I need help. I suffer from retarded ejaculation. I cant cum without mastuebating. My wife and I would like to start a family but I can get her pregnant. How can I explain that I need to jerk off before I can cum. Any help will be appreciated. Also general cum on ass thread.
Takes me on average 2 hours to cum, no matter what I try to do or who I'm with. It just takes a really long time for the feeling to build up and then burst.
I don't necessarily need to masturbate to cum, but I know what it's like to have a hard time with it.
Just say what you have to say, I'm sure your wife will understand and so on if she truly loves you.
Had this problem awhile back mate its more common than you think. I got over it by thinking about the shit i usually think about while I jack off. Mounting is a fetish off mine so i think about that. Goodluck mate.
let me impregnate your wife, problem solved.
clip related, my cock
preferable as the thing you fantasize about when you jerk it. do it long enough and you'll eventually get comfortable blowing loads in her. I fantasize about our church sisters all the time.
Get a fleshlight, only jerk it with that. The best for this would be the Mini lotus. I had that problem for years(death grip) and that was the only possible way for me to solve it. I had to completely stop fapping with my hand and only use the fleshlight so I could accustomed to something more vagina like.
Good website is also curedeathgrip
No in my experience the girl loses steam especially after cumming a couple times. They usually get really sensitive or dry up so you have to end up stopping so you don't hurt them
There are some things you could try.
If you are overweight, lose weight. If you are a normal weight, start weight training for some muscle growth.
Take a supplement called Tribulus, or Tribulus Terrestris, or Horny Goat Weed. It's a testosterone booster, from the fruit of a puncture weed plant, and it may increase libido, and some other things.
Masturbate less frequently.
If you are distracted or stress when you try to have sex, then try to decompress before you have sex.
Also, having children is the single worst thing you can do for your marriage, apart from cheating. 66% of couples experience a significant decrease in marital satisfaction upon the arrival of the first child, and things don't get better until the youngest child moves out.
Youre a fucking retard if you dont get it's from watching porn all the fucking time. Porn induced erectile dysfunction. Look it up /b/tards. Porn actually isn't that fucking good for you. :^)
Thanks for the advice will definately look into some of those things. Unfortunately we have to have a child, just to justify getting married. Her parents are presuring us to get it done.
Like can all of you please just do some fucking research for once and venture away from /b/? Go look up how porn actually affects you physically, mentally, and socially. It's not something a lot of men like to admit, because guys think with their dicks more than their actual brains. Trust me, once I stopped watching porn my life improved 100%
her parents need to fuck off then. they aren't going to be stuck with the burden of raising a child. no reason for you to throw away your whole life just because some old fuckers want you to have kids.
i have 2 kids and i can't wait to die.
i'm pro-life: once that baby shows up, your life is over.
Yes, it takes a lot longer to cum. You have a porn addiction. Your brain is wired to be attracted to images on a screen instead of irl stimulation. You need help for it or your wife needs to leave you.
>MY FIRST SPERMATIC EJACTION THROUGH PENILE LAUNCHAFICATION WAS AT A GIRLS HOUSE WHILE PLAYING EARTH WORM GYM ON SEGA.> I WAS RUBBING MY WEINER ON THE GROUND IN THE UNDERWATER PART WHERE YOU CANT CRACK THE GLASS ON THE SUBMARINE AND I BLEW A HUGE LOAD IN ME PANTS
Anti-theistic actually. Fuck conservatives and liberals. College degree in social work w/ adults and actually learned about this issue. I base everything I say off of facts and research. Like how you have an issue you dont want to admit because you keep telling yourself "everyone does it" or you're too far socially gone at this point there is no return for you. Which one is it?