Falling in love with fictional characters

>>2914173
>bitter and isolated or seemingly 'evil' but secretly just needs attention and love.

Scratch evil, and it sounds a bit like you OP doesn't it? You isolate yourself from others (don't want to ruin your fantasy by getting to know them) but want love. 4chan isn't a good shrink so maybe visit a real one?

Are you literally gay, OP?

OP I know EXACTLY how you feel.
Best bet is just getting a hug pillow or something because 3DPD will never satisfy us. ;_;

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>>2914179
Also, Adachi from P4 is my husbando and he's just like how you described the type you like.

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straight guys too are burdened with the surreal and empty feel of falling for someone who only exists in fiction.

im drawn to darker character ho are very selective about who they show kindness to

as far as breaking this kind of thing down psychologically, i think there is a chance that real love is 475637times as intimate and fulfilling and i just haven't felt it yet.

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Hey
I'm a straight guy and I still go to bed dreaming of a husbando and hugging my pillow
Mines are not edgy but always kind of supernatural in nature and 2cute4thisWorld

>>2914201
And by straight you mean bi

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>>2914173
>Basically I only ever fall in love with fictional characters (not always from anime but still). When I do take an interest in a real person it's usually because I don't know them that well and I 'fictionalize' them in my mind.

You are not the only one, anon. Except with me, I've never had an interest in another human being except the 2 minor crushes I had when I was only a child. I have never met a person I've felt emotionally connected to except for fictional ones.

>why you think psychologically it happens

I believe it usually happens in people who are not very social friendly (severe case of social anxiety, a long history of being bullied, outright social outcasts, etc). They reach out and fall in love with a character who can not reject them for who they are and what they have possibly done.

>>2914175
>and it sounds a bit like you OP doesn't it?

It's always like this in my case. My process of falling in love with a fictional character is being able to relate to them on some level, then forming a emotional attachment that turns into love.

>>2914173
you're not alone.

if someone doesn't have feelings for a fictional character, i'm surprised

they're made to be appealing. it's no wonder peopel find them that way

>>2914173
>When I do take an interest in a real person it's usually because I don't know them that well and I 'fictionalize' them in my mind.

I know your feels, femanon. That is a road that leads to disappointment. Real men will never love you. Use them for cock and buying you drinks, go home and masturbate to your beloved. Real men are disgusting, ungrateful pigs who will hurt you. 2D is love.

I go for anti-heroes and grey-morality villains. They're not afraid to be rough~

Don't go for real men with that type, OP, the "just needs love and he'll stop being an asshole" type. That is how women get abused.

gay male here
I feel like this now, even though I had a strong crush as an adolescent. I think I'm just extremely immature and don't like adult relationships

It goes over OP.

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>replay his final chapter
>instantly feel better
if I had more money I'd commission and order a daki, I doubt anyone here cares about how pathetic it might be.

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>>2914228
>Use them for cock and buying you drinks

I don't want this. I want real caring, support, romantic kissing and having my pussy licked thanks. But we all can see how real guys act irl and write on the internets - this is 4chan for gods sake, reading here is enough to turn you off real men for ever. I don't want ot be with a pornloving womanhater.

It's 2D or other girls I guess

I guess you're attracted to characters that are like you (isolated, assholes, don't like contact) and don't recognize they're like your inner child that you're masturbating instead of actually taking care of.

>>2914173
> someone who is bitter and isolated or seemingly 'evil' but secretly just needs attention and love
Wow. I'm falling for the same type of 2D guys and my husbando is exactly like that. Even though I have a real boyfriend, but the one I'm really in love with is 2D.

>>2914322
So you don't love your actual real life boyfriend? Why are you together?

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>>2914205
technically not, because I'm not interested into the sex.
I visit /cm/ but not /y/

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Browsing 4chan for too many years turned me off real men. I'm kinda lonely at times but I don't particularly crave a relationship (a few more regular friends would be enough, any other craving can be satisfied by getting off by myself. eh)

>>2914327
Well, /y/ won't give you a good representation of what gay sex/intimacy can be like anyway

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>>2914328
Ironic isn't it. 4chan is a place where men can go and write any kind of sexist/homophobic thing and encourage each other to be more hateful, its well known for that. Meanwhile, we come to the site to admire our fictional husbandos

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Cute 2D guys truly are a miracle of the universe, I'm happy to stick with them.

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>>2914301
>other girls I guess

I'd be a lesbian if I could, but I love everything about the male form, from the shoulders to the chest (god, the chest) to the hips and ass and the big hands and strong forearms. The SCENT. But they're dickheads. Always think they're being clever and pulling one over on you, trying to be manipulative, trying to puff their feathers, meanwhile eye always on the lookout for a hotter girl who can suck them off. Brutish, dirty, rude, messy, disgusting, foul in manner, lack of hygiene, or if you get one that grooms itself it's a pansy-ass who shrieks at bugs and is either emaciated or skinnyfat. And then there are the ones with issues.

>tfw have never loved a real man

But I just can't make myself like women.

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>>2914365

Are you sure you're not just sexist?

>>2914228
>>2914301
>>2914328
>>2914336
>>2914365

You have literally devolved into the men you dislike so much. You're just on the other side.

Men:
>all women are whores
>they cheat on us
>always go for dicks instead of nice guys

You guys:
>they're dickheads
>always looking for a hotter girl to suck them off
>reading here has convinced me ALL men are pornloving womenhaters
>will always hurt you
>real mean are disgusting ungrateful pigs

My point is that all of the normal people, (and yes, they ARE on 4chan too,) thing you people are really kind of sad for generalizing the opposite sex and writing off all other men/women because you're insecure.

Also, >>2914175, is exactly right. This is escapism. You reject 3D because 2D is easier, it can never disappoint you.

Not all 3D is bad guys. There are good guys out there, just as I'm sure there a good girls too. (Why are using a disgusting place such as 4chan as a reference for how normal people are anyway.)

>>2914365
I'm not trying to sound rude or anything but it sounds like you just have trouble with people in general. I know plenty of guys that are exactly opposite of what you just described.

>>2914373

All of that said though, I do the same thing. I fall for fictional characters and have only ever had one guy I've ever actually liked. He is my boyfriend. He is my proof that good guys exist.

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If you're ugly, abused, or socially awkward it's totally fine to be bitter about your life. Just acknowledge it and move on. I guess that's hard to do all the time but it's better to try than becoming sexist.

there is nothing wrong with falling in love with fake people
humans have been doing that since the dawn of times

I only fall in love with fictional characters because I'm far too repressed , scared and angry to love a real person.

I know that If I love them, im going to let my guard down around them, and sooner or later they will see parts of me I'm too scared to share with anyone, the parts of me i try very hard to hide on a daily basis, because theyre either dangerous or crushingly depressing, there's this fear that I might snap and loose controll, like has happened in the past, and hurt the person I love, I don't think I could live with myself if that happened.

So, If I don't let myself love real people, I can't hurt real people. Simple.

>>2914378
That's something the male posters on 4chan needs to hear

I'm reminded of a song called "He Poos Clouds" (idk why it's named that) about a guy who falls in love with fictional characters.
http://songmeanings.com/songs/view/3530822107858586784/

>>2914417

Sounds like you're worried most with how you'll appear to others, a "what will the neighbors think" kind of fear. But even if you ran around naked and screaming in public most people won't remember it for more than a day.

>>2914446

Your good, pretty much hit the nail on the head with that one.

Just out of curiosity, how did you come to that conclusion?

>>2914424
>>2914424

Apparently not just male posters.

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>>2914373
The only fair conclusion we can take from this is that 3DPD piggus are not worth anyone's time and we should dedicate ourselves to 2D husubandus and raifus

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>>2914373
>You have literally devolved into the men you dislike so much. You're just on the other side.

No. Simply not dating them when they seem shitty and sexist doesn't make me just as bad. It's very passive behaviour not hateful.

>>2914528
What? You are generalising behaviour and demonising the whole gender just as much as they are.

>>2914531
Nope, I'm simply staying away from them to avoid getting hurt. I don't know, maybe I'll magically stumble up on a good guy, meanwhile it's 2d or girls

>>2914374
I wish just could tell males this about women here on this site with getting my ass blasted with, " lol u gay. "

>>2914518

4chan is filled with people who had insane controlling parents. That's where worrying so much about appearance and stepping out of line emotionally comes from. That's why they reject potential wives and husbands. Familial narcissism, basically.

>>2914550

If the most handsome and chill guy in the world wanted you would you change your mind?

>>2914578
Interesting comment. Why do you think this is how it is? Are you like that?

>>2914578

After re reading my initial post I can see some of the clues that would/ could have led you to that conclusion, but still, nice work.

Were you always so good at psych related stuff or did you have to study?

>>2914173
Well... In my case I'm just bad at reading and emitting social clues, especially flirting and interacting with someone with more in mind than being just friends. My default face is not very expressive so usually people can't tell if I'm interested and when they try to reach out to me I get scared and run away, emotionally and physically. Since I was very young my parents have been in bad terms and my dad specially was at first kind of absent and emotionally abusive, the type who one time says that loves you a lot and the other says you are only capable of fucking everything up and that you are like a curse in his life, and then started talking shit about my mother when their relationship hit rockbottom. My mother had problems of her own but didn't expressed herself emotionally very much. They didn't divorced because of cash problems and spend a big time of my childhood and adolescence fighting and telling me that I should never marry or date anyone, my dad specially, and that all men are shit and only think about sex. Thus I don't really get how to express healthy feeling towards guys and how not to be attracted to guys who treat me like crap and make fun of me. They only time I actually had a date was when I was in a summer job in a library and since I had to act all receptive and cheerful all the time some clients kind of had a thing for me, one was a creepy old guy who gave me some earrings and talked about his Porsche and the other seemed cool but tricked me into inviting me to a movie opening that I really wanted to see but when we got to the cinema he said he actually had no tickets and bought some remaining tickets for some crappy comedy about a guy trying to get with a 17 years old girl. The movie was very bad, but I didn't even get to watch it because he wanted to make out the whole time. I then realized that making out with a freaking stranger in the back of the cinema was awful and by the end of the movie just went straight home.

