First Date

Amusement park. Physiologically speaking, fear and attraction share a lot of the same characteristics (elevated heart rate, sweating, shortness of breath, etc.)

Being in a scary situation with someone, like say being on a rollercoaster, can cause the two feelings to be confused or mixed - even if she might not be that into you, her body's physiological response could trick her into thinking she is.

I lack experience so I'm just going to tell you what you should avoid so you don't repeat my mistake. Cinema and crowded restaurants.
No I'm not a complete idiot, I'm just unlucky.

I am kinda planning a first date as well, and my idea is basically to take her ice skating, then to a nice restaurant for dinner after

(She is me)
He's the one who asked me out for this weekend but we don't have anything specific planned yet, I'm pretty much down for anything except skating (because I don't know how) but I want to know what's more fun for guys.

>>17852972
I'm the guy who mentioned skating.

I can't skate for shit but I am planning to take her their as it is just purely fun, nothing else

>>17852957
This.
Took a girl who was afraid of heights onto a Ferris wheel. She ended up cuddling close the entire time. Kissed her then and there.

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>>17852957
>>17853004
what if there is no amusement park/ferris wheel around to take her to?

>>17853218
Hmm... Any hints towards what kinda area you are in?

>>17853272
And any personality descriptors?

>>17853272
Eastern Europe
not exactly bumfuck nowhere but not in a huge western city either

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>>17853284
sorry but what do you mean by personality descriptors?

>>17853288
Just stuff that describes what both of you are into.

>>17853285
Hmmm.... I am not 100% sure of what you can do back in the old country. (I currently live near one of the largest western cities, so yea....)

>>17853318
we live in the city. It's just not that big enough to have an amusement park.

Face-to-Face activities. Not Side-by-Side.

>>17853328
Any museums of interest?

Any local attractions that you can go to?

Just show her your kot blini collection. If she's worth dating at all she'll enjoy it.

>>17853333
Yes we do have a few museums. Don't know about her, but I've already been to almost all of them.
I can't think of local attractions right now, though

>>17853333
museums?
museums are the opposite of an amusement park, if anything, seing a bust of Socrates will make the girl dating OP rationalize why she shouldnt kiss him.
also checked

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>>17853333
>>17853359
what's a better idea?

>>17853369
idk if you're OP or not but the idea of an amusement park (or any place where you can get her a bit scared/excited for fun) its great and you should do that.
but if there isnt an amusement park then just think outside of the box man, go to an arcade, go ice skating, go kart racing or something like that, exciting and on a budget, figure it out OP

>>17853385
I mentioned skating to her, she just doesn't wanna do it as she doesn't know how to skate (But really thats part of the fun of it.)

>>17853369
Depends heavily on both of your personalities.

Like the girl I am interested in, and I are both calmer types, so more relaxing stuff may be good for us (Skating, Museums, Boardwalks) while the other guy in this thread seems to be more of an adventurer type, so Amusement parks, Go-Karts and shit like that is more suited for them

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>>17853385
>>17853421
I've never went ice skating before but I might give it a go

>>17853445
I've never done it before (Unless one time when I was 5 counts), and I am using that as my primary option. But definitely go and get dinner with them after.

I'm sure it will be fun even if you are hopeless with skating.

OP here, there is an amusement park type thing inside one of the malls we have here so that could be a thing except it's on the other side of the city. I just want to know what males specifically prefer yknow?
We both love animals, and action movies. Other than that I know he's into hockey but I can't skate at all

>>17853781
I still think skating is fine (Especially since at least he can skate)

How much of an amusement part is that one in the mall? Depending on size it may not be worth it

>>17852949
Ew wtf is in the bowl

Coffee/drinks long talk then walk or drive her home.
Then you kiss

You can do some cool shit for the second

>>17853838
It's dates cus get it I'm talking about dates ha ha. Review your common fruits and veggies