I don't like sex /b/. It's been more than a year since I lost interest in sex. Gf says it's ok but I don't think it's ok. She probably leave me some time soon. What to do?
Is the relationship worth having sex?
Everything comes at a price, Anon.
Communication is key in relationships, even non-romantic relationships.
>Step one: stop fapping to or watching porn of any kind
>Step two: spice that shit up
>Step three: wonder why your GF is perfectly okay with you not wanting to have sex with her
>Step four: talk to her and find out each others fetishes and vice versa
variety is the spice of life anon, you might not be able to vary the woman but you can vary the sex
95% of females don't want sex more than once every few weeks to once a month which is why your gf says it's OK.
Chicks only 'like' sex when they are trying to get a guy.
If she's one of the 5% you're fucked and she'll find someone else.
>each others fetishes
thinking women have fetishes. Porn has ruined sex for so many of you...
OK, technically women do have fetishes. They are things like he brought me flowers, how romantic, I'll sex him
He bought me a car, how romantic, I'll let him have sex.
He listened to how my day went, he really cares, I'll let him have sex.
etc, etc, etc
Dude wtf. Have you even had sex? Ot just missionary for years on end. My last gf and I bought a light sm kit. She thought of it. Wanted to be blindfolded, cuffed, wanted me to work her with a buttplug, wanted me to fuck her in every imaginable position and when done oppened her mouth looking at me all innocent for me to blow my load in her mouth to then swallow it and suck me off in a way I would literaly almost faint. It was glorious and I wasn't even the one that came up with it. Though I like light sm. If you seriously think women don't have fetishes you gonna end up being cheated on a lot. Good luck with that
OP here. We had blast when we started dating. Banging all day and night. Three years in relationship, living together and all that stuff. It's seems we have tried everything in bed but now it's just boring.
I have the same problem. Stop whacking off and start holding it for a couple days at a time. After 2-3 days you'll be ready to burst. Jam it in her, bust on her face, and then rinse and repeat.
Honestly, the problem is that you fap too much.
You clearly don't gove a shit about your girlfriend but I expect she is not very fulfilling hence the lack of interest. I suggest you break up amicably and embark on a sexual quest. Zoophillia, scat, CP, try the lot. When you have discovered your true self you will be ready to enjoy life's pleasures once more.
Well maybe you should. There can be countless reasons for losing libido be it physically or mentally. You can always visit a psychiatrist if the doctor thing doesn't work out. Hope you get well dude.
I have the same problem. I do that nofap thing, and usually past 2-3 weeks before I break. But then I still don't want to fuck my gf. I know I'm not gay because I want to fuck other girls. It's just boring and not exciting with my gf. I'm not going to cheat though because I'm a man who is in control of himself unlike some others
Well man up and take control of your woman, she's filthy you just haven't said the right words. I took a dateless virgin and had in on every hole in everyway sometimes on film. We'd do everything. Funny twist though, my current GF is an ex-prostitute and she's not that good in bed. She great to fuck but when it's her turn, it's not so good but again, she's in training. We're already taking videos and pics and anal is definitely on the cards as long as I keep doing what I'm doing.
The answer is inside yourself anon.
Not op. I think I just like somehow different. I like the thrill of the chase. Banging a new girl for the first time. Although I have had gfs in the past who I never tired of.
I don't know. My gf is pretty. But very much an old soul. She wants to have sex... but isn't sexy to me, I guess? But us still objectively attractive.
Dont you have class kid?
"Strange" is new pussy. The unknown, so to speak.
Yeah, I'm in the same boat. My girlfriend is fine as fuck, but I literally have next to no desire to bang her usually, cause I desire some new pussy.
does it match the euphoric fedora you're always sporting
not the same person but if there are only 5% of that kind of girl I must have been really lucky considering I have only met ONE chick who does not belong to those 5%...