>>2914594
...continuing. There where some other guys that I had interest in, all with girlfriends, and others that were actually really nice but I just didn't know how to react and they just gave up.
The nice thing about fictional characters is that they feel safe. I can always stop reading/ watching if I don't like something. In drama cds I can just self insert in the heroine and everything happens without me having to take any initiative. Sorry for being so long, it's just that it's something I can't talk with my friends because I'm afraid they will thing it's too weird.
My favorite type in fiction is the delinquent with a heart of gold. I like the idea that I'm the only one with whom he could open up and be sweet and stuff, I'm a bit possessive I guess.
I've been thing for a while that I should try a "fiction detox" to force my self to interact with real guys, but maybe I should try to heal my daddy issues before.

>>2914594
>>2914600

You need more than a fiction detox, you need to work on your self-esteem, and learn about healthy boundaries and healthy relationships. Therapy, perhaps. There are also many internet articles and books about such things to start out with.

Wow didn't expect such a deep thread on /cm/

Yes, I'm meaning to read "Toxic parents" and maybe "The drama of the gifted child". I plan on doing therapy when in a couple of years when I can afford it on my own. If you have any article or book in mind to recommend it would be cool too.
I'm also surprised, 4chan was the last place I thought I'd write and read about this.

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>>2914604
Sorry for the English mistakes, I'm very sleepy.

>>2914604
I found this site useful regarding toxic family - http://www.outofthefog.net/index.html
& there is this classic book about assertiveness "A Woman in Your Own Right" don't laugh, it's very useful.
Those books you mentioned are probably good. Real life therapy is best if you can find a good one, but starting to learn about yourself & your problems before that is great.
I wish you the best of luck anon.

>>2914604
>4chan was the last place I thought I'd write and read about this.

You'd be amazed at how helpful and kind people actually are here. You just need to see past the harsh(? I guess) culture. I've met some amazing people here.

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>>2914606
Thank you very much anon.
Hope you have a great night, or day, wherever you are.

>>2914588
>>2914591

4chan is a place where people air personal issues whether they know it or not because it's anonymous. I don't know anything about you except your inner struggles but they're very common for those who end up being nerds.

Basically if your parents removed or stunted your social abilities and your sense of self you would use a fictional character as a stand in for yourself. Because they used YOU as a fictional stand in for their own need to look good, an actor. So this is what was taught from parent to child. Now OP will fictionalize men she meets as perfect or total dickheads which isn't that far from normal behavior, it's just the reason for doing so seem to be to deny her own will and desires. Those desires are kept safe in the form of fantasy men.

>>2914528

You're still a sexist. you're the same for demonising an entire sex. Whether you're passive or aggressive about it doesn't mean shit.

>man I hate niggers, I should portest
>I hate niggers too but it's different because I keep it to myself

Yep, still a racist.

And yep, you're still a sexist.

>>2914614
Do you study psychology or do you know this stuff because your own personal history have been similar?

>>2914616
Sorry, the class of "men" aren't an oppressed group like black people and women in general are. I'm not oppressing men by not dating them if they act sexist and shitty. Seriously LOL. You sound personally offended.

>>2914690

Why did you put the word men in quotation marks?

if there were men that didn't act sexist and shitty would you date them?

I hope this dosn't come off as a personal attack, because it isn't supposed to be.

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>>2914690

Men are definitely not an oppressed group. You are correct. But it doesn't change the fact that you are a sexist. You can be sexist to men, whether you wanna believe it or not. "Sexism," doesn't mean "woman hating," it means to put prejudice against some because of their sex. Typically the sex being prejudiced is women, but that doesn't change the whole definition. You seem to think that sexism and misogyny have the same meaning. That is where you are incorrect.

Also, nowhere did I say men were oppressed. I said that whether or not you are being passive about your hatred against men or aggressive about it, you're still sexist. I'm aware you're not being oppressive. But you still have sexist thoughts.

Please don't put words in my mouth. If you dislike the word "sexist," I can also call you a misandrist. Would that clear up your confusion?

>Seriously LOL. You sound personally offended.

Argue this way if you like, but when you read what I wrote and change it, (arguing about oppression versus what I actually said,) it doesn't get us anywhere.

And I'm not telling you your ideas are wrong, I'm also not telling you to date men. What I am saying is when you think like:

>men are sexist and shitty

That you are in fact being sexist and shitty yourself. Just because men aren't oppressed, (which I never brought up,) doesn't mean that being sexist against them isn't being sexist.

If you really feel you're doing nothing wrong, (which is fine,) but you think it's wrong men think that way, (which defeats the whole purpose of feminism to equalize the sexes,)then maybe you're just insecure? (Since you attempted to invalidate my argument by trying to make out to sound as though i was being silly.) If you're not, then at the very least you're being hypocritical.

I won't deny though that I AM personally offended, not because you think that way. But that as a member of an oppressed group you feel that it grants you immunity from being sexist. Which is ridiculous.

>>2914694
Maybe who knows what will happen.
Put it in qutation marks to show I talked about the group as a class

>>2914777
This seems important to you. Perhaps it's because I never wrote some men or not all men. I'm aware not every man is shitty. Too many act shitty and womanhating. It puts me off dating them. I would call it prejudice, not sexism. To stay away from a group that seems to have little regard for you, as a whole.

I wish misognyist men simply decided to stay away from us, didn't bother us, consider dating men instead & idolized cool female fictional heroes...

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>>2914780
>prejudice, not sexism
>it means to put prejudice against some because of their sex

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>>2914608
You're welcome, anon.
It's a difficult journey, but gaining insight and self-confidence is so rewarding.

>>2914373
>(Why are using a disgusting place such as 4chan as a reference for how normal people are anyway.)

I date plenty of guys, and I've never seen a respectable one. Even my friends in uni (who are male), I would never date because they're womanizers. While I'm single I might sleep around, but if/when I have a boyfriend I don't cheat. Men cheat, so much, so casually.

>>2914374

Where can I find them?

>>2914417

A-anon. I wish I could attach a hug as a file.

>>2914616

She isn't me. I think all people in general are shit and mean and like to hurt others. 2D doesn't hurt me. I give 3d a fair chance, and they always screw it up. So many men who seem otherwise normal will just cancel a date on you, or will drop you to get suzy tantits to suck him off. I'm not exactly ugly, either, and I'm sweet in a relationship. Just, men are always depraved. And most women. Women can be very catty. My landlord yells at her sweet husband a lot, and he seems nice and doesn't do anything to deserve it. People are just awful, both genders.

But at least a woman lover wouldn't want to pump you in five seconds to get herself off, then leave to play videogames the rest of the night.

>>2914173
You are not alone, anon.
I had a boyfriend and dated some guys... but never really loved any of them. Damn, it's so hard to like real people!

>>2914323
I'm not the person you asked this to, but I'm in a similar situation where I am in love with my husbando but I have a boyfriend. He doesn't make me happy, but I'd rather be unhappy than lonely.

>tfw this thread
>tfw I'm a guy
>all these women out there must hate me before I even get a chance to talk to them.

And now I can feel the depression coming.

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>>2914828
It's easier to hate a group in general rather than a specific person, if it makes you feel better.

>>2914828

That's what it's like to browse most of the internet if you're female.

>>2914830

Yep, totally agree. But I still think that hating a whole group based on sex is stupid as shit.

>>2914790

Ok, well that was a lot to take in, Reading that gave me a full emotional rolercoaster from boiling rage to the warm fuzzies.

Firstly, your men cheating thing, I'm going to strongly disagree with that, yeah some guys do it, and yeah some guys are casual as fuck about it, but not every guy does it so don't you dare rope me in with those motherfuckers, in a paragraph or so, you have judged all men on the actions of the worst of us, you understand how unfair that is don't you?

that was pretty aggressive, sorry, but that really pissed me off.

>>2914417

There are the warm fuzzies, that was my post.

I used to hate people, I still do to a certain degree, and I know I always will, but one morning I had a moment of clarity and realized that people were not the problem, it was me and the way I perceived those people. No backstory, no understanding of thief situation or motivation, just preemptive judgment that made me excessively bitter and cynical.

I know you were speaking generally but I feel I should share this with you.

The only times I've canceled dates have been when I'm in the middle of a week long depressive slump, or when I've had a panic attack as I'm about to walk out the door.

As for Suzy tantits, Ive never really found her that attractive at all.

There's some other little bits and pieces I take issue with, bit I can skip over them to adress your closing paragraph.

>But at least a woman lover wouldn't want to pump you in five seconds to get herself off, then leave to play videogames the rest of the night.

The fact that this is your understanding of the male attitude to sex is frustratingly tragic.

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>>2914790
>So many men who seem otherwise normal will just cancel a date on you, or will drop you to get suzy tantits to suck him off.

That is normal though. Were you really coddled growing up? Because normal people do this. But you wanted something else and you couldn't get it so you're sort of throwing a tantrum if you think about it.

>>2914830
Yes, exactly. Or existing in general

>>2914827
That sounds sad, anon. Would you be truly alone without that boyfriend you aren't happy with? No friends or family?

>>2914780

Y'know? /cm/ is truly a magical place. We are having a discussion/argument and so fat there has been little to not shit flinging.

I do agree with: >>2914783, that sexism and prejudice are really the same thing.

But that doesn't matter. Phew, I can calm myself now. I think a lot of misogynist men do prefer dudes or female characters. At least the ones on 4chan, (I know not all of them,) but a lot of guys on this site are always saying how they'd trade all the relationship experience for a good bro, that and those countless waifu threads on /a/ mixed with the 3DPD attitude.

>>2914827

That isn't really afir to your boyfriend, (unless he alreadys knows this and is OK with it.)

>>2914832
>The fact that this is your understanding of the male attitude to sex is frustratingly tragic.

That was my ex of 6 years. He did that to me all the time, and I had to beg him just to get off the game. He'd play for 12,16 hours a day, and I'm not kidding. I clocked him.

Lots of guys cancel dates on me. I'm friends with a lot of guys, and I know they cheat (they tell me; I'm pretty chill), even though they're pretty decent-seeming. One would cheat with 3 different girls a week. I mean, I'm getting this from experience, not pulling out cherry pickings off the net. Most guys who have the opportunity to cheat, do. The only ones who won't cheat are too ugly to get the chance. Sad but true. If they were attractive, even beta mcniceguy would cheat.

>not every guy

Maybe there are nice guys out there, but I haven't seen any. Maybe it's a phase or something.

>The only times I've canceled dates have been when I'm in the middle of a week long depressive slump, or when I've had a panic attack as I'm about to walk out the door.

Anon why? Hey, I used to have real bad social anxiety, but I got over it 95%. You can do it! When I get feeling depressed, I need to go for a run, otherwise I'll fall into a week-long slump where I lay around staring at the ceiling. When I least want to go outside and face the world, that is what I must do.

