is reciprocating in kind what you are giving them - it can often feel like you're giving more than they are. The important part is to understand that you're doing your best to help make them a better person. Often times it's entirely up to them as to whether they want to move on with it.
Communication is hard at times though - perhaps they weren't even aware of how you felt regarding those issues. Perhaps they felt the same way, it's hard to tell. People often express their emotions in different ways. Your method just might be more obvious than most, or perhaps more obvious than what he's used to experiencing.
You fool! You fell victim to one of the classic blunders - The most famous of which is "never get involved in a land war in Asia" - but only slightly less well-known is this: "Never admit that you are a lonely girl on a /gfd/ thread!"
Nah its OK anon. Thank you for the offer.
I feel like I'm in a very vulnerable stage right now where I'll just fall for anyone who cares to listen
I just need to reassess my life right now and find a new purpose for my future. I want to believe that I can someday have someone reciprocate my feelings completely
It's hard to move on but I have to do it by myself sooner or later. No one can get me out of this mess like myself
I bid everyone a goodnight. I really needed to vent because a stubborn part of me wants to believe in the gfd dream till now after I thought I found myself the perfect sub
if you ever want to talk to another dominant about these things you can add me. Burlioz Arisawa. it helps sometimes to have a friend who sees things from your side, going through breakups is really hard on both sides.
I feel like I am strong enough to take whatever my partner needs to throw at me for him to grow
The problem with my ex is that he couldn't seem to find the will to act. No matter how much support I gave him
I can only do so much and I felt like I could have given him the world and it wouldn't be enough
I think he had a fear to commit because he would constantly say he loves me but could never find the power to get on that plane to see me
Before someone tells me to get on a plane to see him. It was cheaper for him to come see me on both ends and allowed him to be able to see my family and live at my house
God damnit, /d/ has to be the nicest, board on 4chan, I swear to god.
Live, fap, be happy. We're all just afterglow-y from orgasm.
Though honestly I'm having a hard time fapping right now. Depression does a number on your sex drive.
Oh believe me, I can relate. For a while, whenever I'd try to fap, it'd remind me of how my girlfriend used to do it, and then all my libido went right out the window. Still have the problem from time to time.
if you need someone to vent to or get to know, my skype is adam.griffith.generic.name
That's basically what I'm running into.
She didn't let me touch it myself.
At this point the way I touch myself doesn't satisfy me the way it used to.
Hrmm, it might not work for you, but I like to pretend that she's watching, and she's making me do it. When I type it out, it sounds pretty pathetic and ridiculous, but it makes it a lot more fun feeling like you're putting on a show for someone. Or just kind of tease yourself for a long time without letting yourself masturbate. Play with your nipples, maybe some insertion, ect. all while watching porn. Then imagine she's allowing you to touch yourself as a reward or something. I don't know. This is just stuff that works for me.
To be fair, it's always an intimidating experience. I think most of it depends on how long you've known someone for though. I think the thought of spending a load of money just for things to go sour scares people. Guess the important part is to have trust and a positive outlook.
If someone has issues with actually meeting, regardless of whether they're the one
going to see you, it's a bit of a red flag though.
Just do you senpai - if he's unwilling to help himself despite support from those around him, there's not much else you can do but keep pushing until he comes to a decision.
It's a little weird when we're still talking to each other.
"I use you for inspiration when I masturbate."
Although admittedly she's a pretty fetishy girl, she might be into that.
I mean, nobody says you have to tell her. Unless you're ballsy enough, I suppose.
I have no idea what the dynamics of your relationship with that girl are, but in my VERY LIMITED experience, it's very toxic to keep an open dialogue with someone that you haven't gotten over yet after a break up. If I were you, I'd take anywhere between a week to a year of not talking to her to get over her before you go back to communication, otherwise you'll be stuck like this for god knows how long.
Of course, that's assuming you have a very basic post break-up relationship with her. I don't know all the fine details.
I agree. From my experience, it's been much harder to get over ex's when I had to interact with them significantly following the breakup. It's easier to forget those memories and feelings when you aren't constantly being reminded of them.
Wish I was willing to do that.
