>helping my gf clean out her car
>find a crumpled up piece of paper
>it's a pro's and con's list that she made at her therapists office
>mfw "Im dating a boy who loves me and I don't feel the same way" is under con's
>mfw "I have a great dog" is a pro
I want to die
So, even though the situation is tough, here's what you do: Take some time, soon, to confront her about it. Tell her you don't want something casual, and you want her, but only if she wants you back.
If yes, try and make it work.
If anything else, including an "I don't know.", it's time to move on.
I get it. I do. This sucks impossibly.
Good luck, /b/ro. Take my advice to heart. It'll end better in the long run.
I hate this fucking dog too. little piece of shit shih tzu, I'm always helping her clean up it's shit and piss. I guess Im worth less to her than a dog that's ruining her apartment.
I look like Bart, but I don't have spiky hair.
OP be nice to her even though she doesn't love you. Just try as hard as you can to let it go. You were attached to the idea of being with her, so it is hard to let go, and you might want to lash out, or lose it in some way, but take it from me, just let it go and walk away if she doesn't want to stay together. Here's some other advice. Many women don't love their partners. My mom when asked by us was never sure if she loved my Dad yet she stayed with him over the years for some reason. She talked endless shit on him every time he was gone, but she stayed with him for some reason.
Ask her about it you fucking beta.
>I threw it away
Holy shit fuck me you are pathetic.
This is most correct.
Dude,you have to confront her on it if you don't shes just going to cheat on you with some fuck,if shes not already doing as such.You can't force her to love you,it sucks man but you have to tell her how you feel about her and this but tbh I'd just dump her before she hurts you anymore than she already has.
I didn't want to rock the boat. I love her so much and I thought she felt the same way. I'll have to confront it at some point though because it's tearing me up.
also I guess it's important to note that she is a diagnosed schizophrenic.
wise words, thank you.
I don't think these kinds of guys are giving you good advice. It's like they're telling you to care about it a lot. Just don't care about it. Let it go, focus on your hobbies, job, friends, dreams, etc.
OP please learn from me. Leave and never look back. You will hurt but the hurt if you stay will be devastating.
Then you'll be starting feel threads every night for months.
Seriously. Get out with the upper hand leave with your head high and be proud that you have the capability to both love and leave an unhealthy situation.
You might not feel that way when you are alone. Trust someone who's been there, and now is alone. Being alone is pretty bad too. Actually being alone is a lot better than being with the psycho borderline cunt that I threw out of my apartment.
FUCKING RUN AWAY OP
GET RID OF THAT WHORE
SAME SHIT HAPPENED TO ME, DUMPED HER ASS AND TWO WEEKS LATER SHE WAS IN SOME DIRTY SPICS HOUSE
GO FUCK OTHER WOMEN. IT SUCKS. BUT FUCK IT.
I'm sorry op but top kek
have some tittes
you're right anon. I've done nothing but love her and she's got nothing to give back to me. she's only using me as an emotional crutch. I don't need this shit and I deserve better after everything I've done for her. it's going to suck but I can't be with someone who only keeps me around out of convenience.
thanks /b/ros. this shit is ending tomorrow.
i've been through this one to many fucking times Op i wasted 3 years of my life on a relationship like this and over 8grand .... I know it hurts and i know it feels like it'll hurt more to break up with her because you love her. but fucking trust me its for the better to confront her about it and if its true break up and don't look back it hurts more to stay in a relationship like this
.....just some pointers from a /b/rother who's been through it all
ill be lurking if you have any questions
My 2 friends I've known for 3 years just told me that I'm a faggot and went behind my back and spitroasted my now ex gf and sent me pictures of it, so i feel your pain in a sense.
Why is it every time I'm on b there's always beta males crying about whaaaaaaa my gf ... Or fuck life I have no gf. Fucking good man bitches get mad annoying and are worse than slave labor. Leave that ho
this is the best thing i've read all day, even if copypasta
Look at her straight into her eyes and as seriously as possible say "I don't love you and I never have. Cum on her face and then walk out the door, hit the floor, everybody do the dinosaur. Don't forget to record it for us 4chan /b/ros!
I have not seen her hallucinate/any psychotic episodes, she is pretty heavily medicated so most of the symptoms are in check. she does talk in her sleep all the time though, sometimes that creeps me out.
Move on dude. If she doesn't feel the same shes nothing more than your emotional hostage. Don't be a dick. Let her move on so you can find someone who actually wants you around
LOL Go to her therapist and tell him about your dreams. You know, the dreams where you murder, rape and skin this bitch
Box up all her shit, hide it and pretend you don't know her, swap her meds out for tic tacs or something and watch the nice men in white take her away
Listen Ameritard. She may not like you but cares about you and will feel like shot if you go all black and white burgertard and blame her for this situation you're both involved in. Tell her you found the note, make peace with her remain in contact with each other. Good luck fag
Pound her pussy into oblivion and so every depraved act of sexuality to her. THEN bring up the list. This should take a couple of months to accomplish and in the mean time look for another chick. Make her pay for wasting your time.