Race and relationship advice HELP!

>>16902549
What is exactly the issue?
She dated someone else before dating you, and this guy was black.
Did she cheat on you? Did she lie to you?

>>16902556
>and this guy was black.
Not the point. She didn't tell me anything about it, while she was very open about her first ex (white). Maybe he had some stds or a criminal record?

You don't deserve her. You are acting completely irrational. How does your GF's previous BF matter to you in any way? Even less, how does his race matter? Maybe you swallowed /pol/s retarded propaganda? Either way just leave her alone, she's much better off without you.

>>16902569
No, i don't go on /pol/ and i am not racist. I am just aware of the fact of the crime stats/incarceration rates/stds rates among black people. Which is why i am wary. No need to be hysterical here.

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>mfw

Also

>big guy
>plane
>wears a mask

Cmon guys

>>16902578

>I'm aware of crime statistics regarding black people
>he's a highly trained individual

You know hose crimes are 99% committed by the black people at the OTHER end of the social spectrum from this dude, right?

>>16902565
I'm like 99% sure this is bait. But, if it's not.

Who cares if her ex has a criminal record?
Get tested for STDs. That's it. It's a good habit to do it regularly, or at least every time you start having sex regularly with a new partner.

>>16902579
What?
>>16902582
Being qualified and committing crimes are two different things. And i already told you this is not the point, it's about her hiding this from me. I have been completely honest about my past relationships. I am afraid that she might be still seeing him behind my back.
But i realize now this is not the time for fear.
>>16902589
Only protected sex so far, i'm not stupid. Why, do you get AIDS first, and get tested then? lmao

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> The whole thing is extremely painful for me since i always expect a lot of loyalty from my relationships.

fucking kek that's an ironic statement, seeing as YOU betrayed HER

>>16902601
>she keeps past relationships hidden from me while i told her immediately about my past experiences
>i'm the guy who did wrong
>replying with memes to hide your butthurt

>>16902606
Why do past relationships matter? If they matter that much to you then you two are incompatible.

>>16902592
Why is it a problem if she didn't tell you about him?
I never talk about the other guys I dated with my boyfriend. It's not his business.
If he wants to tell me about their past experiences is fine, but my past is my past and I won't tell him about it.

>I am afraid that she might be still seeing him behind my back.
For what reason? Did she do something that made you think so?

>>16902615
What the hell, do you think real life relationships are like the ones in a movie? It's not about compatibility, because we obviously love each other, it's about trust. Cool down your head before posting
>>16902617
It doesn't matter who he is, what matters is our plans for the future. And trust plays a big part in this, since we both have steady jobs (i have a govt job that forces me to travel a lot) and we were already talking about something longer term. Was it a teenage story, i would have barely cared
I am sure you understand my position

>>16902629
I don't understand, I'm sorry.
Your plans for the future depend on who she fucked before you?
She did absolutely nothing wrong by not telling you who she dated before you. She didn't cheat, she didn't lie, she just didn't tell you about something which is PERFECTLY natural in every healthy relationship.
If you don't trust her, leave her. If she gave you some reason to think she isn't trustworthy or she was cheating on you, I'd be the first to say "don't trust her, you're right" but honestly you're just insane.

>>16902660
Please, come back when you are old enough to understand how real life interactions between adults wanting to settle down work.
Divorce rates are already high enough, i am not taking any chances. Especially when she has made no attempt to clarify her relationships with the lovely guy with the mask i had met one month before, despite being confronted with it

And i am not insane, she is free to return with the big guy whenever she wants. As long as she understands that our relationship would be incompatible with that event.

For fucks sake, ASK HER WHY SHE DIDNT TELL YOU. If that is what all the hullabaloo is about. Ask her when you are both calm. Be adults, this isn't a hard situation.

>>16902699
I did. But she is too much of a hothead to have a rational conversation and just didn't answer

>>16902687
I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, he still doesn't know who I dated before him and I don't know who he dated before me. All I care about is that he's with me, he's faithful and he's happy.

What should clarify? If she's in a relationship with you, it is given that she doesn't have sex with someone else, and you've been an asshole even just implying that.

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>repeated big guy references
>now is not the time for fear
>wears a mask
>concerned that she might still be seeing him behind his back

was getting caught part of your plan?

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>>16902549
>dates a coalburner
>wants advice
kek

>>16902705
Ask again, then. Calmer environmenr. Stop saying "this didn't work out because x," and figure out how to make the conversation happen rationally. Calm her down if she gets angry. Stop being a baby with a baby. Meet up with her in a public place, apologize (i dont care if you dont want to, its the smart decision), and express that you felt betrayed that she kept a specific partner from you. garner sympathy, do not demand answers.

>>16902687
>between adults wanting to settle down

haha what a beta shit

enjoy getting all your bux taken from you while jamal stokes her coal hole

BETA
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i really dont understand how your kind gets a gf in the first place
i have more sympathy for guys from r9k than for you
just leave the girl alone and let her find a not semi retarded guy

>>16902687
Careful dude.. Your insecurity is showing, it's right there.. In front of your denial..

>>16902709
Good for you. All the best with your future short lived marriage
>>16902716
No need to be rude friend
>>16902720
Sounds reasonable. But then again, the bald redhead cousin yelling racist obscenities against whites didn't help

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>>16902725

Literal morons. If you need any help OP I'm going spelunking under the city with my friend Maimen. If you have any questions I'll be glad to help when I get back. Do you have any tips about darkness by the way? I only adopted it recently and was wondering if you have any experience with it?