>>2914870

Hell no, you do not cancel a date, that isn't right. I cleared my schedule to go out with you. It's common fucking decency to at least give a day or two of notice, as much as possible.

>>2914875
Not really, no. I don't connect very well with people, nor do I have a family that's supportive.

>>2914881
He knows that I don't love him, we recently had a kind of long discussion about it after I turned down his marriage proposal. I guess he's okay with it still because he stresses how much he doesn't want to lose me and that it's either me or no one at all for him. I'd feel guilty if I left him, but I know this isn't fair for him, either.

>>2914173
I don't like Jhonny specially, but fuck, pragma's work makes me hard...

>>2914173
To add to the thread:
>Who was your first husbando?
>Your west cartoon husbando?
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
>Your current husbando?
Mine:
Sesshomaru
Cain from The Sandman
Ryoga-Ranma
Makoto-Free!

>>2914919

When it comes to games, There are some guys that are like that, hell I'll even admit to pulling the occasional 16-18 hour playthrough with buddies on release night.

I don't know, it just seems like if you have a girlfriend that your supposed to care about, and your options are, keep playing this video game, or spend time with her, the obvious choice 9/10 times (for me anyway) is the girlfriend.

Again, I take issue with your opinion on cheating, I understand you can only go on what you have seen and experienced, and that's what I'm doing as well.

As I said yeah, some guys do it, But to say every guy would do it if they got a chance is just, I don't know, factually wrong, and to imply that if your not cheating, you must be ugly, well shit, now your jut insulting me in a roundabout way.

I'm going to share a little bit of deeply personal information.

my dad cheated on my mum when I was, 14-15, no idea how long it went on for but it destroyed their marriage, I saw what It did to her, I saw how much it hurt her, that's why I could never cheat on someone I love, because if i hurt a person that much, the guilt alone would kill me.

I'm interested to find out, what your definition of cheating is?

yeah, I'm dealing with my anxiety better than I was like 12 months ago, but there's still a long way to go, you know like 24 ish years of learned and reinforced behaviour isn't going to get fixed overnight.

Thanks for caring enough to share your story anon, its always, inspiring when I hear from people who conquered their anxiety.

>>2914173
I'm not a /cm/ frequenter, just came on right now because I remembered there was sometimes good art here.
That sounds pretty pathetic, OP. I'm sorry.

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>>2914226
This video explains it pretty well:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YtwPPsBKGQ
Personally, I used to be an autistfag but upgraded to normalfag during college and started hanging out with people, so eventually I started getting 3D crushes too. Nowadays I have a bf. Feels good man.

>>2915083
Enjoyable video. Yes, devoting yourself like that to one fictional character is so weird and self-destructive. It's a character created by someone else to be a part of a story...

When it comes to nerds with these problems they need to work their values and friendship-type of relationship before they consider romantic partners.

>>2914790
"woman lover wouldn't want to pump you in five seconds to get herself off."
>>2914228
Kek

???????!!!!!

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>>2914965

>First Husbando
L from Death Note

>First west cartoon husbando
Double D from Ed Edd and Eddy

>I'd actually fuck him husbando
Well I have so many that I'd want to fuck, but if I had to choose one it would be Ulquiorra from Bleach

>Current husbando
Armin from Snk

My tastes vary a lot from character to character but some of them have some similarities I guess

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>>2914965
>Who was your first husbando?
Link from The legend of Zelda
>Your first west cartoon husbando?
That fly gentleman from courage the cowardly dog. I had always been a weird girl
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
Transformers Prime Starscream has a delightful voice, Cell from Dragon Ball Z Kai in his perfect form is a qt3.14, Abel Nightroad from Trinity Blood is a beautiful man and Transformers Animated blitzwing has a lovely accent. It's a hard choice
>Your current husbando?
Megatron, any generation, any alternate universe, he's perfect

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I've been in a relationship for seven years but I still fall in love with fictional characters, I've done it since I was a child. I was also really lonely as a kid and had no siblings or parents. It happens to some people.

I'm with >>2914988 on this

I can get being infatuated/having a crush on fictional characters, but not intentionally using them as placeholders for a significant other. Especially if the reason is you're too sexist or narcissistic to go look.

>"no tru nice guy"
Nobody decent wants to be around a grump who judges them before they get to really know them, and you should know that.

I wish you luck in figuring it all out, OP. Chances are you'll succeed, don't give up.

I'm the same, except I kind of really want a gf (not a bf, though I like male characters much more than female ones in fiction). But as I've never had a crush on a real person, I can't tell if I'm really just not interested in romance anyway, or if I would be if I hung out more with people. I do have friends, but I like my alone time much more than socialising. And as for loving fictional characters, I don't even know if I'd go so far as calling my feelings for them love or even a crush. My feelings never seem to be all that strong, so I'm afraid I'd really quickly get bored if I was in a real relationship. Idk, I'm just really confused.

I'm in love with both a real person (my boyfriend) and a fictional character. You may end up finding a real person sometime that you feel the same way about. I did.

>>2915346
I really hope I can find someone, somewhere, one day. I-I should probably leave my room first though.

>>2915701
Good start.

>>2914173
>the trope I like is someone who is bitter and isolated or seemingly 'evil' but secretly just needs attention and love.

you are underabeb&, aren't you?
cause I grew out of that when I was about 17 and it genuinely astonishes me to see people who never do.

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I'm a married woman and i do this. To the point where if I'm alone or doing a mundane task at work or about to fall asleep i'll think about existing in the universe with the character i've fixated on and have conversations with him, imagine being held/loved by him everything. All the time.
pic related is my current obsession (it rotates depending on my mood)

>>2914919
> Most guys who have the opportunity to cheat, do.

I don't think every guy sleeps around , but you are right anon. I'm also mostly friends with guys, but altough none of them actually had sex outside the realitionship. Crossing borders of intimacy with other people was mostly the issue. Flirting, hugging, holding hands, having sexual conversations, all those things are in the grey zone, but i know no man who has never got there. Even the nicest, sweetes guys in a happy relationship.
It's not like all females are saints, but i know some who take it to the level of absolute purity and even refuse to talk to guys who are seemingly sexually interested in them.

I am in a relationship at the moment. We have been together for 2 years now.
It has never been perfect, we do not have that much in common, but we get along well.
He is very attractive, tall, blonde, blue-eyed, sadly also ingnorant and boring. On the other side he has a lot of practical talents and i a very hard-working and abitous person.
I can depend on him, but i don't even feel like he knows me.

He does a lot for me, but what we have appears worthless compared to the romantic realtionship i always dreamed of.

Is it the imaginary love i had trough my entire teenage life that causes the disappointment?

>>2916297
>>2916297
>Even the nicest, sweetes guys in a happy relationship.

Now, I'm homosexual but in MY personal experience, that's just not the case either. Both with straight and gay male friends. There are many males who does this "absolute purity" too and shies away from advancements from others.

I guess it's just about surrounding yourself with the right people. Regardless of gender.

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>>2914965
>Who was your first husbando?
Marth
>Your west cartoon husbando?
>suggesting
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
Griffith and every character from Free!
>Your current husbando?
L from death note

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>tfw no bf to watch anime/stupid shit with
>tfw when your anxiety keeps you away from people
>tfw no sex for years
>tfw I spilled wine on Kenshin's dakimakura
I've overcome the part where I feel deppressed all day and just stay at home playing otome games, now I just feel irritated and pissed with myself so I guess I'm drinking now.

>>2916528
I know the feeling. It would be swell to have another neet aspie to be with and spend my existence with. Unfortunately, inherently, and by definition of my/our situation, that's quite unlikely to happen.

Somewhere, someone has a very cruel sense of humour.

>>2914965
fuck it
>Who was your first husbando?
Link
>Your west cartoon husbando?
Never had one
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
Kagamine Len
>Your current husbando?
Marth

>>2914965
>Who was your first husbando?
Tuxedo Mask
>Your west cartoon husbando?
Cheetor from Beast Wars
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
Loki
>Your current husbando?
Thane from Mass Effect

>>2916528

This has been a weird thread for me, I thought it was only guys who dealt with these sort of feels, in hindsight, that was stupid but I'd just never given much thought to the chicks that would have these feels.

This thread has been a real eye opener.

>>2916627

Actually, I think it might be more common with females. Tumblr is absolutely full of them.

>I don't love my man but he lets me siphon resources from him

If you're like this please leave the guy.

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>>2914830
Wat? I'm a girl and I disagree. Never gotten the impression that people tend to think less of me because I'm female.

>>2914828
Don't worry, most misandrist posters in this thread seem to be crazy tumblr SJW's; you wouldn't want anything to do with them anyway.

I love men. Sure there are bad men, just as there are bad women, but in my experience, most people are good. It's the people without self-esteem who's never accomplished anything in their lives that cling to prejudices like sexism and racism: "The reason I'm not successful is because of the patriarchy/jews etc." it's an excuse that they cling to because they can't face the hard truth: they are bad pathetic people who will never amount to anything.

Post more cute homos.

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I think most people do this with fictional characters to some extent. Some more than others, obviously.
>>2916653

>>2916653
>pretends to not be a crazy tumblr sjw like those other mean anons
>uses the word misandry
LOL

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>>2916673
Male version of misogyny. What else would you call is? Prejudice against men? Sexist discrimination against men? Misogyny/misandry are widely accepted terms, not just some SJW/MRA jargon.

>>2916673
Crazy tumblr SJWs doesn't use the word "misandry".

>>2916676
>>2916675
Misandry is not a commenly accepted term in real life.
I have only seen it used by MRAs and crazy tumblrites

>>2916677
http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/misandry

It is.

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>>2916653

>groups people into good/loser
>misandrists!!!

True Story: Long ago I found a nutcase on the Pokemon GTS. Every single pokemon the twat put up for trade was named Misandry. This sexism shit is just another nerd pastime.

>>2916698

True Story: Long ago I found a nutcase on the Pokemon GTS. Every single pokemon the twat put up for trade was named Misogyny. This sexism shit is just another nerd pastime.

I mean, if you don't accept that the statement "every man is a cheating asshole" is misandrist, you're just another hypocrite.

>>2916700

I don't care enough to make it a sport.

>>2916706
If you're not prepared to defend an argument, you shouldn't make one in the first place.

