Do you prefer little kids who dress/act like little kids or who dress/act like sluts or grown ups? I have a problem
With my young daughter wearing bikinis etc but it just dawned on me that she's a kid either way, and surely dressing like a little girl would be more appealing.. Help me out here guys
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FFS, your daughter is not going to be targeted based off how she dresses. Some people like tomboys, some people like girlie girls, some people like weird traditional ultra conservative shit. "pedos" are not some uniform group who all think alike. If the question doesn't make sense for a 20 year old (ie what can I dress my 20 year old in to make her not appealing) then it doesn't make sense for someone underage.
Because it was a question of general opinions, not opinions of my daughter. If anyone gave me thoughts on her specifically I'd probably feel impelled to slash their mothers' faces up
I actually couldn't care less whether she's found appealing or not- my main concern about the bikini situation is sun damage. It was just a thought I had today- a genuine curiosity..
I like 30 year olds. I like that they behave like 30 year olds, not 60 year olds. If I met a 30 year old who used a cane and said 'in my day...' They would lose their appeal. I merely wondered if the natural appeal of a child (something I do not understand) was hindered or helped depending on that stuff.
I don't think 60 year olds find canes sexy either, they just come with the territory. But back on topic, I think people are sexually aroused by characteristics in people that have sexually aroused them before. So yes, someone who had a thing for pig tails probably wouldn't be turned on by a girl with a buzz cut. But the motivations of passive sexual interest probably differ from active predatory intent, which presumably, has less to do with sexual desire and more to do with opportunity.
My point was, I don't think the mechanism of sexual arousal is radically different just because the object of appreciation violates a societal taboo. There is probably actual scientific research on the effect of clothing and style in adults that would be equally relevant. (Although subsequent rational thinking may be compromised.)
In the case of someone with principal adult sexual arousal mechanism but a 'pedo-fetish', you might not be able to dodge the fact that the girl is visibly underage. Impossible to judge how common that is though.
When a little girl starts dressing like a teenage slut, it means she's no longer a little girl. She's become aware of her own sexuality, and dressing like a slut is an expression of her narcistic pride in her appearance. So basically, I love little girls and would never do anything to hurt them, or even tolerate the thought of harming them. But once they inevitably turn into little whores there's nothing stopping me from thinking about raping a little decent into them.
Cheers, that's an interesting point. Obviously I find it difficult to comprehend the motivation behind any of this so it's not something I've really thought too deeply about before. Cheers for the input>>592954659
Kek'd a little. Now I'm going to hell.
Come to think of it, how they act has a lot to do with it too. A six year old running around naked is non-sexual, while a 12 year old wearing a bikini often is, even if it varies among 12 year olds.
If they act the right way, a modest 18 year old wearing no makeup and normal clothes can be more attractive than a slutty 12 year old wearing a short skirt, jewelry, and a training bra.
I guess I just hate sluts in general, and the glorification of promiscuity, narcissism, and female superiority that dominates today's (American) culture.
That's what being a slut is about. An excessive need for approval from others. This is way more than I can get in to on my phone, and I really gotta get to sleep. OP, the majority of cooked rape is committed by family members or friends. Don't worry so much about what your daughter wears and worry more about not putting her in situations where she may get abused.
Letting her dress like a slut may make a few pedos think dirty thoughts about her, but leaving her in unsafe situations could severely impact her life.