Called out my cousin to a fight.
>smokes weed everyday
>out of shape
>has a signifigant height and weight advantage over me
>no real martial arts training outside National Guard combatives
>Judo for 2 years
>Wrestling for a 1 year
>kickboxing for a year
What do you think my odds are of knocking him out or hurting him to point he doesn't want to fight any more?
Are you looking for us to suck your dick or something?
If you can't answer this question yourself or can't handle not knowing what the fuck are you doing issuing street fighting challenges to your own goddamn family?
Get off 4chan and train hard so you don't lose and look bad. Unlike in the gym, challenge fights are an issue of pride and image and both of those will be damaged if you lose.
He wanted to fight me any way. He's a piece of shit and Im going to show him and everyone im not afraid of him. Honestly even if I dont train, I have this in the bag. He smokes weed all the time so his cardio is shit.
Maybe you can pay him off or play it off like a joke or something
you sound like a complete dildo. a real nigga doesn't have to flex nuts because he knows he's got them. if the people around you are judging you for not fighting a dude based solely on the fact that he's a piece of shit then you need to surround yourself with less shitty people. you shouldn't need to prove to those around you that you aren't afraid of someone by fighting that person and if you do then you live in a full on pleb tier environment.
When I spar, I usually handle myself pretty well agaisnt guys like my cousin. Big fat guys that gas out quickly and punch and kick rather slow. My cousin is in the Nat Guard so I know he has had some bjj training, but from what I heard its garbage compared to training at a real gym. He probably forgot everything he was taught any way.
if you don't like what a dickhead he is and if you don't think he's going to stop being a dickhead then just stop having him around in your life. yeah sure if he tries to kick your ass out of nowhere then sure fight him but otherwise just removing him from you life is the more adult way to handle this.
I say OP just beat his ass.
OP's cousin is a sub-human piece of trash. OP's cousin is just a primitive low-life.
This guy is so primitive, he smokes weed, and doesn't exercise. The primitive is just impulsively chasing pleasure, not planning ahead in the future, and doesn't control his emotions. The same thing could be said about dogs, sheep, pigs, cows, and chickens.
The most efficient way for the primitive to understand that he's below a more superior being is for the superior to physically display to the subordinate, because the subordinate is so primitive.
>The primitive is just impulsively chasing pleasure, not planning ahead in the future, and doesn't control his emotions.
so it's up to you to teach him a lesson? that's retarded and self-aggrandizing. i sincerely hope that your post was poorly disguised bait
By working, one gains strength.
When one helps others and does the work of others, the others don't gain strength from the work, while the person who helped them gains the strength.
To help someone is to leave them weak.
To help someone is to make yourself stronger.
You should respect yourself enough to solve problems.
With sleep, my muscles are healed, and my mind is healed.
During sleep, the neural waste that is create when one is awake is cleaned, and neural connections are reinforced. It's during sleep where strong memories are made.
Upon awakening, I will be better than my previous self, superior. Upon awakening, I may work myself again, so that I may gain strength.
>I may work myself again, so that I may gain strength.
>He smokes weed all the time so his cardio is shit.
BJJ purple belt here, and I smoke hella fuckloads of weed. And I have the motivation to go and train. Your cousin is just an idiot.
>idiots are attracted to weed, but it doesn't mean that everyone who smokes weed is an idiot
Take him down, play around with a completely asshole-ish top game (neon belly, neon face, neon everything, mang). Keep it going until he;s embarrassed, then slap on a kimura, or ude gatame or something.
Also, fuck all these whiners bitching about you fighting your cousin. Who cares about a friendly fight?
You have low self esteem and don't have any faith in your training. You can't seem to solve a a dispute with your words and turn to violence which means your a fucking beta anyway. If you cousin is a loser, then he isn't worth your time. But instead you called him out to a fight because you have a bit of martial arts experience, however even then you doubt yourself. In all honesty I can't imagine you give 100% and I hope kicks your head in for being unable to deal with this problem any other way.
