Okay I was babysitting a family friend's daughter, and me and her are very very close. We spend at least once a week with each other as her mum and dad always work late into the night. I'm 19 years old and never had a girlfriend (everyone says I'm really immature), in fact, this one girl has given me more attention than any other girl in my life. As well as this, she's beautiful, funny and talks to me in such a mature manner that anyone could swear she's years ahead of her age.
Well last night we were snuggling together watching a Disney movie (it's below 0, freezing cold) and when a kissing scene came up she asked me what it felt like. Being a desperate virgin, I actually showed her what it was like... There was tongue involved and we kissed for over a minute. In fact, as soon as I pulled my head away she grabbed me again and kept on kissing.. obviously she loved it... After about two minutes I grabbed her shirt and lifted it up.. at first she looked at me like I was crazy but I told her it'll be fine and then she took off my shirt as well.. this was when we heard her parent's car pull up and we immediately put them back on and got back to just watching the movie.
Now the next day I saw her and we talked about it and she said she really 'loves' me and I'm nicer to her than anyone she's ever known (her parents, friends, etc.) As well as this... I know it's wrong but I'm so lonely and have never had anyone else before, I know it's not right but I really like this girl for what she is and wouldn't want to do anything that she doesn't want to.
She's my first kiss and I'm hers... I don't know what to do. I know she'll NEVER tell this to her parents (or anyone, for that matter) but I don't know how we could go on. When I left the night of our kiss she hugged me and said to come back soon, which she's never done before. I was red in the face but luckily her parents just thought it was cute.. I don't know what I should do from here?
ALSO, I know you people will say "I ABUSED HER" but this girl is old enough to cook and clean the house (which she has to do since her parents are so busy all the time) After school she's usually left alone and has to put food her parents made for her in the microwave, clean up, wash the dishes, shower herself, does laundry and sorts her own clothes... She really is so mature and independent.
...and she does all of this but can't even kiss an older guy?? I really can't get it.. call me pedo if you want but I don't understand how someone so mature can be so 'helpless' if I advanced on her... she obviously really loves me.
Okay anon, this is what you need to do. The next time you're watching her. Start kissing again, get her horny, and then you fuck her. Gently and lovingly, but fuck her. It's going to hurt a little the first time. Be gentle.
dude i'd say go for it because what ever i don't really care. but for fucks sake you sound like the eternal king of beta-town it wouldn't be worth it neither for you nor for her.
Dude, understand one thing. if you do anything to hurt or upset this poor girl she will dob you in and you will get fucked. metaphorically and literally when you get to jail you'll get ass raped like nothing else. but you already gone too far so i don't know.
BITCH I know that that's why I treat her like my queen. It's cool because she knows how to cook and shit better than me and would usually make dinner for us when I babysit HER. No wonder my parents cool me a useless fuck.
Well OP, what would you do if you were her father, and discovered her babysitter just licked those 11yo virgin tits?
>No wonder my parents cool me a useless fuck.
just trying to help bro. if it backfires your life is over. is it worth it for some young girl with no experience? why not talk to some girls your own age? are you really this pathetic? go get a hooker if you that desperate.
you are pathetic, you can only try with a kid, not even a girl who is 11 years old and you are 19 for fucks sake. grow up and see the truth. you will ruin your life with that girl and her life too.
Think about it this way. She probably doesn't see you the way you see her.
Her experience of love is far from yours.
There isn't anything wrong with a relationship as long as you set boundaries for yourself.
If you truly like her, you can wait until she's older.
Having sex with her now is probably a very bad idea. In the meantime, I strongly suggest you act like a father with her, until she is old enough to return your feelings properly.
I think you need to be cautious, at the very least. Keep in mind that since this is a "first" for both of you, the tendency is to read too much into everything--to pretend like you're going to be together forever, get married, etc. For her this is probably even more true.
There's also the factor of you being viewed as an authority figure, meaning (given her age) she likely is in the stage of development where she wants to please people. She might go along with things after the novelty and charm has worn off just because she doesn't want to disappoint you.
So next time you are able to speak to her alone, you should probably tell her something to the effect of:
"I really like you. I just want you to know that I don't want to force you into anything, or make you feel bad if you want to stop (or make you feel bad if you want to do more). Let's promise that we'll be honest to each other. You're pretty young, and you might feel totally different about us tomorrow or a week from now; I'm pretty young too so same here. If one of us wants to take a break or stop, we have to respect that and not take it personally."