The problem is that we're still close in other ways. We didn't break up out of hatred or frustration with one another, we broke up because we're not emotionally healthy and we recognized that we were moving towards being uncomfortably dependent on each other.
I've always found it easier to talk with my exes than hold any sort of hate towards them - I've never really had a break up where we've both ended up heavily disliking each other. I'm pretty good friends with them now that I think about it.
>For some reason when I let all my problems out and hear other peoples' problems it all seems so petty
There's a reason I don't talk to people about my problems often.
I am often a serious downer.
Not because I whine a lot, but because in the past 2 years or so I've been through a lot. I don't want people to feel depressed by hearing about it.
Yeah its painful but it looks much nicer and you don't run of slicing your flesh up
I dont struggle with it
Just takes practie anon. Also consider the fact that women's razors arent meant for thicker and longer men's hair and that shaving any sort of thick or long hair is gonna hurt like a bitch. You might have to trim it first
Also this. Use a normal electric shaver on the shortest length first. Saves a lot of pain and makes it faster. You wouldn't take a razor to a full beard and expect good results.
The weekend has come. I really hope heliumbro is doing okay. If he's no longer with us, I at least hope he died happy.
Not really. I more imagine my owner telling me sweet things, or helping me so she can see me shoot all over my chest.
I have a question for dommes and subs.
How many of you would be fine with jumping into a D/s relationship from the getgo, and how many would prefer to ease into your place after you get comfy in a more normal relationship? I ask because I'm too much of a romantic to want some casual play partner.
I want to be my owner's lover, her pet, and her slave...and I can't imagine ever wanting to rush into something that'd affect me-and hopefully her-so deeply.
Well, knowing that girls might love my physical oversensitivity makes me feel happy somehow, hopefully I'll meet a woman that accepts me the way I am :)
Women usually prefer strong and resistant men, who don't give up to their pleasures so easily, especially in my country (Italy), where most women of my age were brought up by their families with a strict education. I really don't see myself as suitable to or matching the idea of the manly, robust and firm man most women dream of. Even a very simple thing like holding the hand of a girl makes me shiver like a frightened baby >.<
It hurts to go to sleep because I'm not beside her.
It hurts to wake up because I know I'll be leaving her.
It only doesn't hurt when she holds me and that hurts because I know she won't be here forever.
I don't feel like I have anything left to build a future from.
She's watching me fall apart and it's breaking both our hearts.
I promised her everything I have and I think she took it with her.
I still feel like I'm hers. She's still mistress to me. I can't be with her and not want to be with her. She sees the effect she has on me and worries that she's hurting me. She's the only thing that doesn't hurt and I don't know how long that'll last. Waking up today and knowing that as soon as she woke up I'd have to leave and go about my separate day nearly killed me. Deciding to leave before she did has me shaking like a leaf.
You can't let it get to you. Life is a bitch, it puts all its weight on you, it hurts you, beats you and tries to drag you onto the ground where you lose hope and it can finish you! I know what I might be saying be worthless and have no effect at all but I'll be damned if let you go without fighting tooth and nail.
It's hard, it hurts, I know but its a rough time in your life. Things will get better, everyone has a hard time in their life where they come close to the edge and have returned. It happened when a close friend of mine killed himself. Did I cry? Yes it's human nature to cry but did I let it break me? No, and to this day I thank myself that I didn't. After going into uni I have met so many people I love and I would give my all for and I couldn't hope for a better life. It will happen to you too I know it, you have to solder through. You will look back on this day thanking yourself that you didn't I promise you. We may not know you personally but we love you and are here for you and so are so many others. Do it for them and for yourself.
I'd probably prefer to get to know someone first, go on a few dates, learn about each other, ease into it. Going straight into a d/s relationship would be odd for me - normally it was something that developed naturally over the course of a relationship or after some discussions about it. I think with gfd it's got slightly less of an impact on the day-to-day than a standard bdsm style relationship would though so I guess compromises could maybe be made on the "would you jump into it" thing.