In my experience chicks are just as fucking kinky as men, they sometimes HIDE it better because idiots react or put them on a pedestal if they reveal themselves as humans.
protip: "there are no girls on the internet" is just as much a joke on all the girls lying about being men online to avoid derailing, I have female gamer friends, if they drop that bomb when gaming the chat boils with teenage hormones and thus they hide it.
just see what happens here
true, after 4-5 years they usually want a kid or something that I can't offer them without sacrificing my own happiness so thats where it ends.
still, what I said is true, chicks like kinky sex and if you don't know that you're a boring fuck mate
How old are you? I'm 36, married, been in many long term relationships, and I know that you speak the truth
However, the kids in here would call me an autist or virgin for agreeing with you
maybe you just have a shit personality that attract boring women or maybe you don't make them feel comfortable enough with you sexually because you belong to a more sexually oppressed generation or some shit?
relationships of 12+ 7+ & 18+
yeah, I'm old as fuck
I've been there, done that with all of them, these are the 3 long terms, plenty of short terms as well.
I've don't shit you'll only dream of doing.
They are virtually all the same. Once they have the "I'm in it for life" locked down, they change. & I leave....
Young women like to party
Girls 17 - 25 like to drink, drug and fuck
And I've drank, drugged and fucked a lot of them
Dating in your 30s is going to be THE biggest reality check you have ever had
That's been my experience (married for 5 years)
She straight up tells me "I feel like a mother now; all I want to do is nurture. I don't feel sexy and it's not that I 'don't like sex' - it's that I never think about it"
She lets me fuck her whenever I want. But, that's not good enough. I want my cock-hungry slut back...the whole "okay I'll bend over just get it over with" is depressing, bad sex
well, lets wait and see, I've seen enough chicks around 35-40 being as crazy as ever
not to mention there are a few mid to late twenties chicks who are not interested in me now because I'm too young, they prefer older men, when I'm older I'll fuck them
also: just date a chick who is smart and reflected
I don't know how you're surviving on the Internet at that age. I've already turned hardcore conservative and everyone is an SJW until proven otherwise. You've seen more shit than me and it has to be more painful.
Tell me, are you a lifelong computer enthusiast? The teenagers always ask "why the fuck are you on the Internet?"
It's because I've been a PC fanatic since I built my first one in '85 and I've been on the Internet every single day since I got it in 1994. I was ah...here first.
Are you a computer enthusiast?
sounds sad alright.
this is why you adopt if you really need to care for something.
its better for the world, less selfish and if you can't care for that kid you're damaged and unfit to be parent imo.
thing is, if you meet a smart chick you can talk about these things and she won't become offended or mad, she will consider the facts of life.
It's painful for sure, I hate fucking social media and selfies and seeing people act like idiots. They don't realize that putting their entire life in public forums is going to bite them in the ass when they go looking for a real job. I shut down all of my social shit when I found out my company HR scours it and started dropping people. You don't have to have anything bad. Just shit they disagree with. God help having an opinion.
Re computers, programmed on VAX's, had a Trash80, apple II, can't even name them all.
I've been 'puting since the early 80's
Why am I on the internet? because I can be and get paid damn well for it.
OK OP, I'm the old as fuck person and if this doesn't 404 I'm gonna actually give a fuck for a few.
What changed in you?
New job? Finish school?
Something big in your life happened or is about to happen and it's changing the way you look at life.
It's not that you don't want to fuck her, you simply have something more important going on right now.
I've been there in long term relationships before. Now I'm married and after 2 kids and 12 years... my wife has zero interest in sex. I'd pretty much like to fuck at least 3-4 times a week. I'm lucky to get 2 times a month.
For me I think it's a mid-life crisis kind of thing. I imagine that now is the time for me to have sex... because I sure as hell doubt I'll be having more sex in my 50's and 60's...
Yeah, massive lack of time and my son turns 2 in a week.
Just seems like the alarm clock goes off at 5:00 am and by the time I finally sit down, it's 8:00pm and I am whipped. Sore, exhausted, head pounding.
I can only get on 4chan on my phone at work.
Seems all I do is fucking clean. I work 50 - 60 hours a week, but it feels like I clean 100 hours a week. I fucking hate cleaning. I hate being at the store and seeing a new mop out the corner of my eye and being like "holy shit that's an awesome mop"
Or being like clinically depressed when I run out of Oxyclean or 409 spray
been set on that since before I could legally drink, life is only stuck the way you see it when you accept that its stuck.