>>16902725
Repeating memes is not helping your case friendo
>>16902723
Very rude, but yet again this is 4chan. And he isn't called Jamal
>>16902724
>being this mad
Maybe because i make 300k per year and the world is full of sluts who want to take them and crash my life

>>16902734
Nah, i'm more of a plane man, much like the big guy whose thread is about. The diffence being that i don't fly so good. Never been underground because of claustrophobia
But yes please, i would be very curious. And to get a little bit poetic, every man is born in the darkness and to some extent, is moulded by it.

>tfw making 30k and got chicks all over the city and this dude making ten times gets nothing

BETA BUX
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>inb4 b-but I want to settle down, kek, I did settle down, she just finds my sexual prowess with other women turns her on even more (she's bi anyways)

>>16902749
Do you feel in charge over your life? If so, good for you

ITT: an autist from /pol/ has somehow wandered into a real life relationship. And can't figure out what he did wrong.

You're a retard OP.

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>>16902826
>back to le /pol/ xD
This is not reddit friendo, now leave

>>16902549
What bothers you most - that she isn't a virgin or that her skin is somehow contaminated by having touched black skin?

Eithr answer makes you an asshole.

>waaaaah I found out my gf was not a kissless virgin fucking slut whore roastie

Yet another /r9k/ quality thread. We get a lot of faggots like OP lately.

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>>16902833
She dated a guy whose ethnicity is statistically associated with AIDS, crime, poverty and low IQ. Which is still cool, but she hid it from me while openly talking about her white ex
>>16902834
>he wants to get cucked
mmmkay

>>16902832

And real life isn't /pol/ you autist.

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>>16902836
>statistics are not real life

>>16902841

> lonely autist from /pol/
> accidentally gets a gf
> tells gf about his past gfs like a beta faggot
> expects gf to do the same
> gf just randomly mentions a white guy she used to date
> later our autist finds out his gf has a well educated, good earning and masculine black ex-bf
> /pol/ster = triggered
> gets mad at his gf for dating a Black guy
> gf dumps him bcs he is being a creepy weirdo
> autistic /pol/ster wondering what he did wrong
> justifies his insecure racist actions with stats to which the alpha black ex-bf doesn't belong
> while begging for advice on 4chan

Suicide pls OP, it's not too late.

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>>16902853
>being cautious=RAYCISM
>transparency in a relationship=OPPRESSHUN

I always think about the kind of mental gymnastic required to make your brain accept this shit.

>>16902835
>cuck

Using that word confirms you are /r9k/ trash. Go back there and stay there.

Why are you all still replying to a troll thread where this guy is pretending to be batman and the other dude is bane?

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>>16902853
>if you disagree you are le neckbeard jelly of BBC xD

>black guy is a well educated pilot
>black guy is not a hood rat
>he seemed "so cool and friendly"
>"I know it shouldnt be s problem and whatnot"
>"trust issue"
>"expect loyalty"
>gf did not cheat just happened not to tell op one of her exes was s sound black gentleman.

Why is anyone falling for op's autistic, verging on completely spasticated, mentally retarded bait?

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>>16902862

Ah yes we are all SJWs on /adv/ for spotting an autistic /pol/ster troll who thinks his distorted views on reality are rational and acceptable within a relationship.

Kek'd

>>16902877
Or perhaps he is wondering why someone would lie on her own past, before having a committed relationship

>>16902885
Rofl how the fuck did she lie exactly

>>16902885
Lie? She didnt lie. Read the OP's story more carefully. In fact, she herself told OP that she used to date that black guy.

Burn the coal, pay the toll op.
I wouldn't bother with someone like that.

>>16902934

But she didn't pay the toll. In fact, from what I can tell, the black guy is a better man than OP.

OP knows he is inferior to a masculine, wealthy and intelligent BBC so he became insecure. Went whining about it against his gf. And got dumped.

>>16902549
If you kick a girl out because she slept with someone more attractive and successful than you, then you're basically driving her straight back into her arms. This was a dumb move OP.

Yeah she's racist. Keep her op.

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>Plane
>Big guy
>Wears a mask
>extremely painful
>this is not the time for fear
>cool down your head
>govt job
>HOTHEAD
>crash my life

This whole post:
>>16902744


This shit is fucking gold. So many here are calling OP an autist and retard, but don't realise they're being played in the best way.

Thanks for the laugh, 10/10.

>>16903005
You missed
>literally paralyzed

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>>16902959
I agree on this one.
OP is jealous and white. The white race will be finally extinguished when the succesful, masculine, intelligent black man will finally fertilize every white womb and eliminate the scourge of the white race

Pic related, the inferior white OP

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Op here, reporting for updates.

Disregard the temporary tumblr invasion of this therad by a bunch of hotheads.
So, she called me back a few minutes ago and told me she did a mistake. She said it would be extremely painful if our relationship crashed like this, and agreed to tell me everything about her connection with the big guy.

She asked me to meet her again at my place with a couple of friends and i agreed, but she doesn't get to bring friends. Don't know what to say.

Wat do?

>>16903005

Doesn't matter if it's a troll. It's still an autist for coming up with this.

>>16903094
You sound angry and there is really no need for that

>>16903005
You missed the Cuck King reference