I don't think it's something you can just jump into, because I think that as a dom, you need to understand what kind of direction your sub will benefit from, as well as the fun stuff like how to get him at his most vulnerable and how to look after him when he needs affection. It’s pretty much impossible to know any of that stuff if you don't take the time to get to know somebody, and if you jump into D/s.without much of that knowledge, you're playing catch-up all the time and it's really difficult to feel secure and actually dominant in the relationship. This is speaking more from a BDSM standpoint, but I think the key principles are mostly the same in this case. I don't think anyone would want a domme who has no idea what to do with you because she doesn't know you.
I like being able to feel the attachment. I can understand that some people prefer instant gratification and want something more immediate, but given the option I think I'd take getting to know someone for a few weeks/months over something that could quite likely leave us both unfulfilled because we knew nothing of each other.
As a sub and as a virgin, my biggest wish is to have love and make lewd things with the dom lady of my life. As a consequence, I need to build up an important and deep bond with my partner before entering a D/s relationship. Honestly I can't even think of having sex to a woman without knowing her and being friends to her.
She cares for me.
We're going to keep making an effort. Not to be together, not right now, but to be more comfortable near each other again.
I love her.
I think this is one of the problems we had. We didn't know each other very long before I promised to be hers and I think my needs surprised her and made her uncomfortable.
apologies to whoever administrates the map, I accidentally put up about 3 markers
Is there something we can do to make you change your mind?
Man even as one of the people who's really depressed in this thread, why is gfd so full of breakups and depression right now?
As someone who's recently been considering it myself, I implore you to reconsider.
I could give you the usual spiel about how it won't help you or anyone else, which is true, but mostly I just don't want anyone to hurt themselves.
Someone you don't know is making a selfish request for you to stick around. Feel free to tell me to fuck off, but at least know there are people who don't want you to harm yourself.
I phase in and out of these threads for the same reason. The last couple have been the first back in months.I really like being supportive and caring to others but it just gets to be too much.
I appreciate the effort.
There are complicating factors in my relationship and my break-up that makes it hard for me to rebuild.
But I'm holding on to hope. Partly because I like supporting and caring for others too and I know I can't do that if I'm so hurt that I'm just defending myself.
I really hope what I said before got through to you in someway or another. I've lost someone to this before, I would hate to have a second
As someone who has attempted in the past, I know how hard it is to believe that it's going to get better, but it really does. People bullshit about it being easy or how things will be better before you know it but in reality it takes a lot of time and effort. And despite that, it's totally worth it, I would argue that nothing else is worth more than not giving in. Even though I've never met you I believe in you and I care for your wellbeing, so I want you to know that you are a person worthy of love and you have worth as a person.
I won't hurt myself. A lot of that's because I promised her I wouldn't. And if I could convince myself that it'd be better if I did I still might, but I've been grieving lately and I know that's not a pain that goes away.
Being a source of pain to someone else is intolerable. So I'll survive, one way or another, so that I can get stronger and not hurt others with the way I am.
It really kills me that nicoleships doesn't do more full comics.
few people want partners that are weak, dependent and whiny to an extreme degree
I'm by no means a regular in these threads, but most male posters appear to be precisely that
they might make for good sex objects, but I can't imagine many doms would care for a relationship with an entirely pathetic individual
There are some anons that are ready just to listen, as complete strangers. I've noticed sometimes people need to talk to a real person, all while knowing they'll never meet again.
Whatever can make you feel better I guess.
Is it even morally ok to dominate others? Maybe women, especially modern women, don't want to treat men like they've been treated - as housewives - and still get off on being dominated in the bedroom because they want to feel desired. Besides that, men are dominant probably because of cultural history and tradition - not anything natural or just "biological." Men use their superior strength and genitals to justify them being dominant partners; women don't have any of those justifications readily accessible. Instead, we have a history of women being the subservient partner to men in the vast majority of cultures around the world. I don't know why anons in this thread expect women to just give up the societal expectations that they have and "dominate" men on a whim, and I don't believe a lot of the males here are actually submissive anyway. So there's a couple of answers for you to choose from.
Why can't the subject be dropped? It's annoying and I have never seen anyone be satisfied with any of the answers given.
It's not as simple as "estrogen makes you submissive", but it's a biological thing. Females evolved to be dependent on men for their physical protection. Females who preferred to take the dominant role were quickly weeded our because they do not possess the physical or mental strength to defend others. Today, society has changed in a way that makes the idea of a dominant female seem possible, but that doesn't undo millenia of evolution.