OP here everyone.
Cousin laughed at me in my face and turned down my challenge. Then proceeded to talk shit. I guess the fights not happening even though there is nothign more I wish to put him in his place.
>has a signifigant height and weight advantage over me
gg bro, try not to get beat up too much. Possible bad cardio because he smokes weed isn't going to matter when you get fucked up in under a minute.
This is the best comment so far.
If OP woudn't be so unbearable beta he would just sort out his shit himself, either by kicking the other guys ass (without making appointments, that's so 19th century). Or by being more mature and just saying: "Hey guy, stop picking on me."
Also what right in the world do you have to judge someone by things like smoking weed? If he's picking on you, fight back (with words). If he picks on other, protect them. Not that difficult, heh? OP, you sound like an incredible brat.
>Also what right in the world do you have to judge someone by things like smoking weed?
The smallest things like whether or not people use antibacterial soap can tell us a lot about people.
Knowing whether or not people smoke weed, especially when in context of other things about that person, can tell us a lot about people.
>"Hey guys, stop picking on me"
Yeah, that always works.
Some of the nices guys I know and some the most scumbags I know smoke weed. And now?
But asking on an internet borad works, eh?
Honesty, I got into a lof fights and it's surprising how words work. Bullies look for victims, not opponents. And even if it doesn't work you can still let you fists do the talk, but (I know it sounds cheesy) a fight avoided is a fight won.
Most of the times it's not satisfying to see someone injured. You can teach someone "a lesson" with a small struggle but most of the times it's not worth it.
Also: either fight or don't. But don't talk about it. People who are constantly threatening others or ask other if they should fight are weak.
>They meet for the fight
>OP takes his bong and snaps a huge fatty
>looks cousin in the eyes and blow all the smoke in his face
>cousin charges in flailing like a Mongol
>OP hip tosses cousin into his favorite bong
>Nugs and sparks fly everywhere causing house to set fire
>OP uses his GI to para-glide to safety like the savage he is
Das rite OP, real afletes don't smoke da weed.
Hey bud. A fun thing you gotta learn when getting in a fight is you have to be 100% committed to maiming the other guy for life. Be prepared to never speak to that man or his family again. Also, getting your ass sued you dumb autistic fuck.
I once had a conflict with some dude. We fought but became friends afterwards.
The general rules of sportsmanships still apply, all those "strike frist, strike hard, show no mercy" is for Krav LARPers..
Their are situations you have to fight 100% eprcent, but definately not agsinst your bully cousin..
>Mum, I.. my cousin will sit in a wheelchair for the rest of his life.
>Oh my god, why?
>He was a real meany!
All these pussy faggots saying "duuur he's family OP! durrrr you shouldnt fight even though hes a POS and keeps fucking with you!"
Sometimes people in your family can be your worst enemy. I say if he touches you, or fucks with you again OP, knock him flat on his ass. That way it will be self defense. With that amount of training it should be fairly easy. And Nat Guard is a joke. Its full of losers who wouldn't be able to defend the country if shit hits the fan, so why would any one think someone from it would be able to have some integrity and not bully a kid? Fucking disgraceful.
>I want to finish it.
Yup fighting will finish it right? You are an idiot. If you want to finish a quarrel you have to eliminate your opponent. Now I'm not saying kill your cousin. I am simply saying fighting does not finish anything. You want to finish it you have to eliminate the opposition.
Haha, as if Boxing actually reflects real fighting. The skinny guy even had a reach advantage. This means nothing.
In the real world size does matter. Skill matters too, but being short and heavy is the best build for any kind of actual fighting.
In a real fight your primary objectice is grounding your opponent while mantaining a sturdy, dominant stance. Stay standing, put him on the ground, bash his face until he stops moving. Real fights happen on concrete, and there is almost always a risk of a third party or more getting involved. Staying standing, or being able to drag your opponents down with you if you do get dropped, is a big advantage.