Small penis sex advice ?
Hey /b/, I have a small penis, it is 5,5inches long and somewhere 4,5inches in girth. I am really insecure about my penis and that affects my life very strongly.
I am afraid to get a girlfriend, because I am afraid that she would expect a bigger penis.
Also, I would like to know how to get full erection naturaly, like, how to get very horny?
Please help me to be confident.
help me guys. I don't want to feel insecure, but I don't know how
I say that confidence is more important to an extent. Also changing things up in the bedroom (positions, role play, etc).
It sucks knowing that even if you're really good you would be even better slightly larger, but don't be discouraged. I'm in that same boat and I have never had any complaints.
seroislu dude, if you measured that right and youre not a nigger thats above average.
In general, asians average 4-5 inches, whites average 5-6 inches, and blacks average 6-7 inches. The US average is 5.1 (sucks to be you ameretards, us here in europe average 5.6 :P).
But seriously, there are 2 reasons why people think 5.5 is too small. Firstly, men with small dicks dont tend to talk about it, whilst men with large dicks do. Secondly, everyone exaggerates how big their dick is so as not to feel small. Assuming you arent exaggerating OP, just forget about it, you're fine
I have only two centimeters more but the ladies don't seem to mind, plenty of orgasms. However i don't last very long anymore (i have no idea why) so that is effecting my life like you explains almost. I'd say find a cool chick, not a shallow whore.
Dont worry OP theres still someone for you
And besides most chicks dont really care that much
5.5 is actually average despite what the idiots on 4chan say.
also consider that nearly 90% of women think their partner is either average or slightly average no matter what his penis size actually is.
trust me. once you show your penis once and you realize it's nothing to freak out over you'll be alright. just part of growing up/insecurities.
plus you'll learn to have better sex. how to please better...how to let yourself be pleased better.
unless you're gay or have issues you should get hard really quick during foreplay. just have plain sex your first time or two. then maybe ask for something else if you have fetishes. like dirty talk...or toys. start simple so you don't scare anyone away.
Finger your asshole and get a boner
Just did that 30 minutes ago
I am from Europe, and I have heard that average here is 16cm.
I don't want to dissapoint my partner, so that is why I am worried.
I know most females don't orgasm via penetration, but it would suck to give her orgasm all the times without penis, only hands or tongue.
How old are you? Younger girls are less experienced and don't know much of a difference. I used to have the same confidence issue when I was young. Mine is just a hair over 7 inches, but porn led me to believe it was tiny.
Use your hands. Stick your middle and ring fingers inside her, make them into a hook shape and go up and down instead of in and out.
When you fuck, get her on top and rock her hips forwards and backwards for maximum penetration
That's how big mine is too, and I've been with two girls who said it was the biggest they'd had. I was also with one virgin and it could barely fit inside her, we had to take it really slow. So if you're with a girl and a 5.5 inch dick is too small for her, she's a fucking used bicycle and you need to find a girl who hasn't been a whore.
OP we have similarly sized penis's and the weird thing is while I am insecure about it myself, I also have the experience to tell you that it doesn't matter. Two of the five partners i've had have said that i'm the best they've been with and I know for a fact that they've been with bigger.
Motion of the ocean and all that.
Go fuck and have fun.
As long as your dick is not microscopic it's ok. What makes girls wet is simple : it's self confidence, success, masculinity.
I'm 37 and fucked a ton of pussy since i understood that at age 19.
it really sucks that I have small bones, small wrists and fingers. I can't feel manly with looking like this.
But anyway, is it possible to make her orgasm with penetration?
Also how to stay hard during sex ?
I am not gay, but sometimes my penis just doesn't reach its full erect size.
Relax. I don't have the biggest dick either, but a great girl won't bitch about it. They are as insecure as you. Just take it slow, learn to know her body and you will have a great time. Just remember to stimulate her clitoris while having sex. Most girls only get orgasms from them anyways.
And if you are sober and with a great girl you will propably get an erection naturally. But just remember that it doesn't always happen. If so, just give her great oral or something ;)
Girls that age really don't know any better. You really aren't small but you're not big either. You'd be surprised. I've talked to girls that have seen guys with dick that were so small one fist around it, and it disappeared.