It feels good sometimes, to be somewhere people are just enjoying what they like.
And damn, what you posted has to be my all-time favourite.
Yeah, that kind of situation just leads to sad times. I mean, sure, you can be in a relationship with someone without knowing them inside out, but as a dom, I feel one needs to have at least a basic idea of what your prospective sub wants and needs and whether you can provide those things. Otherwise it'll lead to heartbreak on one side or the other.
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and answer this as if you'd said 'few female doms' like a sensible person.
I believe it's largely cultural. We can quite clearly see the cultural norms that inhibit sexual forwardness or aggression in women, and I think it's very telling that most of the dominant women you come across in the scene are in their 40s or 50s and got into femdom late in life, often after a failed marriage. I think most women need to get to a certain absence of fucks to give about what's 'respectable' before they can embrace a female-led relationship. You'd be hard-pressed to find a young dominant woman who hasn't been exposed to severe social discord/interpersonal suffering and abuse, as that's really what it takes to discard the status quo early in life. That's why a lot of us are a bit batshit.
Not that the sub women aren't. They're pretty crazy too for the most part. Maybe it's a matter of needing to see some shit before you can have the confidence to pursue deviant sex in general.
I think if we wanted to see a change in the situation, we'd need a society which empowers women much more, not by wrapping us in cotton wool and anointing us with eau de trigger warning like the feminists seem to want, but by expecting women to fend for themselves, defend themselves, work hard for what they want, take responsibility for their own fuckups. Yknow. Like men have to. Because the way I see it, how can you expect someone who wasn't even raised to protect herself to want to look after and take responsibility for someone else?
I hope this is clear. I'm a bit spacey today.
It took me one year to confess to my gf that I was a sub, and wanted her to dominate me. I didn't do this for sexual excitement only, it was because I trusted her and wanted her to know about that side of me. I didn't regret it.
>superior strength and genitals
Aaaaand we finally reach the point in which we learn The Patriarchy is why men want to feel submissive to women or some other hogwash. Nothing to do with personal preferences or kinks, it's all because taking advantage of others.
defining women as the object of e.g. protection, desire and care by men who are the subjects that carry out these acts is definitely taking away power from the women and can indeed be called oppressive
>and still get off on being dominated in the bedroom because they want to feel desired
Is there any logical reason why it shouldn't be acceptable for men to want that too? Our culture is terrible for giving men any good reason to see themselves as attractive or loveable if they're not over 6' with a 6 figure salary and a 666 inch penis. (yes, all women want in life is Satan's penis.) In such an environment, I think it makes perfect sense for more and more men to search for an alternative approach to relationships that allows them to feel desired and adored.
>Men use their superior strength and genitals to justify them being dominant partners
> I don't know why anons in this thread expect women to just give up the societal expectations that they have and "dominate" men on a whim
Because some of us enjoy doing that?
If you don't believe in femdom in the first place, as your post suggests, it'd be best for you to keep it to yourself or leave, as that adds nothing worthwhile to the environment of the thread. It's perfectly okay for men to want to be dominated, even if it's hard to find.
>tfw you accidentally merge your smug anime girl collection and femdom folders
Though, on the upside, my new fetish for insufferably smug girls is far easier to satisfy IRL.
I for one would trade male gender roles for female gender roles in a heartbeat, and I highly doubt I'm the only one. (On another note, I would love to see a feminist spend even a week as a man)
> thread derails and turns to shit
this thead was always pure shit
That's not really the point though, really what we need to do is throw gendered expectations of behaviour out of the window entirely so nobody gets an easy ride on problem A or an extra hard time on problem B just because of their genitals.
Best example of a woman saying that she has it better than a man...because it's true. It's literally how it is; most women will never have a clue how society treats men, nor will many care.
Mate they can't even manage to delete some neanderthal /pol/ack flinging racial slurs about, I wouldn't get your hopes up.
Even though I have a boyfriend, qt dominant ladies are nice too.