I see life differently than most people I've met though and it seems to spread to people I become friends with.
This guy knows. Women only have "fetishes" to please and keep a man.
The things they generally enjoy are what men consider normal parts of sex, not fetishes
>I like spanked and nipples played with
>oh mi such kink
Women consider that a fetish. Vore, that's a god damn fetish, not nipple play. If she lets you put it in all holes and film it and plugs ur anoose it's bc she likes you
do you prefer if people bicker back and fort for eternity just so they can show you that they don't agree?
don't promote cancer, the people disagreeing with you before most likely still does
You will in your 50's if she's about 10 yrs younger that you. Once the kid is gone, unless you're both stressing about college $ and shit.
At 42ish women peak so being with somebody younger paid off big time until they ripped her fucking ovaries out.
Yeah i agree with this guy. I had a girlfriend for awhile (not the huge length of time this guys are saying) and she was still super kinky and horny all the time. I think it just depends on the girl
kek, know the feeling, we all have to feed our inner troll sometimes
I hate, HATE social media. Putting any fucking personal information online goes against everything I know (in relation to computing).
And yeah, our HR looks at everyone's social media - people get shitcanned for saying "I hate my job" - it's instant termination. I visibly cringe when I hear that someone "tweeted" something. YouTube is fine for entertainment, but I will never post a comment - the comments on YouTube make me feel like the safety person at an acid party.
The world changed so rapidly, I don't even know what the fuck happened. It's like I moved to a foreign country and am experiencing culture shock.
Thanks for letting me rant. Just needed to blow off some steam. Steam because I need a good lay.
I had a Trash80 model 3 and really didn't like it. I liked my TI99/4a better. I wanted the holy grail - c64 - but my parents hated computers and told me to fuck off.
My favorite computer of all is the Amiga. Rest in peace.
Why do I think that I deserve sex when I work really hard and take my gf out on expensive dates every weekend? What is wrong with me? Is it OK to think I not only deserve sex but am entitled to it? Why is it so wrong when the only reason in this world that I exist is to reproduce but everything I do considering work and romance is not enough to get sex out of someone? I know she's not a whore, and I'm not paying for sex, but if I'm not getting it then how is this shit supposed to work?
the c64 ............ aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhh .....
I think I had a mini fucking orgasm
To all you young'uns I have one tip
ALTs, make an alt and never attach your actual name to it. Do NOT friend your ALT or have your wife or family or anyone with your surname friend your alt.
I've also raped some of my gf for this very reason...I mean it felt bad afterward, but when someone gets close, for weeks, and I cant touch them I feel physically angry. It's ruined some of my relationships and I don't know what to do.
Ugh. Fucking this. Need it 3 - 4 times a week, once a month is what I get.
It's so much more than the sex, though - she has no interest in being TOUCHED. Fine, you don't want your vag pounded...but I will never understand a creature that doesn't want to receive oral sex, be kissed, massaged or groped...
Wish somebody would just fucking touch me.
Being in an adult relationship sucks sometimes doesn't it?
holy shit you are a moron, a friend of mine left a guy for exactly this reason.
here is why she did not want to have sex: his idea of getting her interested was pointing at his boner. Guy was a complete beta faggot and failed to take action and read signals, obvious signals.
when they broke up it took me about 10 minutes to get her so hot she literally begged me for cock.
The problem is you, I'd place my bet on it
Male and female sex drives fluctuate. I suggest doing some reading. Maybe you will have to help her find pleasure through different means like a sex toy or a casual partner.
It's okay. As long as you love each other and communicate to the fullest extent, you'll be fine.
Eat shit. Class of '06 here.
Post something truly old.
Man you must be bored to derail the thread like this
I was very romantic when I wanted something from someone. I didn't simply just point at my dick. When I had to have something I really went the distance, flowers, gifts, the whole 9 yards, I even let people live with me for awhile, but it's just not right when there is no sex in it for me.
those things are not things that are related to sex?