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>>2916556
The worst part is that feel of impotence when you can't get close to a person. I mean, there are people with horrible deformities, schizophrenics, gays living in bumfuck nowhere who are gettin married and have stable relationships. Meanwhile, you are here, rewatching samurai champloo for the fifth time, trying to forget how cold you've become.
Anyway, to stay on topic my taste for husbandos is not something specific, I actually like them more when they break their anime personality canon. Some good example would be someone like Vegeta. The evil, intimidating, abusive, eternal nemesis that turns out to be more balanced, reflective, and much more fragile than he looks like. I guess I'm looking for complexity here, something that you don't expect coming out of your typical anime/cartoon and makes you enjoy the series a lot more.
>>2916653
Hey I totally get your point but I fail to understand why are you making such an effort to call these anons on their misandry when most of the people on 4chan don't give a shit if they see a post saying women are worth less than trash. I mean, hating men because they're men is stupid and harmful, obviously, but I'd only give my respect to someone who I know is worth it...

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>>2916800
> I fail to understand why are you making such an effort to call these anons on their misandry when most of the people on 4chan don't give a shit if they see a post saying women are worth less than trash

Two wrongs don't make a right. And I really haven't seen a disproportionate amount of hatred of women on 4chan. The permavirgins who think women owe them sex and are evil for not giving it to them are just as bad as SJW's who think all men are out to rape them.

>I mean, hating men because they're men is stupid and harmful, obviously, but I'd only give my respect to someone who I know is worth it...

Respect can mean a lot of different things, but I think we all owe each other some common decency. You know the saying "Innocent until proven guilty" ? I go by a slightly more optimistic approach; "Good until proven bad" and I'm rarely disappointed.

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>Who was your first husbando? Link or Seto Kaiba
>Your west cartoon husbando? Johnny the homicidal maniac.. I think.
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando? Johan Liebert, if he wasn't asexual or thief bakura.
>Your current husbando
it was Johan.. I think Nathan Wallace.. or maybe Kurama from yyh.. Idk now. fuck.
>>2914965

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>>2914965
>>2914965
kotetsu
garrus (not really a cartoon but its western)
koujaku
big boss/salad snek but only david hayter voiced versions keifer i just dont feel
its the voices... i like voices...

why did that happen
internet why must you hurt me like this

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>>2914965

>Who was your first husbando?
Zuko from Avatar

>Your first west cartoon husbando?
If Avatar doesn't count as western, Rolf from Ed Edd and Eddy

>Your 'I'd actually fuck him' husbando?
Vincent from Catherine

>Current husbando
See above

>>2916950
>Rolf
I fucking lost it

>>2914965
>Who was your first husbando?
I never was much of an anniemays fan (though I do like some on occasion), so my first husbando was Vincent Valentine.
>Your west cartoon husbando?
C-Captain Haddock, daddy supreme
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
I dunno, I rarely just wanna fuck anyone
>Your current husbando?
Sweden, yes I know I have shit taste

>>2914965

Oh I didn't expected so many people answering my little survey, heh, Im gonna keep playing:
>Do you make tribute to your husbandos?(fanfics, fanart, signatures on your blog/forum account, weeby stuff)
>Do you have a special homo couple with two of your husbandos? (match made in heaven)
>How obsessed have you got about them bishies? (embarrassing stories if you can pls)
>How many merch do you have of your husbando?

Mine:
-I used to write a ton of fanfics about the boys I liked, most of them were yaoi of course, Sai, Kaworu, Shinji, kurapika, etc. I'm glad I never self-inserted with OC's or something like that even thought it was the trend in those years.
-My special couple is Kawoshin. It's predictable but perfect, they both have that calm, tender aura I like in characters; and the mix between the akward angst attitude in Shinji and the 'coolness' of Kaworu make the sex great. It's also a canon homo couple in a non-yaoi anime so.
-I've never got awfully obsessed about my husbandos, my passion for them is something more...subtle...I do get crazy for games. I remember the first time I played Starry Sky I loved the opening theme and sighed every time I talked to Yoh. I saved all the images with him of course, and had the wedding one as a screensaver. Now I have all Starry Sky games and Yoh's still my favorite.
-Right now I have two posters of makoto, a dakimakura made by a famous tumblr artist, and I'm wating for a fig that's gonna get here in two weeks. I also have a photo with a cosplay cutie that I might as well have taken back to the hotel if it wasn't for his gf.

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>>2916956

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>>2916955
>C-Captain Haddock, daddy supreme
You dirty girl
>Sweden
DIRTY.
>>2916950
>Rolf
Oh my god I wasn't expecting that...

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>Do you make tribute to your husbandos?(fanfics, fanart, signatures on your blog/forum account, weeby stuff)

I have in my BBM written "<3 D-16 <3" which is how he was depicted while being a miner, I also write the same in my notebooks, I usually have his picture as screen saver in my phone and i draw him a lot in my notebooks -as simple as possible-

>Do you have a special homo couple with two of your husbandos? (match made in heaven)

Never, maybe my would fuck husbandos -like starscream and bumblebee- but the actual one, never.

>How obsessed have you got about them bishies? (embarrassing stories if you can pls)

I draw him -i'm not good at drawing but not teen weaboo tier- usually in my notebook, there was a time in which it was all day and all night practicing bodies, so you might guess who was my inspiration, my friends might used to have a pleb taste in drawings or they had always been too kind, so they usually love my "pin-ups" of my current husbando -i even made a human megatron which i'll never publish because it's embarrassing-

And now i asked an uncle of mine to gift me a transformers prime megatron, it has me so excited, i have been waiting for it for a year, everyday i told my friends "OMG i know i'll get him, i'll get him..." and then my uncle sent me other kind of things -which i appreciate a lot- anyway, she suddenly sent me a remote control bumblebee, i thought she wanted to give me megatron face to face, but no, she misunderstood and she somehow thought i wanted bumblebee, when i asked her to Please bring me Megatron "the evil one" because that's my favorite one I felt so embarrassed that i didn't even wanted to open my window, that night was an awful one.

>How many merch do you have of your husbando?

Nothing, i'm a poorfag so i'll just wait for a gift or something.

>>2915339
are you me

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Came for cute boys stayed for the crippling emotional problems
At least I know there's other people like me

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>>2916957
I know it's ridiculous anon s-shut up...

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>>2916301
Oh. My. God. Are you me?

>>2916918
Are you very young, anon? I can see no other reason why you'd say thing like you've never seen a lot of misogyny on 4chan and feel the need to whiteknight men from female posters who are simply disillusioned about men and their attitudes to them.
Men, really, really don't need you defending them like they're some poor group being discriminated against because some femanons don't feel like dating them anymore after seeing all their unappealing sexist behaviour IRL and on the internet.
Having an entitled rapist mentality and wanting to avoid that sort of guy isn't being as bad as each other...

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>>2917197
>Are you very young, anon?

Nice opening.

I agree with her. Two wrongs really don't make a right. And it's frankly quite hypocritical of you to criticize and trying to belittle someone that's pointing out sexism, regardless of specific gender.

>Having an entitled rapist mentality and wanting to avoid that sort of guy isn't being as bad as each other...

It's the same principal. Prejudice and sweeping generalizations. The fact that some have it worse than others does not negate that fact nor does it excuse one party of its actions.

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>>2917197
>Are you very young, anon?

26

>female posters who are simply disillusioned about men and their attitudes to them.

More like deluded, to the point of paranoia.

>Men, really, really don't need you defending them like they're some poor group being discriminated against because some femanons don't feel like dating them anymore after seeing all their unappealing sexist behaviour IRL and on the internet.

You talk about men like they're a homogeneous group. Men aren't a monolith; there are good men and bad men. But as I said most are good guys. And I don't feel like I'm defending men, more like I'm attacking insanity.

>Having an entitled rapist mentality and wanting to avoid that sort of guy isn't being as bad as each other...

Being a crazy SJW who thinks all men are out to rape them isn't the same thing as wanting to avoid rapists. I have no particular desire to hang out with rapists or get raped, but I still consider SJW's and misogynists as equally toxic groups.

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>>2917199

So you're an interpersonal morality crusader.

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>>2917203
Resorting to name calling?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uaPrmThe3M8

>most men are nice

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Yeah, I'm sure there are many people on 4chan (well the nerdy parts anyway, not the normalfag boards) who feel the same way.

I'm 25 and never have had any romantic/sexual contact with the opposite sex. I grew up well aware that I was extremely ugly so I never even dreamed of having a bf. It was just completely alien to me. I still can't imagine it. I have only ever felt sexual desire or crushed on fictional characters. I know it's pathetic but hey, it's harmless and it really makes me happy. I don't have a husbando because the feelings pass eventually (I don't re-watch shows and generally aren't interested in same anime/manga for very long), but while they last, I feel at least a little bit similar to how normal people feel when they are in love. It's just a happy, warm feeling. I haven't had friends for years (I'm kind of a shut in) and when I did, the friendships were always strained (I was never the best friend of my best friends) so I like experiencing friendship through fiction. I constantly escape my shitty life to these fantasies, just imagining what character X would say in this situation etc.

I've been on 4chan and other shitty parts of the internet for so long I've developed a very negative impression of men. I really think most men are misogynists who see women as something lower than dogs. I've never blamed men for not liking me and I used to think it would be possible to at least be friends to them but I can't even trust them as friends anymore. I even see my male family members as suspicious, I have a little brother I love a lot but I also feel like once he grows up he will hate women too. Maybe I'm paranoid but I think it's closer to realism.

Sorry, I don't usually answer these, here's a picture of a cute 2D guy.

>>2917303

No, you're not paranoid at all. Not all men view women as dogs but they don't understand our lives because they don't face the same amount of abuse. I've heard it said that men don't truly begin to understand women are human until they have a daughter. Not even having a wife is enough to break the spell.

>>2916301
sounds like you're using him

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Okay, so I'm in a similar situation as >>2917303 except I'm not really ugly (or at least not aware that I am), just average/plain. I have dark hair and brown eyes and I live in a country chock full of tall, pretty blondes. I don't look particularly feminine and if you chopped my hair off and filled in my eyebrows a little people wouldn't be able to tell if I was female, I actually did that once and literally nobody could tell. Also have small tits. I'm also a bit of a shut-in and have never been a particularly bad friend but have never been anyone's favourite either. Even my dog feels kind of meh about me, even my parents. I'm not very sexual either, most of my Chinese cartoon crushes are platonic, so even if a guy did like me he'd grow bored really soon.