I've come to the conclusion that there could be many aspects to the female gender role I am unaware of because I've never had to experience them
I struggled with wrapping my head around just how many morons send lewd messages to any female on social media
furthermore another gender role would also limit you, just differently
if you're lucky you'll feel comfortable within those limits, but they'd still be in place
More like they actually believe women are just pampered all the time by men. That's the funny thing about these /role reversal/ threads - it doesn't seem like any of you want to talk about what a woman's role actually is. You have your /r9k/ beliefs, and by god, you're sticking with them.
>implying women are held to the same standards as men
>implying /rr/ is only fetish fuel
>implying women should have a strict role at all
And they want men to enforce it on themselves while insisting that they should feel bad for being bad. Because they say so. Don't think about it, listen and believe.
People taking the "no female dom bait" so easily even after they turned the last thread into hell on earth make me wonder if there might not be a lot of samefagging about that question.
Frankly I don't even understand what you're trying to argue. Women are held to different standards, /rr/ IS fetish fuel (which is why people need to stop asking why there aren't more female doms), and what the fuck is a strict role? "should" have a strict role?
>woman haters believing they're really submissive
Why can't you leave and go back to /r9k/
Really, is it any surprise? Think back to when the patriarchy ruled. Men would work 14-hour days, then go home to their housewives who'd been maybe dusting a couple of shelves or put some laundry over, on a hectic day. She'd greet them with a smile and some kind words (slightly subtler than "good boy"), feed them and show appreciation. They'd work themselves to the bone just to earn it, and they thought themselves lucky.
Feminism was a plot by the jews to strip women of their natural place as head of the household by telling them that they were really oppressed - something no dominant would stand for - and they should abandon their place to take what was theirs. Instead, this carefully constructed Fata Morgana of the "empowered woman" led them into a trap of endless debt, soul-grinding work and social isolation.
Patriarchy is about restoring female rule.
I would say the lack of female doms is a cultural thing. Both men and women don't want to break gender norms in fear of looking like a weirdo, because that's how its been for thousands of years. And its been this way for thousands of years prior to now because men are naturally stronger, which makes us better equipped to fight off wolves or robbers. Our strength put us in the caretaker position. But in the modern day wolves aren't a problem, and anyone can shoot a robber. The need for physical strength is waining now, and thus gender roles are blending. Anyone can be a caretaker. Anyone can be the dominant force in a relationship. I would think that in the coming years we will see more and more dominant women and submissive men.
>guys like this call themselves "submissive men"
>guys like this think /rr/ exists but somehow also believe women are dominant when they're housewives too
>guys like this put themselves on the map and you might fuck one accidentally
This fetish is the worst.
>Really, is it any surprise? Think back to when the patriarchy ruled. Men would work 14-hour days, then go home to their housewives who'd been maybe dusting a couple of shelves or put some laundry over, on a hectic day
The most deluded thing I read on this board in ages.
God this is still my favorite page.
I want to be kissed like this again.
it's really rare to see a self-propelled shitfest of this magnitude
kudos to all of you
Why don't you BOTH go back to that lovely place, or better yet, get a room and fuck your aggressions away, rather than treating /d/ like Indians treat their streets? You faggots don't even have the courtesy to post porn with your bigoted drivel.
Well it's ok for women to go against gender expectations...because overall there weren't many expectations.
But men shouldn't because that's being sexist or racist. You aren't a sexist or racist, are you...? Because that's what you'll be called. A lot. And no, your opinion won't be heard, and no one will care because you're ultimately abusive and problematic.
Well, you're right. A lot of men never came home at all because they were either forced into military (conscription), or worked a job that was just dangerous. And if he couldn't keep up with said job, he surely wouldn't have a home or a wife.
Kinda like today, with how women still don't *need* to work or succeed to be seen as attractive and valued. That's what first/second-wave feminism was about, evening the playing field. But now it's gone so batshit that women are not only on equal terms as men, but are in fact preferred over men. Given better treatment under threat of being called a sexist, or believing that women need the extra push...which is self-defeating because it's men giving women more while they do less. It feeds itself.
I remember watching something about that - showed what she looked like while she was pretending to be a guy. Was interesting.
blame faggots who don't post pics. it's easy to shit up threads when you don't have to pick up an image every post
You are what's wrong with this thread. Let people discuss porn in peace.
