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OP here, I feel like I am not living my life the way I should be living it. My inner self is perverted, it wants sex, it wants women, it wants being close to a girl and have fun with her. I want to experience being with different girls in my life. How can I fix myself? Something is seriously going wrong.
>>667024050 it wasnt a joke, and i highly suggest you do it. think about it, you want some type or reward but can come to the sense that there is necessary work involved. if you REALLY want the girl, then you should be motivated enough to work out and get them, its not complicated. you can also sick in your basement or shitty apartment and make threads about it, but in that case i would just kill myself and stop wasting everyones time.
>>667023850 >No. Then you have two options either move to japan and live the anime life or wait until you're 30 and use your wizard powers to force women into sexual slavery. Though you will likely change your mind by then with your new enlightened wizard vision of the world.
Confidence isnt something you "fix" its something thats built up through experiences. Easist way for a quick fix would be to get fit but thats gunna take a good few months and you have to really commit to it.
>>667024377 >>667024455 Fair point, I agree with what you say. I need to work on all of this shit. I'm scared. I don't know what to do. I just hope my life will contain the variety and amount of sex that I'm dreaming off. Shit. This is depressing as fuck. I should just cry to sleep and hope tomorrow will feel a bit better. Sorry if I'm bugging all of you. I'm having a bad moment here.
>>667024622 >live the anime life That doesn't really exist, does it?
>Though you will likely change your mind by then That's something I'm afraid of. My mind might change. So, in the end, I might never actually achieve what I wanted to achieve in my life. I'm so... full of fear :(
>>667024972 That's a vicious circle then, isn't it? I can't get experiences without being confident, but I need them to get confident. Are there any other, more efficient ways than to just get fit (note, I'm skinny, but still) and hope that that fixes it?
>>667021052 Actually you can go and pray, go to those courses of self steem. Prayer helped me went twice prayed for it to go away it did also lots of anger issues. it varietys on how depressed you are bro, the type you don`t go outside, or cannot even want to get out of bed, even shower, just sad. helped me you can try it if you`re too depressed to even go outside just listen to a catholic or christian channel.
Getting fit is the efficient way. The confidence aspect isnt about being skinny, its about winning. By playing against yourself you can constantly improve your times or do an extra couple of reps. It may sound stupid or shallow but over time shit like that can give you a huge self esteem boost.
>>667023235 It's all a mind set thing. Quit feeling bad for yourself right now. The world doesn't owe you anything. Once you've stopped the self pity just go and get what you want. Don't be afraid of failure just keep going until you get there. Being physically fit, having money, having charisma, these are all things that attract women. However, the most important thing is confidence. You have to be sure of yourself. No woman wants to bang the nervous indecisive guy.
>>667028395 I am actually in the middle of a NoFap experiment. I'm at day 21 today. It hasn't really changed anything, I think. Maybe it hasn't been long enough, yet? I originally planned to stop the experiment on day 100. It's really hard and I feel like neither having sex nor being able to fap is just making it worse because I can't do anything else (say, uni work) due to me being *PERMANENTLY* horny.
>>667028593 I hope to actually follow that advice. I don't know how to make myself begin, though. Do you know how I convince or make myself do it?
>>667029347 Wait, would you recommend paying women to have sex with me? Even when I'm a virgin? Is that a good idea? Also, that would be just the sex itself. Not intimacy. Sex is part of that, but it's also just cuddling, kissing and knowing that *she wants you, too*. I can't get that with paid girls, can I?
Ever tried acting? This method isn't for everyone.. if you're good at it, it's usually a marker for particular personality disorders...
Basically, you create a character for yourself to play in social situations. The idea being you know who you are, but no one else does.
Just pretend. Lie to yourself. Lie to yourself enough that you confuse it with truth.
Give yourself a more dramatic history. Are you quiet and bookish? Don't say it's because you're shy, say it's because you're the strong silent type, you saw something traumatic once, or you've traveled and become worldly.
Dress well. You don't have to buy a suit, smart casual is good enough. Don't need to be a hipster though. Just dress sensibly and respectfully.
Never say no to new experiences and opportunities. In fact, lie and say you've done this before, be confident and assertive. Or at least pretend to be.
Just think about who or what you want to be and be it.
>>667029358 >screwed up sleep schedule(always staying up too late fapping) >Borderline ED(can only get it up when watching porn, need constant stimulation to maintain an erection.) >Always tired >Been caught masurbating by parents and friends multiple times, humiliating >Basic antisocial behavior
>>667029133 I really can't tell you how to start. Like I said it is a problem with your mind set. You need to make a conscious decision to change. When you do this it needs to be your own choice. External motivation is not as strong as internal motivation.
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