That being said, I don't think most men are bad. I'm kind of neutral towards men in general, there's way too many different kinds of people, men included, and it's bad to judge. Sure there's some assholes, but whatever, there's female ones too.
It depends on the company, I met many guys who are very nice and kind, but to most people I'm mostly a little sister type of friend because there's really not much that's attractive about me. Even if I did something RANDAM XDDD with my looks I'd still have the dry and tasteless personality, I'd just look immature on top of that.

My issue is that I'm way too invested in my ambitions, studies and work so even if I did find a guy who genuinely likes me, I'd probably have to give up what I do for him.

Sorry for the blag post.

>>2917308
I wouldn't say that, I'd just say that it's as simple as them not giving a shit.

>>2917313

>well I don't care
>it doesn't bother me
>never happened to me

If they respect you as a human being you won't hear this kind of shit.

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>>2917328
1) Most guys won't say that.

2) They can't care if they don't know.

3) They will see most things from their own point of view and interpret them in their own way. They don't know what girls go through because girls are not presented as people in the media, but sexy lamps who start nagging on their period. To them, their mum isn't a woman, she's a mum. And many women also encourage and enforce those beliefs because they like being pampered and put on a pedestal, so they play along while it fits them instead of bursting their bubble.

That being said, everyone cares about themselves first and foremost. It is not a man thing, the issue is men have been encouraged to demand all these things for so long and told that it is "how things are supposed to be" that naturally it takes a lot of time to unlearn it. And even then some don't want to because they're uncomfortable with the fact that they have to learn how to wipe their own arse now, instead of having their wife do it for them while they watch the telly beer-in-hand. That's why you see Fedora O'Tippington over there crying how things used to be better in the 50s and how arranged marriage is the way to go, and how women nowadays are angry harpies.

But everyone cries about their problems first, you think tumblr feminist fatacceptance genderqueers care about Fedora O'Tippington's problems? Lel no. That's why we need to see things from both points of view and understand the situation better, so we know how to remedy it. And we can't do that while screaming "DIE CIS SCUM / GB2 THE KITCHEN" at each other. Going "BUT ALL MEN ARE PIGS!!" is just making it worse and is going to create an adverse reaction from the men who weren't on the whole equality train already. And even those who supported you are going to stop if you act like an abrasive fagatron. Be smart about it and try to see things through.

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>>2917303
> I really think most men are misogynists who see women as something lower than dogs.

>I have a little brother I love a lot but I also feel like once he grows up he will hate women too.

>Maybe I'm paranoid but I think it's closer to realism.

>I've been on 4chan and other shitty parts of the internet for so long I've developed a very negative impression of men.

"The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact."

The internet is great for pornography, but sucks for getting an accurate impression of what people are like. Good person + Anonymity == Absolute Asshat

>>2914173
Doesn't happen often, but there are a few characters that I've grown fond of. I do have a husbando, but not out of misogyny, desperation, or feelings of spite towards 3D. In my case, the one I fell in love with just happened to be 2D and I wouldn't have it any other way.

>>2917303
The majority of us don't actually hate all women, just the ones that embody the negative traits some women commonly tend to have. Attention-seeking in particular, nothing is worse than when you're having a decent discussion and some grill comes along trying to hook with or get their attention fix from thirsty faggots. That's what causes a lot of the knee-jerk reactions that can be mistaken for misogyny.

>>2917308
>they don't understand our lives because they don't face the same amount of abuse
Who's to say men and women don't deal with the same amount of bullshit. Sure, women might experience it to different degrees in different ways, but saying they have to face more bullshit in every single case is ridiculous. It's not a fucking contest of who has it worse. Makes it a lot harder to empathize with your side when you blow it out of proportion.

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>>2917343
>Makes it a lot harder to empathize with your side when you blow it out of proportion.

That is my point. You can't comprehend it so it must be bullshit.

>>2917388
>you just don't understand and you're just wrong

>>2917388
I'm saying in general, if you want people to sympathize with you, you don't blow your issues out of proportion while belittling theirs. That should be simple common sense. There are a lot of men out there that empathize with women over their own gender, white knights are dime a dozen. But if you want an ordinary guy to give a shit, the last thing you tell them is "women have it so much worse than men", because they will literally give less than zero fucks and come to dislike you in the process.

Not even saying women don't have their fair share of problems, but to say one side has it worse is clearly bullshit.

>>2916653
are you seriously complaining about misandry on one of the most sexist parts of the internet? i'm no sjw, but i can smell the grease coming off your fedora from here.

anyway, it's cool to see that other girls get the same weird problems that i do. ever since i was super little i've gotten really attached to fictional characters, probably because of my lonely childhood. i've crushed on characters for all my life and it's practically become a comfort thing at this point. weirdest thing is that i prefer girls irl but a good majority of my fictional crushes are male.

sorry for my shit grammar, it's 3 a.m. here.

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>>2917393
>are you seriously complaining about misandry on one of the most sexist parts of the internet? i'm no sjw, but i can smell the grease coming off your fedora from here.

Kind of reads like:
>Since you don't share my opinion you couldn't possibly be a woman. All women must have the same opinion as me! Or they've been brainwashed through 'internalized misogyny'!

Strikes me as far more misogynist than anything in this thread. It's like you can't comprehend that a woman could think you're a lunatic ass-hat out of her own free will. Most woman-hating on 4chan comes off as people taking the piss, more than actually being serious. And the few who come off as serious are just as bad as the SJW's.

>>2917303

When I read this I can't help but feel incredibly depressed, like actual soul crushing depression, it's so disheartening, reading stuff like this just cuts me right to my fucking core, that's throuh no fault of the poster, I assure you that.

Posts like this make me want to try and help, to be a friend, everybody needs friends, and people to talk to and share with, people to try and show the op who posted this that the world can be so much better if you let it. To try and show the good that's out there, to give a counterargument to the ideas that have been spinning around in your head, reinforcing themselves for years.

Then I come to the crushing realization that I can't help, and that the fight is futile and everything is shit, and that I can't help everyone, however much I want to.

>>2917312
You actually sound pretty cool.

A lot of the people in this thread sound pretty cool.

>I will never meet any of you because were all shut ins

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>>2914965
Hey, this is interesting.

>Who was your first husbando?
Kisshu from Tokyo Mew Mew
>Your west cartoon husbando?
...I don't know. Don't think I have one.
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
Midousuji from Yowamushi Pedal
>Your current husbando?
My lovely Ukyou

>>2917484

You pretend to misunderstand everything said to you, you're not fooling me. You're sick.

>>2917590
what the fuck are you even saying anymore
let us vent goddamn

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>>2917590
What the hell? Are you quoting Nietzsche? What's high school like you edgy little fuck? Go back to listening to Linkin Park or some shit?

That quote didn't even make any kind of sense in the context.

>>2917590
2deep4me

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>>2917590
Get a load of this guy

>>2917581

Why would you just fuck Misousuji? I'd wrap him in a blanket and keep him safe and warm ;__;

Well, I'm the same as many of you. 23, never had romantic or sexual contact with the opposite sex. But I don't hate men. In fact, I associate with many nerdy males and I don't know if it's just they aren't the bitter kind of nerds you see in the internet a lot, but I think they're all perfectly acceptable human beings. Or maybe I'm just giving too much credit to all the people I meet, I dunno. Anyway, my problem doesn't have to do with the opposite sex, but how I see myself. I just really hate being feminine and even though it isn't strictly related to that, I couldn't bring myself to date a guy even if I wanted to. (Which I don't. I think.) Anyway, I like to think that while hateful and bitter people do exist, most nerdy people are actually really nice and would treat their partners well in a relationship. Normalfags might be a different story. I wouldn't know, though. Either way, I've found that assuming a pre-positive stance towards people makes them react favorably. Negativity and a closed mind never helped anyone.

I'd be more okay with being a hikki if I had a hikki friend. Ah, that's depressing.

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I know I am late to the party but:

>Who was your first husbando?
Link
>Your west cartoon husbando?
Never had one
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
Sebastian Michaels
>Your current husbando?
Gauche Suede

The reason I can't go near 3d men is because I have a very specific type. Since I guess I could be called a tom boy I like rather effeminate men. It's really difficult to find men for me that fit that category who aren't batting for the same team. I don't mean effeminate as in flamboyant I mean I guess .. A tomgirl!? ( not sure the term)

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2D will always be greater than 3D
always

>>2917484
dude replace ALL your "misandry" and "hating men" with "misogyny" and "hating women" and you sound exactly like the sjw tumblrfags you apparently hate. If I wanted to read shit about hurt feelings I'd go back to Tumblr, this is 4chan, maybe I should trigger for misandry while I'm at it...

>this is the year I break up with anime hubby and date real men!
>talks to cute guy in my class
>we get along well
>he has a girlfriend
>that's okay we can just be friends
>he breaks up
>maybe I should move in
>aaaaand he's got another girlfriend
>still is friends with him, talk as normal
>is friends with his friends
>accidentally becomes one of the bros
>finds out that he may be cute but he's a player
>mfw he breaks up again, gets another girlfriend several days after
>I go back to anime husband while he dates girls faster than fujoshi artists reacting to Free
>strokes computer screen of 2D hubby
>the only one who matters

I am entirely focused on my studies, and would have to set this aside if i were to engage in a deeper, more time-consuming relationship. i've never really wanted friendships, in the way most people mean them. i very strongly value every moment of my freedom. i love everyone in general, though, but don't feel it necessary to attach myself to them to love them.
in terms of romantic attachment, i'm asexual, and have noticed i'm much more [platonically] attached to certain personality traits, (wisdom, genius, reclusion, etc.) which, in force, i notice very rarely (never, really) in the brief, day-to-day contacts i'm accustomed to
i'm happy with things exactly as they are. there are a few fictional characters i've taken a shine to, and have fun reading about. i'm glad i haven't found an equivalent in the real world, because even if i forged a bond, this would endanger my rigorous academic goals. cheers, fellows.

>>2919764
Im kinda the same, I devote my entire life to my college and grades. Thing is I been thinking lately, where I want to be 5 years from now, and it scares me. I don't want to end up alone. But what can I do? I grew up in a very religious family, where I wasn't allow to wear short sleeves shirts, make up or wax. I can't function Properly as a female due to my fucked up upbringing, which still lingers in me. I'm not ugly, I now I'm not but there's not much I can do about it. No straight dude wants to date a 24 year kiss-less virgin that dresses like a tomboy.