>But men shouldn't because that's being sexist or racist
What the fuck, man? Hipsters are the most feminized people i know, and there are more male subs than female doms. What you're saying makes no sense.
You familiar with the redpill? The idea that society is against men and that women are inherently evil and manipulative. The idea that all women lust after alpha male cock no matter what. The idea that any women who isn't a virgin is not worth having. The idea that it is impossible for a woman to ever suffer because the world is constantly on their side no matter what. Crazy things like that.
I guess I am responsible too then cause my post hadn't had pic.
It's a good example of how it really is to change genders. We get an Olympian runner who turns into a woman; gets woman of the year award.
We get a woman who becomes a man, fully, and it ends in depression and realizing "oh shit, I really gotta have a lot to matter to women".
It's bonkers how that exact book isn't used more to show details of how genders see each other versus how it works in practice in an everyday setting.
And that's my point. Women (and some men) call men sexist or racist all the time if they have dissenting opinions. It's a way to shut someone up, and shut down the conversation so nothing worthwhile happens.
I'd like to ask you to please, at least try to call the suicide hotline of whatever country you live in (it should be easy to find with google) and at least talk it through with someone there. Don't feel ashamed, no matter how silly your reasons may be I can damn near guarantee that they've already heard something sillier.
I am familiar with that sentiment, thanks for clarifying
there are efficient ways to deal with this crap but it requires an actual cooperation between anons and i haven't seen such unity in years. there's no more "legion"
>Literally a thing most men do to women.
tbhfam the "no one wants to fuck you anyway" is thrown around enough by women that a guy using it basically constitues /rr/.
I am not able to help you desu, like I am just stopping by cause I usually go on d for cute bois.
No one in the thread has been called a sexist yet, or something similar?
Or get sent death threats in graphic detail. Or doxxed. Ok, I guess that's unfair because only women are targeted for that, and if they aren't on the right side they deserve it anyway. Men just aren't victims. Stop thinking they are. You sexist.
A man who doesn't have a good job or high aspirations is called a loser...while a woman can be the exact same and be called a prime catch because hey, at least she's hot.
A man can have a shit job and junk car and he's a slacker. A woman can have a shit job and junk car and that's fine, it's a hard world out there for women. So just hang out with your male friend who'll buy you food and your boyfriend who'll buy you clothing.
feel free to /r/. but better not in this shithole
Jesus Christ what the fuck is happening ITT?
I'm not here for less than a day and all of a sudden everything is fucking nuts.
Go to /pol/ or Cripplechan with you're political bullshit, /d/ is a Hentai Board, not a "discuss dumb shit with the occasional related image" Board.
Can't believe I made that mistake
They're okay. It really varies in terms of what they can actually do for you here in the states since mental healthcare is in such a piss-poor state, but they did at least get me to stop lying in the street and take me to a hospital the last time I tried.
I disagree, men say that to ugly women all the time. It's not an /rr/ thing, it's a basic insult to say you're undesirable.
??? "feminist" was pretty much used as an insult, you guys didn't post dissenting opinions so much as you argued that I was just wrong and about how women actually have super great lives.
The shitposting is starting to affect even you now?
Pic-related question: join Magma or Aqua? And why? (both would have different themed kinks)
Aqua, purely for delicious brown and because I love swimming.
Also, Sharpedo is a baller.
I think i've spent too much time on /v/, they always purposefully make that mistake.
Magma for sure. Better Pokemon type, and because Hoenn could use less water.
Also best Pokegirl.
tbqh I don't know why you'd expect "none of you fags are submissive anyway" to be better received than "none of you cunts are dominant anyway" vOv
I'd prefer Magma, honestly. Aqua rep seems like she'd be the type to prefer pegging and humiliation while Magma rep seems the type who'd give a killer footjob and strangle me for having the audacity to look at "that wet bitch".
And I'm not even going into the more juicy details.
sadly this is all I have with her in it
Really? Because all i've seen is people saying that women have it so great and men are poor victims of The Matriarchy. Honestly, i don't think that today's society is biased towards either gender, but you know, Internet victims.
See, I enjoy a good pegging.
Admittedly, foot worship is a good time too, but I feel like a swimmer might have cuter feet than someone who spends so much time hiking.