Try the finger thing though. I've had a couple girls squirt like that. You can also use your other hand to push down on her lower stomach/crotch to add to the effect
For fucks sake man.For real, the saying which goes, you gotta know how to work it, is true.
My length is 17 cm and girth is 13, 14 I believe.
It's above average, but my first time having sex was a complete disaster, since I didn't know what I was doing.You'll get better with practice, stop caring so much about the size.
This is the most pathetic, sad discussion of all time. You beta fucks should get a mini dick circle jerk going.
This really works? Its kind of up and down. Sometimes i last forever, sometimes not. The girls dont mind cus i go down on them, but i wanna fuck them senseless sometimes too. (guess i dont really have a problem, just a minor issue....)
Bro your nervous, that's why your penis doesn't stay fully erected, just relax. Wait for the right girl that likes you for who you are or find a chick with small tits somyou both are insecure and will feel better.
>average dick size is 5.5-6 inch
>half of /b/ calling your penis small
>half of /b/ got same penis size
Just take it slow the first time. Listen to what she says. Girls are different, so listening is key. Don't be to aggressive on the clitoris, it's highly sensitive. The good thing with a girlfriend is that you can work together as a couple to improve your sex life. It's not a problem if it's not super duper awesome great the first time.
Get a chinese girlfriend, chinees guys literally never pleasure their women, do oral sex on her until she cums 95% chance she has never recieved oral sex or an orgasm, get her to tell you what she likes while you do it.
Then she won't care about your dick. Boom.
Who gives a fuck bro. Complaining isn't going to give you a bigger cock. Just go fuck a girl and have fun. Or find a girl who cares about you first and then have sex later. If she loves you she shouldn't mind.
You're average. It's not the end of the world.
If she loves you, she'll be more likely to talk about the good things you do in bed. Treat her like a goddess and she'll talk about that.
And would you rather be a loner or have a girl that might be talking about your sex life?
Back in the day girls used be like, damn 6" penis. Now people are like, dammit my penis isn't 10-12" long how can I ever please a woman.
Most likely she'll talk about the positives to brag. I remember I asked one of my GFs about that a few years back. She admitted she talked a bit with her best friend, but that she talked about great orgasms from oral sex. But who cares anyway. It's not like the chicks will throw around what they say. Unless you're a huge douche
It can depend, but just make it comfortable. Having sex with a girl you love is not only about an orgasm. Cuddle her, kiss her, massage her, etc etc. It's wise to make her wet before you stick you dick in.
>average is around 5.5-6
>clitoral stimulation is usually more important
>mental stimulation also very important (you can do this without even taking your pants off)
if you REALLY care that much, a smaller girl (narrower hips) wouldn't give two shits
Why confidence is so important you may ask?
Mental games: If you flirt with a girl and she see you are confident, she may ask herself "Why this guy is talking to me as if we met long ago, but we just meet..."
this thought goes in "He sure knows a lot of girls, he flirt with them..." then and finally "If he is like that, probably sleeps with some of them, and maybe is a good lover too" and this is when you likes her, even if she is not aware of that
If you dont have confidence or dont even talk, you lose
do you think 5' 11" Is short or something?
You just have confidence issues
I know a guy whose around 5' 7" and every time someone mentions him and his height, they always think he's just shy of 6'
It's all in how you present yourself
You already have the height and an average dick, realize that you're good enough and you'll be fine
You're not exactly a short person. Best girl I had was only about 4 cm shorter than me. (181cm here). It suck if you have to bend down all the time when you kiss her.
Of course you could get a midget and just keep her in a suitcase when you travel. That would propably save some money.
It ruins your confidence for ever like when I got a gf I was always paranoid bour she getting bigger dick somewhere else you ll never have confidence , a strange kind of confidence that makes you a full man, me and you, we are the same
Here is what you do. Have sex in right angle missionary position, push her legs up toward her head as far as you can while she is still comfortable and pound hard using your hips, not your stomach. You should be getting her enough g-spot attention deep enough thrust to get her off.