>>2914965
>yosuke hanamura - p4
>none
>sexing yosuke if he didn't want to (because nobody wants fujoshi filth) would just make me feel like shit so azusa, masaomi, natsume, subaru and rintarou
>yosuke

god give me strenth 2d boys have ruined my life and brought me to tears just because i know they won't be 3d and real

>>2916956
the yosuke anon
>tributes?
yes, i draw mostly at any given opportunity, and i write him with his bf, my signatures on [personal] emails and blogs and forums and what not are "i hate yosuke hanamura" or something along those lines
>special homo couple with husbandos
no i do not want to force anything on him, he is with who he wants to be
>how obsessed?
i watched the new xmen movie about time travelling and it reminded me of an alternate universe where yosuke was a time traveller and i was walking out of the cinema and i started crying openly

also i was in a class and we just received some grades back and i did decently but i was looking at pictures of him and then i started crying a lot and actual heavy sobs and people thought it was because i got a bad grade
i had to explain to them it was because of a fictional guy

also for his birthday i bought a cake and tried to ask the cake shop owners to ice his name on it and they refused
i ate the cake alone while watching old episodes of persona 4 the animation

>how much merch
i have a figure of his persona jiraiya, one poster so far, and i've made merch of my own (his glasses, most of his wardrobe, his headphones, and various cosplay items for him) and once i'm done with vacation i'm getting a dakimakura

i hate him and i hate me and i hate everything the trashcan prince has ruined my life

>>2923583
oh yeah and i forgot that i have this flask/cup thing with him and souji printed on it that i carry around all the time

my wallpaper is a collage that i made with my favorite pictures of him and i have a folder collection of pictures of him with 5k+ pics

i forgot to mention that the boys in my first post are from brothers conflict

lastly, i've been working on creating a tulpa based on him for a few months now

[spoiler]*stumbles away and trips on own spaghetti*[/spoiler]

>>2914965
>Who was your first husbando?
Goku
>Your west cartoon husbando?
Mozenrath
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
No such thing
>Your current husbando?
Usami Akihiko

>>2916956
>>2923585 here.
>Do you make tribute to your husbandos?(fanfics, fanart, signatures on your blog/forum account, weeby stuff)
Yes.
>Do you have a special homo couple with two of your husbandos? (match made in heaven)
He's already in a canonically homosexual relatioship.
>How obsessed have you got about them bishies? (embarrassing stories if you can pls)
I'm a shut-in, even when I get obsessed there's nobody to witness it.
>How many merch do you have of your husbando?
I have his manga.

I've been crushing on fictional characters since as far back as I can remember. I had my first husbando when I was 11, and he's still one of my absolute favorites to this day. If anything, it's learning to like 3D that took some time and effort. 3Ds don't go on grand adventures very much afterall, and skeletons in their closets generally revolve around very boring things like academics, jobs, or romance.

That said, I'm surprisingly very much a normalfag. Not the normalfaggiest, but I have friends, relationships, pay attention to fashion, etc. I don't have much issue with 3D guys either. Lots of people are scummy, guys don't have the monopoly on giving me bad experiences.

If I have to give a reason why I think by and large 2D>3D, it's definitely because I'm one seriously lazy motherfucker. Interacting with 2D takes, like, zero effort. I don't need to listen, be considerate, be available, blahblahblah, and I can swap them around as much as I want to without somebody screaming in my ears about my being an unfaithful bitch. I can put 2D in all manners of degrading and and just plain cruel situations to get my jollies off without worrying about hospital bills or jail time. I don't have to worry about jailbaits, no such thing as too young. I can be as superficial as I want to, because inks won't cry when you primarily like them because they're a pretty young thing, and that you'd dump them at the first sign of needing shaving.

...re-reading that, maybe it's more that I like 2D because I don't have to bother about being a good person with them. Eh, I'm okay with that too.

>>2923583
>>2923584

Damn anon, that is some fine spaghetti.

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I do this often, but it's limited to a single artist.
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>>2914965

>Who was your first husbando?
Marlin from Harvest Moon: AWL
>Your west cartoon husbando?
Dan from Dan Vs.
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
I don't have one
>Your current husbando?
guilty of polyamory

>>2923583
>i started crying a lot and actual heavy sobs and people thought it was because i got a bad grade
>i had to explain to them it was because of a fictional guy

Oh my god anon I don't think I have the stomach for all that bologna...

>i hate him and i hate me and i hate everything the trashcan prince has ruined my life

I'm Right here with your feels sister/brother.

>first husband
v-vegeta.....
>first western media husband
jason todd, maybe? or nightcrawler/kurt wagner
>just for sex
implying
>current husband
i'm into masochists at the moment, so, itoshiki nozomu of course

>>2914322
Hey I know that feel. It isn't like you don't love your 3D guy but, I dunno, it's a habit that formed at a lonlier time and you can't just break it.

>>2914373
That's sad man. We are all the same people, man and woman in this place. It's like watching blind lonely people bump off one another in the dark. I wish we could all get together and have a bonfire or something.

I've dated men before, and one really long relationship, but I've never felt anything for any of them. I'd rather be alone. 2D is nice. They're more "real" than real people, and don't come with the myriad of issues people do. I'll date men, but i'm not getting emotionally invested in any.

>>2917303
>(I was never the best friend of my best friends)
>I constantly escape my shitty life to these fantasies

I know both of these.

Men aren't in particular evil. Merely most people, both genders, are horrible, vicious creatures. A lot of men see women as fuckmeat, a lot of women see men as a walking emotional tampon and a wallet.

Well, you're on /cm/ so I think it's a given that there a decent number of folks like that here. I'm also one of them, haven't been interested in a real person since middle school. I'm actually pretty terrified of physical intimacy and jump when people brush against me and stuff. Despite that I don't really have an issue with men or women. I mean I don't have any close male friends, per se, but I also get along with most guys okay even if I never get close to them. I think it's more of an issue with me being conventionally unattractive and having bad social skills, since I only have a couple of people I could even call friends in the first place.

>>2914965
>Link
>Never had one
>Never actually had one
>Henry from FE:A

This thread really took an interesting turn.

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>>2915339
Same as all this, but with a bf instead of gf. It's strange, I have friends who fall head over heels for someone (fictional or otherwise) and I can't just imagine ever doing the same thing at any point. What a world

>>2914425
Owen Pallet has the voice of an angel. I'm glad someone else knows about him.

>im a newfag

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>>2914965
>Who was your first husbando?
Yahiko from Rurouni Kenshin
>Your west cartoon husbando?
Beast Boy from Teen Titans
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
Noiz
>Your current husbando?
Komaeda

>>2914965
>Who was your first husbando?
Gohan from DBZ
>First west cartoon husbando?
Beast Boy from Teen Titans
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
Rin from Ao no Exorcist
>Your current husbando?
Hori from Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun

>>2914827
personally i've learned that spending time alone, while occasionally lonely, can be a very valuable experience. it gives you more time to accept the things you like instead of tailoring them to suit someone else's expectations, because nobody's there to judge you.

in any case, forcing yourself into a real relationship out of desperation is never a good idea. it's not fair to you or him, and has been known to heavily correlate to abusive relationships. it's the reason many people say to build up your self esteem before seeking a relationship; there's a difference between love and codependence.

>>2914965
>Who was your first husbando?
Uh...Yugi Mutou, I think? I was about 12 or so.
>Your west cartoon husbando?
Don't have one.
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
I probably wouldn't count him as a husbando if I had one.
>Your current husbando?
Envy from Fullmetal Alchemist. Perfect blend of dorky and sadistic.

>>2916956
>Do you make tribute to your husbandos?(fanfics, fanart, signatures on your blog/forum account, weeby stuff)
Fanart. I have a couple fanfic ideas but I've never been much of a writer, fanfic or otherwise.
>Do you have a special homo couple with two of your husbandos? (match made in heaven)
OTPs, you mean? I'm kind of into Ed/Envy, which is weird for me because it has a lot of things that normally turn me away from ships (age gap/underage, technically related, they hate each other in canon)
>How obsessed have you got about them bishies? (embarrassing stories if you can pls)
My previous husbando was Kurama from Yu Yu Hakusho. I used to (badly) draw soft core porn of him and myself and showed it off to friends. In my defense, their responses were hilarious. I was about 14 at this time.
>How many merch do you have of your husbando?
Not much beyond a couple manga volumes, but I intend to change that with a con visit two weeks from now.

Ph..phoenix..is mai hus-ba..ndo..
I c-can't bring...myself t-to love any..one e-lse...he is..my life...if it weren't f-for him..I would already be dead a-and long gone

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>>2923610 and >>2924160
here is the cake

>>2925510

That's a cute cake! :3 Where did you want the name written? I don't see any room for "yosuke" anywhere.

>>2925553 iced on one of those chocolate nameplate things,, sobs

>>2925605

Don't take "no" very well, eh? That's alright, everyone's like that by default. Eventually we learn to let go and focus on ourselves instead of putting others opinions on a pedestal.

>>2914173
Noiz from DMMD ;_;

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I might be a little late, but I'm gonna do it anyway...

>>2914965

>First husbando
Either Zero from Megaman X4 or Inuyasha, I can't really remember since I have my first husbando when I was 9 or so...does that even count?

>First west cartoon husbando
I'd like to put Voldemort here but I don't think that counts. So, Tintin!

>I'd actually fuck him husbando
Kise Ryota, he's too cute for words.

>Current Husbando
Kaito from Vocaloid, I guess? either way, I love the guy.

Aside from shipping said characters (except tintin) and using their pictures as signatures in forums and personal wallpaper, I don't show my obsession too much, and the ones who only knows about this kind of thing are my siblings. My friends doesn't really know that I'm into anime and manga in the first place though, and I prefer that way.

>>2914830
I'm sorry that happens to you anon... in my experience when people find out I was a girl the whole time, their behavior tend to change 180° and start to act all chivalrous-like. It's kind of amusing to be honest, especially if you play MMO.

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>>2925510
Honestly, I feel humbled. I wish I was this dedicated to my husbando.