Might as well go on about how you went shopping for clothes alone and then washed your car, still no sex!!!1!
you don't get it at all, those are nice things to do in order to make the person like you as a person, got nothing to do with sex. at least not directly, their only function in that regard is to show you can be trusted and that they can lower their guard around you, aka be comfortable, something that is needed in order to move on to the sex part, when you have done this and live with the person you should never fucking start with flowers and gifts you socially retarded mong!
The reason I stay in it is because everything else is perfect.
My son is fucking awesome, I love being a father. Wife and I don't fight (put a dollar value on that).
We have no debt and she lets me smoke all the weed I want.
I just want to push her over and stick my tongue as far as it will go up her ass and vag sometimes, though. Especially when she is talking way too much.
You are me. My wife is way too hot for me and makes way more than me. I realized I'll never find someone who is as perfect as her in all the other ways so I can live with sex once or twice a month to be with a woman like her. But man it's hard sometimes
Time + romance = sex right?
And if it ends up not happening I can't just stop wanting that person. Usually I never leave anyone because I'm always left by someone. I've slept with 13 or 14 girls, but they leave for different reasons. I blame the disolussion of old world values. Sometimes I don't have the chance to force them or I simply don't want to. But it happened I won't deny it. I worry it can still happen.
I left my perfect chick cause she wanted a child, sometimes I think about it, then I read about how miserable people with kids are online and I smile to myself knowing I did the right thing after all.
Besides, it also really fucked with her head, she is measuring all new BF's to me but as she is seeking me in others (jumped into something new right away to cope) she always fails and sometimes contact me again, I'll wait a few more years, see if she will be more willing to settle for adoption then.
You see, I'm gonna try and get everything I want instead of compromising myself for cheap fake happiness
Yep. My wife is a driven, selfless elementary school teacher. I hate to say it, but she is "good for me". Keeps my ass in line, keeps me off the alcohol and on a routine.
I was disciplined enough before I met her, but it soon became apparent that I was a stray, horny dog just running with the wrong crowd, trying to fuck everything that moved, and always sniffing around for drugs and alcohol.
not really, action that indicate interest in sex directly lead to sex.
indication of interest in romance lead to more romance, romance is something a lot of people enjoy but its not directly related.
When I tried to get that chick who dumped a guy for being a beta faggot into me I just grabbed her hips from behind and kissed her neck and went from there, after reading her signals indicating interest ofc.
you notice things like compliments, eyes landing on you more often etc
I assume this chick is comfortable being physical with you, as in touch thighs and shit are ok and not surprising to her
irrelevant adoption vs birth. OK maybe 65-35 but the maternal instinct still is there, the time spent raising is still there, the only difference is the I don't feel sexy because shot this thing out of my vag goes away.
not before she is able to let go, so far she have not been able to do that at all
I'm not gonna move in before she does either because I'm not fixing that, she can fix herself.
thing is, when I do move in all the positive things will rush back, a small touch alone can do wonders on old flames
It's when I read that they don't want me I'm more excited than if they do. That's wrong, but Its from my first girlfriend who traiNed me to be like that because she might have had some problems when she was younger or something. Might have been raped. It felt right after awhile, now it's a bit difficult to stop. I'm really violent, with my teeth and choking, esspecially around the neck.
your girl don't become physically ruined
still interested in sex
you avoid chances of retard etc
completely in your control as to when it happen in your life
basically it removes most of the drawbacks of having a kid.
also, if she come to me wanting one, then she have to take most of the responsibility as it was her thing not mine. something chicks usually don't mind if its a sane one, they are just happy they get to care and protect for something.
why do you think they want dogs?
I wanted a kid. And I will never be able to tell you why.
Just one day, out of the blue, age 33 - middle of the day, just doing the dishes - something went off in my brain.
Otherwise, fuck no.
Young males of /b/: do not fucking have kids unless you personally and honestly want to - you do it because she wants to, well, at some point you're going to have rope burn around your neck or find out how badly gun metal tastes when you stick the tip in your mouth