Obviously change to fit your own manner of speaking. You might need to rehearse it in front of a mirror to get the words right in your head before spilling them out in person.
The idea is to make sure she is not under the impression that she is your little servant, and that everything you guys do is voluntary and safe without any threat of coercion.
Then that's it. Just spend time with her.
I've been in your position, OP and I know how you feel. I regret doing stuff to the girl and now that she's the right age, she wouldn't even let me hold her hand. I'm just lucky she understands that I'm fucked if she tells anyone so she keeps it a secret.
>Her experience of love is far from yours.
How can you say that when he has exactly the same amount of experience as her? He admitted it was his first kiss. He probably knows more about SEX than her but sex !=love.
Thanks bro. I think he plans to kiss me everytime we hang out now lol, just as long as it's not with her parents I'm cool with that.
Also speak of the devil her family is just visiting mine now. brb bros
>inb4 her parents are over to complain and have already called the cops and the cops are down the street now and he opens the door gets on the floor, everybody does the dinosaur.
Okay guys I'm freaking the fuck out a cop car just pulled over and there's two coppers standing outside. They chatted with someone across the road and are just standing there. Pray for me /b/ros I'm going out to see what's going fuck me idk what's going to happen I might see you guys soon
Could you explain what you mean by "see love the same way"? Or is that just some vague platitude that you use to dismiss something that doesn't fit in your idea of social norms/interpersonal schema?
OP be pedo
OP does suck
OP gets arrested and he be fucked
He's stupid. Probably the girl told on him. No shit. OP did you really think she would't tell? she probably did without you knowing. You should have told her not to tell her parents because the fact that you would be in jail and explain it in detail she would understand.
I mean what the fuck.
nigga you could at least find a fat bitch that is 16 or something ?
ITT: how to become a minors bitch.
COngratulations OP, you are now in her pocket, if you do ANYTHING that upsets her. she will ruin your life.
Also. that "love" is now infatuation. you will never escape her.
> be me 30+y/o divorced dude living alone
> meet 30+y/o woman 7/10
> let woman hang out at my place
> woman comes over for weekend with 14 y/o daughter
> find out woman likes to get loaded on norco
> woman passed out, daughter bored, again
> and again
> spend time hanging out with daughter, getting her to/from school etc...
> learn woman has pimped out daughter to boyfriends for drugs
> Woman starts leaving daughter with me when she goes out to score more norco
> woman sometimes gone for days
> not stupid, change all locks
> daughter starts getting domestic, cleaning, doing laundry
> woman gone for weeks, comes by middle of the day to get stuff
> neighbors call cops because she flips out when she cannot get in
> woman gone for weeks again
> daughter still hangs out, gets rides to school, etc..
> I get free housekeeping
> daughter says "anon, you make me feel special." "Anon I love you because you care about me."
fuck that i dated a fat bitch and she was so fuckin fat that when she wore shorts my friends thought that wasn't attractive. man she even complained she was hungry for some type of food every 20 minutes.
Just get it over with! Remember if she bleeds she breeds. I'll expect to see the video on tor later next week
>she said she really 'loves' me and I'm nicer to her than anyone she's ever known (her parents, friends, etc.)
well there you go. you're nicer than her parents, who support her financially and love her unconditionally? she's not capable of consenting with that level of reasoning
> woman lands in hospital for drug OD
> my name/number in her cellphone so I get called for information, along with everybody else
> deny deny deny
> decide to not tell daughter
> daughter ,feeling abandoned by piece of shit, has been getting cuddly
fast forward a year
> woman nowhere to be found
> daughter lives with me full time as common law wife
>it's below 0, freezing cold (Zero Celcius, implying Brit)
>(pic of obvious American cops)
>this girl is old enough to cook and clean the house
>yet you're BABYSITTING her
>get a grip OP
if you really "love" the girl, wait till she's old enough to see how much of a fucking loser you are.
OP, there is nothing new about young vs old attraction. It is a product of evolution, but today we don't have the need to reproduce with young girls.
Grow up. Tell her it was a mistake from your side. And just try to mitigate the damage you've already caused. Obviously, she trusts you. Use that trust to convince her she should wait until she is old enough, and that she will be grateful for your advice. Because even if this thing of yours could be good, she WILL be grateful for waiting.
So you're going to make her grow up faster than she already has to? Let her enjoy her childhood as much as she can. Everyone loves the first person to accept them and think they love them back because its the first time you've experienced it and it feels good. Save yourself the trouble, don't do anything more. Not only is it just not worth the relationship, it's illegal and isn't worth jail time for.