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>>2916956
I once wrote a fic where he masturbated. Not to anyone in particular, I just really liked thinking about him masturbating.
pic related
I had Kazama's voice as my alarm clock, and at some point I was out with my mom before my alarm was set to go off and she ended up hearing it and was really confused.
none

>>2925615
somehow i get the feeling you responded to the wrong person

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Ok girls/guys have a problem here and I need your advice:
>met qt 3.14 boy in concert
>I'm kind of 'bewitched' by him
>I try not to look like a cynic zombie as I always do when I talk to people
>we actually hit it off
>sofuckinghappy.jpg
A few weeks forward to that we were walking around the mall and I couldn't help but notice this sailor moon T-shirt. I asked him if it wasn't weird seeing something like that in a store.
"Yeah, you usually see that kind of stuff in the kid's departament."
-"...But adults buy that stuff too you know?, fans of the show, people who like japanese animation..."
"Really?, I don't know. I've never really know much about these things. The few people I've known who like it are not older than 13...It's kind of weird to spend money on that, but to each his own."

>mfw I'm those kind of people
>mfw I wanted to watch all ghibli movies together
>mfw I'll never be able to make sweet, wild love with him in my room because all my animu shit will be staring down at us (specially the hot yaoiz posters I put on the roof because it seemed like a lulzy idea at the time)

I know he didn't mean to label -those people- as childish or freaky, he actually said it in a calm and kind tone (like he always do). But I have sort of build up a nice image for him and I don't want to ruin it acting weeby. How can I explain these things to him without dropping my spaghetti?

>>2926067
Just tell him straight up you like the shit or hit n' quit at his place, your/his car, a hotel or something..

or you could screw him then tell him, your choice.

>>2926067
it doesn't seem like it's a big deal to him, I would just not bring it up and be open about it if it ever comes up. The worst that could happen is that he's weirded out and you need to punch one of his dicks or something

>>2925423
FMA characters make god-tier husbandos.

>>2914173
Hey OP,

19/M/Bi here

I believe my love for 2d male characters is down to the struggle I have in real life finding somebody that compares.

All I want is somebody soft and cute to do squishy things with, I am not even that sexually driven.

All people out there looking for someone, don't give up faith!

I'd say that I like me some 2D husbandos partly because there are pretty much no dudes IRL who are cute, earnest, easily flustered moeblobs. Sure, /a/ wishes they were, but we all know they're a bunch of self-loathing nihilistic misanthropes who can only long for the distant days when they could have passed as a cute girl.

>>2914173
Do aromantic/asexul crushes count? Having such crushes on quite terrible and very fictional people is kinda my thing. I don't know if I really have a favourite trope or a pattern of some sort though.

>>2914173
I have a fiance but I still legitimately and really experience feelings of love/attraction toward fictional characters.

Oh, and I'm polyamorous so I have side relationships if I feel like it. So I guess TL:DR: I think there's many things to appreciate about both 2D and 3D.

I think this is a pretty common feeling by the way, and it's why a lot of people get head over heels for celebrities and other such people they'll never meet:

> I also have no desire to get closer to a real person because that would ruin whatever fantasy I have about who they are

>>2917526
You're a good person.

Even if you can't help that person right now, carry that feeling.

>>2926079
>>2926080
Yeah I know I'm taking it a bit too serious, but he's always commenting on how "mature" I am for my age or something; I don't know, I feel like I'd dissapoint him if he knew I have spent like a million on moe merchandise...

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This post has made me realize there's actually a lot of girls like me out there, it seems.

I'm also a 24 year old girl that has had barely no romantic or sexual contact with guys (I say barely because I have dated a couple of friends who had crushes on me for a short time, and we did some lewd things, but there wasn't any penetration, so still a virgin), and my reason for that basically the way I look too.

Due to a bunch of things that happened when I was younger and I won't say because it'll get long, I became extremely self conscious, convinced I look nothing sort of hideous.

Nowadays I'm a lot better and can even sound like a normal person a good part of the time, but despite knowing that I changed a lot and having had a bunch of guys (and some girls) find me attractive, I'm still unable to find myself anything but horrible and ridiculous no matter what, and it's rooted itself so deep into my behavior that I avoid doing a lot of things because "only pretty girls are are allowed to do that". It's come to a point where I hate myself so much, I dislike anything that I make myself as well.

And that's also what stops me from having a relationship. I've never fallen in love, so there's that too, but I could try to date a guy who likes me anyway... I don't because I feel it's not right for "someone like me" to be in a relationship. I feel ashamed of talking about my sexual preferences, but not because sex is a shameful thing, just because someone like me isn't allowed to be sexual at all.
I don't fall in love with fictional characters, but I do sometimes fantasize with them. But generally, to me, it's not about creating an ideal of the other person, but about creating a fictional version of me that can be with that person without feeling wrong.

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>>2926290
Well, at least it sounds like a solid background for a visual novel character, right?
...
I'm so sorry.
We all just want to give you a comforting hug now.

>>2926276
it is very possible to be mature and still enjoy moe merch. if he doesn't realize that, he's the immature one, not you.

Gay dude here its kinda like a porn actor I don't fall in love per say with actor just the body and the way he does things

>>2914365
>I'd be a lesbian if I could

holy shit, me too. honestly, these days I'm considering getting a girlfriend more and more, and just trying to overcome my natural sexuality or whatever.

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>>2926290
> "only pretty girls are are allowed to do that"
> creating a fictional version of me that can be with that person without feeling wrong.

Like >>2926292 said, you deserve a nice big hug. Sharing your sentiments big time, though. For me, it gets to the point where it's even hard for me to have even a 2D crush. If I'm daydreaming and whatnot, it's usually just some sort of a shipping, I feel awkward and embarrassed trying to self-insert.

> be 10
> be tall for my age
> get propositioned by older middle aged+ guys all the way till now
> always extremely suspicious of adult 3D men in general

I'm actually pretty normal if you add in some financial problems and depression. Only a couple of months ago I was NEET bordering on hikki. Wasn't suicidal but lost all motivation to do anything productive. During that time, I turned to 2D guys.

I've always been into fictional guys when most girls were into whoever was the current Hollywood heartthrob. But it wasn't until those NEET days that I had fantasies about them everyday.

The thing is 2D guys can never really hurt me and I'm just not ready for a 3D guy. I have tons of baggage and problems with physical touching. Compounded by lack of money and transportation. Even if a guy was willing to take it snail's pace slow and meet me and pay for everything, I would feel bad for it. I don't like owing people and don't want them to hold any expectations. And if I were to date them seriously, I can't help but think in the back of my mind that it's only about time they leave since I can't get my shit together.

While probably ultimately destructive in end, I feel very happy with 2D guys right now. 3D guys just disappoint me right now. I don't hate guys, but I really sympathize with why others might. We're shaped a lot by our experiences and environment.

>>2926290

>feel this way since I was younger
>not much has changed since then except I can actually admit I like 3D men and like looking at them
>bawling my fucking eyes out after I meet an attractive one and I'm not even sure why

All that work to get this far and it's a nightmare of emotion. And I'm actually physically deformed so I wonder just why I'm even bothering entertaining these thoughts.

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>>2914965
>Who was your first husbando?
Accelerator.
>Your west cartoon husbando?
Ehhh, does Jack Frost from rotg count?
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
Fffff, I don't have an answer for this.
>Your current husbando?
Izaya. I want to do horrible and unspeakable things to him.

>Who was your first husbando?
I recall a seven year old me liking the journeying boy in never ending story a little too much if that counts.
>Your west cartoon husbando?
Either Raimundo or Edd.
>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
That's no sort of husbando to have.
>Your current husbando?
The typical Loki choice, it can't be helped with all the material to look at,

>>2926290

Holy crap. I guess there are a lot of girls like that. It's probably why I started role playing

23 here.

The similarities in how you feel and live, I can see myself in a lot of them. If you ever want to talk or something, do you want my email?

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>>2927450
>role playing

Not her, but what are some good places online to get into RPing? Serious question.

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>>2914211
Nice taste Anon

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>>2914211
Nice taste anon

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>>2914965
Bridget from GG
Don't have one
Oytoya from Kamen rider Kiva
Pic related

That puts a whole new meaning on tree hugger

>>2916921
...are you me??

>>2917001
/cm/ in a nutshell

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>>2914965
>>Who was your first husbando?
Edward Elric, but since I only feel like I've had one 'husbando', I'd say he was more like a 'boyfriendo'.
>>Your west cartoon husbando?
I only have one husbando, but I'm really fond of Doctor Doom.
>>Your "I'd actually just fuck him" husbando?
No such thing. For me sexual feelings are inseparable from emotional ones.
>>Your current husbando?
My husbando for the past 4 years has been Miles Edgeworth, and it never changes. Other people still get my attention from time to time, but not usually for very long, and I never rank them above Miles. Right now I have a pretty strong thing for Ulquiorra, that I feel is influenced by my attraction to certain traits that he has in spades. It's a very bittersweet feeling, actually...

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How often does /cm/ dream about their husbandos, if ever? I just had a dream about Light Yagami dying again, good stuff

>23
>virgin
>never had a true long term relationship
>i only fell in love with some 3D and only getting hurt a lot
I was like this at high school, only liking 2D guys but after 18 i discovered goth fashion, dressing myself like this and also falling in love with goth guys (not dating them, only fangirling about some artists).After i discovered visual kei and the same shit happened, but i left the vk fandom because when i was a big vk fangirl i had a good friend that i loved so much, even *le gasp* somewhat thinking to fall in love with her. But we broke up, i missed her a lot and my heart was so broken i also hated vk and the anime she liked. Now, i love again 2D boys but i create my own characters, dreaming of having a 3D boy like these i have created in my mind, but is really hard because i have huge trust issues and intimacy anxiety too i think. Instead with 2D animu boys i would never be hurt and they would never abuse me because they are as i want. I'm still not that ready to date a 3D guy.
My latest anime husbando is Uta from Tokyo Ghoul and i would like so much to have a 3D with his haircut and clothing style. But i'm just happy with my 2D Uta now.

This thread really makes me wonder if you guys would be into this hobby at all if you have 10/10 supermodels looks. So much insecurity.

>>2929222
Anon, it doesn't matter if you are beautiful or ugly. If you have been under these situations you will always feel insecure and like a shit. I'm not that much stunning beautiful but i receive lots of compliments from my friends or guys too but finding a good partner when you have only found unsuitable or abusive people in the past make you feel upset and lose also interest to find anyone. There are many very beautiful model like people and also popular but still they feel really insecure and they hate themselves and also struggle to go into real relationships.

>>2929245
if i was hot i'd use that shit
i'd still rather cuddle 2D boys, even after getting 3DPD dickings

>>2929245
You have a point about looks. I was questioning more about the insecurity thing though; looks was just a lazy generalization, sorry. Plenty of girls being very insecure about their looks and all that.

What I meant is more something like, would the girls in this thread would still be into 2D is they're not insecure, whatever their source of insecurity is? If they think they're hot shit and worth their weight in gold, would they still have husbandos?

Are there well adjusted confident happy girls who are wholeheartedly into this hobby? Because this thread seems to say otherwise.

>>2929265
i'm gonna say no

husbandos are for chronic escapists who hate themselves

this website is for chronic escapists who hate themselves

that's why i'm here, nigga

>>2929301
>this website is for chronic escapists who hate themselves
/a/ is a pile of shit, but there's still no better place on the internet to talk about currently airing anime. Some people that go there are married with kids, nigga.

>>2929222

Fuck off, good looks attract the worst of humanity even harder.

>>2929265
>Are there well adjusted confident happy girls who are wholeheartedly into this hobby?

Nice backhanded insult.

>>2929301
>waifu/husbandofaggotry is the domain of nutjob losers
Well then.

>>2929318
>backhanded
Ha!

So sorry for not being an emotional cutter/tampon and preferring to keep friends who share my interest AND are stable/positive people.

>>2929222
>>2929265
I would, because I don't consider 2D to be something I lower myself to out of insecurity or because I'm too lazy to get off my ass and work towards a real relationship. I fell in love with my husbando because I truly admire everything about him, and can't see myself with anyone else. Not everyone here has a waifu/husbando because of self-loathing or desperation. It's fucking disgusting that some people don't truly appreciate the ones they claim to love so much, for who they really are.

>>2929301
Nice projecting there. Believe it or not, the entire site isn't full of failed /r9k/ normals, and if you go to other boards you'll find that most people aren't self-loathing fucks who only use their hobbies as escapism from the fact that men/women won't fuck them, but because they genuinely enjoy them.

>>2929326

These kinds of feelings are normal for everyone from time to time, as is sharing them and listening. That to me is a friendly thing. If you want to gloat I must ask why.

>>2929404
>from time to time
>I've never had ___
>I have ___ issues
>I just can't ___
Nigga, occasional blue feelings is not what's happening in this thread, and you know it.

>>2929406

Time to time can mean at a time years, anon. Life is long and happens to everyone, no need to get upset about it. Besides, OP is questioning and working her way along so really, there's nothing to bitch about ultimately. It looks ugly to an outside perspective but trust me, most of these posters will pull themselves together.

>>2929407
Buh? I'm not questioning anybody's right to have mental issues. I'm frustrated that people mention it as a big factor of their husbandofaggotry.

Here, in plainer text: it rustles my jimmies that some people are in this hobby BECAUSE they have issues. It's insulting to the hobby!

I give zero fucks about people having mental issues otherwise.

>>2929409

Funny, that's exactly the attitude that drives people into imaginary husbands in the first place because it's abusive and causes mental damage.

What will people think if I try to date them? What will they think if I'm imperfect? What will they think? Such things are internalized over time if you're judged harshly. Eventually you are alienated and question your own right to be human.

Since you value appearance over all else you contribute in your own way to this abuse. It's predictable for someone like you to find this kind of conversation and lash out.

Just keep in mind that nobody called you here. You couldn't resist.

>>2929104

I never do. I can't into lucid dreaming.

>>2929504
>Just keep in mind that nobody called you here. You couldn't resist.
Indeed, isn't open for all online platforms great?

>Since you value appearance over all else you contribute in your own way to this abuse.
>i can't into reading comprehension

>it's abusive and causes mental damage.
>i want 4 chan to be my hugbox

>the rest
I'm not normally into that, but 10/10 would bully if I meet you IRL. Can you ask for it harder?

>>2916109
I do the same and I'm married too. Thanks for this post, it is good to know that other people is like me.
(Sorry for my poor english)

>>2929552
Go fuck yourself fucking shitbag

>>2914373
it makes me feel more comfortable that some women out there will find a husbando instead of being a vapid phony or going full feminazi manhater cunt

>>2914690
why are men not oppressed? inb4 "mra" or some shit like that, just saying you are retarded for assuming one group has it bad and not the other. you can go outside with your tits hanging out and 5 guys will be lining up to fuck you so that's an privilege that guys do not have.

>>2914790
>Men cheat, so much, so casually.
that's not true because women get far more chances to cheat than men

Holy shit, my sides. What a bunch of pussies you all are. How about you all man the fu- oh, right. Never mind.

>>2932785
EBOLA SPREAD SOON MY BROTHER

>Men cheat, so much, so casually.
>that's not true because women get far more chances to cheat than men

There's no clear data on wether this is true or not. One survey came up with 15% men and 9% women cheating within 1 year. But in all surveys relating to sex, men exaggerate and women underplay.

It's possible that more men cheat, because men tend to be older than women in relationships, and the older you are, more likely you have a partner I.e. older married man cheats with younger single woman. At the end of the day, it takes 2 to tango.

Women don't generally pursue casual sex n the same way men do because they are more selective and cautious with their partners. A woman has to work out if they are dangerous or nice people. Going to bed with a man is a position of vulnerability as ON THE WHOLE the man is stronger than the woman.

Why blame women for not wanting sex in the same way? It's just biology. They don't owe you anything. You wish you could just advertise yourself in street for casual sex. Well, imagine you don't want sex with a total fucking stranger, and you are constantly propositioned by people bigger and stronger than you who won't leave you alone.

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>be /cm/ boy
>want /cm/ boy
>Attracted to only /cm/ boys

Damn I had an amazing sexual childhood but its biting me in the ass now. I need to find someone whos like me whos 19 trapped in a 14 year olds body.

With all these characters and animes that project this incredibly shota theme its bitter sweet to the point where its almost depressing.

Iv fallen in love with this fucker right here, again bitter/sweet until VR reality comes out or the former

Nothing is more sickening than wanting to be with someone that you can't and admiring them through a computer screen but its something we all have to live with, its going to be harder for some more than others.

Hang on anon, I know I am.

>>2919718

Ah man, I feel this. There was an 11/10 guy I had my eyes on, he was real cool and awesome, but as I got to know him I realized he was a womanizer and I lost all interest, so I even turned him down when he wanted to...casual sex. Such a waste of a perfect physical specimen.

>>2926067

Offer to watch something to ease him into it, maybe start with western liveaction superhero movies, then their cartoons (justice league is great), then go to something like Princess Mononoke or SnK or something a guy would like. Or just start with the lattermost suggestion. Something very popular but that a normalfag would be okay with. Nothing like NHK or Steins Gate that are targeted to otaku. Very boyish and normalfag friendly. Or Psycho Pass might be good.

And take down your weeb material. No one likes a messy room with a bunch of posters and figs and crap, especially if it's yaoi because he'll be weirded out and nope on out of there. I mean, you wouldn't leave a dildo laying out, would you? Put that away.

Fictional people are just a lot more appealing than real people because they're specifically designed to be appealing and I don't care enough about real life companionship to overlook irl guys' flaws instead of daydreaming about husbandos

>>2929104
I had a dream where len beat me up

I have a committed gf who's smart and kind and motivated and really sexually adventurous/generous basically all the stuff you could ask for...

And yet I'm still not over Shinji. I think about him at night (I don't live with my gf) and get chills. I close my eyes and think about his lips whispering in my ear, I think about our hands touching, I think about kissing his neck and his soft shoulders, and his perfect skin. And of course I think about getting him off and hearing him and seeing him climax, feeling him throb in my mouth while I look up at him in throes of ecstasy jfjsiwjsjdhrhehs it makes me shiver just now writing it. Then sometimes I remember his voice actually comes from a Japanese woman who was paid to pretend to be him and it gets really weird so I talk to my gf about real life shit for a while and try to forget.

She has no idea I fantasize about a 14 year old Japanese boy from 1997 at night

War has always been the great wisdom of all spirits who have become too introspective, too profound; even in a wound there is the power to heal. A maxim, the origin of which I withhold from scholarly curiosity, has long been my motto:

Increscunt animi, virescit volnere virtus.

["The spirits increase, vigor grows through a wound."]

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>>2932923

How could I forget an image

He's so fucking pretty

I will never be able to touch him

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>>2932926
>>2932923
>Kaworu-kun plz

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>>2932801
I know this feel

I'm "getting old" in that I'm merely not a shota anymore, and it HURTS, you know what I mean?

>>2932931
my friend told me his son told him he wanted to be "shota"

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>>2932931
Similarly I'm 6'5" but still like ss and shota BL. I try to self insert but then I remember these people are about as tall as my belly button

Shinji is officially 5'1" but I imagine him nearly as tall as me, or I guess I imagine myself a lot smaller

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Have you ever been so in love with a fictional character that you can't even look at picture of him without feeling weird or embarrassed or shy? Maybe its different because its a character that is played by a real person but goddamnit, I'm madly in love with 10.

Also we need a dr. who thread on this board

>>2933398
i actually don't get this

wouldn't you just say you have a crush on David Tennant? I mean, when you watch 10 on-screen you're literally looking at David Tennant.

>>2933402
I don't think its that though. Fuck I don't know. I can look at Tennant as Tennant and not be moved. Put him in pinstripes and....

>>2933403
Well pinstripes are just hella sexy.

I dunno though I never watched the show

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OP, that's more than normal. Come back when you're in love with your OWN character, haha.

sigh

>>2914173
E.G. Noiz from DMMD.
:(

>>2933485
He's not that bitter/isolated, though. I mean, he's the first one to kiss Aoba and doesn't even make a big deal out of it.

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>>2914965
>multiple husbandos.
Absolutely disgusting.

Hazama from Blazblue for five years and counting.

>>2933513
Did you even read the story? :(
He was isolated as a child and everyone hated him. Eventually he couldn't feel pain and he would get in fights with everyone because he couldn't understand them and they don't understand him. His parents then neglected him making everything worse.
He was an outcast because he was misunderstood and nobody tried to help him...

>>2933398
I get the same thing when I see my husbando, especially in the games he's in. I have to pause when he shows up since I get too overwhelmed

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>>2933575
LoZ Link. 14 years and counting.

>>2933612
Yeah, I guess, but it's still not as tragic as Mink's route, and I don't even like Mink.

>>2934609
Holy shit I hate mink. Like I love dominance and all but not like that...

>>2933575
Fuck off

>>2914173
2D is the only way I can feel romantic or sexual attraction too, OP. Almost three years with my husbando now. I don't want anybody else. He's everything.